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Who wouldn’t like to be more fulfilled? If you’re not feeling totally fulfilled, you’re not alone. In a recent research project I conducted on fulfillment, few Millennials and only some of Gen Xers described their lives as fulfilled.
I define life fulfillment as achieving one’s dreams and ... Views: 1462
The Three Main Highways to Success
By
Bill Cottringer
“Knowing how to succeed is the easy part. The hard part is in translating your desire into hard work and maintaining perseverance through inevitable setbacks.” ~ The Author.
If you do a Google search on “success” there are ... Views: 710
The Train Ticket
I gave my grandson, upon his graduation from High School, a battered old train ticket, dated June of 1961. He was always to keep it with him, and refer to it whenever his life went awry.
Background
I was a young soldier stationed in Metz, France. I was sent to a ... Views: 981
Our world is full of wants and needs. When you don’t have material things, you feel underprivileged. When you don’t experience the same pleasures as others, you feel underprivileged. When you get older you start to acquire the things you lacked growing up. Your path in life changes and the ... Views: 1537
I recently spoke at a " Live your dream marriage " event on May 9th. It was an amazing day; I think I got the most out of it. The highlight was an art workshop, that's right an art workshop. Let me explain briefly, a common practice with children that are “slow learners" or are not “good ... Views: 1161
The Two Main Goals of Personal Development
By
Bill Cottringer
“Small daily improvements are the key to staggering long-term results.” ~Anonymous.
Our personal development efforts in learning, growing and improving are aimed at increasing two very important capacities: (a) our ... Views: 1081
I recently read an article that stated, according to research, despite unemployment and any number of economic and social indicators to the contrary, 80% of the population holds “unrealistic, optimistic beliefs” about their own future.
It really got me to thinking about the two sides of ... Views: 1562
Judging. Defensive. Tyrannical. These are the shadow characteristics of Why as a means of getting information. Who knew Why had a shadow side? Generally people ask why when they are upset about something and they are looking for someone to blame. Sometimes they just want to be recognized as ... Views: 1106
What drags you down? I'll share what does it for me.
My negative thoughts can attack me on even the best of days. They are so persistent and so effective that I have come to call them The Undercurrent.
The Undercurrent is a quiet, unseen, and vicious tug that is always running just beneath ... Views: 1384
“Start by becoming a pack leader in your own world and healing your own world, and the effects will ripple.” - Cesar Millan, The Dog Whisperer
One of the fun assignments I like doing with clients is what I call “Mental Dress Up.”
This is a game that you can play daily. It is designed to ... Views: 1891
Are you tired of hearing nothing but doom and gloom about the economy? Perhaps you’ve recently lost your job and all you’ve heard is how many other people are out of work and are now competing for the same job. Don’t you wish the media would start focusing on some uplifting practical solutions ... Views: 1197
I have had a crazy, busy, happy few weeks in my business lately – and I’m still on a roll. What I find most interesting is listening to conversations of other entrepreneurs who are saying they are ‘slowing down/shutting down/ for the summer, or parts of it. Really?
I know that can be seen as ... Views: 1090
When you are learning Arabic language, it is very necessary for you to have many language skills in some Arabic dialect. The same as other languages, Arabic language also has many different dialects which are spoken in different areas. For many English speakers, they often want to know how to ... Views: 1731
So much of our time is spent fixing problems: problems at work, issues with our loved ones, concerns with our health, our weight, our finances. You name it, 90% of our waking hours (and so many of our sleeping ones as well) are spent in having yet another problem brought to our attention, with ... Views: 1374
Height increase exercise works by stimulating your body to supply a lot of human growth hormone (HGH) naturally into your system. The HGH works as a catalyst, triggering the liver to provide a protein substance referred to as IGF-1.
To justify in less complicated ways that, IGF-1 helps to ... Views: 5313
On March 22, 1982 I had an epiphany !
An epiphany is a moment in your life which you will never forget as long as you live. It is a watershed moment that changes your life and your behaviour forever.
