Power and Lovern[Vinod Anand] All of us contain within ourselves two strong but distinctly different fundamental forces that are in tension: power and love. In working for social change, we need both. The problem is — whether we openly acknowledge it or not — each of us is tilted more towards one or the other, falling into either the power-camp or the love-camp. Our task then is to learn to work with each of them, rather than denying their hold onus.
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Gratitude Count your blessings!I remember sitting in my sister’s yard (my home at the time) with my dog, beauty all around me, the neighbors’ roosters running around me; and feeling a sense of calm and fulfillment. I was so grateful for my surroundings and my family and good friends.
Are you wondering if youâre burned out or afraid you may be getting there? Here are some quick tips to see if you are burned out and what you can do about it. rnAre you experiencing two or more of the following? rn1) Difficulty getting out of bed and getting to work in the mornings.rn2) Increased ...Are you wondering if youâre burned out or afraid you may be getting there? Here are some quick tips to see if you are burned out and what you can do about it. rnAre you experi
All young children love to spice up and say play, and they're going to not be upset in the selection of kids outfits. Dressing up apparel can be as easy as a pirate hat and even sword, or maybe a full fit with a cover and wig and add-ons. It is best fancy dress outfits from distinct genres for a child's fascination with the role-playing gameplay account. A lot of kids fancy dress outfits based on movie or Tv for pc characters, outfits, or can be seasonal. Halloween season is
People speculate a lot with the word trust and they do it on purpose. I would like to make a few clarifications about it... Many times trust is mixed with faith. But to have faith is one thing and to trust someone is something completely different. Faith is pointing outwards, it is created outside and is based on other people experiences and achievements. Trust is facing inwards, it is built within us and is based on the personal experience and achievements. Meaning of the words is irrelevant when we are not moving anywhere and we don’t want to know anything about ourselves.
We all want to have joy and abundance, but get stuck in the monotony of jobs, families, and responsibilities. This monotony can make life seemingly float by without authenticity. What can you do to attract joy and abundance into your everyday life? Here are four ways to easily add flavor to your life through joy, abundance, and fulfillment. Gratitude and Personal Development Gratitude is the essence of joy! When we are grateful, we are optimistic and joyful. One practical sug
What if this was your last week on this planet? Seriously now, just a take a couple moments and really let yourself wrap your head around this one. I promise you it'll be worth it. What if your life was almost over? How would you feel? Would you be thrilled at how you've lived or would you be ...
When we want something badly, most believe it takes long study, hard work, and paying dues to get it. But what if getting what we want is much easier than that? What if the key to reaching our dream is simply feeling good? Many of us jump right into "busy" activity we think is required to ...
If procrastination is holding you back in life, these 4 simple steps are a sure way to help you overcome your endless struggle with procrastination. Youâll soon be able to achieve those daunting tasks and in some cases, even look forward to doing them!nnStep 1: Identify the REAL cause of your procrastinationnnThe first step is finding out what causes procrastination. People often use the word as if procrastination itself is the problem. For example, âYou know, I really ha
People often make fun of me when I tell them about my #DWTS (Dancing with the Stars) twitter activities. And they wonder what Twitter has to do with growing my business. I am the first to admit that I am a #DWTS ‘addict’, LOL – however, social media has played a large part in the growth of my business and with relationships. I first connected on Twitter and learned about chat rooms about 5 years ago. I didn’t really take advantage of it at first.
While there is simply no substitute for eating healthy unprocessed whole foods, there is some need to complement your diet with some nutritional supplements. One of these is CoenzymeQ1O (COQ10) which has been available for decades. COQ10 limits free radical production, which affects the aging process. It also helps boost your body’s cellular energy production. Free radicals are oxygen atoms deficient in electrons that become highly reactive. This in turn causes potential damage to your tissues and DNA. So exactly is CoEnzymeQ10?
