As I write this, I am taking a group of people through the EMPOWERED TO WIN bootcamp and also working with more than the usual number of private clients and something that I know more and more to be true is that most people do not understand the level of discipline required to live a rich, ... Views: 970
This is the thing - You need a list. No matter how much you think that you can make it big on just social media or just by how awesome you are but it gets tough to try and hack it without a mailing list.
I see entrepreneurs struggling and struggling to build their business and when I ask, I ... Views: 968
Do you have to beg the air to fill a room? No, you don’t. It is there, always present, always flowing in, supporting life…
You can create a vacuum only by deliberately forcing out the air and sealing the container, sealing the room but the moment you let even a pinprick of a hole be ... Views: 968
I had a question yesterday from one of my private clients and it went –
“How do you manage all that you have going on? What’s the secret?”
I stopped for a moment to consider it and the truth is, I don’t think I get all that much done. There is always a great number of things that I want ... Views: 964
So, there you are…
Struggling to get people into your business / clinic / practice…
You have a service that people need but they are just not coming to your door in the droves you imagined when you put up your shingle!
Frustrating, right?!
You know you have something amazing!
YOU KNOW ... Views: 964
You know what?! It really does not matter one little jot where you come from, your upbringing, what country you currently live in, what your mummy did or your daddy said…
It really does not matter in the end what has happened to you…
It does not matter that you have never done it ... Views: 964
You want to impact many, to change the lives of many and yet, it feels tough, hard, uncertain and you wonder when you will finally break through!
And I work with people just like you, successful in certain areas but not necessarily in the areas that you want to be and there are certain ... Views: 964
Waiting for the right time to get your business off the ground…
Waiting for the right permission from the voice in the sky to do the work you want to do…
Waiting to be old and experienced enough…
Waiting for the kids to grow old enough so that you can now live your life…
Waiting for someone ... Views: 963
I know no one wants to experience pain…
I certainly don’t. I want the easy path all the time…
And in a lot of my life, I take that path…
In the non-essential parts like whether I cook or clean, I just let go of anything tough and hard and go the easy path, as should you!
Why?
Because ... Views: 963
You secretly think that having money is bad…
Don’t you?
And so you struggle to have that much money…
You have just enough for your needs…
But not enough for any fun stuff (or so you think)
There is just no abundance in your life…
And you are doing it to yourself, leader…
Because you ... Views: 962
I am all for you having everything…
You know that, right?
I completely believe in your ability to conquer the world and make all the money, impact all the people you want…
It is absolutely something you are capable of…
However, I see you stuck in place getting no results because you ... Views: 962
$300 a day over 30 days adds up to $9000 a month
$9000 a month over a year makes you $108, 000
For a lot of people, that income would change your life…
Especially when you consider that this is based on you being you in your own business…
Working when you want, doing what you want, with ... Views: 961
The thing I have learnt about working with spiritual people is that no matter how spiritual you may be, you do want to figure out how to live in abundance…
Who does not get tired of wondering if you have enough money to do the things you really want to do?
The problem for the more spiritual ... Views: 958
Honey, you went through some bad shit!
You went through it and you kept on walking, you kept on doing what had to be done to hold everything together and no one honoured you for it!
It was a horrific thing that you went through…
You carried the weight of it and no one saw just how much ... Views: 957
Some people think that you can only fail at the work that you love and so they stay stuck in a job, a business that they dislike thinking that it is safer…
And then, they get made redundant…
The company they work for, shuts down…
They come to work one day to find that everyone left the ... Views: 957
You wonder what to say to your people…
You wonder if you are wise or creative enough to keep comig up with things that they want to hear…
And I say that you are!
You are EXACTLY the leader for your people!
You have the EXACT words to say to them to inspire, to heal, to teach, to coach, to ... Views: 955
So, you sit there with your computer in front of you, wondering what to write about.
And if you are completely honest, you will realise that you have discarded about 10 ideas because you wondered if they were good enough, sweet enough, attractive enough to everyone out there when really, the ... Views: 954
It is the last day of the year when I write this and I wonder what you are creating for next year. Surely not more of the same old stuff. The same reactive stuff where you wait to see what happens and react to it accordingly. Surely not that!
I just spent hours reading, dreaming, creating, ... Views: 951
You are chosen to live in abundance and you have tapped a little into it but there is more.
So, understand this, you can have everything you desire, including wealth but…
The Problem
You keep hiding.
You keep doubting yourself.
You keep thinking that there is something you are missing…
And ... Views: 947
So, you want everything to work right now? And you keep second guessing, doubting, wishing things were different? the question I have to ask you is how does that help anything?
In fact, does it help at all?
Or does it just take you off-track and next thing you know, you have lost a whole ... Views: 945
So, how do you step into abundance when it seems well beyond your current level of experience?
Take some time each day to be silent and to journal
Every leader needs to take time to think, to navel-gaze, to write out what comes up, to pick up on new ideas in the ... Views: 945
Let me ask you a question (ok, maybe a few…)
What do you want?
What do you really want?
Do you want to create wealth?
Do you want a business that fulfils you?
Do you want to do work that stirs your soul and brings you to life? Work that makes you wake at 4am with a spring in your step ... Views: 944
Let’s be clear…
Some days as you pursue your goals, you will feel delusional…
You look at those big goals of yours and you look at the people around you scurrying around doing what they always do and there you are, thinking big thoughts about how you are going to make millions ... Views: 943
Some days, it feels like you are walking through a fog…
With nothing working the way you want it to…
You have moments of clarity when it feels like the light is switched on inside of you and you KNOW, absolutely know what your life is to be about…
But then, the fog comes back and it ... Views: 943
You think that no one wants to hear what you have to say…
And yet, right now, in the world, there are so-called ‘leaders’ who tap into a vein of malcontent amongst the everyday, regular people and they say what those malcontents are thinking and use it to give themselves an advantage…
Not for ... Views: 943
So… you have a big dream…
EXCELLENT!
