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My Wife Is Very Jealous and Controlling: How to Deal with an Extremely Possessive Wife
Jealous wives can be a terrible liability. For some women where this trait is especially strong, it can be a great source of embarrassment for their husbands. Indeed, the green-eyed monster is a two-edged ... Views: 3553
For those who have been cheated on, finding out about the betrayal completely shatters your world and destroys everything that is familiar with it.
Beyond the fact that it causes you to question everything and lose trust, it becomes a struggle for many on the moral ethics of whether you ... Views: 3542
I love officiating formal church weddings. I especially look forward to that precise moment when the bride first steps into view, relishing the exquisite sensations of those extraordinary seconds. I watch her raise her eyes from her bouquet to his face, and without turning to see his response, ... Views: 3532
A friend married to a very wealthy man learned how the husband got so rich after marriage. He saved everything and spent nothing. He controlled the budget in details and spared her a little for groceries and something else. It was no surprise when their marriage eventually ended up in divorce. ... Views: 3531
Does it feel like everything is up to you to make the relationship work?
Does everything seem one-sided right now?
Do you feel you are the only one taking care of the important stuff?
If yes that’s totally natural
Relationships are like a seesaw
The more one person does something, ... Views: 3531
The other woman is the dreaded mystery intruder that wreaks havoc every where she goes. She invariably destroys every relationship she gets involved in. She employs her feminine wiles to succeed in luring an otherwise happily married man. The other woman has plagued society for centuries and ... Views: 3529
My carnal mind tells me that the most important thing is that I am/be right.
My spiritual mind tells me that the most important thing is WHAT is right.
Here's a gold nugget and a piece of spiritual steak to chew on:
In your marriages, engagements and dating be responsible for your own ... Views: 3525
Have you hugged your child today? It was a popular slogan that was coined in 1969. I think it’s time to modify the phrase to: Have you hugged your loved one today?
Most couples report the perfunctory kiss upon their greeting or departure as their most consistent form of affection outside of ... Views: 3521
Marrying a single parent by Rosemary Price psychic. Despite marriage becoming old fashioned and undesirable to some there are still those who believe in love, romance, commitment and that all important piece of paper that tells their partner that they at least started off with the best of ... Views: 3517
My Husband Does Nothing Special For Me: My Husband Never Does Anything Romantic
Isn't it wonderful when a man is being romantic? He's so creative and full of surprises and it just feels so good to be loved and romanced by a man whom you care about and love a lot too.
Unfortunately, when ... Views: 3514
I Don't Have Fun with My Husband Anymore: Lack of Emotional Connection in Relationship
If your husband is emotionally distant it can be hard to maintain a marriage. If you deeply love your husband and you feel him withdrawing from you, you may begin to think that he's finding solace in the ... Views: 3506
To help the alcoholic you love you first must help yourself. You will never be able to help the alcoholic until you help yourself. Alcohol addiction tends to involve everyone the alcoholic is in contact with on some kind of level. Those who are in the path of the alcoholic, usually a spouse, ... Views: 3499
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We are often asked this question – “Is arguing healthy for a marriage?” The simple answer is, “Yes!” When a husband and wife argue, they are engaging in a perfectly normal and expected part of what it means to be married. In fact, disagreement ... Views: 3497
Pastor’s Wives- Going Through Without Wavering
A glimpse at the splendor and respect attached to the office of a pastor can lure any woman toward becoming the wife of a pastor. Surely, most women would embrace the thought in the belief that such relationships, being founded on the solid rock ... Views: 3490
"This force [that keeps us always wanting] is known in several Buddhist traditions as the Wanting Mind. The Wanting Mind is always craving an experience different from the one it currently has."
--Brent Kessel, It's Not About the Money
There is nothing wrong with wanting - wanting more time, ... Views: 3487
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Thirty years of research on successful love and marriage has taught us many things, but first and foremost – no love has blossomed or been sustained without doing the “simple things.” Big things don’t matter until your relationship has mastered the ... Views: 3483
For you men who ask, "What Do Women Want?" Here are Dr. Romance's 11 Things Married Women Want:
Women value intimacy, safety for themselves and their children, and emotional connection. Therefore, they long for the following qualities in a man:
1. Good ... Views: 3481
Why is it that some women struggle with attaining sexual satisfaction? Why do some women have difficulty achieving orgasm? It has been reported that over 50% of women have some concerns about their sexuality and are not completely satisfied in this area. Most women have a sexual ‘problem’ at ... Views: 3480
Let’s face it: Given enough time, arguments are an inevitable part of every single relationship – even the happiest ones.
We All Argue
It doesn’t matter how great your marriage relationship is or how happily married you are, it is practically guaranteed that, at some point, you and your ... Views: 3479
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
This Holiday Season again reminds us of the importance of being with those you love as you celebrate the joy of the season. We have heard repeatedly during our many interviews with successfully married couples around the world the importance they ... Views: 3475
One cannot “grow love enough to marry and raise a family.”
It’s either there or it isn’t, in our view, and if the
comprehensive numerology and astrology charts firmly
indicate that there isn’t enough of a connection between
two people for a long term relationship, ... Views: 3474
Love can’t exist without boundaries, even with your children. It’s easy to understand external boundaries as your bottom line. Think of rules and principles you live by when you say what you will or won’t do or allow. If you have difficulty saying no, override your needs to please others, or are ... Views: 3473
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Okay, we are madly in love after all these years! We have been married for nearly 46 years and we cannot imagine life without each other. We are each other’s constant companions and wouldn’t want it any other way!
