A night club is a great place for men to pick up women. There is a huge variety of women, and in fact the women also go to clubs to interact and meet guys. Sounds like the perfect place to find your love? rnUnfortunately, many men are dissapointed and feel frustrated of not succeeding with women in night clubs. It's loud, you can't talk much, and the women tend to act bitchy. So, what can you do to successfuly pick up women in clubs?
Get into Social Vibe
Night Clubs are meant to be social enviournments. However, despite that, people hardly talk to people they don't know in clubs. They usually stand and dance with their own friends.rnIf you are like the rest 99.5% of the population, I suppose that you do this too.rnBeing Social is one of the male qualities that women are attracted to.rnSo what you need to do is to chat with all kinds of men and women in the club. What I suggest is just throwing all kinds of comments, having short chats, and moving on.rnWomen, much more than men, notice what is happening around them. They will perfectly notice you. You will be different, unique and attractive.
Use Approach anxiety as an advantage
You might suffer from Approach Anxiety. But the same is true about the rest of the men.rnGetting into a social vibe is a great way to overcome approach anxiety. Because you just talk to people (men and women) without any romantic intent, your mind will have much less anxiety to open conversations.rnAnd guess what? Other men will be afraid to approach women. You will be the only one who stands out as unique and attractive.
Make short conversations with girls
The first time that you approach a girl with romantic intent, make your conversation quick. You can say something funny, ask a quick question... And leave.rnAccording to my experience, using this technique will get you wonderful results. Why?
- Women in a club have lots of distractions. If you stay a long time, she will eventually be distracted - by the music, by her friends, etc. She doesn't know or like you enough to concentrate only at you. So, prevent this. Be the first to leave.
- This creates curiosity and is also very attractive. Most men approach and keep being with the girl until she rejects them, thus showing neediness. You are different. You approach and quickly leave. You show that you don't need the girl, and it creates attraction.
- You left ,thus leaving the girl with thoughts. "why did he leave?", "what did I do wrong?", "doesn't he like me?". She will be thinking about YOU.
- According to Psychological studies, people feel comfortable to interact with other familiar people. When you first approached the girl, you were a complete stranger. The second time you approach, she will already remember you, and feel comfortable to talk with you.
Women tend to stay for hours in the same club. Many times in the same place. Just remember where you met her, and come again later. Don't worry, she will be thinking and looking for you.
Use Facebooks
10 years ago, if you met a girl in a club, all you could do is exchange phone numbers.rnIn many cases, women wouldn't agree to meet the guy. Because they were drunk, or they didn't even remember how he looked like.rnIn many cases, I myself also didn't remember how the girl looked like.rnFacebook Changed it all. In addition to phone numbers, you can exchange facebooks. This way you can check her photos, see who her friends are, etc. If you take photos together in the club, it would be a great idea to tag yourself together. Again, creating the feeling of comfort.rnIf you want to improve this even more, I suggest that you
make your facebook profile attractive, so women will feel attracted to you just by seeing you profile.
Let yourself Free
A club is a unique enviornment. It's dark, people are drunk, and you probably don't know anyone except your friends. Guess what? You can feel free to do things that you don't do during the day. You can approach many girls. You can be provocative. Don't be afraid to do crazy things. Many women, after drinking some alcohol, might go dance on the bar. Some even take their shirt off. Why are you different? Enjoy the freedom of the night club and have fun.
Same Night Sex is an Option
Women in a club drink alcohol, they dance and have fun. They might feel free to do things that they won't do during the day.rnIf you feel that a girl is possible to agree to a same night sex, it's legit to try. The first step is to take her away from her friends. Create some comfort by talking or dancing together. Try to kiss her. If she goes with it, there is a good chance for you to take her home. If she resists, it's O.K. Just exchange numbers and meet on a different day.
Finally - come to enjoy
When you come to a club, don't have any specific goals. You came to have fun and enjoy. You might meet some girls, you might get some new friends. But if not - it's also O.K. If you fail, just learn how to improve later. You can stiil enjoy the vibe, the music and the adrenaline.