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Snapshot Management: Leaders under the Spotlight Use Emotional Intelligence - By Reldan Nadler- Anatomy Of Loneliness - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2012 from Brock HansenHave you ever been lonely in a roomful of people? Have you ever been perfectly content all alone? Most people would answer yes to both questions and yet a number of the same people complain of painful chronic loneliness. What is loneliness? Why are some people troubled with it so much ...
Views: 3062(1 vote) - Criticism: How To Make It Work For You. - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2008 from Brock HansenGiving and accepting criticism gracefully can be a tricky business. Many a friendship or family relationship has foundered on the shoals of major, minor, or even anticipated criticism. Performance evaluations at school or work are minefields of misunderstood criticism. What makes criticism ...
Views: 1899 - Making Peace With Pumpkins - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2008 from Larry HochmanOriginally written October 29, 2007. I'm dusting it off in anticipation of what's to come in 2008 - and perhaps beyond! *** *** "Dad, will you help me with my pumpkin?" The thing I've been trying to avoid has just happen. How do you say no to your 11 year old who needs help getting the "guts" ...
Views: 1225 - Must have EQ - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2008 from Clive LewisHow can organizations meet the challenge of getting people to work together more effectively? Is Emotional Intelligence (EQ – which actually stands for Emotional Quotient) the answer? Research suggests that it is. A study by Yale University, for example, found that teams with high levels ...
Views: 1380 - No Worries Mate - Everything Is Gonna Be Alright - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2008 from Yangki Christine AkitengOne thing that life has taught me is that, if there is anything a man or woman, young or old must learn about life, it is learning how to stay calm, cool and collected in situations fraught with uncertainty and unpredictability. Let me rephrase it this way: if there is anything one must ...
Views: 1955 - Emotional Empowerment Builds Commitment - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2012 from Jim Clemmer"Our passion for productivity increasingly depends upon the productivity of our passions. We can't divorce commitment and caring from efficiency and effectiveness." — Michael Schrage, co-director of MIT Media Labs' e-market initiative and author of Serious Play What gets people really ...
Views: 1869 - The Energy Of Election Years - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2008 from Dan LissRight now, of course, you cannot turn on your radio, TV or computer without hearing endless chatter about the elections. That is to be expected in an election year. Notice the energy right now. People who are advocating for their candidates are very intense, and that makes sense too. With an ...
Views: 964 - Emotional Intelligence: A Tool For Success - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2008 from Michael RayelDo you know what emotional intelligence (EI or EQ) is and how it can benefit your life? Do you know how to manage your emotion so you can propel yourself to the next level? In short, do you have the EQ edge for success? There’s so much talk about emotional intelligence and how it can ...
Views: 2554 - Leadership - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2008 from Deepak LodhiaWhat is Leadership? Leadership covers many skills including, the vision, influencing, change, confidence, motivation, strategy, integrity, personality indicators and more... General Many believe that 'leaders are born and not made'. It may be useful to be born with certain qualities that ...
Views: 1638 - The Basics of Emotional Intelligence: Emotions as Messengers - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2008 from Julie DonleyDo you find yourself at the mercy of your emotions, a victim of reaction, behaving in ways that you’re not proud of and often regret? Are you one of the millions of people who avoid conflict and confrontation because you don’t know how to deal with other people’s emotions? ...
Views: 1837 - Strength In Being Human - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2008 from Julie Donley“I am seen as a pillar of strength. I was brought up this way. I don’t show my emotions or to talk about the bad stuff going on in my life. When people ask how I’m doing, I say, ‘I’m fine.’ As a nurse, I am always there for others. I don’t want to have to ask for help or lean on others for ...
Views: 1710 - Managing Impressions - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2008 from Julie DonleyEvery morning you get out of bed and go about your day. You say good bye to your spouse, get the kids off to school, and make your way to your job. At work, you attend meetings, greet customers, and chat with colleagues. Maybe you go to the gym a few times during the week. Weekends, you spend ...
Views: 3195 - Three Elements Of Trust - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2008 from Julie DonleyA key element in creating a team is establishing trust. Most people are familiar with environments where trust is absent where you cannot simply be yourself for fear of reprisal or ridicule. So instead, you shrink, hide your true self and create a façade, play the game and work the political ...
