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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Become Aware of Your Perception of Reality: Don’t Let it Harm Your Relationships

INTRODUCTION You and your partner react and behave in your relationship each from your own Perception of Reality – your personal view point of how things “should be”. Your perceptions are affected by many factors you have internalized over the years while growing up. As long as you are NOT able to be flexible and accept each other’s point of view, you are likely to find yourselves in endless conflicts, arguments and frustrations. YOUR PERCEPTION OF REALITY AFFECTS YOUR INTERACTIONS

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Reflecting on Your Intimate Relationship & Your On-going Issues with Your Partner Can Help & Improve Your Bond

Sometimes, as you wonder about your relationship with your partner, you might wonder how it goes with others’ relationships: Are your issues similar to theirs? How do others combat, struggle with and solve their problems? How happy others are? How often do they make love – and whether whatever you are going through with your own partner is “normal”, is “o.k.”, and acceptable.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Turn a Failed Relationship into a Successful One: Self-Awareness is the Answer

INTRODUCTION It isn’t easy to change habits. But when it comes to intimate relationships, sticking-on to your habits is a sure way to fail. When you understand your habits, realize the damage they cause to your relationships and make the necessary effort to change them, you increase your chances of developing a successful relationship. HABITS MIGHT HARM YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Healing after a Failed Relationship: Learn how Self-Awareness Enables You to Heal & to Move Forward

If you have a number of failed relationships behind you, it is very likely that you feel wounded, depressed, despaired and lonely. In order to become empowered to develop a healthy and satisfying relationship you first need to heal these wounds. This is possible when you become aware of what it is that makes you fail in the first place.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Self-Awareness is at the Core of Self-Growth, Self-Improvement and Self-Empowerment

Self-Growth, Self-Improvement and Self-Empowerment are three concepts which go hand in hand. When you embark on any one of them, you’re actually embarking on all three simultaneously. You are then on the path to having a much better personal and professional life and relationships. It says about Noah that he brought to the ark all animals in couples. But there are things which come in triples, such as SELF-GROWTH, SELF-IMPROVEMENT and SELF-EMPOWEREMENT. The three go hand in hand, and the longer you tread their path, the more they will unite and become ONE.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

When You Overcome Your “Fear of Change” You Become Able to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

You might be controlled by the fear of change. When you have a relationship that isn’t satisfying, you’re afraid to make changes or leave and give up the known and familiar, fearing pain and others’ reactions. When single, you hesitate to look for a partner out of fear of changing a way of life you have grown accustomed to and facing an unknown, uncertain situation. When you become aware of the fears which withhold you from making a change and overcome them, you become empowered to move forward, find and develop a satisfying intimate relationship.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Stop Sabotaging Your Relationships! Learn How and Develop a Successful Intimacy

If you desire to have a satisfying intimate relationship but haven’t been successful until now, you can probably “predict”, your chances at success next time around based on your past experiences. In all likelihood, if you have failed until now, there is no reason to believe you will succeed next time – unless you make changes vital for a successful relationship. But as long as you are NOT aware of what makes you fail, how would you know what you need to change in order to succeed? EXAMPLES OF MEN AND WOMEN SABOTAGING THEIR RELATIONSHIPS

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Let Your Belief-System Hurt You & Sabotage Your Relationships

It is being said that having a belief-system is good: it is something which directs you; guides your actions; motivates you to know how to go about feel you know how to move forward with life. But if your belief-system controls your attitudes and behviors without you being aware of it, you are in danger of sabotaging your relationships.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Being Authentic on First Date: Can it Lead to Developing a Successful Intimate Relationship?

Introduction Even if you perceive yourself to be an open, honest and authentic person, if you are not alert to your date and don’t keep any boundaries during first date, you might sabotage any possibility of extending the date into a relationship. Being an open person doesn’t mean you don’t have to take things more slowly, go with the flow and the process of getting to know your date. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Wearing a Mask of “A Loving Person” Sabotages Your Relationships

INTRODUCTION When you are “there” 100% for your partner – are you there because this is “who you really are”, or this is a mask you hope will get you love, appreciation and attention? Knowing the difference between the two is important for your relationship. DO YOU WEAR A MASK - NOT ONLY ON HALLOWEEN? There are many who wear masks on Halloween. And there are many who wear masks all year round – without even knowing that they do.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Getting to Know Yourself is the Best Way to Succeed in Developing a Satisfying Intimate Relationship

If you are single and on the dating scene wishing to find a partner with whom to develop a successful relationship, you have probably listened to and practiced many dating-tips you read in advice columns, found on the internet and received from friends, such as: * Write the perfect profile * Enrol on several internet sites * Develop communication skills * Learn how to listen * Make a list of what you are looking for in a partner * Go on as many dates as you can *Don’t try to show the best “you” on first date

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Longing: Who Do You Long For After Separation?

