Part II - Forgiveness - The 5 Things That Keep You From Living the Life of Your Dreams
2. Forgiveness
Forgiveness is three fold; forgiving others, asking for forgiveness and forgiving yourself.
In my lifetime there were many relationships that were shattered, but the connection to the negative energetic bond was not broken. I remained bound to the dark force of the hurtful action. So I went on with my life and the negative memories turned into dark spots deep within my subconscious that I was unaware of. My negative blocks were many, leaving me bitter, angry and resentful, keeping my light very dim. You better believe no one was going to hurt me ever again! I made sure of it. I slammed shut the door to my heart so that no love could get in and no love could get out. "Ha!" my ego said, "You keep that heart of yours closed. People are bad and will hurt you. Don't be a fool, don't forgive him, don't forgive her. They don't deserve your forgiveness. You don't deserve forgiveness." My ego was strong and loud and in control. And I walked around 'unapproachable'. Well if I was unapproachable, who was I hurting? Only myself. What was I attracting? Nothing great that's for sure.
Quite honestly life pretty much sucked. That's the simplest way to put it. I felt no joy.
I knew that something had to change, something had to give.
I soon realized that I wanted out of this miserable existence. There HAD to be an answer. Why did I feel so much anxiety and stress and worry? Why did I always have money issues? Why did I always feel so bad inside? I looked around and saw other people doing so well. I wanted answers and I just couldn't find them. But one thing for sure is that I am not a quitter. I never was and I never will be. And so the burning desire deep within the depths of my soul ignited my flame to discover the real secret.
And then something finally gave. Miracle upon miracles, I started to 'Clear and Release' the negative energy that was buried deep within my subconscious. I soon realized that I had so many people to forgive, so many to ask forgiveness from and very importantly to forgive myself. And lo and behold as I started to clear and release, I also started to feel lighter, more peaceful and a sense of calm. I actually felt hopeful and finally I felt joy. Immediately following that, Miracles started flowing into my life. That was it. Life energy started flowing into me. WHY? Because I had cleared and I released that which was blocking me from accepting and receiving my miracles. I found the key to unlock the heavy chains that kept me in my own prison. And once I found the key and miracles starting coming into my life, I found FAITH; faith that everything was happening just as it should, now and always. And so my worry and my stress and my anxiety and my debt turned into abundance. Less turned into more. I delivered my soul from the hell, I alone put myself in.
Do you know what it actually feels like to walk in this life without reacting negatively? Do you know what it feels like to change perception from negative to positive? Now I consciously choose to approach each situation from a place of love. I am retraining my mind one day at a time, one miracle at a time to walk with compassion. I understand that people may do hurtful things, because they themselves are hurting. I am not saying take everything that is thrown at you. As a matter of fact you may have to end relationships. But when you do, do it from a loving place, with forgiveness in your heart and pray that God will place his hand on this person and heal them from their pain. Keeping yourself bitter with unforgiveness only hurts you, hurts the person and keeps you bound negatively at an energetic level.
From the depths of my heart, I hope that you will find the strength to 'Clear and Release' the negative that lies within you. It is my wish that you act from a place of love, to your children, to your parents, to your partner, to your neighbors and touch their hearts so that they too can too act from a place of love; a loving positive chain reaction, one heart at a time, one miracle at a time.
Free yourself and if you should find it difficult to forgive, then hand it over to God. Pray, release it to God and he will surely take care of it for you.
And this, my friends,UNFORGIVENESS is the 2nd thing that stops you from living the life of your dreams.
We are all children of God and it is our birthright to live an extraordinary life. Live yours. Choose you.
And this is why I created 'Clear and Release', so that you can receive your miracles and live the life of your dreams.
ARE YOU READY to do the work and start moving to an extraordinary life....or are you going to stay stuck in misery? It's your choice, God created you with Free Will. Choose Love. Choose Forgiveness. Open your heart, your mind and your soul. Free your spirit. 'Clear and Release'.
Sandra Wapniarski is a life passion and motivational coach, speaker and leader. You can find out more about Sandra and her new “Clear and Release” program (it rocks!) at www.bewomensnetwork.com.
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