Now before I get into how it is possible for diabetes to be controlled and preventable, let me first talk about what a disastrous disease it is. As of now type 2 diabetes has killed 23 million people and pre-diabetes has killed 57 million people. It also affects one in four Americans.
Growing up in Australia means growing up with sheep.nnWell, kind of.nnNot that we have them sleeping in our lounge room or running around our front yard or anything, but Australia, amongst other things, is a farming nation and at some stage, most Aussie kids (although less these days) have spent time at their uncle's farm (it's always an uncle) rounding up the sheep or cows on their school holidays.nnOr they grew up on a farm themselves.nnNow, I'm no sheep-ologist (my site, m
Chasing happiness has become an all too common practice in our modern world. If it is not the promotion we are chasing it is the boat or the car. Why is it that many of us are always in pursuit of those last few pieces of our lives that we believe will give us our ideal life? Why is it that the ideal life never comes? It is most likely because there always seems to be a few acquisitions in the way. At least this is how much of society travels through life. After all, this is
A quick nod of heads – how many of you are working Moms? How many of you feel overwhelmed, unsupported, misunderstood, exhausted and discouraged? And, simultaneously, as you work in your own business, how many of you feel elated, passionate, ‘on purpose’, celebrated, validated and rich? I want to salute you! I really do! In North America, on the second Sunday of May, we celebrate Moms.
We all eat. But how mindful are we of every bite we take? nnYour mother always told you to slow down and taste your food. Thatâs great advice, especially when we find ourselves grabbing a quick snack on the run or eating a meal while driving. How we eat says as much about us as what we choose to eat. nnWe can learn a great deal by paying attention to our eating habits. Our appetites change depending on our moods. If weâre depressed, we may eat more than usual or we may lo
Many entrepreneurs go about their busy day, typically doing some of the exact same things that they were doing the day before- the week before – and even the year before. Most of us do not even operate on a conscious level. At one of my master mind meetings last year, we were given an exercise to do – create a ‘Tolerations’ List for your life and for your business. This exercise was a real eye-opener and so very powerful that I, in turn, shared it with my own local master mind group. The discussions we had about this list were astounding, to say the least.
Everyone wants a hug from someone they love or like-no matter how cold the heart is, it will be melted through the warm hugs. Many people are aware of how cuddling can calm their feelings for a short time. But do you know it gives a lot more health benefits-yes, you heard it right! Prevents Stress Before it Comes A recent study published in PLoS One investigated whether the effects of a good hug can soothe you throughout the day despite encountering conflicts afterward. After
It all has to match if you want to live a happy life! In my experience as a workshop facilitator, speaker and coach, over the past 25 years, this is the question that gets me the most blank stares from people! Geez, most of us don't even know what we want for supper tonight, let alone what we want for our lives! Are you just reactively going through life, from day to day, hour by hour, taking whatever comes your way? Is that good enough for you? What lessons are you teaching your children? Have you 'settled' because it's easy, safe and not as scary as living the life you really want?
Just the other night, I was watching one of my favorite TV shows, “Hawaii 5-0,” where one of the main characters featured in that night’s episode was a young woman, a veteran, who’d served in Afghanistan, during which time she’d lost both legs. The show was forthright in its brief portrayal of some of the tough challenges such vets can face: depression, falling into substance abuse to alleviate the physical and mental anguish, homelessness. But the clincher, for me, was to s
Many years ago a particular phrase came across my desk and caught my full attention. It was at first a bit confusing to me since the utterance seemed incongruent. The phrase was "Be Content Yet Never Satisfied!" Interestingly enough, as the years go by it becomes clearer to me that they are in fact truly different words with very different meanings. They are not as I first thought synonymous. The phrase provoked a lot of questions which left me wondering. Did I derive great
Americans are among the unhealthiest people on earth and this situation continues to get even worse. Learn to get healthy the nutritional way. The reason is clear why this unfortunate situation continues to be so frightening. You cannot get well by taking prescription drugs to resolve your ailment. I don’t understand why the general public is so gullible to think this is the way to wellness.r
Can I tell you, frankly, how sick I am of the story that because we do what we love, we should always be jubilant, light hearted, blissed out, can't-wait-to-get-out-of-bed every-bloody-morning happy and content? Have you ever fell into this belief? What a disservice this myth does to women like you and me and the two glistening creative souls quoted below--Carla Blazek and Kirsten Oppe. Here is my claim: you can do what you love, for a living or a part-time living or simply b
One of the most basic human needs is companionship. We are people people, social creatures, and we need to feel accepted by others. The same desire that left you with baited breath during elementary school kick ball, when captains were picking teams, is still with you as an adult. It is a deep ...
