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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Facing Yourself via Facebook: An Opportunity to Expand Your Self-Growth & Personal Development

Facebook as a social media offers many functions to its users, from enabling them to connect with friends and family, to develop business liaisons, to dating and meeting others, and on to marketing one’s own expertise and products. Another role that FB can be useful to the individual, which is “out of its box” as a networking website but yet very attainable and timely, is helping the individual EXPAND HIS SELF-GROWTH AND PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT ((“He” throughout the article refers to both He and She).

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Why is Self-Awareness the Key to Your Success with Intimate Relationships?

FINDING OUT WHY YOU FAIL IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS – AND MAKING THE NECESSARY CHANGES If you find yourself failing in your relationships time and again and are not sure why, you are not alone. Many experience similar situations. The best advice I can give you is: DEVELOP SELF-AWARENESS, get in touch with what makes you harm your relationships – and become empowered to develop a successful intimacy.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,142 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

What is “A Complete Relationship”? One which is Based on “Positive” & “Negative”. Coming to Terms with is Helps the Intimacy

Sometimes in relationships you want to have only the half – the “good” half, not the “bad”; the “positive”, not the “negative”; the “easy”, not the “difficult”. But “a complete relationship” is based on both the “good”, and the “bad”, the “positive” as well as the “negative”. And when you learn to accommodate both and cope with both you can then develop a satisfying intimacy with your partner.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,140 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

If You Are Still Single Hoping to Have a Relationship, Use the Holidays to Figure Out How to Succeed in Developing Intimacy

The Holidays are approaching! Isn’t it time to celebrate? Not for everybody. If you are single fearing being alone during the holidays, your might want the festivities to pass as quickly as possible. “No time of the year might be so dark, uncomfortable and annoying”, you tell yourself”; “If only I had someone to be with, things would have been different”, you whisper to yourself time and again. Use the holidays to figure out how not to be alone next year

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,138 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Still Single? You Don’t Have to Be! 10 Factors Which Stand in Your Way from Finding and Cultivating the Relationship You Desire!

IF BY NOW YOU: 1) Have enrolled with numerous on-line dating sites, shaped your profile, chatted with others, went on many dates, but was never able to develop a satisfying relationship; and 2) Have always blamed your partners (or dates) for the failure of a possible relationship; and 3) Have repeatedly claimed that you wish to find a suitable partner with whom to develop a satisfying relationship – but in vain, THEN

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,128 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Why Is It Important for You to Understand Your Reasoning about Partners and Relationships?

As friends of yours share their thoughts, feelings, fears and needs with you, keep in mind that it is impossible to truly understand what motivates people to behave, feel and think the way they do. The same might hold true to you: you yourself think, feel and behave with your partners and in your relationships according to your own interpretations of whatever situation you find yourself in. As you understand your reasoning for whatever situation you find yourself in, the more empowered you become to develop a successful intimate relationship.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,127 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Why Are You Still Single In Spite of Being Connected with Many Others Via Social Media?

Many singles find dating too difficult at times. Indeed, singles are “connected” with many others via social networks, but still find it difficult to find a suitable partner, develop and maintain a satisfying intimate relationship. Convincing themselves that they are just too busy to look, search and find a partner – rather than attempting to understand what it is that hinders their attempts! – many of them resort to hiring personal coaches, advisors or dating experts, hoping that these professionals will match them with the “right” person.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,126 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Slowing Down Your Search for a Relationship Will Lead You to Finding One Faster

The pain of failing to find and cultivate a successful intimate relationship must be horrible to endure. Especially if you have been trying for quite some time to find a partner and develop a lasting bond. Maybe the time has come for you to stop the excessive dating-rush and take the time to learn about yourself and the ways in which you shoot yourself in the foot. The “long” way is sometimes the short one. YET YOU KEEP RUNNING, RUSHING, HURRYING: * You go on as many blind dates as possible on any given week.r

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,125 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Thanksgiving: Learn How to Develop a Successful Relationship and Thank Yourself for Doing So!

INTRODUCTION Thanksgiving is a perfect holiday to begin your process of Self-Awareness, learn how to succeed with relationships, and thank yourself for having the courage to doing so. You can attain self-growth each time you go on a date or start a relationship. It is a matter of willing to learn from your experiences, being open to observe yourself and understand your attitudes, reactions and behaviors with your date or partner. THANKSGIVING, LIKE OTHER HOLIDAYS, IS A PERFECT TIME TO LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF AND RELATIONSHIPS

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,100 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Let Your Belief-System Harm Your Relationships: The Role of Self-Awareness in Your Life

Your attitudes, emotions, reactions and behaviors towards your partners are often controlled by a belief-system which you are NOT AWARE OF. You adopted this belief-system from your childhood home, your social environment, television, radio, books and films. EXAMPLES OF BELIEF-SYSTEMS WHICH MIGHT CONTROL YOU: * “Men don’t cry.” * “Women aren’t as smart as men.” * “A woman should do everything in the house.” * “A man needs more sex than a woman.” * “Cheating is OK for men but not for women.” * “You should always keep a few secrets from your partner.”r

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,096 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Getting in Touch with Your Will Is Vital for Having a Successful Intimate Relationship

NOT BEING IN TOUCH WITH YOUR WILL SABOTAGES YOUR RELATIONSHIPS If you haven’t been successful in cultivating a successful relationship until now, in spite of your many attempts at dating and with on-and-off relationships, you might be telling yourself the following: * “If only I had a relationship, everything would be fine”; * “All the suffering that I’m going through will disappear when I'll have a relationship”; * “Once I have a relationship, I’ll never need anything else. The most important for me is to be with someone”.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,076 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Have the Personal Quality Which Enables You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship?

