Oliver JR Cooper
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- Main Areas
- Abuse, Awareness, Behaviour, Boundaries, Defence Mechanism's, Emotional Intelligence, Happiness, Men's Psychology, Movie Metaphors, Relationships, Self Image, Self Realisation, Social Causes, The Ego Mind, Women's Psychology.
- Best Sellers
- Toxic Shame - Is It Defining Your Life?
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- Author, Writer, Teacher and Consultant
Author of 28 books, prolific writer, teacher and consultant, Oliver JR Cooper, hails from England. His insightful commentary and analysis cover all aspects of human transformation; including love, partnership, self-love, self-worth, enmeshment, inner child, true self and inner awareness. With over three thousand, seven hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behaviour, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice.
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Oliver JR Cooper Books
A Dialogue With The Heart: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues From The Heart
http://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Heart-Collection-Poems-Dialogues/dp/1491203765/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1410104833&sr=1-2
Trapped Emotions: How Are They Affecting Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Trapped-Emotions-They-Affecting-Your/dp/1499208561/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1407679404&sr=8-1&keywords=oliver+j+r+cooper
Childhood: Is Your Childhood Sabotaging Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Childhood-Your-Sabotaging-Life/dp/1502703718/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425651244&sr=1-1
A Dialogue With The Heart - Part Two: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues From The Heart
http://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Heart-Collection-Poems-Dialogues/dp/1505633125/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425651244&sr=1-5
Toxic Shame: Is It Defining Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Shame-Defining-Your-Life/dp/1505315565/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1425651244&sr=1-3
Abandonment: Is The Fear Of Abandonment Controlling Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Abandonment-Fear-Controlling-Your-Life/dp/1508714800/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1430830507&sr=1-5
Child Abuse: Were You Abused As A Child?
http://www.amazon.com/Child-Abuse-Were-You-Abused/dp/1518693946/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_7?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1453242180&sr=1-7
A Dialogue With The Spirit: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues To Help You Grieve The Loss Of A Loved One
http://www.amazon.com/Dialogue-Spirit-Collection-Dialogues-Grieve/dp/1515329968/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_8?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1453242180&sr=1-8
Trapped Grief: Is Trapped Grief Sabotaging Your Life?
http://www.amazon.com/Trapped-Grief-Sabotaging-Your-Life/dp/1512129127?ie=UTF8&qid=1464281033&ref_=tmm_pap_swatch_0&sr=1-1
Why Does He Behave That Way? Why Do I behave This Way?
https://www.amazon.com/Does-Behave-That-behave-This/dp/1530559960?ie=UTF8&qid=1466289110&ref_=la_B00QC5LARE_1_10&s=books&sr=1-10
Boundaries: Are You Boundaryless?
https://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Boundaryless-Oliver-JR-Cooper/dp/1535324740/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1474841586&sr=1-6
Inner Child - Is Your Inner Child Controlling Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1537603396/ref=sr_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1476613494&sr=1-6
Childhood Trauma - Is Your Life Being Defined By childhood Trauma?
https://www.amazon.com/Childhood-Trauma-Your-Being-Defined/dp/154234462X/ref=la_B00QC5LARE_1_13?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1484857007&sr=1-13&refinements=p_82%3AB00QC5LARE
People Pleasing - People Pleasing Is Your Need To Please Others Sabotaging Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/People-Pleasing-Please-Others-Sabotaging/dp/1544169027/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1490611623&sr=1-11
Loyalty - Is Your Need To Be Loyal Sabotaging Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1973796198/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1502650385&sr=1-1&keywords=Loyalty%3A+Is+Your+Need+To+Be+Loyal+Sabotaging+Your+Life%3F
Trauma – Is Trauma Sabotaging Your Life?
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1975893441/ref=sr_1_9?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1506002072&sr=1-9&keywords=oliver+jr+cooper
Inner Child - How To Heal Your Inner Child
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1721077871/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i1
Self-Awareness: How To Develop Self-Awareness
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1726060586/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_taft_p1_i4
Purpose: How To Find Your Purpose
https://www.amazon.com/Purpose-How-Find-Your/dp/1091023573/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1568814745&sr=8-16
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Relationships: Why Are Some Men Only Interested In Women Who Need To Be Saved?
When a man and a woman are together, and they are both in touch with their power, there will be no need for one of them to try to rescue the other. They will both have boundaries and they won’t be carrying too much baggage. So, instead of seeing each other as competitors; they will be able to truly be there for each other and to offer their support when it is necessary. This will allow them to grow and to develop. Stronger Together
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Don’t Make Another Person The Centre Of Your World
When I was reading the book, ‘Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway’, there was a chapter that went into how important it was to have many different areas of interest in life, and not to put all our eggs in one basket, so to speak. The author, Susan Jeffers, pointed out that a lot of people make their partner the centre of their life.
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Relationships: Why Do Some People Who Have Empathy End Up With People Who Don't Have Empathy?
