So something happened and you find your relationship is suddenly in turmoil. I can't say exactly how you got here, but I'm will to bet that you want to reconcile with your boyfriend. Maybe you made some sort of mistake. Maybe he is at fault. Or maybe you two made a mutual agreement. All those details aren't overly important. Just use this blueprint and you'll know exactly how to get back your boyfriend.

Learn to Accept and Love Yourself -- A lot of women these days need their relationship to form their sense of self. We sometimes lose track of what makes us one-of-a-kind when we are in long-term relationships. When this relationship goes away, it can feel like our entire life is coming down. You might find yourself suffering from low self-confidence and depression. You could even be so down that you are having suicidal thoughts.

Don't forget that your life is defined by a lot more than just the guy that is it in. Begin building your self-confidence. When you see yourself in the mirror start telling yourself that ou are a gorgeous and amazing woman. At first it may seem fake, but keep doing it and soon it will stick . Soon enough you will come to see yourself as the radiant, stunning woman that you really are.

Go Out with Friends -- Spend time with your close friends to help you with all your emotions. Your friends will make you smile and feel better as you share funny memories. Your friends will keep you from feeling lonely and help get you out of the house. This is an important step to do following the end of a relationship. Don't think of it as annoying your friends. Real friends will be there for you no matter what is happening.

Increase Your Self-Confidence -- Doing things that used to scare you will make you feel like you can have anything in the world. Start going out out and do things you have always wanted to do. Go hang gliding, write a novel, take art lessons, join a yoga group. Consider joining a gym and working out. Exercise has a great way of making you feel better. You'll feel amazing as you keep yourself from feeling depressed and keep your body lean simultaneously. Your ex will be impressed by your new-found confidence the next time you run into him. This is a huge factor in getting back your boyfriend. Guys just automatically gravitate toward happy and confident women. He will feel all the original feelings of attraction again when he sees you smiling and laughing at life.

Reverse Psychology -- This is a very key part in luring your boyfriend back. Don't come off as overly ready to reunite with your partner. This technique probably doesn't make much sense to you. This gets results because guys will always chase what flees from them. By being a little aloof, he'll get the message that you aren't that into him anymore. This will make him feel that he's losing you and will only increase his desire for you. Your boyfriend will start to actually chase after you. Keep the act up even when your boyfriend starts to try to get you back. Have your boyfriend put a bit more energy into it. Accept to go out with him if he asks to see you, but don't appear too excited about it. You might be afraid you'll scare him off, but trust me this works.

It's pretty likely that you have a couple friends in common as well. Hang out with them if they invite you out or to a party. They will tell your boyfriend about how great and confident you are now. Or he may even come himself and see everything with his own eyes. He will begin to regret dumping you when he sees how happy you are and how much fun you're having without him. In no time he'll be asking you to take him back. This is the most sure-fire way to get back your boyfriend. Now go do it.

Author's Bio: 

Sarah Scott was dumped by her boyfriend while studying abroad in Italy. When she returned home to the United States, she studied the secrets on how to get your ex back. Now she enjoys helping others save their relationships.

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