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- How To Think Big - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2012 from Mervyn gohEveryone is born to think big. Just stroll down your memory lane and try to recall when you are younger in age, have you ever dream to become a pilot, doctor or other great positions in the society? When you are older, you must have dream of starting your own business, driving your favorite posh ...
Views: 1217 - Spiritual Growth by Expecting Nothing - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Mervyn gohExpect Nothing and Nothing Will Disappoint You You can shun disappointments by not having any expectations with regards to your honour. If you expect nothing, then nothing can disappoint you and therefore nothing will be taken from you. In order to be a contented person, you must do something ...
Views: 1243(1 vote) - Knowing the Reality of Married Life - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Mervyn gohImprove Love Relationship by Learning the Reality of Married Life "Be careful and discreet; it is much easier to get married than unmarried. If you have the right mate, it is heavenly, but if not, you will live in a 24 hour daily hell that clings constantly to you, it can be one of the most ...
Views: 2505 - Attain Personal Development by Controlling Anger - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment by Controlling Anger Let's start off with a story that interpret the danger of anger. Once there live a rich woman that is well known in high society for her benevolence who had a maid that was faithful and diligent. One day, out of curiosity, the maid decided to test her ...
Views: 1660 - Empower Yourself To Get Over Frustration In Love - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Improvement by Learning and overcoming Frustration in Love In this world, no one can escape the torture of frustration because it is mission impossible for all our desires to be satisfied. This applies to anyone, regardless whether you are rich or poor, man or woman, old or young, you ...
Views: 1341 - Coping with Stress to Empower Yourself - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Growth by Knowing and Coping with Stress Have you ever wondered how this word - "Stress" come from? The word stress is actually acquired from physics and engineering where it has a specific meaning. It is a force of adequate magnitude to distort or deform. In related to human, Stress has ...
Views: 1060 - Learn To Forgive and Forget - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf growth by learning to forgive and forget Taking revenge on trouble makers or enemies will only create more problems and disturbance to you. You must realize that negative emotion and hostile actions can only bring harm and suffering to both of you and your enemies. In order to perform ...
Views: 1353 - Self Empowered To Be The Master of Your Mood - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Improvement by Gaining Control Over Your Moods In our daily life, everyone is being influenced by their moods to some extent. We should try to better understand our moods in order to take control and by doing this, we can avoid doing things that we might regret in the future. At ...
Views: 1442 - Self Empowerment by Knowing the Danger of Selfishness - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2011 from Mervyn gohKnowing the danger of selfishness empower you to gain personal growth You must know the danger of selfishness because IT kills one's personality and spiritual growth if you are unaware. A self centered and selfish lives only for himself. He does not know beauty of loving and respecting others, ...
Views: 1731(1 vote) - Empower Yourself To Get Out Of Bad Emotion - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment by learning how to get out of the bad emotional state instantly Do you usually or sometimes feel bad about everything that is happening to you and get agitated easily by tiny little thing in the world? If so, this post can act as a guide to you to overcome this problem. First ...
Views: 1793(1 vote) - Winning Argument Positively - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Mervyn gohGrow Yourself By Learning how to win argument in a positive way There are always times in our life when we have differed in our opinions, thinkings and decisions with our people around us, like our loved ones, personal friends and colleagues at work. This is all how dis-agreement happens and ...
Views: 1873 - Attain Personal Growth by Getting Yourself Motivated - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Mervyn gohEmpower Yourself by Getting and Staying Motivated Have you ever set a Goal (like slimming regime, business plan) at one point and find yourself losing motivation at the other? If you recall, in life, you will be facing this type of happenings numerous times because giving up or quitting has ...
Views: 1312(2 votes) - Self Empowerment by Knowing the Danger of Selfishness - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Mervyn gohKnowing the danger of selfishness empower you to gain personal growth You must know the danger of selfishness because IT kills one's personality and spiritual growth if you are unaware. A self centered and selfish lives only for himself. He does not know beauty of loving and respecting ...
