So, you want to market your business? – How sensible of you!
We both know that you absolutely have to do that …
And yet, though you say that you know why you need to do it…
Though you say that you actually want to…
Though you keep asking questions about exactly how to market your ... Views: 575
Facebook ads can seem like an easy way to get things working in your business or they can seem like the most difficult thing you have ever done. Probably a mixture of both.
Here are a few ideas for you to consider as you grow using ads…
1. Complacency Kills
It seems so easy to just click ... Views: 727
Today, I am starting the ‘FREE YOUR SEXUALITY’ free 3 day mini-course and it scares me a little because I will be asking people to think through the rules they live to in terms of their sexuality.
And people get scared when their foundations get shaken.
And scared people can lash out at ... Views: 1089
I feel like my writing muscle is broken… (Yes for me, my money making is related to my content and honey, if you are in business then so is yours!)
I cannot reach the flow and stay in there…
I keep starting a post, stopping a post and I cannot seem to make it flow…
And so here I am talking ... Views: 895
YOU are leader and therefore you must communicate with your people…
Imagine Martin Luther with nothing to say…
Or Jesus without the 4 books written about all he had to say…
And I get it, leader…
You don’t yet think you are quite up to that standard of leadership…
But who made you ... Views: 746
It is hard to just show up…
To just be you…
To believe that you are enough…
You want to dress it up…
You don’t want anyone to see the real you…
Because you don’t think they will like it…
And so you ask questions like “How long should my videos be?”
“How many words should I ... Views: 1001
Some people like to judge others.
They say others are too rich, too greedy, too worldly, too money-focused, too selfish or too lazy and it all is a reflection of what they themselves are on the inside.
I am not that person…
I do not seek to judge anyone though I have my moments when I ... Views: 714
Let me prepare you a little by saying, I intend to sound uncaring and harsh and unfeeling but it is mostly because I love you!
And you need to be free of this craziness…
Let’s begin…
I have person upon person tell me their sad story of woe when it comes to their finances…
“Oh, everytime I ... Views: 802
I wanted to build a business online for a very long time…
I dabbled and tried all those get rich quick scheme things where you click this button, follow that other step by step thing and money would somehow automatically get thrown at you…
YEAH RIGHT!
A lot of my university days were ... Views: 1505
Simple Answer – NEVER!
Your life is your life at the moment and actually, it is the life of most entrepreneurs – at least the ones who are honest about it!
If you want to make money doing what you love, if you want to impact people with your product, service, if you want to ... Views: 869
It was only 8 or so years ago when I wondered this – When will my life begin? I was humming the tune to Tangled in my head and wondering when things would change, when I would have the dreams I longed for, when I would feel alive again, when I would love life again.
I had been bankrupt a few ... Views: 1681
I became a mum about 9 years ago when the beautiful, wonderful T came into my life. It was, like most mums would agree, a HUGE change.
And for the first few weeks, figuring out the breastfeeding (which was one of the toughest things I have EVER done!), the lack of sleep, the constant ... Views: 919
OK, so honestly, I don’t even know that I should be talking about this yet because I have no pat answers to give…
Maybe, there will never be any pat answers…
But let’s talk about it anyway…
This is the thing…
When you are one of us, Deliberate Millionaires ... Views: 759
Let me come right out and just say this to you – You are paying far too much attention to what everyone else thinks you should be doing and so it is getting in the way of you listening to your own unique money-maker.
Your internal wisdom is crying out but the sound of everyone else is ... Views: 703
So much energy…
So much vigour…
You gave it your all…
You showed up!
You spoke your truth!
You did the videos!
The livestreams!
Wrote the blogs!
Did the quote images!
Oh yes, YOU PLAYED FULL OUT…
For about ... Views: 766
I used to wander aimlessly through life wondering what I felt motivated to do…
Wondering why I did not feel inspired to do what I said I wanted to do…
Wondering why I did not get my own version of the ‘Because I want to’ Life!