Views: 2123 - Staying Positive in a Negative Environment - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2008 from Julie DonleyProbably one of the hardest things we must do as leaders is to stay positive when everyone else around us is negative. It’s not easy to maintain a positive attitude and not be drained or consumed by the negativity that surrounds you. But as a leader, that’s exactly what you must do. ...
Views: 1922 - Use Empathy to Unleash a Huge Reserve of Potential - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2008 from Julie DonleyConsider the thoughts that go through your mind on a daily basis – the fears, doubts, criticisms, and judgments. If you knew that other people have the same thoughts about life, their mate, their kids, the organization, about their co-workers and bosses, and about themselves as you have, ...
Views: 1756 - Your emotional intelligence could be more important than your IQ - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2010 from Ralph BrownIn the last few decades, researchers have been identifying specific things that make people successful and have shown top achievers see life and behave in ways that we can learn. They use a set of skills that we could loosely call intelligence - emotional intelligence. Broadly speaking, our ...
Views: 1443 - Team Performance And Emotional Intelligence: Emotional Intelligence Training - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2008 from Bill Benjamin“In the world today there is plenty of technology, plenty of entrepreneurs, plenty of money, plenty of entry capital. What’s in short supply is great teams.” John Doerr, Legendary Silicon Valley Venture Capitalist Teams with high levels of EQ consistently outperform ...
Views: 1684 - Emotional Intelligence Training: Case Study - Medrad. - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2008 from Bill BenjaminEQ SUCCESS STORIES IHHP - Institute for Health and Human Potential Two years ago, John Gardner, Systems Engineering Manager at Medrad, a medical devices company, was recognized as someone with a high degree of technical skills and an ability to “get things done.” But at what ...
Views: 2995 - 40 Questions To Improve Your Self Awareness - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2008 from Derik MockeSelf awareness is truly the cornerstone of emotional intelligence. It underlies all the other aspects of self motivation and emotional intelligence. Self awareness is about knowing one’s own emotions. It's about understanding your thinking patterns and knowing what thinking pattern you ...
Views: 27193(1 vote) - Emotional Intelligence: A Conscious Solution - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2008 from Byron StockBy enhancing the Emotional Intelligence (EI) of its employees, an organization can successfully leverage two key trends identified in Patricia Aburdene’s Megatrends 2010: "The Wave of Conscious Solutions" and "Spirituality in Business." As we enter this new era welcoming the widespread ...
Views: 1177 - The Art Of Processing Emotions - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2008 from Bart SharpMany of us spend hours regularly processing emotions that we experience in our lives. It is in the belief that if we come to a place of resolve with them that we would be happier and/or be more present in our lives. Processing emotions is a skill that many have difficulty doing especially if ...
Views: 1134 - Emotional Intelligence: Increasing Retention - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2008 from Byron StockAre you aware that your company could be harboring a virus, potentially costing you millions of dollars annually? Negative emotions can be like a stealth virus that drains both financial and human resources from your company. And unless you've safeguarded everyone by developing their emotional ...
Views: 1074 - Emotional Pumping - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2008 from Andrii KovalchukAt past weekend I had great experience at how to fill yourself for several hours with positive energy and thoughts (I called that “emotional pumping”). At Saturday I had very tough and unpleasant day. I’ll not delve into details, however, at Sunday I woke up in bad mood with ...
Views: 686 - Emotional Intelligence: Impact On The Bottom Line - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2008 from Byron StockGoleman showed that the benefits of developing Emotional Intelligence skills are quantifiable.(1) This true story illustrates the impact on the bottom line. Joe's Story Joe (not his real name) is the director of engineering for a company that invents methods to improve oil extraction and ...
Views: 1229 - Emotional Intelligence - An Inside-Out Job - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2008 from Byron StockEmotional intelligence is your ability, either innate or learned, to acquire and apply knowledge from your emotions and the emotions of others. Using this information, you can make better decisions about what to say or do (or not say or do) in any given situation. The Emotional Intelligence ...
