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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Relationships: Why Do Some People Stay In Touch With Their Ex?

If one’s relationship has just come to an end, they could decide to cut their ties and to move on with their life. As a result of this, they are not going to want to stay in touch with their ex. One Step Back Doing so could be seen as something that will stop them from being able to put the past firmly behind them. And, if one didn’t really get on with the other person or if they simply grew apart, this is going to make perfect sense.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Social Media: Does Social Media Make It Easy For Someone To Create The Impression That They Are A Good Person?

If someone wanted to display their personality in the past, it would have been necessary for them to be around others. However, in today’s world this is no longer the case, and this is primarily due to social media. It is now possible for one to display their personality no matter where they are or what they are doing. Therefore, it can be normal for one to be on show at all times, and the only way this will change is if they deactivate their account. It’s Always There

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Why Do Some People Only Care About Their Health When They’re Nearly Dead?

What I have thought about recently is why some people only pay attention to their health when they are in a really bad way. It’s a bit like only taking a car for a service when the engine is close to exploding. When something like this takes place, it is going to be clear that they have been neglecting their health for quite some time. Not only this, they won’t have been listening to the signs that their body has been sending them Not Bad Enough

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

No One Will Listen To You!

Over the years, I have had a number of mentors, and one mentor that has had a big effect on me is one that I met at a charity event in 2003. This person was offering readings there and it turned out that this was not the only thing she did. If I remember rightly, my mother and sister had a reading with her whilst I was with my father. Shortly after the event, we all went to see her and a relationship started to form. A Number of Tools

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

The Media: Does The Mainstream Media Try To Stop People From Seeing The Big Picture?

When one has the need to find out about what is taking place in the world, there is going to be no reason for them to miss out. This comes down to the fact that the mainstream media is there to inform them. As a result of this, the only way they would miss out is if this was something that they chose to do, or if they were in the middle of nowhere. Through being away from the rest of civilisation, they won’t be any papers available or a TV, for instance. The Modern Day World

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Emotionally Disconnected: Do Some People's Childhood Set Them Up To Feel Empty?

When someone feels like a whole human being, they are going to be in tune with what is taking place in their head and what is going on in their body. One is then not going to be dead from the neck down. Connected As a result of this, one will be able to utilise the information that is in their body, meaning they won’t need to rely on their mind. They will typically be aware of how they feel and what their needs are.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

People Pleasing: Can The Fear Of Being Harmed Cause Someone To Please Others?

One of the reasons why someone would get into self-development is because they have the need to please others. What this will show is that they are aware of what is wrong and this is then why they have been able to take the next step. One Step Behind Yet, if one hasn’t reached this point, it might not be possible for them to do anything about it. The information that they need to change their life could then be right in front of them, but it won’t matter.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

The Media: Do The Events That The Media Cover Happen Randomly?

If one was to pick up a paper or to go onto a news website, for instance, it wouldn’t take them long to come across something negative. It could be said that this is partly because bad things happen in the world, and partly because the mainstream media generally focus on what is wrong as opposed to what is right about the world. Attention What this also comes down to is that human beings generally pay more attention to what is negative than they do to what is positive. This is said to come down to what was like for our ancestors.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Communication: Is It Important To Approach Others?

If someone was to go camping in the middle of nowhere and they had no food, it would be up to them to find something to eat. Due to where they are, the food that they need is not going to be delivered to them. In the same way, when someone goes to a social club or to an event, for instance, they will most likely also need to make an effort. This might not be the case if they are extremely attractive or famous. On The Sidelines

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Receiving: Can Toxic Shame Stop Someone From Being Able To Receive?

While some people can give things to others and end up receiving things from them, there are others who don’t experience life in this way. What they can find is that although they go out of their own way to help the people around them, rarely does anything come back to them. One-Sided One could be only too happy to do things for their friends and family, but this is generally going to be in vain. This is not to say that they will only help them because they expect something back though.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Self-Sabotage: Can Someone Sabotage Their Life When They Feel Worthless?