I did not recognize my epiphany at the time. It was only as the days and weeks went ... Views: 1474
PREFACE: My husband was recently hospitalized and upon discharge his doctor ordered a hospital bed to help his breathing when he sleeps. This necessitated moving my office into another area at home to make room for the bed. Having moved everything I began the process of re-organizing my ... Views: 1112
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Scars and Forgiveness – October 12, 2011
-Author Aleasa M. Word
Have you ever loved someone so deeply that you would do ... Views: 1659
When people see me with my children it sometimes leaves them puzzled due to the disparity in their ages. Having one adult child and then seeing age of the two others often ends up with that “hmmm” stares in directed at me. My oldest is the spitting image of me but people are never quite sure if ... Views: 1878
All too often when you focus on your spiritual growth and development you fail to see the rich opportunities that are ever present in your workplace. Yet, for many of you the office, is where you spend the greatest portion of your time. With your colleagues, bosses, employees, clients and ... Views: 1899
This is the world as I see it:
1) People are usually kind and supportive, and have good intentions, even it does not seem that way.
2) The universe always sends people and situations to us for our soul growth.
3) Once we know what we want, the universe will give us 100% support by ... Views: 1276
On my way to San Diego, after providing hospital consulting for a few days in the greater Chicago area, I re-read Tony Hsieh’s book, “Delivering Happiness: A Path to Profits, Passion, and Purpose.” This book was a great preparation for The Passion Test conference I was headed to, and following ... Views: 1524
Ever watch a skilled dog trainer work with a puppy? The trainer never ever punishes the sweet beastie for not sitting on the “sit” command, but rather rewards the dog with praise and treats the instant his furry butt hits the ground. The dog—smart pooch—gets the idea real fast, and proceeds to ... Views: 1259
The one thing we seem so eager to give but don't enjoy receiving is blame. We are a culture rich in blame yet poor in accountability and responsibility. Blame puts us in the neighborhood of victimhood, a place of no choices. It becomes the justification for forceful action. What if we could just ... Views: 3131
When I was a child, television dramas could drag out a story line for months. When our hero or heroine was double-crossed, it would take an entire season before the real culprit was caught; or you could wait multiple episodes before you saw the "perfect couple" actually fall in love. We were ... Views: 857
As I work with people both personally and professionally I notice that all have been hurt at some point in their life. Some so deeply they haven't recovered. This affects their professional life as well. Some signs I have seen are: anger in the workplace, demoralizing a coworker in front of ... Views: 1853
“Thinking About It” is Another Way of Saying I Choose More of the Same
Last week after I spoke to a group of professional woman about three key elements to creating a new, more confident you, one member of the audience said to me, “I really loved your talk; you’ve given me a lot to go home ... Views: 1137
A Quick Preamble:
It really is – like every aspect or category of your life – an out-and-out“mindset” thing…if you want to be wealthy, then simply “think” like the stinking-rich think…
…rich people build big wealth before they spend…they don’t actually spend money at the outset, just ... Views: 1175
Your thoughts tell you a truth. They help you form your perception of reality. It is the secure feeling we get when we can justify our reality. But what is real is only real for you because your mind tells you it’s real. Even when you try to tell yourself that your thoughts are wrong, sometimes ... Views: 1999
Thinking Your Way to Success
By
Bill Cottringer
“I want to know all God’s thoughts; all the rest are just details.” ~Albert Einstein.
In today’s Information Age, quality thinking is the success currency of choice. Have you thought about the quality of your own thinking lately? I ... Views: 1952
Western culture places a premium on feelings in the form of moods. While we diminish the importance of experiencing difficult emotions like sadness, disappointment, frustration, fear and jealousy, we worship at the altar of moment-by-moment impulses. This sounds like:
I don’t feel like ... Views: 851
Everyone wants to be successful in life but only a small percentage of people manage to become successful, why is that?
Is it because people don’t work hard? No, some people work really hard and they never reach what they want
Is it because they didn’t try?
No, lots of people tried to ... Views: 1233
As a parent, we always want to teach and guide our children to do the right thing. We use our own life experiences, the challenges we’ve faced, and the lessons we’ve learned along the way to influence our son or daughter’s growth. This guidance helps form our child’s values, and will help build ... Views: 1211
We are at the right place at the right time. Do you believe that? If you think that you are not then let’s look at this in a different way. I believe that most of us have not moved forward enough because of self-doubt. You don’t believe in yourself, you don’t see yourself doing what you want to ... Views: 1530
“The joy of a spirit is the measure of its power.”
