Whether you're a man or a woman, most people want their partner to find them wildly desirable. This is especially true when it's time for a person to take their clothes off to become intimate. If your partner doesn't light up when you don't have clothes on, that's a problem. It's another story if you're not feeling confident about the way you look. If your confidence is impacting your ability to be intimate with your partner, there are a few ways you can boost your self-esteem.

Talk to your significant other

Before you do anything else, have a conversation with your significant other. Be open and transparent about the way you've been feeling. A good partner will make a safe space for you to openly discuss your feelings. By keeping open communication and being honest with one another about your feelings and preferences, you can ensure that both you and your partner enjoy the experience and allow you both to be intimate with confidence.

Enhance your physical appearance

If you're feeling insecure because you've gained a little weight, start going to the gym. Get on a meal plan to help you lose weight. Go to the hairdresser to get a new hair color or cut. One change in your physical appearance can increase your confidence. In addition to enhancing your appearance, if you're feeling as though you don't have as much stamina in between the sheets, consider male enhancements as they can improve your performance. This can help you enjoy your experience without fear of embarrassment.

Listen to life affirmations

Life affirmations are important because they help you to shift your mindset. Pay close attention to the conversations your mind is entertaining. If you're constantly thinking about what you don't like or care for about yourself, you won't be able to spend time thinking about the attributes you actually like. Create a list of life affirmations that you repeat to yourself on a daily basis. As you repeat those words to yourself, listen to absorb and believe the information as the truth.

Get a new wardrobe

Ill-fitting clothes will bring a person's overall appearance down. In addition to purchasing new clothes, get them tailored to perfectly fit your body. When clothing manufacturers create the clothing, they're not doing so with your love handles in mind. You can camouflage problem areas and enhance your best attributes by using the services of a really good tailor. Wearing bright shades of red in particular have been known to be very helpful both in confidence building and in giving off a romantic appearance to your potential partner.
Once you've implemented these four steps, you'll not only feel better about yourself, but you'll exude a new level of confidence. Whether you're just as stunning as Beyoncé or a late bloomer, confidence will take you places. As you continue to build yourself up, your intimacy with your partner can only get better with time.

Author's Bio: 

Meghan Belnap is a freelance writer who enjoys spending time with her family. She loves being in the outdoors and exploring new opportunities whenever they arise. Meghan finds happiness in researching new topics that help to expand her horizons. You can often find her buried in a good book or out looking for an adventure.