Views: 2718 - Personal Growth by Overcoming Jealousy and Selfishness - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment to Overcome The Cause of Jealousy - Selfishness Now, you know the dangers of selfishness and it is the cause of jealousy, while jealousy nurtures selfishness. Let's begin by a story of a snake. Once the tail and the head of a snake quarreled and fought over who should be ...
Views: 4481 - Self Empowerment by Winning over Worry - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Improvement by Overcoming Worry In this modern society, we are always being filled with negative energy like fear, stress, anxiety and worry. These energies will cause us to live in a tension and pressurized world and this is inescapable for anyone in the earth but the good news is that we ...
Views: 1136 - Indecisive Leads To Procrastination - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2011 from Mervyn gohBe Self Empowered To Overcome Procrastination Caused By Being Indecisive There are many factors that can cause people to procrastinate and one critical one among them is being indecisive in your decision making. Many people simply use up too much time trying to figure out and making decision on ...
Views: 3881 - Self Improvement by Learning Time Management - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2011 from Mervyn gohGrow yourself with time management Are you always late for work, miss project or task dateline? Are you always rushing and spending your day in frenzy activities, but at the end, you are always wondering why you did not achieve much? If this description fits you, then it is time for you to ...
Views: 1206 - Self Improvement by Learning Assertiveness - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf empowerment by empowering yourself with assertiveness Firstly, let’s look at what is assertiveness? Assertiveness is the capability to express how one feel and defend/fight for his rights while respecting the feelings and rights of others. Assertiveness is also often associated with ...
Views: 1271 - Self Empowerment With Positive Self Talk - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Mervyn gohPersonal development by learning positive self talk Have you ever wonder the reasons why some people are optimistic and some are pessimistic? The powerful influence that impacts one’s attitude and personalities is what you say to yourself and believe it. It is not what happens to you, but it ...
Views: 1309 - Stress Management To Empower Yourself - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Mervyn gohGain Personal Growth By Learning to Manage Stress Firstly, let us learn what stress is. Stress is the emotional and physical strain that is being triggered by our reaction towards the forceful pressure from our surrounding people and events. Some of the usual stress reactions comprise of ...
Views: 1243(1 vote) - The Power of Effective Eye Contact - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Mervyn gohEmpower yourself by learning the technique of effective eye contact To begin with, ask yourself one question, “What is the function of your eyes?” For me, the 2 inbuilt eyes from birth are intended to be used far more than the daily routine and inert viewing of objects, people and happenings ...
Views: 2195 - Detect Lies through Body Language - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2011 from Mervyn gohDetect Lies through Body Language Be self empowered to become a walking lie detector Before you proceed to read on this post, please kindly choose an option below: a. Do you want to know more about lie detecting techniques and accept the fact that there are a lot of liars around you in ...
Views: 2867 - Empowering Techniques to Induce Attraction - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment by establishing network, building friendship and creating intimacy Before we start, ask yourself this question, “Are you afraid of starting a conversation with a total stranger or even shiver when you think of it?” If you are, do not worry, you are not the only one in this ...
Views: 1787(6 votes) - Self Empowerment by Learning to Deal with Difficult People - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2011 from Mervyn gohGaining Personal Growth in Learning the Empowering Techniques of Dealing with Difficult People In our daily life, conflict and disagreements are unavoidable and there are often difficult people out there for you to deal with. Can you still recall when is the last time you deal with a difficult ...
Views: 1465(1 vote) - A Handshake does matters - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment by knowing the DO’S and DON’Ts of shaking hand Never underestimate a simple gesture like a handshake can play a major role in the influence on how other people look at you and in creating a positive first impression which impact the subsequent meeting. Basically, everyone ...
Views: 2086(1 vote) - Self Empowerment Techniques by Using Persuasive Language - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2011 from Mervyn gohPersuasive Language – Convince me In our everyday conversation, you are always engaged with the persuasion process no matter what you are doing. You will learn to appreciate the importance of the basic techniques of using persuasive language to success. Let’s go through the empowering ...
Views: 2648 - How To Love Someone? - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment by learning how to love someone Do you know how to love someone? If your answer is “Yes”, think carefully again whether is it you feel that the other party felt loved? For example, if you say the 3 magic words “I Love you” to your wife/girlfriend, you might feel that she will ...