WOOHOO!
WAHEY!
And it includes changing the lives of many, many people with your product, service or business opportunity…
Again, HOW EXCELLENT!
And you also dream of the awesome lifestyle you are going to make happen for your ... Views: 941
You think that you always have to be appear to have it all together…
You think that you have to pretend to be a superhuman type of person…
You doubt yourself and what you have to offer and so you put on this front…
The problem is that no one can relate to that…
And so, you drive ... Views: 941
I wanted to be a stripper when I grew up…
I was about 7/8 sitting in my mum’s office, reading ‘The Happy Hooker’ and thinking how cool it would be to be a stripper…
Thankfully, I was too wise to say that out loud to anyone or else I would have been beaten, probably…
Yep, you can say I was ... Views: 940
A few weeks ago, I decided to stop caring…
To stop caring about appealing to people I am not called to serve…
I have always preached this to my clients – The art of polarisation – Know your people and deliberately repel everyone else and yet, I had been trying too hard to help ... Views: 938
Just because you have always acted a certain way does not mean you have to continue acting in that certain way. The moment you decide, truly decide to drop the act and become whoever you want to be, you can.
There is a distance between the vision of who you see yourself being and ... Views: 937
You do know that you are THE product of your online business, right?
And you do know that that is why you struggle so much to sell anything in your business?
There is a part of you that doubts yourself and actually does not like yourself. You know all the mistakes you have made, you know ... Views: 937
There are so many distractions, SO VERY MANY! and it is easy to allow these distractions take you away from the path to getting the life and the business you want.
Everything seems like a great idea…
Everyone makes their magic bullet solution seem like the ONLY way to make it to your ... Views: 936
Every day, you wake up and you have the opportunity to start afresh…
To be the person you WANT to be…
Rather than the person that life and its negativity have taught you to be…
There is a vision within you, pulsing, vibrating, nagging at you…
It wants you to win more than you ever have won ... Views: 935
You know what?!!! I KNOW it feels real, very real!
The reasons why you are stuck in place doing nothing much.
It all feels legitimate!
You tell yourself that you cannot do anything while you feel this way…
You tell yourself that you do not know enough…
You tell yourself that no ... Views: 934
Compromise – Such a lovely sounding word that firmly shuts you off from the abundance, the wealth, the freedom you want…
We were all told that it is the thing to do to keep the relationships going, right?
We were all told that we will have to compromise if we want to get on in the ... Views: 932
You have that ‘deer stuck in headlights’ look again. I see it in your eyes!
You are not sure which way to go and so you stay there stuck, not doing anything rather than risk doing the wrong thing.
As if there is a wrong thing.
And if there was a wrong thing, it would simply be you ... Views: 932
YOu hold yourself back so much…
Scared of what people will think of you…
And then you look at your bank balance and you see that there ain’t much there…
And you know it is because you are not boldly gong after everything you want…
You are being held back by worries that you might just ... Views: 929
I became a mum about 9 years ago when the beautiful, wonderful T came into my life. It was, like most mums would agree, a HUGE change.
And for the first few weeks, figuring out the breastfeeding (which was one of the toughest things I have EVER done!), the lack of sleep, the constant ... Views: 929
OK, so I admit that I use that word and phrase quite a lot in the work that I do. People want to feel called, I want to feel called and yes, I admit that I am called but you know what?!
I still have a choice!
I still have a freaking choice as to whether I do the work I feel called to do ... Views: 929
Yep, I see you…
You have fallen off your perch…
Everything you want seems to be getting further and further away from you…
You feel abandoned, alone, fed up!
Actually fed up is such a small word compared to how you really do feel!
You feel broken!
Yep, that is it, BROKEN!
As though ... Views: 928
I love my princesses.
That kinda goes without saying but this morning as I write this, I have been watching them on YouTube expressing themselves. And it is awesome to watch because they are fearless! They have not yet learnt to judge everything before they let it out into the ... Views: 927
This is the question that plagues your mind. You have worked hard, put something together that you know will absolutely help anyone that avails themselves of it and yet, it is so hard to get anyone to make a move, to pull out their wallet, to pay you the money to allow you to serve ... Views: 927
There you are, sitting on your awesome arse, waiting for a shot of powerful inspiration.
There you are, with so much to say and yet you hold back because you are worried it will not be great enough!
There you are, wishing, waiting, hoping that whatever you do finally come out with, will be the ... Views: 926
Just start writing…
Just start speaking…
Just start doing whatever the heck you want to do…
Stop over thinking it…
Stop trying to be the guru…
Stop trying to be super-professional…
Stop trying to be anything other than YOU!
Stop telling yourself that ‘you’ is not good ... Views: 918
There comes a day in everyone’s life when they realise that learning to love yourself is pretty important. It is usually after years of living to the agenda of the masses and realising that there is no reward to be found there and then, suddenly people remember that their own opinion is ... Views: 918
You have everything you need to flourish. Do you really understand that?
There is no need to wait around for any kind of saviour, do you GET THAT?
I know the leaders reading this have always known that they are powerful. And yet, I think a few of you just need someone like me to remind you ... Views: 918
I am listening, you know…
Listening hard to all that you say you want…
And I am watching you – yes, I know it sounds a little creepy but, keep reading, you will hear my heart…
I watch you, wait, wait and wait some more for things to come to you, instead of you taking courage in both ... Views: 916
Leader, you want to hit $5k online in your business and you are stuck in a stifling relationship that does not satisfy you…
But you are committed to this person…
Great!
But this has got to be dealt with, not swept under the rug…
It is impossible to create an abundant life when there are ... Views: 914