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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be Aware: When Your Desire for Love is Driven by Neediness & Dependency it Harms the Relationship

Introduction Many “fall for” others who are unavailable, giving themselves totally, as if there is no tomorrow, ignoring warning signs – even the most obvious ones – believing they have found “the love of their life”, only to become disillusioned time and again – and to jump in with another unavailable person. For as long as they are not aware of their need and dependency, they are not able to change, heal and develop a healthy intimacy. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

4 Guidelines 4 Your Success with Dating and Relationships

I am often surprised to see singles who shoot themselves in the foot in relationships for the simple reason that they are not tuned to themselves or to their date/partner. Time and again I see singles sating others who are incompatible to them. It is apparent to me that they are driven by needs which compel them to have a partner no matter what. If you are single and in the dating scene, wishing wholeheartedly to extend a date into a satisfying relationship, the 4 guidelines outlined here will enable you to stop sabotaging yourself and become able to develop a successful intimacy:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Let Your Anger Sabotage Your Relationships: Allow Yourself to Express it!

Anger is a natural emotion. However, there are those who, for one reason or another, don’t allow themselves to express it. By doing so they might harm their relationships. If you are a person who doesn’t express anger, you may want to understand why you don’t and teach yourself to express it when and if appropriate in your relationships. Are you a person who seldom expresses anger towards your partners? Do you often agree with whatever they want or do? Does it happen that when you disagree, you tend NOT to say so, in order to minimize conflicts?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,636 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Still Single? Stop Justifying Your Failures! Gain Self-Awareness and Develop a Successful Relationship

INTRODUCTION If you have been failing in your relationships time and again, you might have resorted to self-manipulations to justify to yourself why you fail. Instead of doing so, become aware of the true reasons behind your failures – and learn how to succeed! JUSTIFICATION YOU USE If you have been on the dating scene for quite a long time and haven’t yet had success in developing a satisfying relationship, it is very likely that you find different ways to justify it. You might be telling yourself that: * “It is all because of him/her”;

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,625 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Your Attitude to Love, Dating and Relationships is Crucial in Your Ability to Develop a Successful Intimacy

The attitude you have while going on dates is crucial to your succeeding or failing to extend a date to a meaningful relationship. The more you take the time to reflect upon your attitude this holiday season and realize whether it sabotages you or not, the more you can change and adopt a healthy one, constructive to finding a satisfying bond next year. YOUR PERCEPTION OF RELATIONSHIPS

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,619 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Falling in Love, Romance and Love Poems: Are They Possible via Long-Distance Chat?

Who doesn’t dream about falling in love, meeting “the one and only”, having a “once-of-a-life-time connection” like in the fairy tales, the movies, and TV series? At times the modern technology and the social-media provide all these. Just touch the key-board and YOU’RE CONNECTED! When such great love – as fantasized and dreamt about – materializes, you feel in heaven; you tell yourself: things couldn’t have gone better. You are so excited you want to run and sms all your friends. BUT IS IT REALLY “A DREAM COMES TRUE”? OR COULD IT BE THAT…

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,607 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Betrayal, Cheating, Trust & Forgiveness

Betrayal is a common occurrence. Research shows that a large proportion of partners betray their “loved ones”. A person thinking that his/her partner is “unique”, “special” and “exceptional” might stop thinking it after finding the partner has been unfaithful. After all, he/she has become “just like one of them”, hasn’t he/she? What follows is often sorrow, anger, sadness, confusion, self-doubt, blame, uncertainty, disillusion, and more.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,600 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Can Your Dreams about a Wonderful Intimate Relationship Materialize?

It is wonderful to dream and fantasize about a wonderful relationship with a wonderful person. Who wouldn’t want to be involved with a great intimacy? But often, when you meet someone, even if at the beginning of the relationship you believe you have indeed seen your dream come true, slowly but surely you begin to realize this is not the case. Reality is different. At the beginning you might try to ignore this fact, to claim that what you notice is only temporary and to hope that, eventually, all will go smoothly as per your dream.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,591 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Having a Partner & Being in an Intimate Relationship: Does it Bring More Happiness?