Views: 1114 - Emotional Freedom - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2008 from Carla ValenciaWhat is emotional freedom? You cannot change or control your emotions. You can learn to accept or release them; this is an emotional freedom definition. Emotions control our thinking, behaviour and actions. They also affect our bodies. When you have an emotion you all know that you can feel it ...
Views: 1543 - Emotional Intelligence At The Heart Of Performance - A Head/Heart Model - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2008 from Byron StockI recently received an email from a colleague who I haven't heard from in years. He reminded me that in the mid 80's I shared with him my model of factors affecting performance. He asked for another copy as he had given his last copy away to a corporate trainer while on a flight. After searching ...
Views: 1101 - Emotions Drive Behavior - Emotional Intelligence Training - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2008 from Bill BenjaminRecently, we were designing a training program at the Institute for Health and Human Potential, and we began our meeting as we always do - by asking ourselves the question: “What do we want people to be able to do differently after the program?” It’s interesting that no matter ...
Views: 4392 - Keep Your Cool: How to Take Charge of Your Emotional Fitness With Purposeful Risk Taking - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2008 from Cathy NewtonHave you ever been so embarrassed by your own inappropriate actions or words that you wanted to crawl in a hole and hide? Have you ever been forced to change or adapt, didn’t want to, felt totally frustrated by it, and seriously considered quitting? Have you ever been so angry at another ...
Views: 1864 - Beginnings And Endings, New Year - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Christine BreeseEndings are inevitable. There is nothing in physical reality that always stays the same. It is impossible. Some endings are wonderful and some are not so pretty, but they always mean the same thing—something new must be started. If endings are truly viewed as beginning, there is more happiness ...
Views: 1541 - How To Improve Driver And Passenger Relations - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2009 from Leon JamesPartnership Driving Partnership Driving, is a method of driving in which the passenger is designated by the driver as a partner in driving. The two set up an informal contract between them that expresses the terms they mutually agreed on. The contract is for one trip only, and needs to be ...
Views: 1466(1 vote) - How Emotional States Translate Into What You Create - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2009 from Ewa SchwarzIt seems that the message “what you think about is what you create” is everywhere these days. It sounds great in theory, but for a lot of people it is difficult to translate or put into action. For some it just becomes a harsh reminder of what they are not creating in their lives. When a persons ...
Views: 1436 - Dalai Lama Torch Relay And Compassion - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2008 from Jenni WrightMs Jenni Wright from http://www.emotionalintelligenceaus.com talks about the Dalai Lama the torch relay and compassion. The Dalai Lama has recently attended a five-day Seeds of Compassion conference. The conference featured dozens of workshops on various subjects, beginning with a panel ...
Views: 1448 - An Introduction To Love - What Kind Of Love Are You In? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2009 from Diane BabcockWhat kind of love are you talking about? There are many forms of love that English has only has one word for which is 'love' and it gets bantered about indiscriminately. Greek has five, which are more descriptive: Desire – Attraction (epithumia) Longing – Romance (eros) ...
Views: 7341 - Shame, Narcissism, And A Meaningful Life - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2008 from Sam VakninWe all have a scenario of our life. We invent, adopt, are led by and measure ourselves against our personal narratives. These are, normally, commensurate with our personal histories, our predilections, our abilities, limitations, and our skills. We are not likely to invent a narrative which is ...
Views: 5422 - Dating...Who Hypnotizes Whom? - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2009 from Jack EliasYou can learn to enjoy yourself pursuing relationships if you know the secrets to relating and practice them. Beyond a common sense clean physical presentation (you should know most women like this), the essential secret is to be yourself. When you hear this, do you usually start imaging how ...
Views: 1636 - Mastering the Game - Spiraling INTO Control in Performance and Leadership - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2008 from John Haime“If he can control his emotions today…..he can win this tournament.” If you’re a golfer, you’ve heard broadcasters announce this many times before the final round of a professional golf event. The statement is a very strong endorsement for what’s important to ...
Views: 1352 - *** Snapshot Management: Leaders under the Spotlight Use Emotional Intelligence - by Emotional Intelligence has been found to be the critical success factor for leaders when compared with their Intelligence (IQ) and technical expertise. The further a leader goes up in an organization the more they need Emotional Intelligence. Emotionally Intelligent leaders know and manage ...
