Recently it seems that an increasing number of people have been discussing the benefits of yoga and how wonderful it is for improving the mind, body and spirit. Yoga is actually much more than just a fitness routine. For most people who choose to practice yoga, it becomes a way of life. As a new lifestyle approach, yoga can teach you not only how to breathe properly but also how to eat healthy, keep your body in optimal shape and even gain increased understanding into your in
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Massages are easy to do as well as fun to give and receive. You do not have to have any training to give your mate a thoroughly satisfying massage, although if you would like more guidance there are some excellent books and videos available. Giving each other a massage as a first course of ...
For many people sexual and romantic education is derived a great deal from television, movies, and, particularly for men, pornography. Objectification, one-sidedness, and unrealistic expectations take hold resulting in a loss of intimacy and connection. The movie, "Don Jon," written, directed, and starred in by Joseph Gordon-Levitt, addresses this dilemma, shining light on these views and exploring what it actually means to be intimate and express love.
The spirit of femininity is generous, graceful, nurturing, supportive, sensitive, intuitive, and oriented towards love and care. Despite all of these wonderful attributes, feminine energy, especially as it pertains to sexuality, has been suppressed, condemned, and vilified on a global scale for thousands of years. It is no wonder, then, that so often we associate shame, fear, and guilt with sex and sexuality. Through reawakening our feminine energy, we can learn to celebrate our femininity in all its forms and bring greater joy and intimacy into our lives and with ourselves.
Classic Texts and Modern Practicesnby Al Link and Pala Copeland The term “sacred sex” may seem somewhat of an oxymoron in western society, a contradiction in terms. Suggesting that you can find your way to God through sexual activity has been a bit like suggesting you can eat your way to ...
Recently it seems that an increasing number of people have been discussing the benefits of yoga and how wonderful it is for improving the mind, body and spirit. Yoga is actually much more than just a fitness routine. For most people who choose to practice yoga, it becomes a way of life. As a new lifestyle approach, yoga can teach you not only how to breathe properly but also how to eat healthy, keep your body in optimal shape and even gain increased understanding into your in
It’s said that the feminine is rising. While having developed their 'masculine' capacities over the past 50 years since the onset of the women’s movement, women are re-connecting with their 'feminine' essence. However, women are often still socialized to be ashamed of their sexuality. So what can a woman do to fully balance her whole being? What is her role in the planet’s conscious evolution of the sexual-spiritual integrated human?
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do On Your Ownnby Al Link and Pala Copeland THE MEANING OF LIFE A primary function of consciousness is to bestow meaning, to decide what things mean for you personally. Examples include deciding how important something is to you regardless of its importance ...
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland MYSTICAL MAPS Time for Exercise: 15 minutes Properties Required: nonenn Steps: Take turns describing for your love the qualities or properties of a mystical experience you have had. What were the ...
What is Presence? Presence arises when your essential nature -Awareness, awakens to itself in this moment. Awareness is beyond space and time, beyond life and death. It is omnipresent- everywhere and nowhere, it is the formless dimension from which all things arise. When you are present, you let go of past and future. You surrender to the moment. There is no resistance to what is.
What is Tantra and how can it help you overcome feelings of shame so you can have mind-blowing sex and intimacy? I began my study and practice of Tantra thinking it would enhance sex making it hotter and at the same time I was scared that if it made sex hotter I might not be able to handle ...
SOUL FREEDOM EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland KUNDALINI CARESSES Your chakras (energy centers along the spine) exert a powerful influence on your physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. This simple ceremony sends loving energy into each center. With your ...
For this Tantric Tidbit, please read, complete and reflect on the following: A quick "Comfort in the Body Meditation" Begin by sitting comfortably in a chair with your feet flat on the ground, relaxed but not slumped over, and your hands resting on your lap with your eyes closed. Bring your awareness to the base of your spine. Imagine that you are sitting outside in a natural setting, on a large comfortable tree stump, and that the tree roots reach all the way down to the c
Success with Tantra lovemaking requires that you go out of your mind and get into your body. This means getting out of thought and into sensation. Here is an incredibly easy but powerfully effective way to rapidly improve the quality of your experience during lovemaking, by helping you get out ...
Seven Minute Massage It is a delicious treat to receive a full body massage that lasts any where from thirty minutes to a couple of hours, but you can also give your love a boost with a massage “quickie”. You can effectively energize and loosen him up from top to toe in five to seven minutes. ...
An excellent starting point for a relaxing and invigorating massage is the back.nnn Begin at the base of his spine with your palms on his sacrum (just above his tailbone). Inhale. As you exhale slide your hands up his back on either side of his spine.n ...