Longing for your partner can fill you with joy, good thoughts and anticipation. There is someone to long for; to write poems to; to dream about at night. But if your partner is no longer there, longing can make you sad and melancholic, arousing the feeling of loneliness. But who are you actually longing for? The following short story – or shall we call it “a real life anecdote” – tries to answer this question. It might have happened to you – or to people you know. LONGING After longing for him so much, she didn’t understand where her longing had vanished to.r

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Needing Love & Being Desperate and Dependent Might Kill Your Relationships

Introduction If you are driven by neediness and dependency you might be “pushed” into unhealthy, even abusive relationships. These might bring uncomfortable, terrible consequences in terms of depression, feelings of worthlessness and of loneliness. Becoming aware of your needs and conquering them will enable you to find and develop a satisfying and healthy intimacy. **r

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Release Yourself from Your Inner-Prison and Make Conscious Decisions about Your Life and Relationships

Bradley Manning, a 23 year old American soldier is in prison for leaking “SECRET INFORMATION” (250 thousand documents) to WikiLeaks. Some say he is a courageous man and call him a hero; others say he is a traitor.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Change the Way You Do “The Dating-Game”- and Succeed in Developing an Intimate Relationship

INTRODUCTION If you have been in the dating-game for quite a long time now and still are not successful to develop a successful intimate relationship, maybe it’s time for you to change tactics. Having the courage to do things differently may prove to be “the right way” to succeed in finding a partner and developing the relationship you so much desire. HAVE YOU BEEN TRYING TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP – BUT FAILED TIME AND AGAIN?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How do Stinginess, Jealousy & Unfaithfulness & the Need for Control Harm Your Relationships?

Denying traits, emotions and behaviors and projecting them onto your partner sabotages your relationships. As long as you are not aware of this being the case you will continue harm your relationships time and again. Becoming aware is therefore the key to change. Here are three examples of the damage denials and projections cause to the relationship. Meanness & stinginess Example

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Develop Self-Awareness & Succeed with Your Relationships 2: The Importance of Observing Yourself

INTRODUCTION Observing yourself enables you to become aware of your thoughts, feelings, attitudes, reactions and behaviors in relationships (or in staying single). You can then understand how these drive you to sabotage your relationships. This enables you to make the necessary changes and develop a satisfying intimacy.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Letting Go of an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship: Why Many Don’t Have the Courage for & why it is Healthy and Important

At times, letting go is very healthy. Yet there are many who don’t have the courage to let go, and they resort to various reasons and justifications to explain – to themselves and to others – why they stay stuck in a bad relationship. While staying they might be “obsessed” about their partner, constantly lingering what to do, whether to stay or leave, what to expect, how to improve the relationship – if at all possible, trying to figure out what they have done wrong, feeling shame, pain and frustration. Why many don’t let go of a bad relationship?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Can You Blame “The Other Sex” for Your Failed Relationships?

If you have been trying for a long time now to have a satisfying intimacy and didn’t succeed, it is very likely that you fail due to lack of Self-Awareness: you don’t understand how you shoot yourself in the foot. Developing Self-Awareness will enable you to realize a host of factors which drive you to harm your relationships, de-activate the power these factors exert over you and become empowered to develop a successful and satisfying relationship.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Does the “Fear of Letting Go” Withhold You from Changing an Unsatisfying Relationship?

Whether you are single wishing to develop a relationship or have a relationship wishing to change or end it, changing the situation you are in involves taking a risk. The Fear of Letting Go might withhold you from taking such a risk since it makes you anxious about an uncertain future. But the only way to get out of an unsatisfying situation is to get up the courage to make a change. STAYING IN AN UNSATISFYING SITUATION You might be single wishing to enter a relationship but are afraid to develop one due to the fear of losing your independence, fear of being hurt or other fears.r

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Your “Self-Awareness Score” is Directly Linked to Your Ability to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

Many who fail to cultivate a successful relationship often ask me “What’s the secret to succeeding”. As I explain to them that “the secret” is Self-Awareness, they often are surprised. They admit they have heard many “tips” and “words of wisdom” how to go about developing a satisfying relationship, but Self-Awareness? No, this is something they have never thought about. LET ME THEN EXPLAIN TO YOU WHAT I MEAN BY SAYING THAT “THE SECRET TO BEING ABLE TO CULTIVATE A SUCCESSFUL REALTIONSHIP DEPENDS ON YOUR SELF-AWARENESS SCORE”

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Sacrifice Yourself for a Partner and a Relationship: It Will Only Cause You Harm

You will be amazed to realize what people do for love. Some sacrifice themselves on the “altar of a relationship”, some are involved with dangerous and stupid “adventures”. But whatever others do, what is important is that you know yourself and know what you are willing, or unwilling, to do “for love”. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Let Your Expectations about Your Partner & Relationship Harm You Just Before the Holidays!