Views: 4041(7 votes) - IQ Or EQ?: What More Important In Business? - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2008 from Baiju SolankiBeing members of Selfgrowth puts us in a unique position of appreciating the power of social networking, and networking sites like Ecademy, LinkedIn, and Facebook. So what is the power of social networking? Well those in the know say it is about forming relationships. OK then what? Well then ...
Views: 3371 - Protect Your Child's Emotional Well-Being - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2008 from Nicholas TanIn our effort to balance very full and hectic lives with our families and our jobs, we may have been neglecting an all-important facet of our child’s life: their emotional well-being. The first three years of a child’s life is a critical time for a child, and the trauma of changing ...
Views: 1249 - Living Consciously - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2008 from Deirdre Moignard MillerWhen I was invited to participate as a contributing editor in an internet newsletter, I was all at once flattered, enormously thrilled, and instantly filled with absolute panic! My mind suddenly went on overload. I heard myself thinking, "I don't know anything! How can I write about something ...
Views: 1313 - Whats Your Aim In Life - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2008 from Deepak LodhiaHave you ever been asked the question, “What’s your aim in life?” Have you ever understood what the person asking the question meant? It’s quite a powerful question because it is a pretty direct and incisive way to ascertain what your purpose in life is and what you aim to achieve as a goal. ...
Views: 20337(1 vote) - The Danger Of Thinking And Feeling - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2008 from Mark Ivar MyhreI learned this morning one more time - how important it is to pay attention to my thoughts and feelings. It happened as I was looking at the barriers I've put up to 'receiving'. I was curious to know why I don't receive more love, more success, etc. I knew I must be blocking so much of ...
Views: 1725 - The Way Of The Samurai - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2008 from Deepak LodhiaWithout Fear or Favor There is an old joke about a man who went to India and spent all day, every day swinging a live tiger by the tail around and around in a circle above his head. When a passer-by asked him what he was doing, he said "I'm keeping away the lions." This confused the ...
Views: 1279 - Beauty In Our Emotions - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Dr. Lisa Love - Best Selling Author - Attract & Keep Real Love, Law of Attraction, Soul SuccessEmotions are a great gift. Because of our sensory capacity to feel, the world is richer. It has texture. These sensory responses in turn let us know when and how we should act. Emotion is after all, related to motion, or movement. For many of us, emotions are a confusing thing. We sense too ...
Views: 2387 - How To Excel In Life - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2007 from Amy ShermanPeople who excel in life are said to be emotionally intelligent. This means you have greater self-control, compassion and awareness for other people’s feelings in relation to your own. There are several parameters to determine your EI Quotient. The following are the guidelines to ...
Views: 9048 - How To Transform Anger Into Will Power! - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2019 from Michaiel BovenesAnger is energy, an emotion, and it is part of the experience of life. Anger can become your greatest enemy toward developing good health and well being or it can become your greatest ally toward healing and finding personal peace. It all hinges upon how you relate to your emotions. Before we ...
Views: 9745 - How To Change Your Mood Fast - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2007 from Hollis PolkHave you ever been unfocused before an exam, when you really needed to concentrate instead? Or have you ever been really nervous before giving a lecture, when instead you needed to be confident? Or perhaps you’ve been down in the dumps when you needed to be ‘on’ and positive ...
Views: 7868 - Book Review: The Emotionally Intelligent Manager: How to Develop and Use the Four Key Emotional Skills of Leadership - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2007 from Debbie MolisThis book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Emotional Intelligence. Emotional Intelligence is an ability, capacity, or skill to perceive, assess, and manage the emotions of one's self, of others, and of groups. Emotional Intelligence is often measured as an Emotional ...
Views: 2245 - Book Review: Primal Leadership: Realizing the Power of Emotional Intelligence - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2007 from Debbie MolisThis book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Emotional Intelligence. Emotional Intelligence is an ability, capacity, or skill to perceive, assess, and manage the emotions of one's self, of others, and of groups. Emotional Intelligence is often measured as an Emotional ...
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