When it comes to achieving something, it can be a relatively straight forward process. There is also the chance that it won’t be this simple, and this can be because of the things that are outside of their control. Appreciation One way of looking at this would be to say that it is a good thing that there will be times when it isn’t a straight forward process, and this is due to the effect it will have on them. For one thing, this can allow them to value what they have achieved; whereas if it was always easy, it might not have the same effect.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,110 views

By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Child Abuse: What Beliefs Can Someone Have About The Opposite Sex If They Were Abused As A Child?

One thing that early abuse and/or neglect can do is set someone up to have serious relationships problems as an adult. They could be used to having relationships that are dysfunctional. Then again, it could be far worse, with them having had a number of relationships that were abusive. They will then have had a nightmare of a childhood, only for their adult years to be just as painful. Trapped

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,109 views

By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Therapy: Why Do Some Therapists Think That Their Technique Is The Best?

If one is in a position where their life is not going as they would like it to go, they could end up looking for a therapist to work with. This could mean that they will go and see their doctor or they may do an internet search, for instance. At the same time, one might ask a friend or a family member if they have any recommendations. Naturally, this is something that can all depend on what kind of relationship they have with the people around them. The Response

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,109 views

By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Relationships: Does Someone Just Need To Stay Positive If They Attract The Wrong People?

While the ideal will be for one to end up with someone who they get on with, it doesn’t mean that this is what takes place. Instead, one could have the tendency to end up with people who are not right for them. A One-Off If this was something that one had only experienced once, it might be a lot easier for them to handle. One could say that they were just unlucky, and that the next person they meet will be different.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,108 views

By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Self-Worth: Why Do Some People Only Feel Good When They Are Receiving Positive Feedback From Others?

In today’s world, it could be said that it is not difficult for someone to receive positive feedback from others. This is largely due to the fact that this is something that can take place by using social media. It’s Easy The only thing that one will need to have is some kind of device, and from here, they will be able to receive positive feedback from their ‘friends’. This will typically take place through uploading pictures and sharing what they have been doing.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,108 views

By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

True-Self: Does The Fear Of Being Harmed Stop You From Expressing Your True-Self?

If one was to think about a time when they were able to be themselves, they could say that it was possible for them to express their true-self. Whereas as if they were to think about a time in their life when they were unable to be themselves, they could say that this was a time when their false-self appeared. This would show that although one can be themselves, they can also be someone else. It could be said that the ideal would be for one to have more moments when they are themselves than moments when they are someone else. One Way

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,108 views

By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

“I Didn't Realise They Were So Insecure!”

Before I went to Mexico, in the middle of 2014, I ordered a few copies of ‘A Dialogue With The Heart - Part One: A Collection Of Poems And Dialogues From The Heart’. This was a book that I released towards the end of 2013. The reason for this was that I thought it would be good idea to leave a copy of the book in certain places, and I thought that I might come into contact with people who would appreciate the book. I didn’t end up leaving any copies anywhere, but I did give a few copies away. Tulum

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,107 views

By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Emotional Problems: Do Some People Only Know Who They Are When They Have Mental/Emotional Problems?

In recent years, there has been an ever increasing focus on mental and emotional health, and this can be seen as a good thing. For so long, this was something that was brushed under the carpet. Nowadays, this is something that is spoken about in the media and people talk openly about what is going on for them on social media. So, as there is less pressure on people to hide how they feel and to look as though they have it all together, it is a lot easier for someone to open up and to share what is going on for them. Assistance

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,107 views

By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

I Went To Sweden For A Few Days

At the end of March, I ended up going to Stockholm, Sweden for a few days and this was somewhere where I had never been before. As a result of this, I wasn’t quite sure what to expect. Having said that, what I did know is that it was going to be fairly cold and that it was supposed to be expensive there. One of the reasons why I went there was to see a friend of mine called, Peter. On The Ground

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Self-Development: Is Being Curious An Important Part Of Being Able To Heal?

If one had a TV that stopped working, there is a strong chance that they would want to know why. This comes down to the fact that if they were to simply ignore it, they wouldn’t be able to watch anything. Being curious about what is taking place is then going to have a positive effect on their life, and this is not something that will cause them to experience pain. If it did, it could be because they will have to end up paying money in order for it to be fixed, and this will cause them to experience discomfort. Not As Bad

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Relationships: Why Do Some People Have The Need To Be Needed'?

