How To Win Him Back

So you are wondering how to win him back. You have come to the right place if you feel gaining him again is worth your effort and time. Follow these tips and your ex boyfriend will be back in your arms once more.Do not communicate with him to allow him space. Do not cling as you may look desperate even if you are dying to have him back. When you run after him, he will continue to run the other way as guys do not really like girls who pathetically chase after them. If you give him space, he will miss you and wonder what is going on in your life. This will draw him closer to you because guys gravitate to those they find mysterious and unavailable.Socialize and hang out with your old and new friends as well as his friends. Go on fun activities with them and enjoy your single-hood. Your ex will find out about this and this shall drive him crazy. He would not like the idea that you hang out with his buddies for fear one of them may ask you out. When he hears others are having fun with you, he will start missing those enjoyable days you had together.If you are friends with his family before, continue being friends with them. Respect your relationship with them because your connection with them should not necessarily involve your ex. If you are friends with his sister, go out with her for lunch or dinner. Dress nicely and have fun and she will definitely relay this to her brother. Just do not ask his family to make ways for you to get back with your ex as he and his family will see you as a pathetic person.

Know the real cause of the breakup even if it was not your fault. Know the root cause of the problem, how it badly affected him and find ways to address it. If it were your fault, you may need to apologize not because you want to get back but because you hurt a person. If you have an attitude that pained him, accept that and alter it. After giving him space, talk to him and say you are sorry. Afterwards, back off and try changing that attitude of yours. Do not chase after him but wait for him to move to you. If he loves you, he will accept your apology and give your relationship another try.Improve yourself not only personally but physically as well. Get a nice haircut, lose weight if necessary, get a facial and buy nice clothes. When he sees you looking good and confident, he will miss you all the more. If he does not notice your beauty, at least you will feel good about yourself. Someone else might get interested in you if your ex chooses to date others.
When your ex contacts you, do not treat him negatively. Do not be angry, pained or confrontational. Never act in an overly emotional and desperate manner. Just show him that you are glad he communicated with you.If your ex does not make any effort to make up with you even if you have tried all these tips, maybe he is not the one worth your love after all. He may not be ready to really commit as he may still be immature. You should also entertain the idea that he may not be into you after all. He may also be interested in someone else or he may have goals and dreams and he sees you as a hindrance to getting those aspirations. Do not assume you have done something bad or wrong that made him go away. Just accept the situation and that he may not be the one for you. Have respect for yourself and recognize and accept if a person does not want you in his life anymore.These are the ways on how to win him back but if they do not work, it is time to move on.