How Can I Resolve My Broken Relationship With My Ex Boyfriend

Conflict resolution the world over can be a very long process with lots of issues in between so, with respect to your past relationship, resolving the issues you had with your ex can be a long term thing that entails you getting much more insight into the situation that you already know. A relationship is indeed broken when one or the parties involved decide not to contribute anymore to the success of that relationship or when the parties in question decide to call it quits entirely so, If any of the suggestions given applies to you then, you need to do more than beg to get your ex back.

Talking about begging, it should be noted that, begging your ex to come back to you shouldn’t be your first option; in fact it shouldn’t be an option at all. This is because, irrespective of what might have gone wrong in the relationship, you still need to hold your head high up as a woman with dignity. Yes, it is possible that you might have done something wrong to your ex that may have angered him but begging and reducing yourself to that position would not help in any way as, you can apologize, try to make up for it but begging will only put you in a vulnerable situation where your ex will be able to take advantage of you. Your first response to this situation should be resolving the issues (as numerous as they may be) before taking another step. You need to trace the different reasons why those issues got there in the first place as you critically examine what may have gone wrong while working towards making it better.

Do not try to apportion blames to your ex at this time, the reason you are asked to objectively examine the issues is so you can understand it without been influenced by sentiments that may arise from still been in the relationship. Now that you are apart, you can see everything for what it really is as, you examine these, you might get tempted to raise blames and make everything seem like your ex is behind every problem. This is a normal response from a woman who has been scorned but it isn’t the best way to handle the matter as it will not in any way lead you back to the relationship you once treasured. So, after careful analysis of the events surrounding your break up, reach out to your ex in an understanding manner and not with rancour or accusations that wouldn’t lead anywhere. Make him see reasons with you as you try getting him to understand your point of view.

Once you reach out to him armed with these facts, you can command his attention because you will be helping him demystify the mystery which is why you two ended up apart rather than together. Depending on how you present your findings to him, you can be sure of getting closer to him again if presented rightly without any grudge. This is a step you should take seriously because its success will go a long way in determining how far you will go in your quest for resolving the issues you had with him and ultimately getting him back. Your ex needs to feel love when corrected or when you bring his flaws to his attention. Do not make a mockery of his mistakes or rub his nose in the sand, rather you should make him feel loved so he would feel welcomed in your world again.