Sustaining intimacy and fulfillment in a romantic relationship can be challenging. Often couples find themselves lacking true connection with each other as the daily routine of their lives take over. Intimacy is a creation that has to be cultivated and tended to. When we take time to consciously connect, we find that intimacy blossoms and our relationships become more fulfilling and rewarding. Here are a few essential “Do’s” and “Don’ts” to create a long lasting, meaningful relationship. Do’s ”¢ Breathe to calm the unending chatter in your mind
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do On Your Ownnby Al Link and Pala Copeland NOW AND ZEN A variation of Buddhism that asserts enlightenment can come through intuitive insight, Zen is the simplest, most direct route to enlightenment but one of the most difficult to traverse. In Zen, there is ...
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland FROM HERE TO ETE ITY Time for Exercise: 15 to 30 minutes Properties Required: bed sheet or other large piece of clothnn Steps: One of you lies down as if you were a corpse. Your love sets the scene with ...
Part of bringing in the new includes leaving the old behind. Let go of outdated ways of being and thinking, old patterns in ourselves and the collective psyche. We can have a hard time bringing in something new - a new behavior, a new boyfriend/girlfriend, job, whatever it is you want, until we clean out the closets in our personal space to make room for something new. I know, I know, this can be hard to do. So how do we do it? The first step includes letting the mind relax
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do On Your Ownnby Al Link and Pala Copeland DREAM TIME Not only can you remember your dreams and interpret their meaning, but you can also influence dreams with your intention through conscious dreaming. This exercise focuses on the first part of conscious ...
Exercise - The A or B Gamenby Al Link and Pala Copelandn Try two different versions of a sexual technique - for example two different tongue strokes in oral sex, two different thrusting maneuvers during intercourse, two different caresses on back or thighs, two different kisses. Refer to one as ...
SOUL FREEDOM EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copelandn BREAK OUT OF JAIL Feeling stuck? It’s time to break out of confinement and be free. Time for Exercise: 10 to 30 minutes Properties Required: large roll of package wrapping pape n Steps: One of you ...
Yoga retreat centers are growing increasingly popular as they offer a way for people to feel more relaxed and healthy at the same time. In modern life, the daily routine can often leave us feeling stressed and out of sorts. It is important to learn how to effectively combat high levels of stress. Without doing so, you may be more susceptible to a variety of health concerns, including various diseases and even possible heart problems. Learning how to relax can also help you to
During the 19th century Tantric writings were introduced to the west by British scholars and travelers, foremost among them Sir Richard Burton, translator of three classic texts that explain and illustrate the art of love with considerable emphasis on sexual lovemaking positions: the Kama Sutra ...
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copelandnn "O" ZONE The “O” Zone is the ecstatic orgasmic energy state you are in at peaks of sexual arousal before climax. Your personal power is greatly amplified when you are supercharged energetically in the ...
The world is a reflection of your own inner landscape. If you want to create a better world, rather than focusing on the problem "out there," begin by changing what is going on inside of you. This journey begins by accepting all aspects yourself. How much do you love and accept yourself? How does that effect how you treat others? Learn how to move beyond the illusion of separation and discover that you are Love. As you let love flow through you, the world mirrors back the love you give to others. Take the Self-Love Inventory Do you love your body? Do you feed it good food?
People have forgotten the simplest lovemaking ‘technique’ of all: the incredible power of human touch. Even when the opportunity arises in lovemaking sessions for us to give and receive the pleasure of the caress, we tend to get caught up in the drive to ejaculatory orgasms. nnAdmittedly, ejaculatory orgasms produce intense pleasure, but without the slow build up of conscious touch, it is more like a sneeze in the groin, just a release of tension, than a deeply sa
Truth and Dare All the secrets you hold inside are an enormous weight, a needless burden. This exercise offers an excellent opportunity for you to revisit and let go of things from your past that still bother you. All of us have experiences that have left us wounded: times when we felt ...
HARMONY BREATH Time for Exercise: five to 10 minutes Properties Required: nonenn Steps: Sit comfortably facing each other. Look into each other’s eyes. Inhale and exhale slowly and deeply together, in rhythm. The man leads the rhythm for 12 full breaths as the woman ...
Do something different this Valentine, something extra special for and with your beloved partner. What could you do to create an ‘out-of-this-world’ love experience that would make your partner’s heart melt and feel extra loved and taken care of? Here is what you want to do: Prepare YOUR Valentine’s experience by creating Sacred Space that will enhance your romantic evening or an intentional lovemaking session, a sacred conversation you may want to have, a sensual massage, or a healing ritual. Let’s look more closely at what we mean by creating Sacred Space:
SOUL FREEDOM EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland ONCE BEFORE I DIE… The soul exists beyond time and space, beyond life and death of the body. For the soul, death is merely a doorway from one place to another, not something to fear and avoid. But while we are ...