Is there a correlation between having a partner and being happy? Some believe that the “trick” to being happy is to have a relationship, as if it will solve all problems: depression, sadness, low self-esteem and so on. Having a relationship – so they believe – will make them satisfied and content. Those thinking that way often attempt various ways in order to find a partner. As if having one will alleviate all their problems. Unfortunately, things don’t work that way. The reasons are many:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,586 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

A Smart New Year Resolution: Develop Self-Awareness & Become Empowered to Have a Successful Intimate Relationship

STICK ON TO YOUR NEW YEAR RESOLUTION & BECOME ABLE TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP New-Year is a time for Resolutions. At times you promise yourself to do such and such in the coming year, but put this intention aside as soon as January 1 is over. The reason is that it is so easy and simple to just continue with things as they are, even if they don’t take you to where you want to be. However, you can promise yourself that, when it comes to a relationship, you will stick to your resolution. Consequently: If you truly wish to develop a successful relationship next year, and:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,573 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t You At Times Wish that Your Relationship with Your Partner Will be as Good as the One You Have with Your Friend?

Have you ever wished that your relationship with your partner will be at a similar level of friendship like the one you have with your closest friend? That with him you would be able to talk about everything in the open, like really two soul-mates? Hellas, this is often not the case. And when you attempt to bring your relationship with him to such a level (after all, what is intimacy if not just that?) you are often being rejected for your attempts and “ideas”.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,563 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Using “Stay-Over Relationships” to Find a Partner & Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

A “new trend” in dating is on the rise: “THE STAY-OVER RELATIONSHIP”. Men & women pack up their bag and “move in” with their date (“partner”) for two or three days. If you are taking part in this new trend you can make use of your “stay-over relationships” for your personal growth and self-empowerment. How? By taking the time to become aware of what is important for you in relationships. This will empower you to eventually find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying, long-term intimacy. Why? The reasons might be many and varied from one individual to another:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,561 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Stuck in an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship? Here are 3 Routes for you to Consider

The increasing number of separations and divorce is an indication that many are not satisfied with their relationships. Yet, those who stay in an unsatisfying relationship might have reasons for doing so. Whatever the reasons are, there are at least 3 routes to making a change. Reasons for staying in an unsatisfying relationship 1. Making a change might be very stressful. You know what you now have, but don’t know what you’ll have if and when you separate.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,540 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Afraid to Develop Self-Awareness? Fail in Your Relationships? Combat the Fear and Develop a Successful Relationship

There are many who, in spite of failing in their relationship over and over and again, are afraid to develop self-awareness and understand what makes them fail. This is unfortunate, since it is only when they will develop Self-Awareness and understand how they shoot themselves in the foot in relationships that they will be able to change whatever needs change and become empowered to cultivate a successful intimacy. WHAT IS SELF-AWARENESS?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,538 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be “The Artist” of Your Relationships Success Story: “Do” Dating and Relationships YOUR way!

If you are trying for a long time now to find a partner (if you are still single) with whom to develop a successful relationship, or to develop a satisfying one (if you already have a partner), but are unsuccessful – you are not alone. Many do! And like many others you are probably doing whatever many others do: you read advice columns about dating and relationships; you listen to various tips about “how to date”; “how to make a relationship work”; “how to communicate”, and so on and so forth: the sky’s the limit.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,534 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Have a Burnout from Dating? Take the Time during the Holidays to Heal

Introduction

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,526 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Should You Stay or Should You Leave an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship?

Introduction Whether you decide to stay in an unsatisfying intimate relationship or leave is up to you. But you can make a proper decision only when you are aware of your fears and needs, of what might keep you hanging on to a partner which is not for you, in a relationship which is not healthy and satisfying. Only then you become able to make a conscious decision one way or another. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,505 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

“Loving Your Partner” or “Loving Too Much” Determines Whether the Relationship Fails or Succeeds

You may see yourself as someone who loves “taking care” of your partner. You do “all you can” to pamper, give and be there for him/her. But is it really “love” or are you driven by insecurity and a deep unconscious need to be loved? “LOVING” and “LOVING TOO MUCH” Do you, each time you begin a relationship, immediately begin taking care of your partner? That he’d eats properly; dresses properly; that he remembers his appointments? Do you, in spite of all this caring, are surprised to find yourself, time and again, abandoned and alone?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,503 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Relationships Advice: Cultivating an Intimate Relationship is like Taking Care of Precious Plants

There are those who are so talented at taking care of plants that whichever plant they care for will grow and live forever. But when it comes to cultivating a relationship with a partner, the story is different. Is there anything they can do to change this situation?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,498 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Capable of Leaving an Unsatisfying Intimacy when You Realize the Relationship Isn’t Good Enough?