While there are people who are not interested in trying to rescue or save other people, there are others who are. As a result of this, some people will be repelled by these kinds of people and some will be drawn to them like bees to a honey pot. And no matter what kind of people someone is drawn to, this can be what is normal. What this means is that they won’t need to think about whether or not they should go towards them or move away from them; this is something that will just happen. Less Drama

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,106 views

By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

The Healing Power Of Nature!

A few weeks ago, I was having a conversation with a friend of mine called Wain, and this was a deep conversation. However, this was a conversation that was far deeper than usual and I ended up thinking about what we spoke about. I won’t go too far into what we spoke about as I sure that he will want to talk about this when the time is right, but I will touch upon the general theme. This was a time when he spoke about the relationship that we have with everything. A Few Things

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

True-Self: Can Someone Lose Themselves When They Have The Need To Please Others?

It could be said that there are two worlds: the inner world and the outer world. When it comes to the inner world, it is going to relate to what is taking place within and, when it relates to the outer world, it will relate to what is going on without. A Fine Balance Even so, this doesn’t mean that the inner world is separate from the outer world; the inner will influence the outer and vice versa. And, in order for someone to be able to express their true self, it is going to be vital for them to have a strong connection with what is taking place within them.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

“I Couldn’t Get In Touch With My Emotions!”

Towards the end of 2009 I did a Reference Point Therapy course in London, and the purpose of this course was to heal trauma. In the beginning, the person who was leading the course, Simon Rose, spoke about boundaries, the effect that our time in the womb can have on us and a number of other things. Once we had gone over different parts of the course guide, we started to pair up and to try the technique ourselves. I wasn’t looking forward to do doing this, as I found it hard to get in touch with what was taking place within me. A Real Struggle

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Every Healer Has issues!

A little while ago I wrote an article titled, ‘My Healing Technique Is The Only One That Works!’ Shortly after I had put this article altogether, I started to think about something that I hadn’t mentioned. When it came to healing, I said that there was the technique and then there was how ready someone was to heal. These two factors were then what defined whether or not someone was able to make progress. Another Component

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Assertiveness: Does Someone Need To Feel Safe In Order To Assert Themselves?

When it comes to living a fulfilling life, it is going to be vital for someone to be able to listen to their own needs. The other part of this will be for them to feel comfortable enough to fulfil them. A Life worth Living This is not to say that they will always be able to fulfil their needs, but what it does mean is that they won’t have the tendency to neglect them. What this will show is that one feels as though it is safe enough for them to be on this planet.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

If We Only Focus On What People Have Achieved, We Will Overlook What They Have Overcome!

At the beginning of last year, I shared a quote about how someone can overlook what another person has overcome if they only focus on what they have achieved. The main reaso I had created this quote was due to how people had responded to me, when I went into what I did in the past. After I left school I didn’t have a clear plan, and a few years after I left, I ended up getting into self-development. A lot of my time and energy went into trying to understand myself and working through my own baggage. The Years Went By

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Self-Destructive: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Be Self-Destructive?

While one can be in a position where they take care themselves, they can also end up doing the complete opposite. When this happens, one is not going to treat themselves with respect, and they could even go out of their way to harm themselves. If someone was to take the time to observe their behaviour, they might wonder what is going on. It could be hard for them to understand why they would treat themselves in this way. The Only Person

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

The Media: Does Hillary’s Popularity Prove How Much Control The Mainstream Media Has?

When it comes to who would make the best president, it is not uncommon for people to talk about Hillary Clinton. As far as they are conce ed, she could be seen as someone who has what it takes to lead America. This is the kind of response that people can have in the real world, and it can also take place online. There is then going to be no shortage of support when it comes to her campaign. The Reason

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

“My Healing Technique Is The Only One That Works!”

In 2015, I was speaking to a therapist called, Vijay Rana, about different healing techniques. I was talking about how some people believe that their technique is the best one available or the only one that works. After bringing this up, I went into why I thought that it wasn’t a good idea for someone to say these kinds of things. I remember saying that this can cause someone to experience problems when a technique doesn’t work for them. Self-Blame

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Critical Thinking: Is The Alte ative Media Just As Bad As The Mainstream Media?

