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- Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Be Emotionally Unsettled? - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIn general, someone’s emotional self may rarely, if ever, be settled, with them often being all at sea internally. Due to this, it might not be possible for them to live a normal life. Now, it might not matter if they are around others or by themselves as they could struggle to handle what is ...
Views: 69 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone’s Emotional Self To Withdraw? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may have come to see, if they have been reflecting on how they experience life, is that they don’t have a good connection with their emotional self. In general, it might be as if they don’t have an emotional self. If this is the case, they are typically not going to be aware of ...
Views: 69 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Be Emotionally Withdrawn Around A Woman If His Mother Was Abusive? - by Submitted on Mar 08, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAt this point in time, a man may be in a relationship that is not going well. The main reason for this is that he might find that it is not possible for him to be connected to how he feels when he is with his girlfriend. If so, when he is with her, he will lose touch with how he feels. He ...
Views: 69 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Stop Someone From Being Able To Individuate? - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone is a separate individual, who has their own needs, feelings and life to lead, it doesn’t mean that they will act like one. Instead, they can act as though they are an extension of others and are thus, are here to meet their needs. Due to this, they can then typically meet ...
Views: 68 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Believe That There Is Not Enough If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on May 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to step back and reflect on their life, what they might find is that it’s as though they live in a desert. The reason for this is that they could seldom, if ever, receive what they need. So, they might generally be able to meet the needs that allow them to survive, but that ...
Views: 68 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have A Negative View Of Women If His Mother Was Abusive? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man were to step back and reflect on how he sees women, he could find that he doesn’t have a positive view of them. So, he could see them as being out of reach, cold, critical and emotionally unstable. This can show that, over the years, he has been with a number of women who were like ...
Views: 68 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man See Women As A Threat If His Mother Was Abusive? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough certain areas of a man’s life might be going well, there might be one area that isn’t and it might have been this way for a while. So, his career could be going in the right direction and he might have a number of close friends, for instance. However, when it comes to his love life, ...
Views: 68 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Have The Tendency To Feel Lonely If They Had A Narcissistic Mother? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on how they often feel, is that they often feel lonely. This is then going to be a time when they experience pain, as they are unable to meet their need to connect to another or others. Now, this could show that they spend a lot of ...
Views: 67 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone’s True Self To Withdraw? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find, if they were to step back and reflect on how they behave, is that they typically play a role. This can be something that takes place without them needing to think about it. As a result, they can have the tendency to be easy-going and do what they can to please others. ...
Views: 66 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Give Someone The Need To Die Whenever They Suffer? - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has just gone through a breakup, they can be in a bad way mentally and emotionally. Due to this, what can often enter their mind is the thought of ending their life. To a big part of them, this can be seen as the only way out of the misery that they are experiencing. And, just ...
Views: 66 - Early Deprivation: What Can Someone Believe If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Apr 01, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone might not be aware of what they believe about themselves, what they believe will still have a big impact on the experience that they have. What this illustrates is how powerful their beliefs are. When it comes to why they wouldn’t be aware of what they believe about ...
Views: 66 - Loss: Can Someone Lose The Desire To Be Alive After They Have Experienced A Loss? - by Submitted on May 05, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has recently experienced a loss, they could be in a very bad way. They can have moments when they feel very sad and can’t stop crying, and moments when they shut down and are unable to feel anything. Along with this, they can find it hard to get out of bed in the morning and ...
Views: 66 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Woman Feel Guilty After She Leaves A Mother-Enmeshed Man? - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAfter having been with a man who is overly focused on his mother for a little while, a woman can think about cutting her ties with him. This is because she might not have the energy or the desire to continue living in this way. But, if she has been in this position for a number of months or ...
Views: 66 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Associate Receiving Attention With Being Humiliated If They Had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on May 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone will have the need to be seen and heard, this need might rarely, if ever, be met. The reason for this is that they could do what they can to stay in the background. So, when they are at work, with friends and even with family, they could prefer to let other people talk and ...
Views: 65 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Did A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Mother Only Give Him What He Needed To Survive? - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is focused on his mother and is neglecting himself, it can be hard for the people in his life to understand what is going on. His friends and his girlfriend, if he has one, are then going to be confused. For them, it could be clear that he is living in the wrong way and needs to ...
Views: 65 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Carry A Lot Of Grief If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has just experienced a loss, they can be in a very bad way mentally, emotionally and physically. So, they can find it hard to concentrate, be filled with sadness and it can be difficult for them to do anything. Thus, due to what is going on for them, it is not going to be possible ...
Views: 64 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Hide Their True Self If They Had A Narcissistic Mother? - by Submitted on May 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, what they may see is that they have the tendency to hide themselves around others. Due to this, they won’t freely express who they are. The outcome of this is that they will hide a number of their needs and how they feel. They can ...
Views: 64 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Carry Split-Off Child Parts? - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone’s childhood will be well and truly behind them, it doesn’t mean that they have fully moved on from this stage of their life. Due to this, what happened and the impact it had on them can still have a big effect on their life. However, if they are not aware of this, what is ...
