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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Moving from an Online Acquaintance to a Serious Relationship

Meeting people online can be exciting, scary and even thrilling, especially when a virtual stranger is attracted to you and sends a personal email. Ongoing email exchanges and online chats may help bring you closer to each other but are far from the reality of what it takes to establish a serious, long-term relationship. To make the transition from ‘just online friends’ to ‘serious romance’ requires patience and time. Move too fast and you may come across as desperate, too slow and you may seem indifferent.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

10 Essential Tips of Online Dating

So you’re considering looking online for that special someone. Internet dating can be a lot of fun. You can meet not only the love of your life but friends for life. Here are some common sense tips that will keep you safe and help you successfully maximize your online dating experience. Tip #1 Trust Your Instinct. If you are feeling less than excited about a potential date, cancel it. On the opposite end of the emotions spectrum, be careful if you have intense feelings - move cautiously. Tip #2r

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

The Importance of Really Listening to Your Partner

One of our most basic relationship needs is to be listened to and understood. As the Turkish saying goes, ‘if speaking is silver, then listening is gold.’ We feel the most connected with those who take the time to be truly interested in what we have to say. Listening is a more valuable factor in communicating than speaking well. An added benefit is that our ears will never get us into trouble – unlike our mouths.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Building Trust - The Foundation of a Healthy Relationship

Business associate, friend, family or lover - all relationships are built on the foundation of trust. And just like the foundation of your home, trust is built over time, going through multiple processes before it is strong enough to handle the stress of all that sits on top of it. Cultivate behavior that incorporates open communication and healthy interactions to increase trust in your relationships. Refuse to make empty promises and make sure your words are stronger than any written contract. People need to know that you mean what you say and say what you mean.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Convincing yourself doesn't win an argument - learn to fight fair

Comedian Phyllis Diller once said, “Never go to bed mad. Stay up and fight.” Or another bit of her advice, “My recipe for dealing with anger and frustration: set the kitchen timer for twenty minutes, cry, rant, and rave, and at the sound of the bell, simmer down and go about business as usual.” Depending on the situation, either strategy may help to resolve an argument or feelings of frustration.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

7 Tips for Successful Internet Dating

Online dating services can be the answer to your search for love. The idea of having any number of potential dates ready for romance at the click of your mouse can be exciting and overwhelming at the same time. That’s the unique process of online dating. A photo and personality profile is the only tools that help you decide whether you want to meet someone or not. But there are some important things to consider before logging on. Here are seven tips to help you in your search.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Is it true love?

It's one of the universal questions no matter where in the world you live, whether you're a teen or a senior, male or female. "Is this love?"- a futile question except for the one asking. Only he or she can provide the answer. And when emotions are involved, answers are never simple. Subtle signals and confusing emotions make the question even harder to answer, but there are signs. Head in the Clouds

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Three Credit Card Benefits to Stay Away From

Credit card holders are offered many perks in an attempt to lure individuals into being customers for the long haul. Most of these benefits are provided to holders for free, but are not always the “perk” they seem to be. While some benefits may actually be help, here are three you should definitely stay away from.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Trust: The Basis of a Healthy Relationship

Building a healthy relationship takes time and effort on the part of both partners. Establishing trust is the foundation of every long-term relationship. Knowing that what you say to each other can be depended on and that you won’t be inclined to question the sincerity of our partner is trust. ...Building a healthy relationship takes time and effort on the part of both partners. Establishing trust is the foundation of every long-term relationship. Knowing that what you say to each other can be depended on and that you won’t be inclined to question the sincerity of our partner is trust.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Money Management Skills for College Students

Regardless of where you are on the college journey, it’s important to learn good money management skills. In fact, it should be a priority. The college years are often the first opportunities for many to be independent and also the first time having to deal with bills, saving and debt. Students need to exercise caution when it comes to borrowing. Learning and understanding ways to deal with this new responsibility is key to future growth. Far too often college students establish drowning debt in pursuit of filling every compulsive shopping urge.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Credit Card Rewards for Charity

