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This month we'll delve deeper into the goal-setting process by working on specific exercises to help you structure your goal, along with a goal chart that will help you track your progress. In general terms, short-term goals are goals you can reach in one year or less. Long-term goals are ones ...
Many people find themselves in need of someone who can present unbiased advice from time to time. Personal friends or relations are not always a great alte ative for supplying you with good counsel because regardless of their fondness for you their experience might not be adequate for giving reliable guidance. This is a job for a life coach. To have the help of a life coach for power and support could shed a whole new light on the situation.
Inspiration for the Day “The only thing even in this world are the number of hours in a day. The difference in winning or losing is what you do with those hours.” -Woody Hayes _____ Your self-concept is made up of three parts, each of which affects each of the others. Understanding these three parts enables you to put your hands on the keyboard of your own mental computer. When you learn to take charge of the development of a new and positive self-concept of selling, you can then control your sales destiny for the rest of your career. Determine Your Directionr
What is Your Ideal Vision What is your ideal vision of the very best person you could possibly become? How would you behave each day if you were already that person? Asking yourself these questions and then living your life consistent with the answers is the first step to creating yourself in your ideal image.
“If we value independence, if we are disturbed by the growing conformity of knowledge, of values, of attitudes, which our present system induces, then we may wish to set up conditions of learning which make for uniqueness, for self-direction, and for self-initiated learning.” - Carl Rogers
Why is change so difficult for some of us? For me, it’s usually fear of the unknown or feeling safe with the status quo. For others, it might be feeling comfortable with the familiar or being satisfied with who they are. The reality is we are constantly changing for better or worse. The real question for me is ”who am I to be?” For the last twenty years I have wrestled with that question and struggled to find the answer. Who I am to be changed dramatically for me after a major crisis that happened in 1997.
Millions of people suffer from a depressive illness. They thought that depression is just a normal occurrence in their lives, which will go away after a short while. They just haven’t realized how serious depression can be. Did you know that words related to depression have been searched over 993,000 times on the Internet for May 2005 alone? Much attention has been centered to this international health problem as the rigorous challenges of modern times continue to devastate those who cannot cope with it. Extreme depression can ultimately lead to suicide.
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Do you feel like your life has been more stressful? Your dreams and goals unfulfilled? Sometimes it takes a gentle nudge in the right direction and other times a serious shove is required. At times life is not easy, and some scholars will tell you it is not meant to be; it is through the difficult struggles, the hardships, the failures and setbacks that we as individuals grow and evolve. The problem is getting back up again becomes increasingly more difficult, unless you have the proper help and support.
“Life has its own hidden forces which you can only discover by living.” - Soren Kierkegaard, 1813-1855, Danish Philosopher _____ Achieving your own happiness is the best measure of how well you are living your life and enjoying your relationships. You can learn how to be happier and more fulfilled in everything you do. Everyone is Differentr
“Assertiveness is not what you do, it’s who you are!” - Shakti Gawain There is a big difference between assertiveness and aggressiveness. Assertiveness is a way of living where you get the most out of life without someone telling you how to do it. This simple means: You do not need to be obnoxious, agressive, or rude to get it your own way. You cannot just jump in with both feet and decide, “Hey, I’m going to be assertive and no one will be pushing me around anymore. No more Mr. Nice Guy!” Learning how to be assertive requires a new mindset and plan.
Selling is stressful, and can be downright discouraging I bet when you started your company you dreamed of freedom, being your own boss and big bountiful earnings. And my guess is you didn’t spend much time wondering how to get clients and polish up your sales skills! So often, my clients discover that selling is stressful, and can be downright discouraging and may not be their top strength at all! About 80% of entrepreneurs struggle to find clients
“Success and failure. We think of them as opposites, but they’re really not. They’re companions – the hero and the sidekick.” -Laurence Shames ______ One of the most powerful personal programming activities you can engage in is positive self-talk. Be your own cheerleader and talk to yourself positively all of the time. Think About Your Dreams
“Be the Change You Want to See in Your Lifetime…” - Mariano M. Jauco _____ Increase Your Dignity and Respect I recently read a story about a person named Jim Rohn, who is probably the classiest business teacher on the planet. Jim is in his 70’s and has spoken to millions around the world; perhaps you have heard him speak. Jim was traveling in Carmel, Califo ia, with his wife before they were married, and they pulled up to a gas station. The attendant cleaned the windows and offered to vacuum their car; he was very friendly.
