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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Know What Stands in Your Way from Having a Successful Intimate Relationship?

Introduction If you wholeheartedly wish to have an intimate relationship and don’t yet have one, it is important that you understand the true reasons for not succeeding. Implementing five simple steps might help you figure out how to proceed to having the relationship you hope for. ** So, you want to have a relationship but so far you haven’t been successful. Why not? There are those who are not sure why, they just not successful at having one, that’s it, they say. Maybe they haven’t found the right match for them yet, maybe they didn’t have luck so far, who knows.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Willing to Receive Feedback from Others in order to Improve Your Success with Intimate Relationships?

A good friend of mine is writing a novel. But he resists getting any feedback from anyone: “Feedback?”- he says – “Anyone knows better tha I how I should write my book? No way!” Success at writing a best-seller Just like my friend, so millions of people fantasize about writing and publishing a best-seller. Some even quit their job in order to devote themselves to writing, hoping that when and if their book will sell they will become reach and famous.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Sabotage Your Relationship! Become Aware of What You Do – and Change!

WHY DO YOU FAIL TO DEVELOP A SUCCESSFUL INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP? If you have been trying for quite some time now to find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying relationship but in vain, or are having continuous problems with your partner, there is probably something you do wrong. Apparently you are sabotaging your attempts at relationships without even knowing that you do! Becoming aware of how you sabotage your relationships enables you to make the necessary changes and to embark on the road to a successful relationship. Let’s take Mary as an example:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,367 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Does Your Anxiety Drive You to Sabotage Your Relationships? Learn to De-activate its Power

YOUR ANXIETY WORKS AGAINST YOU! If you have been wishing for quite some time now to have a stable, successful, satisfying relationship but are finding yourself time and again with the wrong partners and in unsatisfying relationships, what does it mean? Could it really be that “all these men” or “all these women” are no good?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,362 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Is there a Correlation betwee Being a Successful Professional Woman to Having a Successful Intimate Relationship?

Women seem to be more emancipated than ever before. Many of them have well-paying jobs, highly-respected positions and credentials, and can support themselves financially. All these empower them to go on dates feeling good about themselves and acquire the “expertise” necessary to determine which men are most appropriate for them.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,357 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

What to do When the Fear of Change Withholds You from Changing an Unsatisfying Relationship

INTRODUCTION Whether single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you might be afraid to change your situation. You might want to do so; you might tell yourself you are “about to doing so”; you might wait for “the right moment” to making a change in your life. But time goes by and you find yourself not daring moving forward. The Fear of Change paralyzes you. THE FEAR OF CHANGE I’ve recently heard the following comment:

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,350 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Tend to Give-up on Your Will for the Sake of the Relationship? Be Careful! It might Harm Your Intimacy

When you sacrifice your own will “for the sake of the relationship” your relationship seems harmonious, everything is by mutual consent. However, because you don't allow place to your own will, but rather live according to your partner's, you begin to feel uncomfortable, frustrated and angry. When you develop Self-Awareness, understand what has driven you to give up on your will and realize the price you pay for it, you can get up the courage to make changes in your life and become able to develop and maintain a healthy relationship.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,343 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

If You Fail with Your Relationships Time and Again, Isn’t It Time to Develop Your Self-Awareness?

At times, when you find yourself failing – once again! - to develop a successful intimate relationship, you may think about developing your Self-Awareness and get a hold on the ways in which you sabotage your relationships. But then, do you feel motivated to doing so out of belief in the merit of Self-Awareness, or as last resort? WHEN SHOULD YOU BEGIN DEVELOPING YOUR SELF-AWARENESS?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,337 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Going On with Someone Who You Know Isn’t for You Might be a Waste of Your Time

Introduction Many are driven by a host of factors which drive them to “fall in love” with the wrong person and enter unhealthy relationships. Developing Self-Awareness, understanding the factors that control them and making the necessary changes are important in order to stop such pattern from happening. They then become able to find, develop and maintain a healthy and satisfying intimacy. ** “Falling in love” isn’t always “a piece of cake” Anonymous story

