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We hear a lot about the Supermom Syndrome but rarely about our Superdads.
We place higher expectations on fathers in today's society than ever before.
Unlike previous generations, dads today are expected to take a proactive role in
caring for the children physically as well as ... Views: 1433
One of the most important decisions to make before trying surrogacy is whether to use traditional surrogacy or gestational surrogacy. There are different advantages and disadvantages on these two types of surrogacy. Traditional surrogacy involves the use of the surrogate mother’s own egg cells ... Views: 1374
In the recent months and years we have been faced with extreme issues of tragedy:
" The attacks of 9/11
" The tsunami in Asia
" The extreme floods in New Orleans.
It is hard enough for us as adults to understand these tragedies; for children they can be extremely overwhelming. But children ... Views: 1305
Training in counselling...
Many take this up as a new career but others can be drawn to it simply because they wish to understand themselves and their loved ones and give them the right hep when needed. It is good to help others and it is even better if you can help them to transform their ... Views: 1515
Potty training is not an easy time for them or their parents. It can be a stressful time with a lot of expectations but thankfully there are some training tools around to help parents now. One of those tools is the use of little boy or little girl potty training pants. There is some debate about ... Views: 718
Parents often feel guilty for having done something they believe they should not have done to their children. Whether or not both parents work outside of home, raising a child takes a village. Even those “lucky” few who live close to their extended family rarely have access to as much support as ... Views: 645
Among the parents I coach, I find that that one near-universal issue arises at some point in the coaching process: How do we take the pain out of bedtime? Here are some real solutions to this often-frustrating everyday issue.
Set up a family meeting. Using the same approach that you would with ... Views: 1687
Has your child been diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) or attention deficit disorder (ADD)? If so, your son or daughter may have been prescribed a medication to treat it. Learn how these medications can cause unwanted side effects and how you can help treat your ... Views: 1621
A man calls me asking for help with a high fever in his 7 month old daughter and we do a short session over the phone.
I start by scanning the girls field for upsets,viruses,bacteria, toxins etc ( thank you Stephen Daniels for teaching me how to do this )
I've got the fathers connection ... Views: 1991
Halloween has changed dramatically since I was a little girl. Then, Halloween was asking Mom for an old sheet or raiding her fabric stash and then fashioning my own costume with lots of imagination. Then I got to visit a few of the neighbors (most of whom were relatives) for treats and that ... Views: 1409
Goodbye trophy wife. Hello, trophy kids.
Young, gorgeous women hanging on the arms of an older, affluent guy is so yesterday. Alpha kids with high status achievements are the trophies of today.
Yes, raising kids with every imaginable benefit can pay off. Many of them are remarkably ... Views: 1542
Based on my 30 years of experience of working with troubled teenagers, I've compiled this list of warning signs that a parent should for indicating that the teen needs professional help.
1. Your teen refuses to abide by anything you say or request, and his or her resulting behaviors put your ... Views: 2920
If you are looking for help for troubled teenagers, you may be in a heartbroken state of mind.
Losing a child is unbelievably painful, whether to death or to rebellion. Having your own teen reject you and all you've done for them is every bit as painful as being physically assaulted.
There ... Views: 4397
Truth or Consequence
By Diane J. Ackerman
Children should respect their elders. Is this true? Ones first response might be, “Well of course it’s true!” However, if we were to think through this illusion we may discover that the reality is children do not respect their ... Views: 1639
Contrary to popular opinion, tutors don’t always work with students of school age. There are many adults who also need their services. For example, someone who is new to this country may be having trouble learning the language, and they will turn to a tutor who can school them in this ... Views: 884
If you are a parent and you have been recording and taking photographs of your child for a long time, there is probably a high chance you wish to show them off to your family members, friends or maybe even public! There are many websites and applications out there that will allow you to do so, ... Views: 771
Parenting is far from easy; it takes consistency and tenacity. While raising children, we plant many seeds in them and hope they will grow. It is difficult to know how we are doing as parents and what the end results will be, because these seeds take many years to cultivate. We may feel like ... Views: 1297
"There are little eyes upon you and they're watching night and day.