Have you ever paid big bucks and taken the time/money to travel and attend high end events? And then you get home, with a HUGE binder of notes and handouts – put it on a shelf somewhere – and get back to the jungle of life and your business? Of course you have – we all have! But what good does that do? In today’s article, I want to share some simple steps that I take to ensure that I get a return on my investment. Try them – you’ll like them.
As different as we may all be from each other, we are all connected. There are an infinite number of ways in which we are all the same, but the most obvious of all is often the most overlooked. We all want to be happy. The fact that we are all trying to be happy in our lives is such an obvious statement that it almost seems pointless to bring up. But it is this very fact that causes all of our problems in life. On our quest to become happy we are all pursuing different paths.
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Discovering God in the Gapsrn(Vinod Anand) Consider three common scenarios: (1) A lady is sick for a longtime with a chronic disease. Despite unsparing efforts by her family and best medical expertise, there is no improvement in her condition, (2) a man toils very bard at his work. But his income is meager and not enough to support his family. Despite his best efforts at finding additional source of income or another job, his financial situation does not improve
I hope you’re sitting down while you read this – because I have some really mind-blowing information to cover today! Did you know that every person in the world has the ability to become psychic? It’s true! You may not think it’s within your power, but trust me it truly ...
It has been said, if you want a better result, ask a better question. What questions are you asking yourself in this New Year? If your questions are not getting you the results you desire, here are eleven questions you can ask yourself in 2011.
The time has come for us to take responsibility for our lives. Let's put it this way, even if we do not take the responsibility, we are still responsible so we might as well step up to the plate now and realize that everything that happens to us in our personal lives, our country, our world and our universe is, in some part, created by us.
If you’re not happy with the skin you’re in and would like to change it (and believe it’s possible), you’re ready for a 30 day body/mind transformation. Follow these steps to guarantee yourself a new experience with your body within 30 days!1. What do you want?First figure out what your target ...
Angels play an important role in Christmas celebrations. The word, "Angel" is derived from the Hebrew and Greek words which simply means "messenger". Angels are depicted as immortal, human like in appearance, transparent with wings who live in the heavens, come to us as the intermediaries of a ...
Is fear holding you back? How do you feel when you are not able to accomplish something because you are afraid? Have you heard the saying that F-E-A-R is ‘False Evidence Appearing Real’ or ‘Fantasized Evidence Appearing Real’? Perhaps you were somewhere that you wanted to get up and speak but the palpitations were so bad you couldn’t. Maybe you want to audition for American Idol but are unable to get up in front of an audience. Are you ready to be on America’s Next Top Model but fear is holding you back?
Easter is the oldest and the most significant Christian festival, the merriment of the death and coming to life once more of Jesus Christ. For Christian civilization, the dawn of Easter Sunday with its message of new life is the elevated position of the Christian year. The easter and other related holidays do not fall on fixed dates, because they follow the Jewish Lunar calendar and not the solar Gregorian calendar. Usually, the first Sunday after the full moon that falls on
End your "pursuit of happiness" by discovering the art of "having happiness now." Has it ever seemed to you that: relationships are free but happiness is sold separately? Learn why authentic happiness is a choice you can start making today, and discover how to start finding the happiness you're looking for just one step away.nnWould you like to be 100% happier than you are now? How about 1,000% happier? What stands between you and having greater happiness now? Read on to see
No one knows you as well as you know yourself. You possess a wealth of information going back perhaps to before you were even born. You know exactly what makes you tick, what you are attracted to and repelled by, what energizes you and deflates you, what is good for you and not good for you. ...