Views: 1126 - Self Empowerment by Empowering Others - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Mervyn gohEmpower other people to empower yourself To empower people means to motivate and encourage them In this world, do you think you can become very successful without the help of the others? Of course not, you definitely need them. There are mainly 3 types of people you will need to fill them ...
Views: 1788 - Handling Objection Effectively to Empower Yourself - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Mervyn gohSelf empowerment by handling objection and rejection effectively In everyday life, we tend to receive more objections than acceptance, so it is important to learn how we can handle these negative feedbacks and turn it into a positive and empowering pointer in life. 5 empowering techniques to ...
Views: 1257 - Self Empowerment by Anger Management - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Mervyn gohEmpower yourself by controlling your anger before it control you Anger simply is an emotion signal send to you when negative or unfavorable events fall upon you and this happen too often in our daily life, either personal life or at work. Do you know what will be the consequence if you have ...
Views: 1361 - Why People Procrastinate – Indolence - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2011 from Mervyn gohOne of the key contributing factor of Procrastination – Indolence First of all, let’s understand what indolence is. It simply means laziness or disinclined to complete a task or activity, for instance, when you want to lose weight by doing routine exercise, you will delay this task by finding ...
Views: 3703(1 vote) - Ultimate Empowering Techniques in Building Self Confidence - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2011 from Mervyn gohWhat exactly is Self Confidence? Self-confidence is the conviction that you can cope with a particular situation correctly. Self-confidence is to know that you don’t lack of any of the necessary skills in order to successfully complete a task. How do we achieve it? Self Empowerment by ...
Views: 1185 - Taking Advantage Of Criticism To Empower You - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2011 from Mervyn gohUsing Criticism to be successful How do you deal with criticism when it happened to you? Do you feel like a sword piercing through your heart or feel empowered to accept the criticism and reflect the sword? Criticism is just like an intimidating double edge sword that can do harm or do good to ...
Views: 1129 - Self Empowerment By Goal Setting - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2011 from Mervyn gohFirst of all, Secret of Self Empowerment will like to take this chance to wish all readers a Happy New Year and an empowering fruitful year 2011 ahead. Time flies, a year has passed and have you pondered over what you have achieve over the past one year, are all your goals achieved with the ...
Views: 2095 - Self Empowerment With NLP Anchoring - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2011 from Mervyn gohEmpower yourself by learning NLP Anchoring Firstly, what is Anchoring? It is simply defined as a procedure where your memory and emotion bank are associated/anchored with some other resources in your sub-conscious mind, just like a ship being anchored to to a certain location. An anchor is ...
Views: 1983 - Never Give Out Negative Body Signal - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2010 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment by recognizing and avoiding negative body language signal Our body language mystically reveals far more information about our feeling than it is possible to convey verbally through conversation. All of the physical gestures we make are subconsciously interpreted by others and ...
Views: 1960(2 votes) - Self Empowerment By Overcoming Procrastination - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2010 from Mervyn gohEmpowering yourself to conquer procrastination What exactly is procrastination? Why can’t I follow Nike’s slogan “Just do it!”? When we fail to do something that we yearned to do but did not, we ask ourselves the question “Why can’t I just move my butt and DO it?” It just means the act of ...
Views: 1555(1 vote) - Decisive To Succeed - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2010 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment to be decisive to achieve success First of all, judge yourself and conclude what type of person you are. Are you one who make up a decision fast or someone who think for a long while but still cannot make up his mind? If you are in the later category, you have to change in ...
Views: 1248(1 vote) - Empowering Communication Techniques To Win People Over - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2010 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment with the Art of Communication Every communication that we make or bring across to the other parties is an ACTION, so communication is POWER. With this empowering tool of power, you can use it to influence people thought, feeling and action and win them over. Your level of ...
Views: 2150 - Empower Yourself By Mastering Negotiation Techniques - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2010 from Mervyn gohSelf Empowerment by negotiating to success In a nutshell, Negotiation simply means to coerce or persuade the other parties, either one person or many to nod and say “Yes”. It is an art of persuasion that can create significant value out from this course of action, for example if you are asking ...
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