The root of negative thoughts

Almost anything in life starts small and then it expands grows matures and become big and sometimes bigger depending on the attention it gets. A small seed can turn into a bigger crop that can serve many people just like a tiny sperm cell can turn into a precious human who now reads this blog post wanting to know how to crush negative thoughts.

How amazing is nature?

I personally think the classical proverb which says, “Small beginnings have great endings” was developed from what I just mentioned above because everything in life starts small before it can grow bigger. Think about it all those great things and people we love and admire started small they didn’t just haphazardly grow bigger and wide. They first planted the desired small seed which turns out to be a bigger crop than desired.

The laws of the mind

The universe is created in such an amazing way that it gives us exactly what we desire consciously or unconsciously whether we are aware of this truth or not. It operates in such a way that compensates everyone in his life according to the work he put in himself not according to the work he put out to the world. Please take note of what I have just said in the preceding sentence because its states what builds and destroy your life.
What you put in your mind consciously or unconsciously will have larger effect on your achievements in life and it will determine how you respond to anything that is or not related to you whether you are aware of this or not. It is like the law of gravity it works every day whether people are aware of it or not.
For example:
If a child jumps off a building the law of gravity will take off and compensate the child accordingly. It will not care whether the child knows anything about it or the child knows that if he jumps he might be injured or die instantly.
What the law cares about is the rewards it has to give a person who triggers it whether that person knows the law or not. Some might say the law is not fair why is it doing this to the child because the child doesn’t have knowledge of how badly he might suffer the consequences but I say the law was created to be obeyed and for people to respect its workings.

Three sides to every coin

That brings me to what I want to talk about in this blog post. First I want to bring your attention to a coin. For those of you who know a coin (I believe none of you guys don’t know a coin).
negative thoughts
Just for illustration to every coin there are three sides namely: heads, tails and the edge- the top of it. Each side of the coin is very vital and it has its own meaning.
So I want to explain my point which I haven’t yet breathed out by using a coin as my means of explanation. Okay, the point I want to breathe out is that as humans we have two states of minds. One is that of being positive (having positive thoughts) and the other one is that of being negative (having negative thoughts).

The defining moments of your life

In simple terms, a positive state of mind is that of expecting the best outcomes in everything and a negative state of mind is that of expecting the worse outcomes. It is important to know that at any and I mean any moment of time in your life you are either negative or positive and your expectation of outcomes speaks louder than your words.
Since we all know that a coin has three sides and when you look at a coin you will see that the heads and tails are opposites or are just two different sides. And by saying this, I am trying to make a point that a negative person or someone who has negative thoughts is completely an opposite to a positive person just like the heads and tails.

True for one not for all

What is true in one side is complete false to the other side. Just like a male and a female darkness and light cold and heat and so forth. Moreover, if you desire to have success it is very important to know which side of the coin you belong to because if you don’t you will face shipwreck and confusion along the way of attaining your heart desires.

What a wise man does

A wise man before he can prepare himself to undertake any journey he would look at both sides decide which side is mostly important to him and the way he does that is by just sitting on top of the coin or the edge of the coin and observe how things are done in each side. If he likes what he sees on one side and hate what is happening on the other side, he simply rejects that side and take the one that is best for him.

Lets crush the negative thoughts

By now I think you are on top of the edge and you know which side you are choosing or which side you belong to. I greatly hope that you belong to the right side that suits your needs and meet your heart desires and that is the positive side-the side of great achievements.
But bear in mind though that in the negative side there are also rewards for belonging there.
Let me give you a clue on what is happening on each side.

On the positive side you find the following:

• Sound health
Peace of mind
• Freedom from fear and worry
• Riches of own choice
Abundance of anything you desire

On the negative side you find:

• Ill-health
• Poverty and want
• Scarcity and lack
• Frustration, anxiety and discouragement throughout life.

I am choosing the positive side

This is what you find on each side of the coin. It is what determines winners and losers, achievers and non-achievers and the doers and non-doers. And, I so think that it is now more clear to you about what’s happening on each side and you can now see which side has more value and success.
It wouldn’t make sense to want success while your mind is filled with a state of scarcity and lack or a state of poverty and ill-health that is why knowing the side you belong to is very crucial.
I think it is now a perfect time to suggest 6 ways which will help you and me to forever crush this disturbing, boring and irritating state of mind-the negative state of thinking. Please take a good and in depth analysis of these ways because they dig deeper into the roots of negative thinking or negative thoughts and take the roots out of your mind by force.

The six ways are as follows:

Way #1 See yourself positive always

In everything you do, think and talk about; make sure that it expresses an impression of positivity, and when you have some expectation about anything, make sure you expect the best!
Way #2 Stop blaming
What gives the negative state of mind joy is when a person loves blaming others for his own personal doings and that gives perfect birth to the negative state of thinking because when a person blames someone, he fails to take responsibility of his own actions and fall in to the trap of the negative state of mind.
Way #3 Never justify
Tell plain truth and never modify it.
This will show that you are courageous and you are able to face the consequences (remember when you are positive you expect the best). And it will show that you are not a coward because the opposite of a brave man is a coward and a coward lives in a realm of negative thinking such as fear, criticism, jealously, low self-confidence etc.
Way #4 Accept responsibility
Accepting responsibility is one of the best ways to crush negative thoughts because when you take responsibility, it means that you are willing to be part of the solution not the problem and to be part of the solution is to expect the best outcomes.
Way #5 Create a positive environment for yourself
An environment is any that affects and influence your state of mind whether positive or negative. Therefore, creating a positive environment for yourself such as listening to good materials, having positive friends, reading SUCCESS BLUEPRINT blog posts and so forth will give you a positive environment which will soon manifest what you desire in life.
Way #6 Take control of your mind
There is a universal law which says, “You get to lose what you do not use and gain what you use.” Taking control of your own mind will make you to gain much power over it and help you to think the way you want to think without allowing negative forces to interfere with your thinking and outward world, most importantly your achievements.

Let’s bring it all up

These 6 ways of crushing and destroying a negative thoughts are sound and effective. It is very vital to not neglect any of these 6 ways, because if you do, you will be allowing a gap for the negative state of thinking to influence and affect your heart desires.
Make sure that you adopt them into your life for your own good and all involved because the worst enemy you can have in this world is the negative state of mind.
If you are currently challenged by negative thinking, adopt the above ways and respond to that negative thinking with the attitude the 6 ways will make you to have.

Another formula or method

I wrote a blog post about the same topic as this one and in it I suggested a great video which describes ways on how to change our previous programming such as thinking negative or the way other people interfere with our thinking. It is a great video made by Brain Tracy. I think it is something you might love as it will add value to your life and thinking.
Therefore, if you need more comprehensible knowledge about crushing negative thoughts , visit the blog post and add to your knowledge.

Thank you
Simphiwe A. Mokwena

Author's Bio: 

Simphiwe A. Mokwena is a spirited young man who has profound insight about how individual turn to attain success in life as he has studied and still studies the minds of successful people while he is accumulating large amount of success as well for the benefit of all involved.
He is so passionate about helping people to discover the mechanism behind success because he believes that if you want to want pizza you must know the receipt first.
Visit: http://success-blueprint.co.za to find out more about him.