Reward credit cards provide people with an opportunity to get a little extra by simply using credit for purchases. While there are tons of different personal rewards available for consumers to choose from, some individuals selflessly use the rewards programs to earn extras for charity. Chances are, it you have a charitable preference, you will be able to find a reward credit card that will apply your earned rewards towards the cause.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Down Side of the Credit Card Act

The Credit Card Act has been in place for over two years now and we are now starting to see some of the effects of passing this into law. There have been both positive and negative consequences taking place since this legislation. On the plus side, the industry has become a bit more transparent with the credit terms being clearer and easier for people to understand, but the negatives have been substantial. Here are some of the negative effects taking place. Rising Interest Rates

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Choosing Your First Credit Card

Caution should be used by anyone looking to get started with his or her first credit card. The industry provides a ton of different offers geared towards beginners, along with many attractive offers that should only be used by the more experienced credit user. First time card holders will have to prove they can handle the responsibility of repaying borrowed money before they are rewarded with lower interest rates. High interest is just one of the burdens of being a first time card holder. When choosing that first card, here are a few tips to keep in mind. Reasonable Credit Limit

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Credit Cards for Students

The seriousness of credit is something our youth should learn early. The idea of borrowing money is something that should not be taken lightly. The government is also viewing the business of credit in this way. The Feds now require a co-signer or proof of income for anyone under 21 requesting a credit card. They have also placed some limits on the marketing of credit cards to students. The issuers are no longer allowed to use free gifts or other freebie enticements on college campuses to draw students into applying for credit cards.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Five Institutions that Check Your Credit Report

Consumers with a credit history have separate credit reports compiled by the three nationwide consumer-reporting agencies. By reviewing these documents, a lender can tell how responsible an individual is with their finances and help them determine whether to extend additional credit. Just as your credit report isn’t determined by one piece of information, your report is just one aspect that a lender considers when reviewing your loan application. Other things that come into play include your level of income, length of employment and the type of loan you’re requesting.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Traveling with Credit Cards

Whether your traveling for business or pleasure, a credit card or two is essential to bring along for the ride. Taking advantage of the perks and protections by using credit cards over cash is a smart decision to make. Here are a few things to keep in mind when traveling and using your credit cards. Prior to Departure

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Campus Life: Students Managing Money

The tips in the following article will go beyond the previous article. We will move past the larger, more immediate issues of a student money management, into long run tactics that may make a huge difference. These tips may not create an immediate impact, but may be the difference maker in determining whether you graduate with deep debt or free to move forward with minimal or zero debt. The idea is to provide realistic ways to save money that are easy for today’s college student to implement. Life on Campus

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Paying Down The Debt

Far too often individuals think getting out of debt will be complicated. The fact is getting out of debt is quite simple in thought, spend less and increase the size of payments towards credit accounts. It’s that easy…in theory. While the idea is basic, the implementation of this plan can be quite the challenge. People are often shocked to discover how difficult it is to actually implement the idea. In order to become more efficient and successful at reducing and eliminating debt, lets take a look at some of the many roadblocks that get in the way. Lifestyle Sacrifices

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

How will the Downgrade affect your Credit Cards?

The result of the S&P downgrading the US Treasury Bond score basically labels the United States as a higher risk borrower. One of the results of this action will possibly increase the interest rates of global creditors lending to the US and increase the return to those investors. This is definitely a wake up call for many, but will this rise in interest be seen in the interest rates of credit cards as well? The answer is no! Let me explain.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

What should you pay first when you’re overwhelmed by debt?