When was the last time you gave a compliment to a total stranger? How did you feel? Did you feel uplifted, happy, full of abundance? Truth is, by giving a compliment, you are gifting away good energy while receiving a good feeling while doing it. Living in a city of 17 million people, we may rarely receive a compliment let alone a smile, why is that? Is it that hard to give a compliment? Are we more secluded in a big city than in a smaller one?rn rnNever the less, todayâs j
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Help Spread The Good News! I believe that people everywhere need to be woken up to the life that they could be living. Do you have friends and loved one’s who seem to be sleep-walking through life? Do the energy and the light seem to have faded from their eyes? Has their marriage lost its luster? Do these folks believe that the promise of their lives that was as clear to them as a child has turned out to be just another childhood fairy tale?r
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Macular degeneration is the leading cause of blindness and severe vision impairment for people over 55 worldwide. The central part of the retina in the back of the eye is known as the macula. The retina is where you process all visual images allowing us to read, and to see people and colors. Macular degeneration (MD) affects central vision and this gradually deteriorates causing functional blindness. Peripheral is initially not greatly affected; however macular degeneration widens over time to reduce peripheral vision.
Driving dow Pacific Coast Highway the other day, I was surprised to see that the large light-board sign plunked in the median strip near a major cross-street read, “Don’t text and drive.” For the past many years, that sign read, “Don’t drink and drive.” Apparently texting has replaced drinking as the primary cause of accidents on that roadway. Which brought to mind the many times I’ve found myself having to slow to a crawl when walking through the mall, or down a sidewalk, b
Do not always fix on the Destination; Enjoy the Potential Pleasures of the Journey itself [Vinod Anand] Do you think a desire to pass an examination in mathematics is necessary for motivating one to practice solving mathematics problems, or even for actually passing the examination? Not quite. A student, who likes mathematics, will solve the problems because he gets pleasure out of it. He enjoys each step that gradually leads to the solution of the problem. He will pass the examination too as a natural outcome of his effort, without specifically desiring that outcome.
Sometimes life seems so complex and chaotic that we really have no idea where to start to wrest back control over it. It may be necessary for you to take a personal time out. This time out may be with family and/or friends; like a vacation. However I believe that you really need to spend some time completely alone before you will be able to perceive your world with clarity. When’s the last time that you took time for yourself? When’s the last time you were all alone for an hour, a day, a weekend, or a month?r
5 Steps to Creating the Home of Your Dreams Whether your home consists of 2 rooms or 20, your home should make you smile, feel like a big warm hug and be the place for you that youâd rather be than anywhere else! As you go about the process of making your house your home donât be as concerned with âdecoratingâ in the traditional sense as you are with âcreatingâ a home that reflects your sense of style and is pleasing to you. Above all, fill your home with love, jo
F E A Rrn“Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood”rn- Marie Curie Baby steps allow me to stay on target, to move forward slowly but surely towards my goal. Baby steps also allow me to break down my fear into smaller segments that are more easily manageable.
“Discomfort is not a problem to be solved, not an enemy to be fought, not a monster to escape from; but instead an energetic relationship within, to be owned with courage and grace, and transformed through total acceptance, divine wisdom, and love.” Joe Hurley We all experience discomfort at one point or another in our lives. And many people have been experiencing some intense discomfort lately. In this article, I focus on the subject of healing discomfort.
Many of us are a bit wistful during the Thanksgiving holiday. Perhaps, it is because we are bullied into feeling grateful and happy. Perhaps, some of us feel alone and do not quite fit into the picture-perfect mold consisting of cherubic children and warm, loving family members seated around a ...
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