What are the “best” personal qualities which enable you to develop a successful intimate relationship?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,064 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Observation and Awareness: The Keys to Understanding Why Your Relationships Fail

Are you fed up from blind-dates which lead you nowhere? Meeting the wrong people on dating sites? Experiencing disappointing relationships? If so, the time may have come for you to sit back and contemplate what’s going on and what to do next. The best way for you to use this time is to develop your Self-Awareness: to understand what made you fail in your relationships until now, and how to change it. As you develop awareness you’ll be able to understand how you have sabotaged your relationships until now.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,060 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Why No One Has Ever Given You the Best Tip on How to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship?

If you are still single who keeps failing to develop a successful intimate relationship or in an unsatisfying relationship, and have tried a variety of tips, advices and approaches to understand how to go about succeeding but in vain, this tip is for you. It is likely that no one has ever mentioned this tip to you. If they would have, you probably would have acted on it already, become able to stop failing in your relationships and empowered to cultivate a successful one. WHY NO ONE HAS EVER TOLD YOU ABOUT THIS TIP

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,046 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Treating Each New Date as a Beginner Can Help You Extend a Date Into a Meaningful Relationship

There are those who are “proud” about dating tens if not hundreds of others. They think is shows how “great” they are; how “in demand” they are. Felling “hot” about themselves they turn dating into a game, competing with themselves (as well as with others) about how many dates they will go on; how many people they will meet on a weekly, monthly and yearly basis. But then, the “end-result” is often no-relationship, no true intimacy, no long-term serious and meaningful bond.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,045 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Aware of How You Sabotage Your Relationships? Taking the Road to Self-Awareness Will Help You Change!

As long as you are not aware of the ways in which you might be sabotaging your relationships, you might fail to develop a successful intimacy time and again. But without knowing what you do which harms your attempts at relationships, you will not know what and how to change. Developing Self-Awareness will enable you to understand what in your attitudes, reactions and behaviors harms your relationships. You will then know what you need to do in order to develop and maintain a successful intimacy. The following examples show how Mary’s un-awareness leads her to sabotage her relationships:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,017 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Thinking You Are in Control Prevents You from Making Changes Vital to Developing a Successful Relationship

Thinking you are in control of your life might lead you to believe you have done all it takes to develop a successful relationship. But if this is the case, why do you fail with your relationships time and again? Is it possible that you are not aware of the ways in which you sabotage your attempts? BELIEVING YOU ARE IN CONTROL MAKES YOU FAIL IN YOUR RELAITONSHIPS TIME AND AGAIN

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,004 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

The Holidays are a Perfect Time to Reflect and Contemplate How to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

Have you ever learned in school how to develop a successful relationship? Have your parents ever given you a good example? And, most of all: what makes you think you know how to succeed in an intimate relationship? Well, if you find yourself failing time and again, you know the answer: you don’t know. The question then becomes: how can you learn to develop a successful relationship? It isn’t easy to develop a successful intimate relationship – but it IS possible!

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,003 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Stop Sabotaging Yourself in Search for Love and Intimacy: Learn What You Need to Change – and Succeed!

A sad story that often repeats itself regarding one’s search for love and intimacy Her need for attention and appreciation, to be loved and be told how “great” she is has driven her to harm her intimate relationship time and again. She expected too much from her partner; she demanded that he says such and such about her; she was impatient for him to declare his love for her. Her relationships with her partners often ended brutally. As much as it is a sad story, it isn’t actually a “story” but a recurring situation which happens frequently and affects many.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

981 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Learning about Yourself While Going on Blind-Dates Will Help You Develop Better Relationships

If you have been going on blind-dates for quite some time now and haven’t yet succeeded in extending a date into a meaningful relationship, you may want to take a careful look at yourself and understand the reasons. OBSERVE YOURSELF WHILE GOING ON A BLIND-DATE Looking at yourself doesn’t mean you stop going on blind dates. You still do, knowing that blind-dates offer you a great opportunity to learn a lot about yourself.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

967 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

If You Are Unhappy About Your Relationship (or Lack of) - Learn How to Develop a Satisfying One!

ARE YOU UNHAPPY WITH YOUR INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP? If you are unhappy in your relationship – or with your failed attempts at finding a partner – “use” it to figure out what it takes to develop a successful relationship. Your unhappiness, as much as it is an awful feeling, can serve as a turning point in your future success at relationships. If you “use” it to your advantage it can enable you understand how to go about developing a successful intimacy. THE “ADVANTAGE” OF BEING UNHAPPY

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

891 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

What You Need to Do In Order To Find and Maintain a Successful Intimate Relationship

You might be surprised to hear that there are many things about yourself that you don’t know – and you even don’t know that you don’t know them. As a matter of fact, you know yourself only up to a certain point. You might fail in your relationships for the simple reason that you lack self-awareness, that you don’t really know your true self. A host of factors of which you are not aware affect your thoughts, attitudes, feelings and behaviors, without you realizing it, and drive you to behave in ways that sabotage your relationships.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

766 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Find Out What Prevents You from Having a Successful Intimate Relationship

Has it happened to you that in spite of your desire to have a partner with whom to develop an intimate relationship you found yourself, time and again, with partners that were wrong for you; having the same conflicts and arguments that you’ve had in the past; dissatisfied and alienated? Have you ever asked yourself what was going on? How it was possible that something you so much desired remained so far out of your grasp? Have you ever contemplated whether there is anything you can do to change this situation? SELF-AWARENESS IS THE ANSWER Example: Sandra

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

746 views

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