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,334 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Become Aware of Messages Which Affect You! Don’t Let Them Harm Your Relationships

There are many messages you have UNCONSCIOUSLY internalized while growing up, which drive you to behave in self-sabotaging ways with your partners. DANNY (Example 1) Nathalie accuses Danny of not expressing his love for her. He doesn’t hug her; he doesn’t tell her that he loves her. She claims that he treats her like just another object in the house. This annoys Danny: he buys her lots of gifts – bracelets, earrings, necklaces, rings. Isn’t that enough for her? EXPLANATION

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,332 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

The Best 10 Tips You’ll Ever Receive on How to Keep Sabotaging Your Relationships

INTRODUCTION It is quite a pity to see people harming their relationships time and again and refrain from developing Self-Awareness to understand how to change. Do they really prefer to keep sabotaging rather than acknowledging how they shoot themselves in the foot and change? This article lists THE BEST 10 TIPS ON HOW TO KEEP FAILING IN RELATIONSHIPS. It is written in an ironic way. Those motivated to stop failing can proceed to “NOT DO” the 10 tips described here. 1. NEVER TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR PART IN THE FAILURE OF YOUR RELAITONSHIPS. IT IS ALWAYS YOUR PARTNER’S FAULT.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,327 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

When Should You Embark on The Self-Awareness Process & Learn How to Succeed with Your Relationships?

WHEN IS THE SELF-AWARENESS PROCESS NOT A CHOICE, BUT A REQUIREMENT? Whether you are single wishing to develop a satisfying intimate relationship but to no avail, or in a relationship experiencing problems and difficulties similar to the ones you have experienced with previous partners, and you wish to finally get a grip on what’s causing you to fail time and again, developing your Self-Awareness is a MUST. THE TRIGGETING POINT

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,327 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Making the Right New Year Resolution Will Enable You to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

INTRODUCTION No matter how smart, intelligent, good-looking and “in-demand” you are, as long as you are not successful in developing the relationship you desire it means that there is something you do wrong. Why not make a New-Year Resolution to understand what this “something” is and become empowered to develop the relationship you desire? ARE YOU HAVING PROBLEMS WITH RELAITONSHIPS?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,317 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

“Falling in Love” or Pure Neediness? The Difference Might Determine the Future of the Relationship

Introduction Can a person driven by a bottomless need for love, causing her relationships fail time and again, get up the courage to look inwards, become aware of where this need comes from, realize the disastrous effect it has on her relationships and take the necessary steps to conquer it? **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,298 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Make Your Own Decisions in Finding a Partner & Developing an Intimate Relationship

Introduction The “choices” you make when choosing a partner as well as when reacting and behaving in a relationship are often unconscious and affected by many factors from the past which control you, and are liable to harm your relationships. Self-awareness enables you to understand which factors impact your “choices”. It empowers you to make conscious choices in finding and cultivating a healthy and intimate relationship. You then become the boss of your own choices and decisions. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,295 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Listen to Your Partner’s Feedback: It Will Help You Improve Your Relationship

INTRODUCTION Your partners might often see in you characteristics and traits you don’t acknowledge and accept in yourself. The reason being – you reject and depress these in you if you feel they don’t correlate with the person that you want to believe you are. Listening to what your partners tell you about yourself can help you change, improve, develop and maintain a satisfying relationship. YOUR PARTNERS MIGHT KNOW ABOUT YOU MORE THAN YOU THINK

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,289 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Dating “Unavailable Others” is a Waste of Your Time: Learn Why and How to Avoid It

If you are presently on “the dating scene” wishing wholeheartedly to find a partner with whom to develop a serious relationship, don’t date those who are basically UNAVAILABLE. No matter what they promise you, and regardless of how much you think “this is the right person for me”, dating them is a waste of your time. The possibility that a serious relationship will materialize strives to zero. Unavailable other means: he/she might be married, living far away, “married” to their work, just-recently-separated (and not emotionally available for a new relationship) and so on.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,288 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Know What Stands in Your Way from Developing a Successful Intimate Relationship?