For quite some time now, there has been another news source for people to pay attention to, and this source is often called the alte ative media. Unlike the mainstream media, this source generally disseminates their news online. So, if someone wants to hear more from this source of information, they only need to have some kind of device. They will then be able to read articles and to watch videos, along with tuning into live streams. The Difference

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Needs: Does Someone Need To Feel Safe In Order To Fulfil Their Own Needs?

Being happy is often seen as the purpose of life, and this means that a lot of people want to experience life in this way. Therefore, if someone is unhappy, they can feel compelled to find a way to be happy. Now, this could mean that they will come to believe that they will be happy once they have attained or achieved something. And, after this takes place, they will finally be able to live a life that is worth living. On the Outside

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

The Media: Does The Mainstream Media Edit Videos In Order To Control People?

When one wants to find out about what is taking place in the world, they can end up looking towards the mainstream media. This could be something that has taken place for as long as they can remember. In the past, they might have listened to the radio, watched TV or read a paper when it came to fulfilling their need to be informed. This is something that can still take place, but they now have the option of going online. On The Go

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

You Just Need To Let Go!

A few days ago I wrote an article title, ‘You Just need To Love Yourself’, and I was going to talk about this article title in the same article. But, I felt that doing so wouldn’t do justice to this important topic. So, in the same way that people can be told that they just need love themselves, they can also be told that they just need to let go. This is often something that someone can be told when they are in a lot of pain. For Example

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Self-Development: Do Some Peoples Childhood's Set Them Up To Reject Their Masculine/Feminine Side

Although someone can find it easy to be assertive, they could find it hard to be vulnerable and to open up about how they feel. Alte atively, one could find it easy to open up about how they feel, but it could be a challenge for them to be assertive. As a result of this, they are going to be out of balance in one way or another, and this is going to make their life harder than it needs to be. However, even though one might be able to identify with one of these, there is also the chance that they don’t completely match up with how they experience life. Aggressive

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Child Abuse: Is Child Abuse One Of The Reasons Why So Many People Have Mental And Emotional Problems?

In recent years, a lot has been said about the amount of people that are not in a good way mentally and emotionally. Alongside this, a number of solutions have been put forward. One thing that is often recommended, if someone is not in a good way, is that they open up to friends or family about what they are going through. Another thing that is suggested is that they call a helpline. Another Option

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Self-Empowered: Does Someone Need To Feel Safe In Order To Be Empowered?

If someone is an empowered human being, they are going to believe that they have control over their life. Along with what they believe, there is going to be how they behave in their day-to-day life. Another way of looking at this would be to say that their behaviour is defined by what they believe. Now, this is not to say that their life will always go as they want it to go; what it means is that they won’t feel as though their whole life is out of their control. In the Centre

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

“I Had A Fear Of Being Seen!”

When I was growing up there was generally one person who did all the talking when we were around others - my mother. And, as time went by this would include my sister, which meant that my father and I didn’t get the chance to say much. It was no different when we were at home, either, as my mother would typically speak and my father would do most of the listening. Also, if my mother wanted to talk to someone at home she would rarely go and find them – it wasn’t uncommon for her to shout for them. I Kept Quiet

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

The Media: Does The Mainstream Media Create Their Own News?

When someone wants to find out about what is taking place around them, there is the chance that they will look towards the mainstream media. This is because this source will be seen as being trustworthy and reliable. And when one wants to find out about what is going on, they could end up turning their TV on. This can then mean that they will sit back and believe everything that this source tells them about what is going on in the world. A Number of Ways

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

I Wanted To Embrace The Swedish Culture!

Once I knew that I would be going to Sweden, Stockholm, I started to think about what it would be like. Going away didn’t consume my mind, though, as I was engaged with what was taking place in my life. I wanted to go away, no doubt about it; but I wasn’t in a position where I needed to get away. What I was doing was fulfilling and this stopped me from getting too caught up in what I would be doing whilst I was away. A Different Climate

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Needs: Why Do Some People Ignore Their Own Needs?