Views: 63 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Have An Underdeveloped Sense Of Self If They Had A Narcissistic Mother? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat can be normal is for someone to spend a lot of time feeling empty and as though they are missing something. Along with this, they can often feel invisible and question if they even exist. As a result, they are not going to feel whole and complete and know that other people can see them ...
Views: 63 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Be Out Of Touch With Their True Self If They Had A Narcissistic Mother? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were able to step back and reflect on their life, what they may find is that they have the tendency to please others. They can see that this takes place without them having to think about it. Along with this, they can find that they don’t have a good connection with their needs and ...
Views: 62 - Healing: Can It Be Hard For Someone To Heal If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperFor a little while now, someone may have been doing what they can to put their childhood behind them and live a life worth living. But, no matter what they have done, they might not have been able to truly put the past behind them. Nonetheless, this is not to say that they won’t have made any ...
Views: 62 - Relationships: Can A Man Have The Need To Save Women If His Mother Was Abused By His Father? - by Submitted on May 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperRight now, a man could spend time with a woman who is with a man who is mistreating her. When they get together, they may or may not get affectionate and have sex, but he can spend a lot of time listening to her and being supportive. He can often tell her that she doesn’t deserve to be ...
Views: 62 - Father-Enmeshed Women: What Is A Father-Enmeshed Woman? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIt might not matter if a woman is at work, has finished work or is on holiday, as her father might often contact her. Now, if he does ask her how she is doing, he could soon talk about his own problems. Then again, he might rarely ask her how she is doing and could typically talk about his ...
Views: 60 - Healing: Can Someone Use Their Imagination To Heal Themselves? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was greatly deprived during their formative years and is not in a good way now that they are an adult, the logical thing will be for them to do what they can to heal themselves. To do this, they can read books, take courses and work with a therapist or healer. By taking these steps ...
Views: 60 - Early Deprivation: Can A Man Struggle To Make Unresponsive Women Responsive If He Had An Emotionally Unavailable Mother? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperRight now, a man could be dating a woman who rarely has time for him, and when she is around, she could typically be somewhere else mentally and emotionally. This might have been going on for a few weeks or months. Either way, thanks to what is going on, he is likely to spend a lot of time ...
Views: 59 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Have Bad Dreams? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperRecently, someone might have had a number of strange dreams. These can be dreams where they end up being rejected and left, and even cut off from others. There can also be moments when they are attacked and end up being harmed. Either way, thanks to what happens when they are asleep, it might ...
Views: 59 - Early Deprivation: What Can Happen If A Man Had An Authoritarian Mother? - by Submitted on May 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough a man needed an attentive and caring mother, he may have had a mother who was seldom, if ever, attentive or caring. Throughout this stage of his life, she might have been more like his master than his mother. The outcome of this is that he would have been more like her slave than her ...
Views: 59 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Woman A Powerless Victim If She Ends Up With Mother-Enmeshed Men? - by Submitted on May 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperRight now, a woman might be with a man who is emotionally unavailable and is often physically out of reach. If so, when she is with him, she won’t be able to connect to him emotionally, and she will rarely, if ever, see him. The reason for this is that he can be focused on his mother’s needs ...
Views: 59 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can The Societal View Of A Mother Make It Harder For A Mother-Enmeshed Man To Individuate? - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven if a man is overly focused on his mother’s needs and has abandoned himself, it doesn’t mean that he will be consciously aware of this. Not only this, but his mother and the people in his life might not be aware of what is going on, let alone encourage him to change his behaviour. Thus, ...
Views: 59 - Early Deprivation: Is An OnlyFans Model Unconsciously Trying To Meet Her Unmet Developmental Needs? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough there are numerous OnlyFans models, there are only a few that are well-known. Some of the well-known ones have been on TV, radio and have been featured in newspapers and magazines. Furthermore, the women who reach this level may have earned hundreds of thousands of pounds, if not ...
Views: 58 - Early Deprivation: Can Developmental Trauma Stop Someone From Being Able To Freely Express Themselves? - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to take a step back and reflect on their life, what they might see is that they are typically focused on other people's needs and do what they can to please them. Therefore, they typically won’t be connected to their own needs and do what is right for them. They might see that ...
Views: 57 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Hide Their Needs? - by Submitted on May 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat can be normal is for someone to focus on other people’s needs and ignore their own. This is something that can take place without them consciously choosing to behave in this way. Apart from meeting their basic needs, then, they will have the tendency to overlook their other needs. And ...
Views: 57 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Be Developmentally Stunted If They Had A Narcissistic Mother? - by Submitted on May 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to step back and reflect on how they experience life, what they might find is that they don’t have a strong sense of self. So, instead of feeling like a strong and capable adult who can direct their life, they can feel like a weak and incapable child who needs others to direct ...
Views: 57 - Sense Of Safety: Can Someone’s Sense Of Safety Be Associated With Pleasing Others If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to step back and reflect on their life, they can find that they have the tendency to feel anxious when they don’t please others. This is going to make it difficult for them to freely express themselves. They could see that they rarely, if ever, do what is right for them and ...