I once heard someone describing her wish to separate from her partner in the following words: “I’m in the departure lounge at the airport… there’s some waiting before take-off…there might even be some delay…”. She already knew she should separate, but still hesitated about doing it and decided to delay and postpone the moment. I must say to her credit that she found a very original way to talk about it. She’s already made a decision to leave, yet postponed the execution until sometime later. How “later” she didn’t say. What could be the reasons for her indecision?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,495 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Valentine’s Day Advice: Expecting Your Partner to Read Your Mind Might Sabotage Your Relationships

A close relationship is something we all desire: to feel we are “one” with our partner; that we know each other as well as knowing ourselves; that we can communicate without words, like with a telepathic connection. But if we expect this to be the rule – rather than the exception - we might harm our relationships. In this sense Valentine’s Day – as much as it connotes love – might be a “dangerous” and “risky” day for lovers who expect too much. EXPECTING YOUR PARTNER TO READ YOUR MIND IS HARMFUL TO THE RELATIONSHIP

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,487 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Self-Awareness or Attraction and Desire: Which is More Important for a Successful Intimate Relationship?

Many believe that attraction and desire are some of the most important ingredients of a successful relationship. But a less-known concept – Self-Awareness – is vital to the maintenance of a long-term healthy and satisfying intimacy. INGREDIENT OF A GOOD RELATIONSHIP Many perceive sexual attraction to be an uttermost important ingredient of a good relationship: the partners feel attracted to one another; they touch and kiss and make love; they hold each other tight and can’t separate even for a minute; they cuddle into each other’s arms and sleep and dream together.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,485 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be “The Artist” of Your Relationship Success Story

You may be trying for a long time now to find a partner (if you are still single) with whom to develop a successful relationship, or to develop a satisfying one (if you already have a partner). In order to succeed you have probably read advice columns about dating and relationships. Listened to various tips about “how to date”, “how to make a relationship work”, “how to communicate”, and so on and so forth. In most likelihood you did what is “customary” to do; whatever everybody else is doing in their search for a relationship, and did NOT do what others don’t.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,480 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Combat the Fear of Being Alone and Become Empowered to Develop a Healthy and Successful Intimate Relationship

The best way to talk about the damage that the fear of being alone causes to those “infected” by it is by bringing up a real-life-anecdote: REBECCA Every evening, instead of going home after a busy day at work, Rebecca meets men on blind dates. What would she do all alone at home anyway? Read a book? Watch television? The emptiness of her apartment terrifies her. Even if she'll try to read a book or watch TV, she won’t be able to concentrate, because her mind is constantly busy with finding a partner. Explanation:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,479 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Find a Partner and Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

The one-million dollar question is: what does it take to find a suitable partner and cultivate a truly successful relationship? My simple answer is: it takes SELF-AWARENESS: identifying and understanding what stands in your way from succeeding. You might be surprised to find out that if you haven’t been successful until now in cultivating a satisfying intimate relationship, it might be YOU who stands in your way! You might be sabotaging your relationships without even knowing that you do! Here are three examples: 1. JUMPING FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,477 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Developing Self-Awareness Enables You to Understand How You Harm Your Relationships – and Change

It is very likely that your attitudes, reactions and behaviors in a relationship harm it, causing conflicts and arguments. Often, you don’t even know that that’s the case. When your relationship fails, you tend to blame your partners. Developing Self-Awareness will help you notice that many of your reactions and behaviors are UNCONSCIOUS. When you understand it you become free to choose CONSCIOUS WAYS OF REACTION AND BEHAVIOR, vital to cultivating a successful relationship. DO WE REALLY KNOW "WHO WE ARE”?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,476 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Rushing to Find a Partner by Christmas Might Mislead You. Be Careful Not to Shoot Yourself in the Foot!

INTRODUCTION As long as you run the dating-marathon in order to have a relationship by Christmas rather than taking the time to contemplate you past failures and learn what to change, you might fail once again! DON’T SHOOT YOURSELF IN THE FOOT!

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,469 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Self-Observation, Acceptance of What You Notice and Motivation to Change Place You on the Road to a Successful Intimate Relationship

It is safe to assume that no one has ever taught you the importance of SELF-OBSERVATION: how to look inwards, contemplate your thoughts, feelings, reactions and behaviors. Observation will help you pay attention to your reactions and behaviors with your partners and become aware of the ways in which you sabotage your relationships. IN WHICH SITUATIONS CAN YOU OBSERVE YOURSELF?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,463 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Predict Your Success or Failure with Relationships – and Make the Best to Succeed!

Serious researchers are looking for ways to predict and identify future criminals. Research has shown that criminals serving time for violent acts have already shown violent tendencies in elementary school. By the same token, studies comparing introverts and extroverts have found that such tendencies are already settled in the mother’s womb. Following in the line of such research, the question therefore is: Can you predict your success or failure with relationships based on your past experiences? IT IS POSSIBLE TO PREDICT FUTURE BEHAVIORS?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,452 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Ensure Personal Growth and a Satisfying Relationship: Getting in Touch with Your Shadow is a Great Beginning!