You might be failing in your relationships for a variety of reasons. But as long as you are not aware of what the true reason is, you will not know what you need to change. Consequently you will keep failing in your relationships. Becoming aware of what stands in your way is therefore vital to your ability to change what needs change and become able to develop a successful intimacy. It is likely that when your relationships fail you either don’t know what has caused the failure, blame your partner, or resort to one thousand and one excuses to justify it to yourself (and to others).

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,282 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Not Being Connected to Your Will Harms Your Relationships: Get to Know What You Want and Learn to Express it!

One of the “surest” ways to fail in your relationships is by not being connected to your will; by compromising yourself at the altar of the relationship and by not being true to yourself. It is important that you understand why you’ve chosen these ways and realize how by doing so you sabotage your relationships. When you can get up the courage to connect to your will and be true to yourself you can develop a healthy and satisfying relationship. What does “not being connected to your will” mean?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,279 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Can You Help a Friend of Yours who Always “Falls” for the Wrong Man?

It is very likely that you have a friend who always “falls” for the wrong guy. Everybody sees it, except her. You feel sorry for her; you wish you can help her. You even try to show her the “facts”, explain to her how she hurts herself; “predict” the miserable future she’ll have. After all, she has been falling for the wrong man time and again… But all in vain: she is sure that “this time it won’t happen!”; that “you don’t know what you’re talking about”; that “you don’t know him at all”; that “I feel hurt that you don’t trust my judgement”, and so on and so forth.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,268 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

If You Wish to Succeed Having a Satisfying Intimate Relationship with Another, You First Need to Develop a Relationship with YOURSELF

If you have been trying for quite some time now to develop an intimate relationship but are not successful, in most likelihood you keep trying, keep dating others, hoping and praying that one day, eventually, you will succeed. But would you? Is there truly a reason to believe that if you haven’t been successful until now you will succeed, somehow, in the near future? It is very likely that as you continue dating others you will keep behaving in exactly the same ways you have until now; and if you have been failing until now, is there any reason to believe that “suddenly” you will succeed?r

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,267 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Want to Have a Successful Intimate Relationship Next Year? Here Are the Requirements

Do you find yourself at the end of this year either without a partner or dissatisfied with your relationship? Do you wish to ensure that next year you’ll have a successful and satisfying relationship? If so, what you need to do is embark on The Journey to Self-Awareness: Understand what has led you to the situation you are currently in, change whatever needs change and become empowered to develop a successful relationship. IF, AT THE END OF THE YEAR YOU ARE: 1. SINGLE, wishing wholeheartedly to find a partner with whom to develop a successful intimate relationship;

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,265 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Single & Dating? Give Yourself the Perfect Christmas Gift & Succeed in Having an Intimate Relationship

CHRISTMAS IS A TIME TO GIVE AND RECEIVE PRESENTS As Christmas approaches you probably wonder what presents to give. If you have a partner you want to show how much you love him/her. You are also curious what gift they’ll give you. But if you don’t have a partner, here’s an idea for a great gift you can give to yourself this holiday season. DO YOU WISH TO HAVE AN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP NEXT YEAR?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,264 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Do You Choose Your Partner(s) or They Choose You? This Can Make a Big Difference in Your Relationship’s Success

Although it might NOT be apparent, there is a big difference whether you go out with someone YOU have decided to go out with or with someone who has chosen you. The first usually happens when you are empowered to be yourself and feel safe with being alone. The second often occurs when you have a low self-esteem; are desperate to have a relationship and willing to go out with whoever shows interest in you.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,253 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

When Is It About YOU and When Is It About HIM: Don’t Let Your Fears & Neediness Hurt You

He didn’t call or sent you an sms after the date and you take it personally. You think it’s because of you; that he didn’t like you; that he was not attracted to you; that he didn’t enjoy your company, that he might have detected your insecurity and shied away from it; that he might have noticed you haven’t had any relationship for a long time and decided it is too risky to try anything with you. In short, you feel you have sabotaged it once again! You have so many reasons to take it personally. To feel that you have sabotaged your chances once again!