EXPECTATIONS ABOUT PARTNERS AND RELATIONSHIPS We all have expectations about partners and relationships, and this is natural. However, if you hold on to unrealistic expectations hoping that they will be fulfilled, you are likely to harm your relationships. Becoming aware of your expectations and the way they influence your reactions and behaviors enables you to develop better relationships. EXPECTING THAT “ALL YOUR DREAMS WILL COME TRUE” IS A RECEIPT FOR FAILURE

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

A Successful Intimate Relationship Depends on Being Aware

INTRODUCTION We all like to think that we are logical, rational human beings. But many of our reactions and behaviors are driven by factors we NOT aware of – leading us to harm our relationships. Developing Self-Awareness paves the way to a successful intimacy. ARE WE RATIONAL HUMAN BEINGS?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be Authentic! This is a MUST if You Want to Succeed Having an Intimate Relationship

Being authentic is a MUST in order to develop a successful intimate relationship. Unfortunately, not many are authentic. In this article I explain why it is so difficult for so many to be authentic, and what you can do to enhance your authenticity and thereby your relationships. WHAT DOES “BEING AUTHENTIC” MEAN? Being authentic means being yourself; being “who you really are”. It means, entering a relationship without wearing masks. Be true and honest with yourself as well as with your partner about your needs and expectations, true intentions and hopes. WHY ARE MANY not AUTHENTIC?r

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Single & Dating Yet Failing to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship? Learn What Stands in Your Way

Many singles are trying various ways to find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying intimate relationship: enroll on dating sites, seek the help of a “dating coach”, attend workshops on the subject, read books on relationships and seek relationship advice in different jou als and internet sites. Yet, may are unsuccessful in seeing their dream of a satisfying relationship comes true. Why is it so? Why do many, in spite of their longing to have a partner and develop a successful intimate relationship, find themselves, time and again, unhappy and disappointed, or simply alone?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

10 New-Year Resolutions Which Will Enable You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship Next Year

If you wish wholeheartedly to succeed in cultivating a successful intimate relationship but haven’t been able to doing so this year, here are10 New Year Resolutions which, if you decide to adopt and follow, will empower you to develop the relationship you so much desire: 1. TAKE TIME OFF from running endlessly from one date to another. 2. HONESTELY CONTEMPLATE the reasons which might have caused your relationships to fail this year. 3. ASK YOURSELF QUESTIONS you may not have asked before, such as:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Self-Awareness: the Key to Understanding How You Sabotage Your Relationships and How to Change

Trying to develop an intimate relationship but failing time after time is a hint that something you do harms your attempts. Taking a careful look at what this “something” is will enable you to (finally) stop harming your relationships and develop the bond you desire. SELF-AWARENESS IS THE KEY TO UNDERSTANDING HOW YOU SABOTAGE YOUR REALTIONSHIPS Developing Self-Awareness is the best way to go about finding out how you sabotage your relationships. Being aware enables you to decide what needs change, and how to change. DEVELOPING SELF-AWARENESS CONSISTS OF 3 IMPORTANT STEPS:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Stop Deceiving Yourself about Intimacy: Facing Reality will Lead You to a Successful Relationship

Introduction There are those who, regardless of how many relationships they have attempted to develop, are failing time and again. Waking-up to face reality is not easy. But it is only when they become willing to look inwards; acknowledge that something must be wrong with the way they approach relationships that they can make the necessary changes leading to success. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be Aware: When Your Desire for Love is Driven by Neediness & Dependency it Harms the Relationship

Introduction Many “fall for” others who are unavailable, giving themselves totally, as if there is no tomorrow, ignoring warning signs – even the most obvious ones – believing they have found “the love of their life”, only to become disillusioned time and again – and to jump in with another unavailable person. For as long as they are not aware of their need and dependency, they are not able to change, heal and develop a healthy intimacy. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

4 Guidelines 4 Your Success with Dating and Relationships

I am often surprised to see singles who shoot themselves in the foot in relationships for the simple reason that they are not tuned to themselves or to their date/partner. Time and again I see singles sating others who are incompatible to them. It is apparent to me that they are driven by needs which compel them to have a partner no matter what. If you are single and in the dating scene, wishing wholeheartedly to extend a date into a satisfying relationship, the 4 guidelines outlined here will enable you to stop sabotaging yourself and become able to develop a successful intimacy:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Let Your Anger Sabotage Your Relationships: Allow Yourself to Express it!

