Admittedly, there will be stretches when you will not necessarily feel that life is being fair to you. During these times, many of you are having your mettle tested to see just how resilient you can or want to be. There is an important distinction to be made between "can" and "want."

When issues arise in life that can challenge you, some people see it as a catalyst to prove that they can overcome it. They derive, from a sense of a competitive force, that which allows them to see beyond their immediate concern, but clearly towards what it will take to overcome it. Some people actually thrive on becoming bigger than the obstacle! It is all about attitude. The "I can" mentality actually comes from our advice to LG...Let Go, Let God, Life's Good! It will help to give you a deeper sense of freedom when you honestly abide by these principles.

The other side of achieving an aspect of accomplishment in the face of adversity is to actually want to improve things. We find that many people claim they want something better for themselves, but frequently are held in abeyance by their own fears of breaking away from what feels familiar. Often, this is a false sense of contentment. It is up to each individual to fairly evaluate if they are in the place they want to be when a problem or a crisis arise. You must decide if the way things are--in the midst of confusion and fluster--is the way you want them to be in the future. Are you capable of seeing yourself on a path of happiness, or is it one where you see nothing but exasperation? Is the image of your future just one of problem after another problem, or does it look like you will live a life with few annoying issues? What about seeing your physical self in a pain-free or pain-filled way? Which image you project says a lot about how much you want to improve. If all you can do is anticipate the negative impressions of our questions, then it is clear to Spirit that you need realign the direction of your thoughts.

The good news is that there are many ways to go about it! You could embrace your angels on both sides of the divide. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, but of great strength. Reaching for guidance and answers is a beautiful thing; therefore it creates a beautiful mind. When your mind is strong, it facilitates positive growth and healing in numerous ways. It allows you to see the freedom of your future in a way that makes you eager to get there. From our perch in the Light, it is a much more joyful energy that emanates from souls that are happy. Whether or not you want to have a soul like that is in direct linkage to the mental movie you create.

Yes, in large part it is you who creates the outcome of your life. While your soul chose the life in which it needed to live; destiny can be altered by your willingness to succeed. Prove to yourself that you deserve more! If you are ailing, then it behooves you to do whatever is in your scope to fight to get better. While you may not be able to grow a limb back, with persistence, patience and meditation you can alleviate much of the pain you feel. While that was a little facetious, the reality is that the human mind and body can accomplish great feats that many people do not give themselves the chance to see. This week, make sure you honor yourself in some small or large way. Do something that takes you out of your comfort zone if that zone has you depressed or unhappy. Make sure you are practical, but purposeful. Know that as you bravely press on, there is an unheralded level of protection to assist you from the King of Angels. Absorb The Spoken Words of Spirit.

Author's Bio: 

Jim is a renowned medium and psychic, but considers himself a teacher of spirituality. Although he has been doing most of his work on a more personal basis, Jim's new direction is to try to include more people to understand the simple, yet perfect connection they can have with their loved ones on the other side.

The ability to communicate with Spirits was not something he searched for. In July of 1993, while enduring a very difficult time in his life, Jim was suddenly blessed with being able to speak, see and hear numerous people and higher level souls in the other realm. He openly and actively shares the information he gets with anyone who desires to improve their life.

Jim Fargiano can be reached on Facebook and Twitter, but most easily through his website at: He is a widely recognized leader in spirituality and posts messages he receives from the other side almost everyday. Short quotes will be on the fan page for The Spoken Words of Spirit on Facebook, as well as on his home page. Longer messages can be read at If you are serious about improving your outlook on life, then take advantage of the opportunities Jim provides.