One thing that can’t be denied about human beings it that they have needs and, while some of these needs can be met without reaching out to others, there are others that cant. This is why human beings have been described as interdependent, not independent or dependent. But, even though there are people in the world who feel comfortable with their own needs, there are others who don’t. And how someone lives if they feel comfortable with their own needs is likely to be radically different to how someone lives who doesn’t. Reaching Out

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Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

I Thought Astrology Was A Load Of Rubbish!

I remember reading about my star sign in different papers when I was growing up and thinking how general it was. So, while I would read up on my sign from time to time, I wouldn’t take much notice of what I read. After a while, I soon turned my back on it altogether and saw it as a bit of a joke. This was before I was on the path, and had started reading books on self-development and working through my own pain. The Birth Chart

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Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

The Media: Does The Mainstream Media Use Peoples Empathy To Control Them?

It could be said that the mainstream media have a number of different ways in which to keep people distracted, unformed and deceived. And while some of these ways are well known, there are others that are not. However, even though people can be aware of some the tactics that they use, it doesn’t mean that they will no longer have an effect. They can be just affective as the ones that they are not aware of. Caught Up

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Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

The Media: Was The Mainstream Media Only Interested In Getting Hillary Elected?

The American presidential election has now come to an end, and this has given people plenty to talk about. For some people, the result will be the best thing that could have happened, and for others, it will be the worst possible outcome. It is then not going to matter if these people live in the same country, as their experiences are going to be radically different. Even so, this is not to say that these are the only two experiences that people are having. On The Sidelines

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Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

“I Meditate In The Sauna”

During a call that I had with Errol Campbell, he said that he hadn’t been able to use the sauna the day before due to a minor problem at the hotel nearby. He went on to say that he meditates when he uses the sauna. I thought that this was different, with it being something that I hadn’t thought about doing before. The reason he mediated in a sauna was that the heat would keep his mind busy, thereby allowing him to connect to himself. Another Experience

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Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Relationships: Can Someone’s Unmet Childhood Needs Cause Them To Expect Other People To Be Unconditionally Loyal?

If someone wants to be in a relationship, there can be a number of things that they will be looking for in a partner. Firstly, there can be the need to be with someone who has a certain appearance and, secondly, there can be the requirements that they have when it comes to their personality. The Glue But while someone’s appearance is going to be important to them, one might realise that it is what someone is like as a person that will make all the difference. Sooner or later, they will get used to their looks and they will be left with their personality.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Critical Thinking: Do Some Feminists Help To Perpetuate The "Woman Are Too Emotional" Stereotype?

Recently, ‘walk-on girls’ and ‘grid girls’ have received a lot of exposure in the mainstream media. The main reason for this is that these women are no longer going to be able to do these jobs. While these women, as well as other women, are not happy about this; there are other women who are pleased with what has taken place. Some of the women who are pleased with this are ‘feminists’. Divided

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Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Self-Worth: If Someone Is Successful Can It Stop Them From Feeling Worthless?

While there are people who feel good about themselves, there are others who feel worthless. However, even if one doesn’t feel good about themselves, it doesn’t mean that they are in touch with how they feel. Disconnected What this comes down to is that one can end up disconnecting from how they feel, and this will be a way for them to elevate themselves. This can then cause one to go from one extreme to another.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Self-Worth: Is It Harder For Someone To Be Sensitive When They Feel Worthless?

When one behaves in a way that is seen as being socially acceptable, it can be a lot easier for them to feel good about themselves. But before they were even old enough to go out into the world by themselves, there would have been how they were treated by their caregiver/s. An Extrovert So, if one if likes to spend a lot of time around others and talks a lot, there is the chance that they will have received positive feedback throughout their life. What this can come down to is that their behaviour will be seen as normal.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Oliver JR CooperRecently published1 topic

Self-Worth: Why Do Some People Believe That They Need To Be Good At Everything?

What is clear is that if someone wants to be good at something, they will need to put the work in and to be patent. In addition to the time that they need to put in each week, there can be moments when they will need to change what they are doing. The Next Level Through doing this, it will allow them to continue to grow; whereas if they were to do the same thing, this might not take place. This could mean that they will only need to make a few minor adjustments.

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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