We don't "deserve" anything
Many coaches and self-development whizzes will talk about living the life you âdeserveâ, and how you somehow âdeserveâ certain things. But... You donât deserve anything. Because nobody does. And already, I have a good idea what most of you are thinking: âBut Iâve been miserable for so many years! I deserve to be happy!â âIâve worked so hard! I deserve money!â âIâve never slept with a girl! I deserve sex!â No. You donât deserve anything, and hereâ