We all like to think we have only “good”, “nice”, “elegant”, “friendly” traits. While trying to present a nice “face” to ourselves and our partners, we repress and deny other traits of us, which we think carry “negative” connotations; which are not “socially accepted”; which might bring us shame, contempt, and rejection; which might make it difficult for us to find a partner and develop an intimate relationship.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,450 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Alone During the Holidays? Take the Time to Heal Yourself and Become Able to Develop a Successful Relationship Next Year

It always amazes me to see the ways in which people attempt to ensure they have someone to spend the holidays with. Some SINGLES vehemently look for a partner right before the holidays in order to escape being alone while “everybody else is with loved ones”. Those in a RELATIONSHIP often decide to stay in it, even if it’s an unsatisfying one, in order to have a “partner” during the Holidays – secretly intending to leave right after.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,446 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How & Why Does Self-Awareness Enable You to Succeed with Your Relationships: Two Examples

INTRODUCTION It isn’t easy to change habits. But when it comes to intimate relationships, sticking-on to your habits is a sure way to fail. When you understand your habits, realize the damage they cause to your relationships and make the necessary effort to change them, you increase your chances of developing a successful relationship. HABITS MIGHT HARM YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,441 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Mindfulness, Self-Awareness & Intimacy: How to Become Empowered to Develop a Successful Relationship

Introduction When you get up the courage and the motivation to go through the process of mindfulness, observe, pay attention, become aware and accept what you see, the more self-understanding and personal-growth you gain, and the more empowered you become to develop a successful intimate relationship. ** Mindfulness and Intimate Relationships Mindfulness means: you pay attention to and are aware of whatever happens within you regarding your life and relationships.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,441 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Spying on Your Partner OR Learning about Yourself: Which one is Better in the Long Run?

Partners’ spying on each other is not a new phenomenon. What is new is the “James Bond” techniques they use. In different stores in Manhattan you can find, these days, various devises to spy on your “loved one”: a pen, glasses, a key-chain, a tie, a watch, a clock, even a teddy bear - all of which look like ordinary ones. But they are more than the eye can see!

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,438 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Single & Dating? Note that People Who Are Separated or “In the Process” Might Not Be “Available” for a Serious Relationship

If you are taking part in the dating scene you have probably met many who claim to be in the process of divorce/separation or declare that they have just recently separated. Agreeing to go out with them under the assumption that a satisfying relationship might develop is, in most likelihood, a wishful thinking, ending up in your being frustrated, angry at yourself, disillusioned and alone. Taking care of your own self-development is a time better spent than going out with them. WHY IS IT BETTER FOR YOU TO NOT GO OUT WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE JUST SEPARATED OR “IN THE PROCESS”?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Deciding to Stop Failing in Your Relationships is a Wise Decision: Make the Necessary Changes and Win!

Introduction The decision to keep failing in your relationships and suffer the painful consequences, or get up the courage to acknowledge what makes you fail and become able to eventually have the relationship you so much desire is yours, and yours alone! **r

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,422 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Why Many Who Fail in Their Relationships Don’t Develop Awareness to Understand Why They Fail?

Many who fail in their relationships don’t take the time to develop their Self-Awareness and understand the reasons for their failure. Why don’t they? Many think they know themselves well enough to be able to cultivate and maintain a “good” relationship (whatever they mean by “good”). They think they know how to be and behave in a relationship. Therefore, if the relationship fails, it is not them, but their partners’ fault! They think that “loving a lot” is the secret for a satisfying long-term bond.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Freeing Yourself from Harmful Behaviors within the Relationship Enables You to Succeed with Your Intimacy

As much as you might want to have a successful, healthy and satisfying relationship, and as much you think you do “all you can” in order to have one, you might still, unconsciously, react and behave in ways which hurt your bond. This is normal and humane, and many share this problem. The reason being, that you, like many others, might not have the courage to be authentic, to voice your needs and wishes. You might prefer to “be there” for your partners (or dates), to “agree” and succumb to whatever they request and expect.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,417 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Research Shows that Couples Are Usually Happier tha Singles. If You Are Single Wanting a Relationship, Why Are You Still Alone?

You may have heard experts saying that couples usually feel happier in their life then singles. Indeed, studies show that in spite of the escalating number of divorces and separations, 80% of young adults still say they are looking forward to a good marriage (or living together), a satisfying long-term relationship and sharing life together. Research conducted in different countries, including the USA and European countries, has shown that good marriage makes the partners happier, healthier and financially richer.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,416 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Why Do You Fall Time & Again for Prospective Partners whom You Should Have Never Dated?