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,253 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

When You Fail Having a Satisfying Relationship – Denying or Acknowledging it Determines Your Future Success

There are those who, in order to feel happy in their relationship, deny and reject all “negative feelings” which have to do with what they don’t like about their bond. But the only way to “be there” in the relationship, to experience it, enjoy it and grow with it (and with your partner) is to see things as they are, acknowledge and accept them.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,253 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Waking-up to Face Reality is the Road to Succeed at Developing a Long-lasting, Satisfying intimacy

There are those who, regardless of how many relationships they have attempted to develop with different partners have nonetheless failed time and again. Yet, they keep trying, hoping that “next time things will be different”. As much as hope is a motivating force to keep trying, there isn’t actually a good reason to believe that if they have constantly failed until now they will succeed in the future.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,249 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Are You Dating Someone who is NOT for You? Why Won’t You Find and Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship?

Introduction If you find yourself time and again with a partner who seems to “run away from you”, but nonetheless you hang-on to this “partner”, albeit the pain it causes you, you are not alone. Many behave similarly. Still, it is YOUR life. Therefore, when you get up the courage to understand what drives you to behave the way you do and you work on whatever issues you walk around with, you become able to find and develop a healthy and satisfying intimacy. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,245 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

When You Understand the Reasons for Your Failed Relationships You Become Able to Develop a Successful Intimacy

It is very likely that if you have been failing tine and again to develop a successful relationships it means, you don’t know what you do wrong. Consequently, you keep doing the same “mistakes” over and over again. When you get a grip on what makes you sabotage your attempts you can change and become able to develop a successful intimacy. THE REASONS FOR YOUR FAILED RELATIONSHIPS MIGHT BE MANY

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Have any Regrets about Your Relationships? Why not Make the Necessary Changes NOW – and Succeed?

Introduction The Top Five Regrets outlined here as related to a successful intimate relationship can help you consider how you “do” you own relationships. They can motivate you to think upon and reflect whether you allow yourself to be “who you are” in a relationship – or not; whether you allow yourself to express yourself or not; whether you are true to yourself or not. Becoming aware of the ways you approach relationships and interact with your partner is a key to being able to develop and maintain a truly satisfying intimacy. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,237 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

If You Are Single and Dating Looking for a Satisfying Intimate Relationship, You Should Learn the Healing Power of Self-Reflection

If you are among those who dream about finding “the one and only”; “the perfect match”; “the knight on the white horse” - you probably have developed a host of fantasies and hopes about how this person will look like; will be like; will behave like, love and treat you. And you probably have imagined, time and again, how your first meeting with this person will look like; will be like: the first kiss; the first eye contact; the first sentence each one of you will utter. And the first – and certain – “connection” the two of you will feel towards one another.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

1,236 views

By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Survive a Relationship When You and Your Partner Have Different Points of View of How Things “Should Be”

When you cling on to your belief that you are right and your partner is wrong you often find yourself involved in power struggles and conflicts about “who's right”. Unintentionally, you make “being right” your first priority instead of your relationship. You neither listen to your partner nor let his/her opinion penetrate the wall you’ve built around yourself. Sometimes you don’t understand how it is possible that your partner thinks otherwise – doesn’t he/she see reality?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Healing and Awareness Are Vital for Your Personal Growth