Views: 57 - Early Deprivation: Can It Be Harder For Someone To Handle A Loss If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on May 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperRecently, someone may have experienced a loss, and since then, they might not have been in a good way. If this is the case, they are going to be in a position where they find it hard to function. Now, they might have experienced a breakup or lost a loved one. Either way, they can find it hard ...
Views: 56 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Move On From Early Deprivation By ‘Rewiring Their Brain’? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone had a less than nurturing childhood, they might not be in a good way now that they are an adult. For example, they could often experience anxiety and fear and feel low. As a result of this, it can be hard for them to function. Due to this, they are likely to want to find a way to ...
Views: 56 - Early Deprivation: Can A Man Be Emotionally Dependent On A Woman If His Mother Was Emotionally Unavailable? - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man doesn’t have a woman in his life that he is seeing or in a relationship with, he may feel as though he is missing something. As a result of this, he can feel a strong need to be with a woman. He can believe, for instance, that he is meant to be with a woman, and this is why he ...
Views: 55 - Early Deprivation: Can A Man Believe That He Is Not Desirable If His Mother Was Emotionally Unavailable? - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperOver the years, a man may have been attracted to a number of women who were not interested in him. Along with this, he might have dated a number of women who lost interest in him before long. Also, he may have been in at least one relationship that came to an end because the woman was no ...
Views: 55 - Early Deprivation: Can Someone Believe That They Are Not Good Enough If They Had A Narcissistic Mother? - by Submitted on May 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone could see is that no matter what they do or achieve, they don’t feel worthy or deserving of having their needs met. Instead, they can have the sense that they are worthless and undeserving. Now, if they were to reach out to a friend and talk about what is going on for them, they ...
Views: 55 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Have An Identity Crisis When He Breaks Away From His Mother? - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man has come to see that he is behaving as if he is an extension of his mother and is ignoring a number of his own needs, he can feel a strong need to do less for her and do more for himself. Then again, it might go further than this, as he might not want to do a great deal for ...
Views: 55 - Mother-Enmeshed Man: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Believe That He Would Be Abandoning His Mother If He Broke Away? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man were to see that he is overly focused on his mother, it doesn’t mean that he will just be able to change his life. The reason for this is that part of him can have the need to behave in the same way. This part of him can be far stronger than the part of him that wants to experience ...
Views: 54 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Being Noble By Putting His Mother First? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is in a position where he spends a lot of time doing things for his mother and overlooks his own life, he can believe that he is doing the right thing. Nonetheless, this is not to say that this is what will go through his head. No, what it is likely to mean is that, deep down, he has ...
Views: 54 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Give Someone The Tendency To Cheat? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is in a relationship, they might have recently shared their body with another or had an affair. Now, this might not be the first time that this has taken place. Not too long ago, they might have behaved in the same way. However, even if this is the first time that this has taken ...
Views: 53 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Was A Mother-Enmeshed-Man Used By His Mother? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperEven though a man is in a position where he is overlooking a number of his own needs, due to how focused he is on his mother, it doesn’t mean that he will be consciously aware of this. But if someone pointed out that he does far more for her than he needs to, it doesn’t mean that it would go in. ...
Views: 53 - Therapy: Can Therapy Be Another Way For Someone To Struggle For Love? - by Submitted on May 20, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone feels the call to have therapy, it can be due to a variety of different reasons. So, they could suffer from anxiety and/or depression, struggle to feel good about themselves, and/or they could have relational challenges. Either way, after they have found a therapist who is right ...
Views: 53 - Early Deprivation: What Can Someone Fear If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone were to step back and reflect on how they experience life, what might enter their mind is that they have a number of fears. Due to this, it is likely to make it difficult for them to embrace life. In general, they could live in a way that causes them to be on the outside and unable ...
Views: 52 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Trapped In His Mothers Mirror? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough a man is a separate human being, who has his own needs, feelings and life to lead, it doesn’t mean that he will act like one. Instead, it can be as though he is merely an extension of his mother. Therefore, he will meet his basic needs, or he might typically meet them, but that will ...
Views: 52 - Early Deprivation: Can A Goal Be Another Way For Someone To Struggle For Love? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is feeling low and is even depressed, they might believe that they need a goal to work toward. Then again, they could talk to a trusted friend or family member about how they feel, and this is what they could be told. Assuming that the latter takes place, this can be seen as a way ...
Views: 51 - Early Deprivation: Can A Woman Punish Men If She Had An Abusive Father? - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman were to step back and reflect on her life, what she may see is that she is often mean and even cruel toward men. She might see that she has been this way for quite some time. What could enter her mind is that part of her believes that this is how men deserve to be treated. This ...
Views: 51 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone Be Attracted To People Who Will Cheat On Them? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2025 from Oliver JR CooperRecently, someone may have found out that their partner has cheated on them. Then again, they might have found out that this has taken place more than once, and that this has been going on for a little while. Either way, thanks to what has happened, they can be in a bad way, both mentally and ...
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