When someone has the ability to empathise with others, they might expect to attract people into their life who are the same. But while they can have this outlook, it doesn’t mean that this is what will take place. Instead, they can end up attracting people who are the completely opposite, and this can make them wonder what is going on. For one thing, it is often said that ‘like attracts like’ and if this is the case, then surely one shouldn’t be experiencing life as they are. The Other Side
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Breathing In Is Masculine, Breathing Out Is Feminine
About a year ago I went to a health and wellbeing centre and had a little look around the entrance, but I didn’t go any further. However, a few weeks ago I felt the urge to go to this place again, and this made me look at the website. I found out that there would be a free guided mediation event in few weeks time and that this would be hosted by the Founder & Manager of the centre, Angela Oakes. When I looked at her picture on the website, I got the impression that she was nurturing and down to earth. A Pleasant Environment
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Mother Enmeshed Men: Is A Man Weak If He Is Enmeshed To His Mother?
If a man is emotionally entangled with his mother and unable to live his own life, other people could end up commenting on his behaviour. This is something that his partner could do, assuming that he is in a relationship. She could often tell him that although he spends a lot of time focusing on his mothers needs, he spends very little time focusing on their relationship. As a result of this, she is naturally going to feel ignored and unvalued. Standing Her Ground
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Child Abuse: Can An Abusive Parent Be Too Emotionally Insecure To Take Responsibility For How They Behaved?
If someone has come to see that they were mistreated during their formative years, they might have the need to speak to the parent or parents who harmed them. But, if they have this need and take the next step, it doesn’t mean that they will get very far. Assuming it was one parent who mistreated them; this parent could dismiss most if not all of what they say. Based on what takes place, it will be as if they are talking to someone who wasn’t around during this time. A Stranger
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Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Emotionally Underdeveloped?
If a woman was to end up in a relationship with a man who is emotionally entangled with his mother, she could struggle to understand what is going on. It could seem strange as to why a grown man is so focused on his mother. As he is a man, not a boy, there is going to be no reason for him to be this way. Now, this is not to say that he should turn his back on his mother, that’s unless she is totally toxic; it means that his life shouldn’t resolve around here. A Frustrating Time
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Resilience: Can Embracing Our Pain Lead To Resilience?
Pain is part of life, and while this much is true, it doesn’t mean that this makes it any easier to accept it. And while there will be times when one does all they can to avoid pain, there will be other times when they are forced to face it. Experiencing pleasure is something that is more appealing to human beings. Because of this, the pain that one experiences will often be minimized or removed completely. For a short while anyway, and then before long, the pain will soon appear once more.
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Interviews With Successful People - Ben Wright – Professional Stuntman And Actor
After having interviewed a number of DJ’s and producers, I thought that it would be a good idea to interview someone from another profession. So after hearing about a stuntman from someone I know, I thought that it would be great to interview him. Through typing his name into Google, I was surprised by the amount of films that he had been in. were not small films, they were Hollywood blockbusters and included many of the films that I have enjoyed watching. Which include: Captain America, Thor, Skyfall and The Clash Of The Titans. Biography
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Internet Dating: Should Someone Edit Their Pictures When They Use Internet Dating?
When one goes out at night with the intention of meeting someone, there is a strong chance that they will want to be at their best. There are then going to be a number of things that they can do. The first thing they are likely to do is to make sure they look right, and this will involve the clothes they wear and the style of their hair. And when it comes to a woman, they will probably spend a fair amount of time doing their makeup. The Right Smell
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Reactive Behaviour: What Causes Reactive Behaviour?
We all have our own style of behaviour and this can change when one is around different people and based on how one feels. As one grows and changes as person; this can also lead to ones behaviour altering. And there will be times when ones behaviour is a response to situations and other times when it is a reaction. If it is a response it will be coming from a place of awareness and self control. And if it is a reaction, it will be coming from a place of unawareness and lack of self control. Part Of Life
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Critical Thinking: Is ‘Climate Change’ Just Another Way For The Establishment To Enslave Humanity?
In recent weeks, a lot of ‘activists’ have been holding up traffic and laying on the ground, amongst other things, in order to get their point across. To these people, it is crystal clear that the planet is not in a good way, which is why they are going out of their way to get this point across to as many people as possible. Naturally, not everyone has responded positively to what these people have been doing. One reason for this is that these people have caused a number of disruptions, making it hard for some people to get to work. The Greater Good
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Oliver JR Cooper
''We repress parts of ourselves and we then project those parts out into the world and in turn, become the victims of our own projections'' - Oliver JR Cooper ''Friends are a gift and not a right'' - Oliver JR Cooper ‘‘Whether our life will rise or fall will depend on the quality of our relationship with ourself and as an extension of that - our relationships with others'' - Oliver JR Cooper ''In a dysfunctional family, the word 'family' is often seen as a license for abuse'' - Oliver J R Cooper ‘’Trying to achieve perfection is a bit like trying to get to the end of a rainbow, not only is it impossible, it also doesn’t exist '' - Oliver JR Cooper ‘It is easier to hate another, than to look at what we hate about ourselves’ - Oliver JR Cooper ''How emotionally healthy someone is can be known through how functional their relationships are '' - Oliver JR Cooper ''Whereas the mind has ideas about life, the body is life. There is no separation when it comes to the body and life’’ - Oliver JR Cooper
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