It is likely that you, as a grown-up – like so many others - probably have some unfinished businesses to take care of, be it relationships issues, unfulfilled career opportunities, as well as unresolved parents-children issues (with your own parents and/or own children). Taking time to heal unfinished business is vital for your continuous personal growth and your ability to develop and maintain healthy and satisfying relationships.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Survive the Holidays’ Blues: Learn about Yourself and Become Empowered to Develop a Successful Relationship

INTRODUCTION Are you afraid from being infected with the “holidays’ blues”? From feeling depressed and lonely? The best you can do for yourself is be determined to “use” the holidays’ time to find out why you’re still single and what you need to “work on” and change in order to find a partner and develop the relationship you so much long for. THE HOLIDAYS’ BLUES: THE LONELINESS, THE SILENCE

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Don’t Seek Short-Cuts to Finding a Partner with Whom to Develop an Intimate Relationship: They Might Fail You!

Time is money. For one reason or another this phrase has taken precedence in many aspects of our daily life: on CNN, for example, you often hear the anchor saying to an interviewer: “quickly…”; or “please answer the final last question in one sentence”. Twitter forces you to send messages with no more than 140 characters. Various internet sites accept articles which include no more than a limited amount of words. And in the dating scene you have probably become familiar with “speed dating”, which allows you to meet someone for 3 minutes and move on to the next person.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Finally Succeed with Intimacy: Make Sure You Change What Needs a Change Before You Begin a New Relationship

As long as you don’t change whatever it is that you need to change regarding your attitudes about relationships and/or your behaviors with your partners, you will probably end up with similar problems with new partners. The reason being – you always bring yourself into the new relationship. This might sound odd, but the fact is, that you always carry yourself into the new relationship, don’t you?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Empower Yourself to Find a Suitable Partner with Whom to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship

When you see a couple holding hands, does it make you feel unhappy? At times, whether you are single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you feel unhappy when you see others who seem happy in their relationships. You see couples holding hands, even walk embraced, and this makes you think you are the only one in the world who is not happy, who does not have a good intimacy or who is alone.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Saying YES When You Rather Say NO Harms the Relationship. Make a Change and Stop Sabotaging Your Intimacy

Learning to say “No” is an important step forward in improving your quality of life and relationships. Often, those who can’t say “No” within a relationship (or, for that matter, with new dates even before a relationship has been formalized) are often those who can’t say “No” in other situations in their lives. Saying YES when you rather say NO harms your relationships. The only effective way to begin saying “No” is to begin saying it, and to stand by what you say. Why could she never learn?

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

136. Thoughts about Being Able to Develop a Healthy and Satisfying Intimate Relationship

Many who are not happy with their relationships. They would have loved to make a change for the better, but they are afraid. At times they themselves don’t know what they are afraid of, still they hesitate to take steps leading to a change. They stay stuck in their unsatisfying relationship, hoping that somehow, someday, things will turn out for the better. But will they? Apparently not, since without initiating a change there is no reason that things will turn out for the better.

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Needs You Are Not Aware of Might Harm Your Relationships! How to Identify Them and De-activate Their Power

There are many needs of which you are NOT aware that control you and harm your interactions with your partner. It is only when you develop Self-Awareness and get a grip of these needs that you can de-activate the power they exert over you and stop harming your relationships. KATE’S CARE-TAKING BEHAVIOR Every time Kate begins a relationship, she immediately begins taking care of her partner: he should eat properly; dress properly; his weekly schedule should be orderly; he should remember to go to the dentist.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Becoming Aware of How You Hurt Yourself is a Key to Improving Your Life & Relationships

Introduction If you feel there is something in the way you “do” life, your attitudes and the way you behave that hurts your well-being and happiness, becoming aware of what you were not aware of until now is the key to initiate a conscious change in your behavioral patterns, tendencies and attitudes. Such a change will enable you to stop behaving in self-sabotaging ways and free yourself from your fear of anger, rejection or whichever fear has become part of the self-image you have created for yourself. **

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Choosing Partners & Relationships Rather tha Escaping Into Them Makes a Difference betwee Failure & Success

It always saddens me to see how singles who are UNSUCCESSFUL in their relationships sabotage themselves. Being EAGER to have a partner, they often they jump to have a relationship with whoever asks them out. Not only that, but they often tend to stay in the relationship – even though it might not be a satisfying one – until they are being left. Often, after a short while, they jump right into a new relationship, once again with someone who “began” with them.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

If You Perceive Yourself to be a “Quality Single” and are Enrolled with “Quality Dating-Sites” – Why don’t You Already Have a Successful Intimacy?