Anger is a natural emotion. However, there are those who, for one reason or another, don’t allow themselves to express it. By doing so they might harm their relationships. If you are a person who doesn’t express anger, you may want to understand why you don’t and teach yourself to express it when and if appropriate in your relationships. Are you a person who seldom expresses anger towards your partners? Do you often agree with whatever they want or do? Does it happen that when you disagree, you tend NOT to say so, in order to minimize conflicts?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Still Single? Stop Justifying Your Failures! Gain Self-Awareness and Develop a Successful Relationship

INTRODUCTION If you have been failing in your relationships time and again, you might have resorted to self-manipulations to justify to yourself why you fail. Instead of doing so, become aware of the true reasons behind your failures – and learn how to succeed! JUSTIFICATION YOU USE If you have been on the dating scene for quite a long time and haven’t yet had success in developing a satisfying relationship, it is very likely that you find different ways to justify it. You might be telling yourself that: * “It is all because of him/her”;

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Falling in Love, Romance and Love Poems: Are They Possible via Long-Distance Chat?

Who doesn’t dream about falling in love, meeting “the one and only”, having a “once-of-a-life-time connection” like in the fairy tales, the movies, and TV series? At times the modern technology and the social-media provide all these. Just touch the key-board and YOU’RE CONNECTED! When such great love – as fantasized and dreamt about – materializes, you feel in heaven; you tell yourself: things couldn’t have gone better. You are so excited you want to run and sms all your friends. BUT IS IT REALLY “A DREAM COMES TRUE”? OR COULD IT BE THAT…

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Betrayal, Cheating, Trust & Forgiveness

Betrayal is a common occurrence. Research shows that a large proportion of partners betray their “loved ones”. A person thinking that his/her partner is “unique”, “special” and “exceptional” might stop thinking it after finding the partner has been unfaithful. After all, he/she has become “just like one of them”, hasn’t he/she? What follows is often sorrow, anger, sadness, confusion, self-doubt, blame, uncertainty, disillusion, and more.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Can Your Dreams about a Wonderful Intimate Relationship Materialize?

It is wonderful to dream and fantasize about a wonderful relationship with a wonderful person. Who wouldn’t want to be involved with a great intimacy? But often, when you meet someone, even if at the beginning of the relationship you believe you have indeed seen your dream come true, slowly but surely you begin to realize this is not the case. Reality is different. At the beginning you might try to ignore this fact, to claim that what you notice is only temporary and to hope that, eventually, all will go smoothly as per your dream.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Having a Partner & Being in an Intimate Relationship: Does it Bring More Happiness?

Is there a correlation between having a partner and being happy? Some believe that the “trick” to being happy is to have a relationship, as if it will solve all problems: depression, sadness, low self-esteem and so on. Having a relationship – so they believe – will make them satisfied and content. Those thinking that way often attempt various ways in order to find a partner. As if having one will alleviate all their problems. Unfortunately, things don’t work that way. The reasons are many:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

A Smart New Year Resolution: Develop Self-Awareness & Become Empowered to Have a Successful Intimate Relationship

STICK ON TO YOUR NEW YEAR RESOLUTION & BECOME ABLE TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP New-Year is a time for Resolutions. At times you promise yourself to do such and such in the coming year, but put this intention aside as soon as January 1 is over. The reason is that it is so easy and simple to just continue with things as they are, even if they don’t take you to where you want to be. However, you can promise yourself that, when it comes to a relationship, you will stick to your resolution. Consequently: If you truly wish to develop a successful relationship next year, and:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t You At Times Wish that Your Relationship with Your Partner Will be as Good as the One You Have with Your Friend?

