Getting over the push and pull of soul mate relationships is a skill. Attracting and keeping the right guy or girl means being the right person for that job.

Just like your relationship with money must be good, the same way your relationship with your guy or girl should also be great.

For this your relationship with your SELF must be wonderful.

Take the case of a client who wanted to attract a wonderful man into her life.

Well she did, and she has an amazing engagement ring to show for it.

What she used was her personal power to manifest what she wanted.

The man she attracted is a two door (read not interested in family cars) BMW and Mercedes (at the same time), manual gears, convertible, kind of a guy who just likes challenges and horse power I might add, and given the number of women that he could date, my client became a challenge to him. She intrigued him and had him pursuing her.

Her personal power just spoke volumes to him, and created an attraction factor that he could not resist.

She used the Law of Attraction to get what she wanted. Very soon after meeting her, he traded his bachelor pad for a five bedroom independent home, all ready to settle down with her, and introduced her to his family.

It's always your power that you should be in touch with. It is this unique power that you can use to your advantage to get what you want.

This is not manipulation. This is just becoming more of who you were always meant to be; a powerful person who comes from the right space. The Law of Attraction is very precise and any level of uncertainly, undervingness, is bounced right back.

Your personal love for yourself and your knowing that you deserve someone loving, is something that you can actively create now. No more push and pull for you.

You are always in communication with your soul mates, and as you change that something in you, you change something in the energy dynamics with your soul mates.

It's all energy, and it's just attraction and repelling happening. What happens anytime depends on the precise energy dynamics going on in that moment.

If you have a situation going on in your life, either with health, money, beauty or love, use the Law of Attraction to change the energy dynamic happening between you and what you want. Your power is in you, and nowhere else.

Just become the right person for the job.

Love to you!!!

Author's Bio: 

Sugandhi Iyer, Coach, Joyful Manifestation, lifebusinesscreations.com

A Master of energy and consciousness, Sugandhi Iyer has put together an amazing system to get people to realize their dreams and change their experiences. She is a teacher and advisor who coaches people to make powerful changes in their lives (she also provides in depth training for coaches) enabling them to experience relief from fear, and move towards purposeful co-creation with the Universe and Joyful Manifestation. Whatever the situation, it can be changed. She invites you to visit her website, read her articles, sign up for her e-zine and consider taking her personal and corporate coaching to get you where you should be- a great manifestor of a happy and joyful life.