Among the many dating-sites that have flourished during the last couple of years there are some which advertise themselves as designed for “Quality Singles”. These are tailored, apparently, for a “select” group of singles who perceive themselves to be highly intelligent, well-educated, physically-fit, professionally successful and highly paid. Whether you perceive yourself to belong to this group or not, and whether you have enrolled with such sites or not, the question is: Does being a “quality single” have helped you finding a partner and developing a satisfying, qualified relationship?r

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Be Aware: If Your Expectations Are Based on Social Conventions they Might Harm Your Relationships!

You probably have expectations from partners and relationships. They add some “juice” to the relationship: you expect things to happen, you fantasize about them, and you make an effort to ensure they will “come true”. When this happens – it’s wonderful. But expectations might harm a relationship, rather than enliven it. If you expect them to materialize only because “that’s the way it is supposed to happen”, you are liable to sabotage your relationship. HANGING ON TO SOCIAL CONVENTIONS MIGHT HARM YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Does Your Success with Dating Make You Spin Your Head? Know When to Stop & Develop a Serious Relationship

Introduction “Enjoying life” and “winning” date after date might give you a good feeling – a boost to your ego, to your sexual drive, to your availability. But don’t let it distract you from your initial goal of finding a partner with whom to develop a truly intimate relationship. Knowing and keeping the balance; knowing when to get out of the dating scene and settling down is important. **

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Single & Dating? Use New Year to Lea 5 Steps to Finding a Partner and Developing a Satisfying Relationship

There is no time like New Year to contemplate your successes and failures regarding intimate relationships. If you find you long to have a partner with whom to develop true intimacy and haven’t succeeded until now, why not use New Year as a time to look inwards and see, once and for all, what stands in your way and what you need to do in order to find love and a true intimacy?

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Reflecting on Your Intimate Relationship & Your On-going Issues with Your Partner Can Help & Improve Your Bond

Sometimes, as you wonder about your relationship with your partner, you might wonder how it goes with others’ relationships: Are your issues similar to theirs? How do others combat, struggle with and solve their problems? How happy others are? How often do they make love – and whether whatever you are going through with your own partner is “normal”, is “o.k.”, and acceptable.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Have You Ever Thought about Making an Agreement with YOURSELF in Order to Succeed with Your Intimate Relationship?

It is customary these days for partners to institute a prenuptial agreement or, while dating, a “relationship agreement” - mutually agreeing on the “relationships terms and conditions”: for example, whether the partners commit to meet once or twice a week; whether they commit to spend a night or two together; and so on and so forth.

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

How to Develop Self-Awareness & Succeed with Your Relationships 1: Stages of the Process

If you are sincerely motivated to develop a satisfying relationship and haven’t succeeded until now, developing your Self-Awareness is a must. It is the only means by which you can realize what made you fail in your relationships until now, change what needs change and become empowered to develop a satisfying intimacy. Listed below are the key steps you go thorough as you embark on the process of Self-Awareness: STAGES OF THE PROCESS

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Relationship Advice

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By Doron GilRecently published1 topic

Your Personal Growth and Success with Intimate Relationships Depends on Your Being True to Yourself

Are you a person who tells yourself stories in order to justify to yourself why things go one way and not another? Do you convince yourself that whatever happens in your life happens because of such and such reason, unwilling to look reality in the eye and acknowledge that after all, things are NOT the way you would like to believe they are?

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Relationship Advice

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