It’s far too easy to let the world seem to do it’s dirty job on our creation and descend into a spiral of out of control hopelessness where our ‘destiny’ and ‘fate’ lie in the hands of everyone and everything beyond our own ability to provide our own redemption as we escape the bleak misery of a torturous existence that is based on half truths and sorrow.
In misery I stand alone. In true awareness, I am at one with the will of my heart and self. In the frightening chaos of what life can sometimes present to us it becomes so easy to lose that sense of self that should be cherished, understood and held in a sanctuary of completion. The rawness of losing something dear to us is often the catalyst to finding a strength of who and what you are.
A life that has made us weary is nonetheless a life that we can all identify with but hope is the start of the process of illumination and a true willingness for change becomes the completion. Nothing has a greater attraction or greater appeal than the charisma of splendid honesty where shadows are no longer a road map to sorrow. Be the successful expression of everything that is so deserving of what you are. Learn to listen to your self as you educate your self to the greatness of your own song.
Do not deny the reality of your potential to be the wonderful person you already are. As an example to your self, live your life where unconditionally you no longer are prepared to withhold everything that is the true essence of all the beauty you are.
Everything we do is a process of self-education. In many ways and over years we have all taught our selves to see our selves as something we are not - limited, unhappy, unfulfilled. If we choose to look for proof that we are limited, flawed or failed we will find evidence to support our beliefs. However, if we can only remind ourselves to live as the success that is within each of us then that is what we become.
It’s important to remember that the successful self is the answer, not the question. As the clarity of our mind becomes apparent to our selves it is impossible not to start to listen.
We must accept that we will at times have conflicting messages and conflicting answers to dilemmas that we face. The way to escape this conflict is simply to choose one option and let the other one go. Choose clarity over confusion, success over failure, completion over fragmentation and always choose truth over falsehood. Continue to remember that any sense of inner disharmony is really insane in its own way. Focus on the one truth, which is the truth of who you are and is the essence of success.
Our previous experiences can sometimes tell us that there is another truth and that’s a truth of disappointment and failure. But by changing our focus to what we can be the past no longer has a role in the present of who we are or in the future of what we can become. The decision for change is the defining moment as we go through this realisation and this realisation is the power giver. We are now taking steps in a direction out of conflict with the self.

Author's Bio: 

Geoffrey J Canavan has been involved in business ventures for almost 30 years. In that time his companies have encountered highs, lows and everything in between. His vast business experience has led to a deep understanding of the nature of success.
Geoffrey’s first book, Solved! The truth about real success, is founded on the belief that success is an inside job, inherent in, available to and attainable by everybody. The ‘missing piece’ is the realisation that - regardless of circumstances, education, social status, history or any other outside influences.- you are perfect and were born with the potential to be, do and have everything you dream about.
In recent times, Geoffrey has been working on his second book, The Prize, building his online presence and increasing his followers on various popular social networking sites.