You might have heard the following from your friend: “Have I known it ahead of time, I wouldn’t even begun going out with him” . The question is: was it possible for her to know it ahead of time? And the answer is: it depends. It depends on signs and hints she might have noticed. On her intuition. And on her prior experiences. The problem is that there are those who never learn. Neither from mistakes nor from experiences.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,414 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be Aware: Self-Sacrifice, Neediness and “Being there” for Your Partner Might Harm Your Relationships

If you are single looking for a partner and your friends ask: “Do you want a relationship?” you certainly answer affirmatively. But often, once you have one, something odd happens: you give up and ignore your own will. You tell yourself: “I have a relationship - and that’s what matters! Do you think that nothing in life is more important than a relationship? Jane’s story

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Self-manipulations, Justifications and Explanations Singles Use to Justify their Failed Relationships

During my many years of experience with Self-Awareness and Relationships I’ve witnessed often how many people use self-manipulations to justify to themselves why they AREN’T successful in developing an intimate relationship. These justifications apparently help them feel “good” about themselves. Unfortunately, by doing so they hinder their attempts to cultivate the relationship they hope for. Becoming aware of their self-manipulations and honest with themselves is therefore essential. JUSTIFICATIONS SINGLES USE: A SAMPLEr

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You a Single Mother In Search for a Partner? Awareness is Vital to Your Success

Introduction Single mothers who wish to find a partner with whom to develop a serious and successful relationship need to be aware of their expectations and needs and share these with the prospective partner. If he will do likewise they increase the likelihood of becoming able to develop and nurture a satisfying intimacy. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be Aware: Traits You Deny and Reject in You, You Project onto Your Partners and Sabotage Your Relationships

There are many traits you are NOT AWARE of which control your attitudes, thinking, reactions and behaviors in your relationships. These usually are traits which you perceive to be “negative”; which you are afraid might bring criticism upon you; disrespect; rejection and abandonment.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Perceive Yourself to be a “Special” Person, therefore Not Succeeding at Having an Intimate Relationship?

If you are unsuccessful in developing an intimate relationship you might – like many others - perceive yourself as being “particular” – hereby justifying to yourself the fact that you are unsuccessful. But the fact of the matter is, “particular” are those who are willing to develop Self-Awareness, figure out how they have harmed their attempts at relationships until now and take the necessary steps to change. What does “particular” mean?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be Your Own Relationships’ Coach and Become Empowered to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

Engaging coaches in your personal and professional life has become a trend: more and more seek the advice and services of one coach or another, be it for lack of time, lack of experience, inability to make the right choices by yourself or just a symbol of status (just like having a personal psychologist, lawyer and accountant). But when it comes to relationships – whether you have a partner and are dissatisfied or are looking for a partner - do you really need a personal coach? Does the coach know something you don’t? Can the coach really help you in ways you cannot help yourself?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Authentic? Learn Why Authenticity is Essential for a Successful Intimate Relationship!

A major component of successful intimate relationship is authenticity: when you are “who you are”, true to yourself and genuine, you can develop, nurture and maintain a healthy and satisfying intimacy. But many fail in their relationships because they are NOT authentic. Getting up the courage to embark on developing your Self-Awareness and on making the necessary change to becoming authentic is the one sure thing which will lead you to finding and developing the successful intimacy you so much desire. The reasons are obvious. When you are authentic:

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

A Couple Coming towards Each Other: Enhancing Intimacy through Self-Awareness

It often happens that couple’s intimacy experiences difficulties for the simple reason that the partners don’t know, or are unwilling, to come towards one another. Each believes his/her way of thinking and doing things is “the right way”. In addition, women in general often feel they are not loved; men often feel they are being criticized. Becoming aware of how all these hinder your intimacy will enable you to come towards each other and “help” your partner feel loved, understood and accepted.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Change from Being Single & Alone to Having a Satisfying Intimate Relationship

Introduction If you are without a relationship for a long time now, you might consider yourself “a loneliness expert”. Indeed, such an option is always available. But before you decide to adapt such an “expertise” you can choose another option: to look inwards, find out things about yourself you might not have known until now, make the necessary changes which will enable you, with your renewed motivation, persistency and dedication, to “go out there” and eventually find a partner with whom to develop a successful relationship. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Aware that You Might Be Sabotaging Your Relationships?

We all want to think we know ourselves well enough. That we know who we are, what kind of a relationship we want to have and how to behave with our partner. In all likelihood you are no exception. Yet there might be some things about yourself that you DON’T know. Unfortunately, these “things” might cause you to sabotage your relationships time and again – without you knowing that you do.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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