How To Pick Up Girls Like A Natural-Born Pick Up Artist

When your mission is to picking up girls, the best selection of hot girls is often found at the popular bars in your area. Of course, meeting women begins with knowing how to make a confident approach and "open" her in a clever way. Keep in mind that hot girls get approached by men constantly at bars, so you've got to make an original approach that distinguishes you from all the others. (My book "Mack Tactics" contains an entire chapter on approach tactics, and gives you clever & wickedly effective openers to use in virtually any situation.).

So right now, let me share with you some general tips to help you pick up girls in bars, clubs and other nightlife environments:

1. Before leaving your house, you need to make sure that you look great. You don't have to be an Adonis to get girls' attention, but you still need to look presentable. First impressions are important, after all. Wear nice clothes, brush your teeth, comb your hair, etc. Make sure that you wear good cologne and not the cheap kind if you want to pick up girls at bars.

2. From the moment you want into the bar to start picking up girls, you should project confidence. Even if you're shy and nervous, you still need to pretend to be confident. Hold your head up high and make contact with girls. A lot of other guys in the bar will probably be nervous too, although some are better than hiding it than others. Those who at least try to fake their confidence will be able to pick up girls at bars better than those who let their nervousness get the best of them.

3. You're going to have to learn how to approach women if you're going to successfully pick up girls when you go out. If you're a good-looking guy you may occasionally GET approached by women, but in most cases it's up to you to make the first move. Don't only try to target women who are alone; usually, women go out in groups, and approaching groups of women is not big deal when you've got some solid techniques. If she's alone, go up to her, smile, and use one of the openers I explain the "Mack Tactics" book. If she (or the group) is not receptive, don't try to force it. Just move on to another prospect. Don't worry about being turned down. This is an important attitude to take when you're out to pick up girls at bars. If you want to approach a group of girls, treat them all nicely. Don't make it obvious which girl in the group is your target.

4. Next, when you approach a girl and start a conversation your tone of voice -- and the topics you discuss -- should be positive. She should associate you with FUN and POSITIVITY, not negativity or boring/depressing topics (such as talking to her about your exes, breakups, etc. She didn't spend all that time tonight perfecting her hair and makeup, and trying on five different outfits, so that she could come out tonight and talk about boring, depressing stuff. She's here to have fun! You simply need to be the guy who provides FUN in order to make her want to be with you.

5. When your mission is to pick up girls, you can't be overly loud or aggressive (especially towards other guys, even if you view them as "the competition". Go ahead and have fun, but don't be the "spaz" who gets on people's nerves (or even worse, the drunk guy who can't handle his alcohol). Don't drink anymore alcohol than you can handle. But there is often a fine line between "pleasantly buzzed" and "hammered," and women don't feel comfortable being hit on by guys who seem to be drunk and possibly out of control.

6. Pay careful attention to the people around you, and the social interactions of others. Listen to what girls say in bars and pay attention to everything that they do. In order to pick up girls at bars, you should observe them for a few minutes before approaching them. If you can hear what she's talking about (with her friends, or with the guy who approached her), you may hear something that you can bring up during your own conversation with her. So, slow down your pace and don't worry about "making your move" the moment you see an attractive girl. Think like a chess-player and always have your next several moves plotted out in your mind. Becoming a master at picking up girls requires patience, discipline, and most of all PRACTICE.

The next time you go out to have some fun and pick up girls, keep these principles in mind. If you want to learn a ton of great FREE openers to use on women, download the free Mack Tactics guide by clicking here:

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