Guide on How to Approach Asian Girls

One thing to keep in mind: the first thing you say to a girl is not of huge importance. The Opener is used to catch her attention and get the chance to talk to her. What’s more important is what you say next. This is known as the Transition or the topic of your conversation once you have open her.

These are the two things that you have to consider: Opener and Transition. This is the key to engaging women in good conversations. The two don’t need to be related at all. A good Opener will be asking her about her mobile phone, as soon as she answer, you can Transition to a topic that will allow her to give information about herself.

Do not rely too much on the usual Openers like "Hi, how are you?" or "Do you have the time?" Asking a woman for a permission to talk to her is not a advisable too. Asking questions such as "do you mind if I ask you something?" or "can I talk to you for a minute?" is not recommended. More often than not, when women hear such questions it will cause them to be on a defensive mode and come up with lame excuses not to talk to you. For women, it is their built-in defense mechanism. You may want to consider these tips on effective Openers

Opener #1: Language Lessons

A great way to start conversations with Asian women is to tell them that you’re trying to learn their language, and ask for their help. Open the conversation by using a phrase in their language that you’ve memorized. Then, when she expresses interest in the fact that you seem to know her language, you can smile and laugh, acting a little bit shy and apologetic and explain to her that you’re just starting to learn.

Opener #2: Be generous with your compliments, flattery will help you a lot.

Being flattered by compliments is a common trait among Asian women, this makes it easier to approach them. If flattery would not move Western women, then it is the exact opposite when it comes to Asian women; this is a perfect way to open a conversation using flirtatious compliments like " you are very pretty."

Opener #3: "I Think I Saw You Somewhere"

Look at her, make eye contact, rub your chin, and act like you’re trying to figure out who she is…as if you’ve met her before, but you can’t recall where. You can be more realistic in your acting by telling her that as far as you can remember, you have seen her beautiful face somewhere. She’ll then look at you and try to figure out who you are, and how she’s supposed to know you. Simply make up a location on where you have met her and start the conversation from there.

Opener #4: Facebook Friends

Majority of the Asian women have their own Facebook account, and there is a good possibility that you two have a common friend. However, avoid wasting your time talking to her about the common Facebook friend that you may probably have in common.

Opener #5: Telephone Flirting

If she’s using her cell phone, wait until she finishes her call or her text and then use this Opener: "Excuse me, what type of mobile phone is that?" I need to buy a phone for a friend of mine, as a birthday gift, and I think that’s the one she wants.”

Opener #6: Birthday Gift

Notice an interesting detail of her appearance-such as her handbag, necklace, earrings, dress, etc. Then say to her, “Excuse me, I really like that (fill in the blank). Ask her where she bought it and you plan to buy the same thing as a birthday present for a friend.This opener is effective because you’re bringing up a topic that women naturally enjoy talking about. What girl doesn’t like chatting about good places to shop?

A great conversation often starts with the Opener.. Once you’ve successfully opened her, you don’t need to stay on that topic (her handbag, her cell phone, learning some phrases in her language, etc.)You can switch to something else.The purpose of the your first conversation with an Asian girl is to get to know her better and show that you are a friendly person too.