I had bought into a lie…
A lie that in order to do something ... Views: 872
So, I woke up to a negative email from someone…
It got past my filters and I read it way before I should have! I had not done my journalling for the day. And yes, as I always walk with Spirit, I had connected but I like to have long convos with Him first thing before looking to see ... Views: 844
I used to think I was proud and horrible for wanting to follow my heart. The training I received at church at the time, seemed to always suggest that I had to lay down my gifts and talents and all the stuff I actually wanted to do, in order to figure out what God wanted me to do and to follow ... Views: 834
In the last few days, I have been led to focus on releasing elements of my past…
It is as though every book, every blog, every EVERYTHING that comes my way is directing me towards releasing the drama of my past so that I am powered forward to my chosen future…
And I am so thankful that Spirit ... Views: 878
OK, so I admit that I use that word and phrase quite a lot in the work that I do. People want to feel called, I want to feel called and yes, I admit that I am called but you know what?!
I still have a choice!
I still have a freaking choice as to whether I do the work I feel called to do ... Views: 919
This is the question that plagues your mind. You have worked hard, put something together that you know will absolutely help anyone that avails themselves of it and yet, it is so hard to get anyone to make a move, to pull out their wallet, to pay you the money to allow you to serve ... Views: 917
For the longest time, I lived a half-life…
I knew I was capable of more and yet, I refused to live it out…
And now, I look back and realise that it was a choice…
A choice to believe the lies about not mattering…
A choice to believe the lies about not being important enough…
A ... Views: 881
I used to think that the inner cravings inside of me had to be tamed in order for me to be accepted by God and man.
I have always wanted to speak to a large group of people, sing to them, write and have my words read by them. I have always known that I have something to say and I have ... Views: 822
7 billion…
That is the number of people roaming the earth today…
And that number is increasing…
Every minute babies are born, and people die but overall, we are created for expansion and so the number of people on the planet continues to increase.
Some get scared by it…
They want ... Views: 1150
Some days, it just don’t feel good
And yet, you gotta keep moving forward…
Some days, you want to hand in the towel and become a norm…
And yet, if you ain’t got the dream yet, then you gotta keep moving forward…
Some days, you are going to want to yell and scream and shout about the ... Views: 1461
Some days, you will go for that promotion, think you are going to get it and… defeat will be snatched from the mouth of victory…
Some days, you will lose a loved one and it will break your heart…
Some days, you will put your heart and soul into selling your next program, and no one will buy ... Views: 1515
There is a part of you that doubts that you can have it all…
And because you doubt it, you will always put the brakes on…
You will subconsciously tell yourself to chill out and enjoy this moment because this might be all you can get…
You will be indecisive about what to do next and even when ... Views: 1055
You have a dream, a big dream of life being easier and more amazing than it is at the moment…
You also have a doubt, a big doubt that it can never really get any better than this…
And unfortunately, the doubt wins.
And so you stay stuck.
Wanting but fighting yourself and therefore ... Views: 1195
Yes, honey, it is true…
Everyone around you, well, if they are norms anyway, wants you to just fit into their little narrow box…
They want you to conform, to play nice, to be nice, to be whatever they want you to be, to keep them comfortable…
You may think it is because your loved ones love ... Views: 740
Aaaargh, I am watching you…
Seeing you doing exactly the same old, same old nonsense over and over again…
Each time, you coat it in reasonable sounding nonsense that allows you ONCE AGAIN to lay down your dreams and give way to the fear and procrastination…
And yet you keep lying to yourself ... Views: 789
You have had this big dream, this big idea for as long as you can remember…
The one where you impact a whole lot of people for good…
The one where you do something that changes the world…
The one where you do not just read the news but where you actually make the news happen…
And you dreamt ... Views: 818
I walked through most of my life feeling unworthy…
Always rebelling against what people wanted me to do because I had this inner voice telling me that it just would not suit me…
Family wanted me to remain a pharmacist instead of go into my own business…
NOPE!
Family wanted me to ... Views: 1405
You have a story…
It is one of rejection…
It is a story of not being loved by the very ones that were supposed to love you – your parents to begin with and then it spread to those you learnt to trust – They proved unworthy of that trust…
And now you walk around wounded but you do not even ... Views: 753
Nope, I don’t say this to warm the cockles of your heart and make you feel comforted and stuck in place…
I say this to help you remember that you have always been and you will always be a winner…
And because you are a winner, there is no room for the wimpiness that sometimes can be ... Views: 729
When last did you take a time out?