The most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched; they must be felt with the heart. - Helen Keller, 1880-1968, American Blind/Deaf Author and Lecturer _____ The greatest men and women of all ages have practiced solitude regularly. They learned how to use silence to still their minds and tap into their superconscious powers for answers to their questions. In this article, you learn how you can apply this wonderful technique immediately to improve the quality of your inner and outer life. The Magic of Solituder
Inspiration of the Day “The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.” - Walt Disney, 1901-1966, American Film Producer/Director/Animator _____ We have all experienced the blowing winds of disappointment, despair, and heartbreak. Why, then, would each of us, in our own individual ship of life, all beginning at the same point, with the same intended destination in mind, arrive at such different places at the end of the journey? Have we not all been blown by the winds of circumstances and buffeted by the turbulent storms of discontent?
“It is well to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through understanding” - Kahlil Gibran, 1883-1931, Lebanese Poet and Novelist“ _____ There’s an old saying that goes, “If you don’t know where you’re going, any path will take you there.” The same is true of personal development. When you start heading down the path of personal development you begin to grow — to evolve into something more than when you began your journey. But figuring out just what path to take when you set out is a major challenge in and of itself.
Have you ever wished that you could simply go to a store and say, “I’d like a pound of self-confidence , please?” Tell me where to purchase and for sure a long stretch of people leads to this store! So what then is self-confidence? How can we get it if we need a bottomless supply? This article provides some of the answer. Have you ever tried looking at your body in a full-length mirror? Did you feel a tinge of shyness? Did you cringe at your image? Did you wish you could be more accepting of yourself and carried yourself better?
I like to think of myself as an amiable guy, but I wouldn’t claim to be charismatic. Charismatic is an adjective I would apply to someone like Jay Leno or Tony Robbins. Bill Clinton is supposed to be very charismatic. I know die-hard conservatives who changed their views about him after speaking to him for just five minutes. Wouldn’t it be great to have that kind of effect on people? Wouldn’t it feel good to know that you have the ability to make everyone you meet like you… and want to work with you?
If I had permitted my failures, or what seemed to me at the time a lack of success, to discourage me, I cannot see any way in which I would ever have made progress. - Calvin Coolidge, 1872-1933, 30th President of the United States _____ Regular relaxation is essential for a long life and personal effectiveness. Here are some techniques for relaxing physically that are used by the most successful and highest paid people in America. Take Time Off Every Weekr
Even if your best friend owns a top publishing company, giving you an immediate "in," this does not guarantee publishing success. First, you have to write a quality book that has a clear target audience. And your book must answer a common problem or need that audience shares. Then you have to develop a marketing plan, and stick to it for at least two years.
“The secret of being boring is to say everything.” - Voltaire, 1694-1778, French Writer and Philosopher _____ There is a close association between personal charisma and success in life. Probably 85 percent of your success and happiness will come from your relationships and interactions with others. The more positively others respond to you, the easier it will be for you to get the things you want. The Law of Attractionr
“You can have anything you want in life if you just help enough other people get what they want.” -Zig Ziglarrn__ You already have everything you need to create a wonderful life for yourself. You know everything you need to know to be your own best friend, a gentle guide, a teacher and a helper to yourself so you can be truly happy and fulfilled. You can learn how to become your own psychotherapist for life, and how to resolve the difficulties that stand between you and personal joy. Be Honest With Yourself
“ Do the thing you fear, and the death of fear is certain.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson _______ You have incredible powers of mind and emotions that give you timely and accurate feedback in every area of your life. In this post, you learn how to “tune in” to yourself so you can make the right decision in every situation. Using Your Inner Guidance Systemr
Build momentum with positive actio The new year is a great time to establish positive habits that build momentum toward your goals. Actions you take on your financial situation will contribute to a strong foundation for this year as well as the long term. And even when many things feel out of your control, you can live and be confident knowing you are doing your part to prepare for the unexpected and be ready for new opportunities along the way. Here are some concrete action steps you can take now to start the year off right:
Empowerment allows you to act and react to the world around you on your terms. Once that is realized success is yours, and it cannot be taken away! A powerful statement wouldn’t you say! It is even a more powerful reality! Think about the successful people in your life, what makes them different? Are they that much smarter than everyone else, more gifted? In most instances that is not the case! It is how they think rather than any measure of intellect that puts them ahead of the pack.