~Ninon de Lenclos
As you first open your eyes in the morning, where does your mind go? Are you thinking about what “they” are saying in the news? Are you thinking about why you can’t do or have? Are you wondering why you have to ... Views: 1270
Have you ever heard the saying ‘Thoughts become things?’
Well I will try to explain what is really meant by that.
We are where we are in life because of our past consistent thoughts.
When we think about something we either do it consciously or subconsciously.
Unfortunately, the ... Views: 1650
Fix me," he said. My client, normally a resilient man in his early 50s, had been dealing with a lot in the past few months. And now he was facing a possible layoff. In moments like this, I find myself wishing for a magic pill, a magic wand, something to stave off the feeling of desperation–my ... Views: 699
For every thing that goes sideways in our lives, there are twice as many things that go right. However, all too often we focus on the few mishaps rather than the positives. This negative focus sours our day lowers our immune system and makes us feel powerless. I notice this tendency in myself ... Views: 986
There are many ways to be perpetually miserable. Although we are all vastly different in many ways, we share common themes around the subject of misery. In fact, misery is a pattern than emerges in many people's lives far too often. I've outlined some manifestations of misery here and filed them ... Views: 1652
Are you mentally prepared to end this year and begin a new one? With the New Year rapidly approaching, everyone’s thoughts are not only filled with holiday celebrations, enjoying a Merry Christmas and gift giving; it is also a time of reflection on the past year and for looking ahead. What did ... Views: 1758
We're in Thailand, and it's absolutely amazing! To travel to faraway adventurous and exotic places with our family of seven is a long-cherished dream come true.
We'd never thought it would happen until one day we let go of plenty of excuses not to do it.
Have you ever experienced that ... Views: 1074
Pink is in this season! What’s your favorite shade?
If you were to look in my closet you’d see that I was “Tickled Pink”. It’s one of my favorite colors and from the looks of the runways it’s more fashionable now than ever. Flip through any magazine and you will see hot pink dresses, magenta ... Views: 1561
It’s 2020, not just a new year, but a new decade, which means it’s probably a fairly safe bet that a lot of people will be thinking about topics such as organization and productivity. These often go hand in hand. It’s not just about superficial neatness.
A tidy desk does not necessarily equal ... Views: 1059
Do you know anyone that says "I'm not negative, I'm realistic?"
I have a couple of friends of mine who say this all the time. I say to them BULL! It's time for all these people to have a "reality" check.
Saying you are just being realistic, in my opinion, is you being lazy and not taking ... Views: 627
I wonder how much more time you would have on your hands, to do all the important things in life, all the things that you really want to do, if you stopped doing the things that you shouldn't be doing.
In conversation with a group of people earlier this year, they calculated that they would ... Views: 1724
This is the time to be positive and avoid negative thinking at all costs.
Negative thoughts will ruin your life. Instead, fill your mind with positive thoughts. Today and everyday think of all the great things that are taking place in your life.
I'm not saying this just because it's ... Views: 1168
Ask people who’ve known me for years and you aren’t likely to find someone who will say I’m a wild, rule breaking party animal. In fact the opposite is MUCH closer to the truth. So what I’m suggesting to you today may surprise some people, and that is…
It’s time to break the rules.
Yes, ... Views: 825
Buying an authentic and blessed Thai amulet from an online website is a bit tricky. How could you tell which Thai charms are genuine and which are fake? Can you really tell if the amulet you are seeing on a Thai website is the real one? Are there any tips you can follow to increase your chances ... Views: 136
Taxi services have grown phenomenally worldwide in recent years. While it is true that finding a taxi service at the airport is much easier today than it was a few years ago, it is also true that passengers feel more insecure today. Many novice taxi service providers have sprung up in every nook ... Views: 124
When people around you are being negative how do you respond? Do you remain upbeat or do you find yourself sinking into negativity with them?
When people around you are being negative it helps to remember that you don't have to listen to or be affected by them. You do not have to ... Views: 1101