A time that was completely yours, to do with whatever you will?
Not a time filled with mindless entertainment that prevents you from contemplating…
Not a time when you escape thinking by flicking through Facebook, or some other technological distraction…
A ... Views: 1377
I see you going around thinking that unless you are perfect in all of your ways then you do not have the right to win.
And it is just a silly excuse!
A silly crazy excuse that keeps you from even giving your dream and vision a great big go!
You can tell yourself that you made a mistake, ... Views: 862
Oh man! This is the kind of thing that I have been wanting to write for ever but never thought I could…
Because I thought that my people, the ones I am called to serve, only wanted to hear about tips, tricks, strategies and honey, I have an abundance of those – Work with me, you ... Views: 704
For most of my life, I have felt like an outsider…
I was a little bit too white (and still am) to understand and live to the ‘rules’ of my Black African family…
And I am obviously too black to be considered white…
I have always wanted more than the regular person and I have always ... Views: 841
Can I let you into a secret?
It is not self-hatred to no longer want your life as it is…
In fact, it is self-love that helps you see that you no longer want your life to play out the way it has been playing out to date…
It is self-awareness that makes you choose to go after whatever you ... Views: 702
I was actually going to title this something about – DEATH IS COMING. ARE YOU READY?
But I thought that might be too morbid and so I changed it a little. I am not sure if that was a wimpy decision or not. Probably wimpy Views: 893
You know what… I am not your regular business coach that is only going to talk to you about numbers and statistics and conversion rates and all that…
Important stuff for sure, kinda but only relevant when you are showing up and doing the work consistently…
And right now, you are ... Views: 796
Stop looking around!
Stop comparing!
Stop thinking everyone else is better than you!
the word you are really looking for is ‘DIFFERENT!’
Everyone is different from you – NOT BETTER!
You are a category of one and there is no one, NO ONE like you!
And if you would finally own ... Views: 876
There is always someone out there to tell you what you are not doing right…
There is always someone to remind you of your failings…
And how does that help anything, really?
Yes, it reminds you of the promises you made yourself this time last year and it reminds you that you have not yet ... Views: 985
You know what?!!! I KNOW it feels real, very real!
The reasons why you are stuck in place doing nothing much.
It all feels legitimate!
You tell yourself that you cannot do anything while you feel this way…
You tell yourself that you do not know enough…
You tell yourself that no ... Views: 927
Some people are under the impression that they are ants, worms, slaves for a huge deity who wants nothing but to belittle them and make them helpless and completely dependent on him/her.
And needless to say, these people struggle ALL THE TIME!
And instead of taking matters into their own ... Views: 1132
Don’t you understand that the dreams you have are just so different from most people? Don’t you see that you cannot keep comparing yourself to other people when you are simply not of this world!
You ARE different! You have always suspected it and now you can completely confirm that it is ... Views: 856
One thing you must realise is that you are not your negative thoughts...
They are simply puffs of wind passing through your brain and you get a choice as to whether to hold onto them or not.
I get it - You have been holding on to them for a long time now. I did that too!
I remember ... Views: 1223
I see you, at the bottom of the mountain, looking up at the hugeness of it…
And you wonder if you have what it take to climb up to the top…
And unlike most who would then walk sadly away back to their boring old life because they think they do not have what it takes…
You decide to begin ... Views: 795
You are chosen to live in abundance and you have tapped a little into it but there is more.
So, understand this, you can have everything you desire, including wealth but…
The Problem
You keep hiding.
You keep doubting yourself.
You keep thinking that there is something you are missing…
And ... Views: 941
There is a longing inside of my heart…
It is painful at times…
This desire to open up brains and hearts and help them see what they seem to be blind to…
The power inside of them…
THE POWER INSIDE OF YOU!
The ability to create life the way you want it…
The ability to get ... Views: 2003