Inspiration of the Day “Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.” - Mahatma Gandhi, 1869-1948, Indian Political and Spiritual Leader _____ When starting any enterprise or business, whether it is full-time or part-time, we all know the value of having plenty of capital (money). But I bet we both know or at least have heard of people who started with no capital who went on to make fortunes. How? You may ask.
There are different methods to getting more traffic to your website or blog. So which is the best METHOD? In this post I am going to touch on three methods of increasing traffic. Why do websites fail? One of the main reasons why many online businesses fail is due to the lack of TRAFFIC! ...
“The only way to predict the future is to have power to shape the future.” - Eric Hoffer, 1902-1983, American Social Writer _____ Don’t Sell Yourself Shortr
The first secret to success and prosperity is BE AWARE. Be aware of your creative power, as you are a creative being. Be aware of your choices, because they do affect your results. Be aware of your conscious thoughts, as they are just like seeds that you plant in the ground. They are the ...
“Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass…it’s about learning how to dance in the rain.” -Unknown _____ Decide How to Reactr It is not what happens to you that counts. It is how you react to what happens to you, especially when you have unexpected problems of any kind. In this article, you learn powerful strategies you can use to keep yourself thinking and acting positively and creatively. Here are four things you can do to assure that your attitude is the very best it can be, under all circumstances. Focus On the Futurer
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will. - Mahatma Gandhi, 1869-1948, Indian Political and Spiritual Leader _____ Everyone makes mistakes and the busier you are, the more mistakes you will make. The only question is “How well and how effectively do you deal with the inevitable ups and downs of life?” In this article, you learn the difference between a positive and negative worldview. You learn how to benefit from your mistakes and how to remain positive in the face of adversity. Let the Light Shine Inr
“Failure will never overtake me if my determination to succeed is strong enough.” - Og Mandino, 1923-1996, American Motivational Author and Speaker _____ Together, we have embarked upon a path designed to help you identify your purpose in life. For some, this task can be quite difficult. For others, it is fairly easy. Why has this most important task proven to be easier for some and not for others ? This is because some of us refuse to let the mere fact that a task is difficult, stop us from attempting and ultimately completing that task.
Time is fleeting. It does not seem to last as long as we would like it to last. Although it may seem like yesterday you were raising your children, those years have passed and now they are raising their own children. But, before you let any more time slip pass, start thinking of your ...
The only way to predict the future is to have power to shape the future. - Eric Hoffer, 1902-1983, American Social Writer _____ 1. You Get What You Giver Ralph Waldo Emerson, in his essay, “Compensation,” wrote that each person is compensated in like manner for that which he or she has contributed. The Law of Compensation is another restatement of the Law of Sowing and Reaping. It says that you will always be compensated for your efforts and for your contribution, whatever it is, however much or however little. 2. Increase Your Valuer
“Desire is the Starting Point of All Achievement” - Napoleon Hill ______ Pop Quiz: Can success be sped up? Is there an antidote to slow outcomes despite arduous planning and actions taken? What is the secret for seeing huge results right now?! I get versions of these questions frequently from people who feel frustrated at sluggish progress in their success journey — despite all the know-how and principles they rigorously employ. First, let’s get one thing straight…