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Are you thinking of uploading interesting videos and music on your WhatsApp status in celebration of an event, a festive period or to express what you feel? If your intention is to flee from the typical festive greetings on WhatsApp and do it in a more original way, pay attention to the content ... Views: 1133
We can bet you use WhatsApp and you are often faced with the typical problem of not being able to know what to share with our friends, and which phrases, statuses, images and videos would be the best. Do not worry! We have made a selection of the best phrases for your WhatsApp, as a way of ... Views: 1548
What’s that you hear? Wedding bells? The sound of your phone going off with an “I love you” text message? Whatever it may be, we at Wearbu know that love is in the air for many of our customers and for those who they love! We believe in the beauty of true love and we believe that it should be ... Views: 582
Perhaps the area of our lives to suffer most from the increasingly fast pace of the culture is love, for the expectation of immediate results naturally leads to a belief that love should not only be easy, but that when there’s a problem, it should be remediated quickly. Love doesn’t work this ... Views: 993
“Love is one of the great enlargers of the person because it requires us to ‘take in’ the stranger and to understand him, and to exercise restraint and tolerance as well as imagination to make the relationship work.”
– May Sarton, Journal of a Solitude
I recently decided to join Instagram. ... Views: 937
There’s nothing like the first. The first family. The first friend. The first kiss. The first job. The first baby. The first heartbreak.
The first time or experience or relationship lays the groove of a blueprint for how we navigate later, similar experiences. Our first experience of a family ... Views: 818
A little over a month is remaining for Christmas to finally come. Christmas is loved by all and is a great occasion to show love towards everyone. And to share that love with others is the best thing you can do on this day.
In recent times, the hustle of buying the perfect gifts for your ... Views: 1336
You know that feeling. Some of us know it all too well during divorce and after divorce.
When one of your grown children, after spending the weekend with your ex, tells you about the "new friend" that is at your ex's house.
Or when you hear about the trip your ex is taking to Europe ... Views: 1171
One of the biggest challenges that someone can have in today’s world is ending up with people who are not right for them. This can mean that they end up in relationships with people who are simply not a good match, or it can mean that they have the tendency to end up with people who are ... Views: 789
If someone has the desire to be in an intimate relationship, they may find that it is only a matter of time before they meet the right person. Alternatively, they may find that they are only able to get so far.
The months will then pass and this area of their life won’t change, causing them ... Views: 1201
There’s a fundamental loneliness that is part of the fabric of being human. It arrives in the corners of night, when shadows form from curtain folds and the backs of chairs. It seeps in just before twilight, when afternoon exhales its last breath and evening hasn’t yet inhaled. It lives on the ... Views: 1025
Codependency is based on false, dysfunctional beliefs that are learned from our parents and environment. Recovery entails changing those beliefs, the most damaging of which is that we’re not worthy of love and respect – that we’re somehow inadequate, inferior, or just not enough. This is ... Views: 1266
Love is a many-faceted topic. There is love between people, love for nature, love for animals and plants and love for the Divine. What is important in all of these different experiences of love is that you love purely. To know infinite love, you need not live up to anyone’s expectations but only ... Views: 1418
Poetry makes every expression more beautiful that marks an impression on everyone. It is the way of expressing feelings that can melt the hearts. It is a way to share the feelings of sadness, anger, love, beauty and happiness. Poetry or Shayri is the inner voice of the poet that engages the ... Views: 1405
Sending love quotes is the special way to express your feelings for someone. You can convey your message without making it obvious. The hidden meanings in the quotes hold deep feelings that the other person can actually feel while reading it. You can tell them about the depth of your love with ... Views: 1654
It makes us happy when someone ask us to send them the video uploaded as status on WhatsApp. We all have someone in our contact list who always upload unique and amusing videos as their status that we all enjoy. You can upload short clips as status but also upload songs and long videos with ... Views: 918
Some pictures are so powerful to melt someone’s heart. They are the photos that actually say a thousand words. It can be the photography or designed image. Heart touching images are the depiction of the emotions and thoughts. It becomes easier to say the things through those images that you ... Views: 1161