SOUL FREEDOM EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland FOUNDATION STONES On a level of consciousness much deeper than the rational, you must come to believe that you have a purpose for being here, that you are capable of knowing your life’s mission, and that you ...
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland UNDER THE SKY Time for Exercise: 15 minutes to ove ight Properties Required: sleeping bags; do a bit of research beforehand to identify some of the constellations of stars that can be seen in your location at the ...
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland VOWS Greatness, beauty, and creation spring forth from commitment. Saying yes unreservedly to your lover, burning all bridges of escape, giving everything you have, and holding nothing back bring you to the very edge ...
In a recent conversation a scientist friend of ours mentioned that researchers have indicated the extinction of the male within a thousand years or so. This had our heads chu ing. What would need to change in order to divert the reality of such a prognosis? Here is what we came up with:
At the very basic level, Yoga is a scientific system of specific practices which help to balance the Body and Mind. Through regular practice, one begins to improve physical strength, flexibility and overall vitality. As one's body becomes lighter and more flexible, so does the practitioner's ...
The Lover’s Curse of Memory: How to Be Here Now In BednBy Al Link and Pala Copeland - 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra The curse of memory is that memory robs us of being in the moment. We remember the last time we saw something and we see it as we remember it, rather than as it is NOW. We ...
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do On Your Ownnby Al Link and Pala Copeland DANCE YOUR PRAYE nime for Exercise: five to 15 minutes Properties Required: selection of music for dancingnn Steps: Select music for the mood you wish to create, anything from gospel to rock and roll.nn ...
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do On Your Ownnby Al Link and Pala Copeland LEAP OF IMAGINATION Beliefs are extremely powerful but not supremely powerful. There is something more powerful than belief. Otherwise no one could ever transcend their limited beliefs and become unstuck. Your ...
Compassion for all beings is the foundation for all Tantric practice. The motivation to achieve enlightenment is born out of a desire to help others to awaken and to end the suffering for all beings. This practice is called Bodhichitta, which means "awakening mind." In Buddhism the mind is associated with the heart, not the head. Bodhichitta also is associated with wisdom and spaciousness.
Many traditions treat desire of all kinds, but sexual desire in particular, as negative, as something that must be suppressed. Desire is certainly complex. It can overwhelm us and interfere with our better judgment. In this society, we are conditioned to be ruled by our desires: desires that are replaced by new ones just as soon as they are fulfilled. And yet desire is a powerful force, a force that can motivate and inspire us. Suppressing desire entails suppressing our funda
Mind-field Our minds can be drunken monkeys, flitting from one thought to the next. When you are trying to concentrate on something but notice you are drifting off to think about something else, use this technique to learn to stay focused. It will also help your thought process to become quiet, ...
Shaman Says The term shaman might have originated in Northern Siberia in a region in central Russia known as Tunguska, purported to be the location of a mystical kingdom referred to as Shamballa. A shaman (sometimes magician, sorcerer, witch doctor, or medicine man) has esoteric knowledge ...
"Sacred Sex – Body Freedom"n(Part 5 of 7)nby Al Link and Pala Copeland Although most couples want a really good sex life, many are afraid that it’s unattainable because they personally don’t know how to create it. They bury their sexual dreams under the weight of ...
INTEGRATION EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland FLOATING LIGHTS Candles are one of the most useful aids for creating your own romantic rituals and celebrations, for remembering loved ones you cannot be with right now, or for healing the separation between ...
The time during and post childbirth for a mother is signified by GIVING. No matter if you nurse or not you give continually to your baby for months. The first step to returning to intimacy is to give to yourself: This starts with listen more deeply to yourself and having moments and practices to tap into your own feminine. Connecting intimately with your partner will follow once you made the re-connect with yourself. Do the following practice and see how you feel upon completion. It will support you in: o Rekindling your feminine intimate energyr
SOUL FREEDOM EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland PEARLS OF WISDOM Time for Exercise: five to 15 minutes Properties Required: nonenn Steps:n n Once per week sit down together and share two or three inspiring thoughts or quotes you have gathered over the ...
SOUL FREEDOM EXERCISESnExercises To Do Togethe by Al Link and Pala Copeland SACRAMENTS OF OUR LIVESn Traditionally defined as the outward and visible sign of an inner and invisible grace, a sacrament is something you elevate to the status of holy or sacred. You elevate it to this status by ...
4 Freedoms Exercisesn n Reclaim your 4 Freedoms through awareness and action. Manifest the ideas you’ve just read about by engaging in these exercises. Delight your body, awaken your mind, open your heart, and free your soul. Exercises are organized under the following headings: ...
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