It can be difficult to decide what is the most important debt to pay off first when your dealing with such a vast array of choices; credit cards, mortgage, school loans, secured and unsecured debt. Prioritizing which one to pay first will help you to avoid making the situation worse. This is even more important the tighter the funds become. Here we have provided you with a guide to help you understand how to establish the most important debts to pay off and why they should be first. Number One Priority - Home

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Negatives of Store Credit Cards

It’s becoming more common for customers to use a charge card for all their shopping needs. While using plastic is not necessarily a bad thing, there are major differences in the type of plastic that is being used. There are two main categories that cards fall into; major credit cards and retail store charge cards and the differences are huge. Understanding the differences between these two types of cards will help you decide which one is best for you. Retail or Store Credit Card

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Understanding the Differences Between Credit Score and Credit Report

Contrary to the misguided idea of credit reports and scores being the same, they are very different financial factors. It’s important for all people to gain a true understanding of what each of these aspects of personal finance are and how they differ. Each of these factors will impact your ability to receive a line of credit in its own way. Your reports and score will allow you to see what may be hindering credit approvals and what is working in your favor. A Credit Report

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Overcoming Compulsive Spending

Emotions can have an immense impact on the way you spend your money. And the emotions that can affect shopping habits run the gamut from happiness, sadness, frustration, anger and you name it; it may trigger a desire to buy something to fill the void, stop or extend the feeling. The only way to overcome the emotional compulsion to shop is to recognize what you’re feeling, admit to the consequences of your spending and find ways to deal with your feelings in a more constructive way. Fleeting Joy of Credit Cards

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Phishing and Vishing Identification Schemes

Protecting ones self from the constant development of new scams requires consumers to be vigilant in protecting credit and financial information from getting into the wrong hands. The credit card industry in the United States alone has as estimated $8.6 billion in fraudulent charges annually. Fraud charges are responsible for substantial damage to consumer credit ratings.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Putting an End to Credit Card Solicitations

Signs that credit card providers are once again establishing a foothold after the most recent banking debacle can be seen in the increase of credit card offers being mailed out. These credit card issuers must find ways to build up revenues after taking huge losses from the new regulations that put limits on how they are allowed to conduct their businesses. One way they are working to increase there revenues is by offering more credit to consumers. While some may see getting these solicitations as a good sign of their credit rating, many find them to be an annoying nuisance.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

How to Handle a Debt Collection Call

A feeling of hopelessness can sometimes prompt a person to stop making payments on an overdue account. This action is never a good choice. Your creditor will send the delinquent account off to a collection agency once they have exhausted themselves trying to get you on track. Its important to be prepared for what comes next in the process of collection a debt, especially that collection phone calls. You have rights! Expanding your education on these rights will help you avoid unnecessary arguments and agreements that are not in your best interest.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Benefits of having a Credit Card

Are you currently debating whether or not to get a credit card? Keep in mind its irresponsible use of credit cards that gets people in trouble. While the potential to do damage is there, the advantages of carrying a credit card may be enough sway you in the direction of applying for one today. In all financial management decision, weighting the pros and cons should be done first. Is a credit card something you can responsibly handle? If so, you too can take advantage of the benefits. Here are some of the perks to having a credit card. Building Credit History

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

The High Costs Associated with Debt Protection is studied by the Government

Receiving help with repaying a debt without giving up their home or ruining their credit score is something consumers do have in common. This is equally true regardless if the debt is from credit cards, taxes or loans. A good number of people often turn to the lender for help when it comes to relieving the debt they have with them. While they do offer help, the fees and cost may not be worth the assistance. The cost for debt help and the service the person is actually getting is something the Government Accountability Office (GOA) is scrutinizing.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

How Unused Credit Cards Effect You

There are a variety of reasons a person may have multiple credit cards accounts open. Some are attracted by the offers, low interest rates and even saving money by transferring balances onto a new, low APR credit card. Is it best to close the old accounts or keep them active? What effect will old accounts have on a persons credit score? While there are no exact answers to these questions, one can establish a well educated guess by learning a few simple financial factors.

Primary topic: Dating

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By Noreen RuthRecently published1 topic

Understand Credit Health by Mail

The mail lenders are choosing to send your way is a unique way to gain perspective on how well your handling credit. The old school mail service continues to be utilized by companies to send bills, invoices, collection letters, offers and other business matters. Are you getting credit card offers? Are collection agencies asking for payment? The type of correspondences you are receiving by mail will tell a lot about how you handle finances. Credit Card Offers

Primary topic: Dating

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