The word “love” itself brings lot of relationship in front of our memories. Upon analyzing them, we end up wondering whether there is any true love in these relationships? We often hear that “conflicts sustain love”. Why is it so? If there is true love, then why we need to have conflicts ... Views: 662
In the same way that some car journeys can be peaceful and obstacle free and some can be noisy and full of obstacles, relationships can also fall into one of these two categories. What is clear is that it is going to be far healthier for someone to be in a relationship that falls into the fist ... Views: 898
Every day that I work with clients struggling with relationship anxiety I find myself saying some version of, “Of course you’re scared. Loving is the scariest thing we do.” As I’ve written about several times on this blog, fear doesn’t always present as fear but instead shows up as irritation, ... Views: 993
When discussing the concept that a root cause of relationship anxiety is the fear of being hurt by love, course members and coaching clients will often say, “I had a good childhood with loving parents. Why would I be so scared of love?” I’ve written other posts about how essential it is to peel ... Views: 987
When the fear-fog clears, when the projection that has kept him separate from you and sealed a barnacle over your heart finally shatters, you see your partner as if for the first time. Not only do you see her clearly, in all of her sweet and simple splendor, but the delusions of separateness ... Views: 954
Among the many misconceptions that people have about love – that it’s only a feeling, that the feeling of being “in love” should exist from day one, that attraction is static and based on external attributes – the faulty belief that often gets swept under the rug more than any other is that ... Views: 3039
Let’s blow the cover off of another taboo topic in our culture, one that causes my clients to barely be able to whisper their experience loud enough to share it with me: “falling in love” with people other than your partner, including bosses, celebrities, religious figures, and even your ... Views: 745
Kamagra is considered one of the most potent ED medications in existence, and a fitting alternative to Viagra. In fact, it has the same ingredient as Viagra, and that is sildenafil citrate. The drug is especially popular because it is much cheaper. Currently, the drug is approved for use in the ... Views: 1290
A successful relationship has two very important components: learning to love yourself first, and then learning to love another person. Too many people ignore the first part, then wonder why it’s so hard to love another. It’s like expecting to water a plant with an empty water pitcher. Or trying ... Views: 1340
Still have a hope on finding a unicorn on tinder? You are out! Tinder is not the best choice for unicorn hunters, but unicorn dating sites are. Needless to say that Tinder is the world's most popular app for meeting new people on traditional dating segment. That is to say, Tinder is best for ... Views: 1202
When someone shares something online, they can end up receiving a fair amount of attention, and this can allow them to feel good about themselves. Even so, what happens online might only be a small part of their life.
Therefore, they won’t be completely dependent on this attention, meaning ... Views: 913
When I was reading the book, ‘Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway’, there was a chapter that went into how important it was to have many different areas of interest in life, and not to put all our eggs in one basket, so to speak. The author, Susan Jeffers, pointed out that a lot of people make their ... Views: 1023
The fact that successfully meeting and finding one’s befitting intimate life partner is not so simple a task is one truth that can’t be denied. That aside though, finding and meeting a beautiful Cuban partner in the form of a mail bride will be one of the best decisions you ever make in your ... Views: 854
One of the best ways to feel connected with someone is without a doubt to share our feelings, to tell them everything that is happening to us to see if that person understands us and can support us or just listen.
A few years ago, this was really complicated since there was nothing like what ... Views: 600
This past weekend I led The Shadow Process Workshop in Miami. In this workshop, as in so many of our other programs and workshops, there were people who were in pain because they:
• Could not decide on the direction of their marriage
• Were still struggling with hurt they’ve carried since ... Views: 2030
If someone was to come across a dog, and this dog was to jump up and down, making it clear that he/she was pleased to see them, there would be no reason for them to wonder what was going on. This is due to the fact that this just what dogs are like; they don’t need a reason to be warm and ... Views: 921
To many people, finding true love is impossible. This is due to the previous negative experiences they had. The truth however is that, anyone can find love when they want to. It has nothing to do with been confused. It also has nothing to do with rushing. When you decide to rush these methods, ... Views: 743
We long for rapture. We long to be transported to an otherworldly place where the problems that weigh heavily into our souls and the pain that pierces our hearts lift away, if only for a moment. We long to feel profoundly alive and deeply fulfilled. We long for ecstasy.
