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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

He’s Distancing Himself! – What Does it all Mean?

As a Relationship Confidant, women come to me frequently with this same perplexing question: What does it all mean when the man in my life is distancing himself from me? As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind let me help clarify this male phenomenon. Women as we know tend to be extremely relational and nurturing. Rarely do they pull away from chick chats and friendships, so it is understandably difficult for women to comprehend why someone would do such a thing!

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

The Love Language of a Man

As a Relationship Confidant, I frequently get asked questions that could be issues of conce for many re-entering the dating scene. One gal was distraught over the lack of appreciation she felt from her man due to his memory loss when it came to special anniversary dates. She also felt he was not cutting it in the affection department during the day and seemed interested only at night.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Poker Players and Dating Slayers ~ Men Playing Poker May Reveal How They Date Online

The way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em). If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

When Relationships Hit a Rough Patch

The evening was planned a week ago. Romantic dinner, tickets to see your favorite band in concert, just a night of fun with the man you love. But in what seemed a moment of time everything changed. Oh, you still had the dinner and tickets, but what you didn’t see coming was the temperature change. His temperature change. He went from loving and attentive to Oscar the Grouch and you had no idea why and you weren’t sure what to do.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

How to Catch a Man and Keep Him Happy

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that men are attracted to gorgeous women, but it does get complicated for women to understand what keeps men interested. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind women are always asking me what men are looking for in a woman. They want to know what he needs to see in her to know she is “the one”. The answer may surprise you.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Five Keys to Avoid Desperate Dating

In my 10,000+ hours of listening to women who are dating at 40 or older, I hear they want men to fall for them before they take the time to find out if the guy is worthy of their affections. As a Heart Protector of Women let’s explore the dangers of dating desperately rather than with confidence and clarity.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Are You Rushing the Relationship?

Have you ever found yourself in this situation? You started dating a good guy who is full of integrity, charming, funny and considerate. The lines of communication seem to be wide open and you feel connected. You start to imagine life together with him on a daily basis and ponder over fantasies of how he may propose and where the wedding will be, the dress, the guests, the honeymoon. In your mind you have already married him and are living happily ever after. In reality he has never even once discussed marriage with you.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Attraction Anxiety

As a Heart Protector of Women, I feel it necessary to address the attraction anxiety many of you encounter. Oftentimes women believe that even if a man is not initially attracted to her physical appearance that he will eventually become attracted to her once he gets to know her. I am sorry to say this is not true from a man’s perspective.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Five Deadly Dating Mistakes Women Commit

The very nature of a man drives him to conquer, protect and provide. With that being said I wish to conquer wrong thinking many women may have entertained and protect you from harm by providing you with information that could prevent you from getting hurt and damaging your relationships. When the knight in shining armor makes his grand appearance in your life these are the five destructive deeds you definitely want to avoid: 1. The Controlling Factorr

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Warning Signs when Dating Divorced Men

Oftentimes when a woman has come out of a failed marriage her vision is not as clear as it needs to be regarding dating. Re-entering the social arena can be a bit daunting especially when her prospects will most likely be divorced men.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible?

If you choose to take on this mission, you must know before entering the territory that the terrain can be a very challenging. The agents of change will manifest in the dark and the baggage has not necessarily been left at the terminal. You will encounter emotional assaults from Agent “Ex” whether directly or through psychological warfare. The instructions in this portfolio are for your eyes only and will self destruct should you not choose to accept this mission.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Relationships and Conflict of Expectations

Has your girl friend ever said this: “What does it take to get him to change” ? Or have you received advice from a friend saying: “You just need to train him how you want him to be”? As a Relationship Coach and the Heart Protector of Women I want to tackle the topic of trying to change someone.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Seduction: From the Avenue to the Altar

Has seduction become a lost art? In a society of strong women with powerful careers and tight schedules it may have lost it's place of importance. Being aggressive is not necessarily considered sexy by the man on the other end of the couch. Alluring him with hints of desire can whet his appetite to crave your company and captivate his heart.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Sex and the Single Girl ~ How Long Should I Wait?

As a Relationship Confidant, I often hear that women wonder how long they should wait before having sex. My answer would depend on what the woman wants out of the relationship. If she is looking for a solid committed relationship and she just met the guy I would answer very differently than if she is a girl interested in casual sex who just wants to have fun. The first step I think women should do is to locate their desires.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Three Keys to Reboot the Romance in Your Relationship

Women have probably heard this phrase many times in their lives: “If you really love me, you’d....” fill in the blank. Most of the time those comments are referring to the guy wanting her to prove her love by having sex with him, but today I want to hit on THREE ways women can put out that will satisfy her man and keep him coming back for more!

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

How Our Past Affects Our Relationships Today

There are many dynamics to a relationship and I think most of us can agree that we rarely see everything going on under the surface, yet we feel the discomfort. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind I would like to reveal three elements that can cause relational distress and immobility. Neglectedr

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Finding Mr. Good Guy

Frequently I receive emails from women that desire a romantic relationship yet never go anywhere or do anything that would help facilitate meeting good men. Landing a partner for life does not usually happen at the grocery store, nail salon or single moms club. Even if you go register with online dating services or a matchmaker, please understand that it really comes down to you getting yourself out there to the right places to meet new people.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Dating men of 40: Time, Attention and Relationships

As a Relationship Coach to Women over forty, I have the opportunity to give a listening ear to many who have either been dating for a while or are just getting back into the dating adventure. A lot of the women I hear from are frustrated because they feel the man in their life does not give them enough time or attention. Is this you? As a Guy Spy into the male Mind, allow me to reveal a common mistake I see women make. They do not understand that a man’s identity is based on what he does. Women tend to define themselves based on who they are to other people.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

DOES HE REALLY LOVE YOU?

You remember the scene, yellow daisy in hand, the girl is picking petals off one at a time reciting “He loves me, He loves me not, He loves me...” and hoping for the luck of the draw. Relationships can feel like this wondering if he really does love you at all. How will you know for sure? As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind, I help women understand why men behave the way they do. Just as guys may be into sports, music, cars, etc they also have their own way of enjoying relationships.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II

Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? PART II In Part I we talked about three key elements for women to consider when dating a divorced man. As the Heart Protector of Women, let me remind you that before allowing him to participate in any “undercover operations”, you must determine if he is the one worthy of your time, attention and affections. So let’s pick up where we left off: 4. Does He Have a Swiss Bank Account?r

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Three Keys to Busting Out of Bewilderment with Your Beau

As the Heart Protector of Women I have come to the realization that when a woman feels connected with a man she is dating, she can sometimes end up in a quandary of emotions regarding future expectations. Females are still encouraged today from a young age to allow the male to pursue them, but when the woman finds herself placing her life on hold, I think things have taken an unhealthy turn. First locate which scenario you are in:

Primary topic: Dating

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By Jonathon AslayRecently published1 topic

Why I Always Loved Dating Women with Children

As a Dating and Relationship Coach I'd heard single moms bemoan the idea that men do not want to date women with children but let me share why I always loved dating women with children.

Primary topic: Dating

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