There are little ears that quickly take in every word you say.
There are little hands all eager to do everything you do.
And a little child who's dreaming of the day he'll be like you."
-- author unknown
What are ... Views: 1329
No matter what event you are planning, be it a corporate party, a fundraiser for your favorite charity, or your annual summer festival, you and your group will be looking for attractive and inexpensive entertainment that is sure to please the crowds and make keep them coming back for ... Views: 116
It was a hot summer day and with little rain having fallen lately, I went outside to get the hose. I was just about to turn on the water and then I saw it. There it was, in the middle of my garden, a spectacular sight, something I had never seen before.
Imagine this image - two rose blooms – ... Views: 1559
Parents today multitask like superheroes. Well, we all know the hardships behind this ‘Parent’ tag and how difficult it is to tackle a child. Ahem! Children in this case! You have two kids, right? And right now, you are reading this post to understand how to efficiently manage both of them ... Views: 626
We have all been there, the things you said you would never say when you are a parent come flying out of your mouth. We often don’t even realize what we are saying, in our moments of frustration. I want to start with two questions you should never ask your kids and why they are not good ... Views: 896
Two Questions Your Teen May Not Be Asking You (Even Though They Want To)
Teens of every generation have the same questions--but not always the same language and phrasing. The children of 1950s, 60s, and 70s America weren’t asking how to “advocate for themselves” with that specific ... Views: 1240
Plenty of parents call me this time of year, exhausted and tell me, “my teen needs therapy stat!” or “I was fine raising my child but now that he/she’s an adolescent I’m at a loss”. Parenting a teenager is a new and scary experience for most, and to shift how you interact with your children can ... Views: 1301
It was a typical evening in our home. Arguments from my teenager, opposition from my preschooler – family dynamics that were driving me crazy. I don’t remember quite what sent me over the edge. I do remember reaching my limit. We’ve all been there. However, this time, for me, was different. ... Views: 1078
Numerous children continue to enter the foster care system every day, each with a different background and unique situation. In an effort to provide the proper care and accommodations for the multitude of foster care children that need a caring and stable environment, there are various types of ... Views: 1319
There is no one who knows your child better than you as the parents. Learn what early milestones are expected while your baby is growing. If you learn there are concerns about your child’s development, consult with a health care professional as soon as possible. Always trust your instincts. ... Views: 7251
February is heart month…and the focus is on love. From the romantic love surrounding Valentine’s Day; the compassionate love evoked as we are encouraged to support Heart and Stroke Foundations; to the acts of love from our hearts as we participate in the 14th anniversary of Random Acts of ... Views: 1999
Whether or not you think it can happen in your home, your teenager is most likely experimenting with drugs or alcohol. I say that because you probably wouldn’t be reading this "teen troubles" article unless you were already having some pretty big problems with your teen.
It’s always ... Views: 1883
If you're a parent of a youngster with ADHD, adjusting for your kid’s behavior must be quite difficult. But, have you ever known that diet plays an important role in the mood swings of one's child? Research said that the rise of sugar levels would usually boost these mood swings. This, however, ... Views: 533
Hopefully, society is well past the "politically correct" theory (an oxymoron in a democratic society) that the ONLY difference between a male and a female is in socialization-—that aside from reproductive organs, there is no difference between the sexes neurologically, psychologically, or ... Views: 1493
I believe that our parenting model comes from God, who carries the bulk of the work for us as parents. God's love for us drew us into relationship with him, and I contend that this loving relationship then influenced us into obedience to Him. We work toward and remain in obedience because we do ... Views: 916
This week it seems my work week will be rearranged so I can support son while he is working through an ear infection and teething fevers. Am I happy about it? Not really, but ultimately my first priority beyond any reasonable doubt is my son's health and well-being.