Western culture ... Views: 853
There have been countless times over the many years of my marriage when my husband will say something that makes me feel loved or do something that gets us back on track when we’ve been in a negative feedback loop and I’ll think, “Oh, so that’s how you love!” It could be something as small as ... Views: 697
In response to one of the assignments in my Sacred Sexuality course to watch the film “Enchanted April”, a member of the forum shared the following. I was so moved by her response that I asked permission to share it here. She wrote:
This film touched something deep inside me. After I watched ... Views: 713
At least once a week, a client asks, “I know that love isn’t all butterflies and fireworks, but what should it feel like? Since I’ve never seen a healthy relationship and I’ve never been in one, I have no idea what it should be like.”
I usually balk at the word “should”, but I know what ... Views: 1007
Looking for the absolutely perfect birthday gift? A one-of-a-kind person in your life surely deserves the most special birthday gifts ever. While sometimes looking for the perfect birthday gift ideas can be a really nerve-wracking task, it becomes easier when you have known the person for quite ... Views: 1053
I remember reading ‘Family Secrets’ by John Bradshaw and in this book he said, “it was and is your parents’ actually lives that educated you: not what they said, but what they did”. I took this to mean that what my parents did was far more important than what came out of their mouth.
This ... Views: 865
The Two Main Goals of Personal Development
By
Bill Cottringer
“Small daily improvements are the key to staggering long-term results.” ~Anonymous.
Our personal development efforts in learning, growing and improving are aimed at increasing two very important capacities: (a) our ... Views: 1181
Don’t we all love making memories? Those priceless moments, especially with your loved ones, are the sort of moments you live for. Now, what’s better than just making memories? Yes, saving them, especially in a kind of way in which you can just put a glance on it, and recall on all those ... Views: 1996
After several months of dating, you get along so well with each other that you spend a significant amount of your time at each other’s house. When this happens, it’s time to seriously consider getting your own place together.
However, there are things you need to keep in mind as you make this ... Views: 1204
Money. Money is a hot topic in many relationships as there are intense emotions attached to money as well as a range of meaning around it. Partners have different ideas about the importance of money, what it means to them, its purpose, its role, how to manage it, and even how to earn it! Couples ... Views: 923
The season of renewal is finally here and with it comes an invitation to awaken to life. Note the blue skies, the sun shining, birds chirping, flowers blooming. What an enchanting time to be alive. The possibilities are countless.
As we are coming out of hibernation, it is time to look around ... Views: 883
What is flirting? Are you good at it? Do you recognize it when someone is flirting with you? Is flirting harmful to cuckold dating or good for them? Some people think that flirting is harmful, but I am here to tell you why flirting is important to cuckold dating. Before we can talk about why ... Views: 1215
Lots of accomplished single people I know tell me they haven’t been out on a date in two or three years. Even though there are a lot of obstacles to dating, it is still possible to meet someone and fall in love. It just takes more work than it used to back in the days when the Internet and ... Views: 1464
A spell can influence a companion to consider you inside just a couple of minutes, hours or the following day. Then again, if a man is nauseated with you, it would take a couple of more days. By and large, a compromise spell would be the most ideal approach first.
Love Magic would for the most ... Views: 871
If you feel stuck in your love life, unresolved karma may be to blame. Old karma is particularly effective at blocking relationships from progressing. Many people misconceive their karma for “what goes around comes around,” but this is such a narrow explanation of an elaborate, eternal ... Views: 1094
Often we’re so blinded by our emotions that we can’t decipher the true purpose of a relationship. Deep attachment can force us to stay in a relationship that was meant to end a long time ago. On the other hand, our stubborn will and uncompromising ego can make us leave a person who might be our ... Views: 1496