Have you ever wished that your relationship with your partner will be at a similar level of friendship like the one you have with your closest friend? That with him you would be able to talk about everything in the open, like really two soul-mates? Hellas, this is often not the case. And when you attempt to bring your relationship with him to such a level (after all, what is intimacy if not just that?) you are often being rejected for your attempts and “ideas”.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Using “Stay-Over Relationships” to Find a Partner & Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

A “new trend” in dating is on the rise: “THE STAY-OVER RELATIONSHIP”. Men & women pack up their bag and “move in” with their date (“partner”) for two or three days. If you are taking part in this new trend you can make use of your “stay-over relationships” for your personal growth and self-empowerment. How? By taking the time to become aware of what is important for you in relationships. This will empower you to eventually find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying, long-term intimacy. Why? The reasons might be many and varied from one individual to another:

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Stuck in an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship? Here are 3 Routes for you to Consider

The increasing number of separations and divorce is an indication that many are not satisfied with their relationships. Yet, those who stay in an unsatisfying relationship might have reasons for doing so. Whatever the reasons are, there are at least 3 routes to making a change. Reasons for staying in an unsatisfying relationship 1. Making a change might be very stressful. You know what you now have, but don’t know what you’ll have if and when you separate.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Afraid to Develop Self-Awareness? Fail in Your Relationships? Combat the Fear and Develop a Successful Relationship

There are many who, in spite of failing in their relationship over and over and again, are afraid to develop self-awareness and understand what makes them fail. This is unfortunate, since it is only when they will develop Self-Awareness and understand how they shoot themselves in the foot in relationships that they will be able to change whatever needs change and become empowered to cultivate a successful intimacy. WHAT IS SELF-AWARENESS?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Have a Burnout from Dating? Take the Time during the Holidays to Heal

Introduction

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Relationships Advice: Cultivating an Intimate Relationship is like Taking Care of Precious Plants

There are those who are so talented at taking care of plants that whichever plant they care for will grow and live forever. But when it comes to cultivating a relationship with a partner, the story is different. Is there anything they can do to change this situation?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Capable of Leaving an Unsatisfying Intimacy when You Realize the Relationship Isn’t Good Enough?

I once heard someone describing her wish to separate from her partner in the following words: “I’m in the departure lounge at the airport… there’s some waiting before take-off…there might even be some delay…”. She already knew she should separate, but still hesitated about doing it and decided to delay and postpone the moment. I must say to her credit that she found a very original way to talk about it. She’s already made a decision to leave, yet postponed the execution until sometime later. How “later” she didn’t say. What could be the reasons for her indecision?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Valentine’s Day Advice: Expecting Your Partner to Read Your Mind Might Sabotage Your Relationships

A close relationship is something we all desire: to feel we are “one” with our partner; that we know each other as well as knowing ourselves; that we can communicate without words, like with a telepathic connection. But if we expect this to be the rule – rather than the exception - we might harm our relationships. In this sense Valentine’s Day – as much as it connotes love – might be a “dangerous” and “risky” day for lovers who expect too much. EXPECTING YOUR PARTNER TO READ YOUR MIND IS HARMFUL TO THE RELATIONSHIP

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be “The Artist” of Your Relationship Success Story

You may be trying for a long time now to find a partner (if you are still single) with whom to develop a successful relationship, or to develop a satisfying one (if you already have a partner). In order to succeed you have probably read advice columns about dating and relationships. Listened to various tips about “how to date”, “how to make a relationship work”, “how to communicate”, and so on and so forth. In most likelihood you did what is “customary” to do; whatever everybody else is doing in their search for a relationship, and did NOT do what others don’t.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Combat the Fear of Being Alone and Become Empowered to Develop a Healthy and Successful Intimate Relationship

The best way to talk about the damage that the fear of being alone causes to those “infected” by it is by bringing up a real-life-anecdote: REBECCA Every evening, instead of going home after a busy day at work, Rebecca meets men on blind dates. What would she do all alone at home anyway? Read a book? Watch television? The emptiness of her apartment terrifies her. Even if she'll try to read a book or watch TV, she won’t be able to concentrate, because her mind is constantly busy with finding a partner. Explanation:

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Find a Partner and Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

The one-million dollar question is: what does it take to find a suitable partner and cultivate a truly successful relationship? My simple answer is: it takes SELF-AWARENESS: identifying and understanding what stands in your way from succeeding. You might be surprised to find out that if you haven’t been successful until now in cultivating a satisfying intimate relationship, it might be YOU who stands in your way! You might be sabotaging your relationships without even knowing that you do! Here are three examples: 1. JUMPING FROM ONE RELATIONSHIP TO ANOTHER

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Developing Self-Awareness Enables You to Understand How You Harm Your Relationships – and Change

It is very likely that your attitudes, reactions and behaviors in a relationship harm it, causing conflicts and arguments. Often, you don’t even know that that’s the case. When your relationship fails, you tend to blame your partners. Developing Self-Awareness will help you notice that many of your reactions and behaviors are UNCONSCIOUS. When you understand it you become free to choose CONSCIOUS WAYS OF REACTION AND BEHAVIOR, vital to cultivating a successful relationship. DO WE REALLY KNOW "WHO WE ARE”?

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Relationship Advice

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