It is somewhat out of my ... Views: 1338
Sometimes as a parent of teenage children you can feel like your children are driving you crazy or that your children are crazy. Mood swings may be the norm and odd behavior can seem like a daily occurrence. What once was a happy, outdoorsy 5 year old may have turned in to a moody 16 year-old ... Views: 1757
There are many conditions that may afflict a newborn baby. Some may not manifest as dangerous, but may be so; others that seem to be serious, may turn out to be normal. Read on to find out what needs immediate attention and what may not be as serious as it looks.While you might have several ... Views: 757
Let’s face it, parenting can be a challenge. One can be highly educated, financially well-off, and a have a huge support network and still find it difficult to raise children. Most parents are conscientious and want to do what is best to help their children develop into smart, stable and ... Views: 1596
Today, the most followed surrogacy procedure is the gestational surrogacy process. It is the type of surrogacy where the surrogate mother will carry the child that was conceived by using the intended couples’ sperm and eggs or using the donor’s sperm and eggs. In this type of surrogacy, the ... Views: 557
Today, the most followed surrogacy procedure is the gestational surrogacy process. It is the type of surrogacy where the surrogate mother will carry the child that was conceived by using the intended couples’ sperm and eggs or using the donor’s sperm and eggs. In this type of surrogacy, the ... Views: 726
Having recently learned that you are pregnant, you likely have found that you have a great deal of questions pertaining to your pregnancy and your diet. Through this article you are provided with an informational overview of the importance of nutritional supplements during your pregnancy. ... Views: 903
Surrogacy is one of the best options for many childless couples who would like to have children of their own. This process is slowly gaining popularity because of its high rate of success. Although this process is difficult, expensive and can get emotional it always provides hope and can result ... Views: 509
Surrogacy is an agreement between a surrogate mother and intended parents for the conception and nurturing of a child. The mutual agreement should always be legal and binding to avoid any unwanted legal complications. For intended couples, surrogacy is a great way to finally have a biological ... Views: 620
Each and every person has needs they need, meet each day regardless of age. For an adult there are basic requirements such as nutrition, sleep and exercise. There are also several other requirements which are produced by the individual themselves such as a need for entertainment, mourning and ... Views: 718
By Believe Your Own Mind
Dealing with a toxic or narcissistic ex can feel like riding an emotional rollercoaster, with sudden dips and sharp turns that leave you feeling dizzy and disoriented. These mood swings can occur frequently, often on a daily or even hourly basis, making it difficult to ... Views: 431
Gifts play a vital role in building and strengthening relationships. Though there may be people who don't like the very idea of gifting in a relation, one can't just undermine the significance of gifts. And when it comes to romantic relationships, gifting becomes all the more important. However, ... Views: 685
The splash of color comes to life as senior Natalie Smith, quietly bends over her artwork adding the final details to her abstract painting. She studies it and continues to dab her paint brush into the canvas, slowly breathing life into her masterpiece.
When asked why she enjoys painting, she ... Views: 1989
Many of us, myself included, have suffered through difficult childhoods. It is with greater clarity that we are able to evaluate our past from an adult perspective. Though we may be cognizant of the root of our pain, our childhood experiences were tightly woven into the cloth that made us who ... Views: 1419
WHO’S MAKING YOUR PARENTING DECISIONS?
You.... or the Mommy Police?
The Mommy Police? They’re just a fiction--an adult version of the Bogey Man, aren’t they?
Well, maybe they don’t actually inhabit the bodies of the living dead like your mother-in-law, your ex-pediatrician and that ... Views: 1004
Our words are very powerful tools, especially with impressionable children. We need to pause and think before we give corrections and feedback on what our children are doing.
Criticism Is Punitive
Our children judge themselves on the opinions we have of them. When we use harsh words, demeaning ... Views: 1615
This is the fact that any attack by terrorist affects the citizen of any country. And same happened with 9/11 terrorist attack. The attack not only hit the country’s economic structure but citizens were also badly affected physically and mentally as well.
Let’s first discuss something about ... Views: 843
There are many couples who desperately want to have their own child but are unfortunate not to have one because of some medical reasons such as infertility. Some choose to adopt and some choose to go for surrogacy so they can have a child that is biologically related to them.
Many couples are ... Views: 667