The sexless wife is often the stereotype of the downtrodden everyman in stories and comedies but if you have a sexless wife then you know it is no laughing matter. The humiliation and emotional pain of being rejected by the woman who is meant to be your soul mate can be an awful experience that pushes many relationships to breaking point and often beyond.

Hopefully these tips will help you get things back on track.

Start Slowly

While being romantic and an object of desire is essential to rekindling the passion women are not going to be manipulated in any way. If you come in too hard and fast with ploys to have sex you will drive your woman further away from you and damage your relationship further.

You need to let things develop slowly and rebuild the romance as if you were just getting to know each other.

Prevent Resentment From Getting The Better Of You

This situation can build into resentment on both sides. If allowed to go unchecked this will manifest itself in ugly ways that force an even greater divide between the two of you.

You need to stop this resentment from taking hold and destroying the chance of finding your former intimacy.


You must learn to speak with your sexless wife in an honest, calm and deep way to uncover the resentments and their issues with sex. This often comes undone if you start making the talk about yourself and your desires rather than hers so make sure you play the role of the strong supportive husband and play detective as well to uncover and solve the problems and resentments. Nothing is sexier than a man who can solve problems to most women!

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