Selfish behavior, as unhealthy as this might sound, often makes women feel attracted to you.

Sarcasm, ball busting, playing hard to get and all kinds of other "illogical" things really do work when it comes to attracting women.

But, then I had a dilemma...

I love the idea of being successful with women but, I hate the idea of mistreating people, being mean to them, lying and being misleading, etc.

Deep down, I wanted to be a good guy.

I decided that there must be a way to make this work, and to attract women without being abusive.

The good news is that there is a way.

But, it requires that you put aside your current ideas for just long enough to entertain some new ones.

First, let me say that I believe I've found a way to take the things that jerks do to attract women and use them without the abuse. When you learn to do this, you can really have the best of both worlds... you can be nice to women on your own terms, and give them what they really want, and what really attracts them.

So, why do women become attracted to jerks?

The short answer is that they don't choose it, it's something that just happens.

Attraction isn’t a choice.

It's an emotional response to certain things.

Women don't choose to feel the emotion called attraction for jerks any more than you choose to feel the emotion called attraction for young, beautiful, hard bodied women.

Nature has preprogrammed men with a mechanism that works like this:

See how women – feel attraction.

Well, women have a similar mechanism. But I think that the female version is more complex.

Yes, women do feel attraction for extremely handsome men... but they feel a much stronger attraction for certain personality traits and behaviors than they do for physical looks alone.

So, again the short answer is that it's just something that "happens" inside of a women. She doesn't "choose" it.

Author's Bio: 

Double Your Dating - What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Getting Women. David DeAngelo will show you the secrets that most men will never know about women. Improve your dating with David's dating tips and dating advice.