But we must admit, we often ... Views: 3468
My Wife Is Irritable All The Time: Why Is My Wife So Crabby All The Time
Try not to panic if your wife is always mad at you and says your marriage is over. You can save your marriage from divorce just as I have done along with thousands of other men. This article will talk about my experience ... Views: 3463
Your spouse cheated on you. Nothing you can do will change that. Still, you’ve decided to stick it out and try to make the marriage work. Only you don’t trust him/her anymore, you are incredibly suspicious, and your anxiety of possibly being betrayed again is eating your heart out. You still ... Views: 3457
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
There are times when we just want to retire to a remote island in the South Pacific! Why, you ask? Simple, really.
As marriage researchers for nearly three decades, we have learned a lot about what makes marriage and relationships work. And ... Views: 3454
During a recent session, a couple who had been married for about five years decided to end their relationship. The wife told the husband very matter-of-factly, saying that "they had simply grown apart and couldn't stop fighting." Neither he nor I were surprised given they we had spent almost a ... Views: 3451
During the last 10 years, the sheer volume of pornography available on the internet has grown exponentially, along with how easy it is to access.
Often, Pornography’s promise of easy, commitment free, sexual gratification can be just too hard to resist for many men, when pornographic images, ... Views: 3440
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We owe our moms a lot. While we are lucky that we get to have them around, we have to find a balance between helping our mom and nurturing our own marriage. Over-committing time in a helping relationship at the expense of your marriage will, in the ... Views: 3435
It's natural to enter a long-term relationship with expectations. And one expectation most of us have is that our spouse or partner will remain relatively healthy. Although wedding vows ask us to consider the possibility of sickness, we don't automatically assume our loved ones will suffer a ... Views: 3433
Marriage. It's hard work. Bologna. If my beloved had said, "You know, honey, being married to me is going to require hard work," I would have cut and run. My idea of a great marriage is not tantamount to labor camp. Yet we hear over and again, "Marriage is hard work." It's not.
What's hard ... Views: 3431
Are you struggling with emotional affair recovery? Does your wayward spouse need to know how to end emotional affair?
If your trust has been shattered by emotional infidelity, you're probably wondering how your spouse can ever earn it back…
This article is specifically about the actions ... Views: 3429
When I got the news that I was being laid off, I reacted in such a nonchalant fashion that I’m sure most of my friends and colleagues thought I’d been dipping into the Zoloft bottle a little too often. Since this was the third round of layoffs at my company, I guess I was simply sick and tired ... Views: 3429
There is a new mentality in the industrialized world which I call the microwave mentality. It is a result of the information age and will only grow with industrialization. I call it the microwave mentality.
We want everything quickly in this day and age because there is such an abundance of ... Views: 3429
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
There is something about the summer that encourages love. Maybe it’s the bright summer sun. It could be the warm summer breeze. Maybe it’s the refreshing summer water! Perhaps, it is the summer vacation. And isn’t the All Star Game played in the ... Views: 3425
Modern Marriage has higher expectations!
Why has the divorce rate risen significantly over the past fifty years?
I feel that modern day relationships require more maintenance than those from past generations and many couples lack the skills and desire to succeed in marriage and partnerships. ... Views: 3425
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
We just returned from the trip of our lifetime together – all 47 years of it. We spent ten days on the continent of Antarctica. Oh, my, what a wonderful trip it was! As human beings, we will never be the same!
For us, it was the 7th and final ... Views: 3423
Does your spouse take credit for your ideas? Or do people compliment your spouse for tasks or projects that you did? Do you get the credit where credit is due?
For example, Jill herself maintains a beautiful garden and takes a lot of pride in it. One day, a neighbor comes to visit the couple ... Views: 3420
Why Does My Wife Not Love Me Anymore: Wife Says She Loves Me but Not In Love with Me
The men who visit my blog on dealing with marital issues often want to know what they can do when they feel their wives don't love them anymore. It's incredibly challenging to be in a marriage in which you ... Views: 3420
My Wife Is Very Sensitive: Dealing with a Highly Sensitive Wife
Feeling as though you're walking on eggshells in your own home is never a good thing. Although women don't have the market cornered when it comes to sensitivity, it can be a huge issue for many wives. Living with a woman who is ... Views: 3419
Second marriage success: How to strengthen your second marriage
Pam voiced her frustration about problems in her second marriage:
“I couldn’t believe it was happening all over again. Slowly but surely, my second husband started to do all the things my first husband did, and I ... Views: 3418
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Often we wonder, silently and out-loud – why have so many good folks fallen prey to the lies and distortions about marriage in the USA promulgated by so many uninformed people or people with some kind of political agenda? Many times, they have an ... Views: 3405
I received an email this morning about a woman who set herself a goal to find 100 happily married couples that have been married for 10 years or longer. She allowed herself 6 months to complete her task. It took her 2 years to find 100 couples that have been happily married for 10 years or ... Views: 3403
You already know that what everyone else is telling about getting your wife back won't save your marriage...
Every time you've tried getting your wife back thus far has been either ineffective or, worse yet, pushed her even further away.
Please don't think that this is your fault!
It is ... Views: 3395
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***The Risks of On-Line Dating - by Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz, The Official Guides to Marriage
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
The on-line scams are numerous and recurring. Most of them cost you money. And worse!
Just today, someone co-opted a friend of ours by using a fake email address similar to his and sending it to a zillion people asking them to wire him money. ... Views: 3394
Wedding ceremonies are usually indeed sincere occasions. On the other hand, aside from a particular degree of solemnity needed in the ceremony, it is also said to be a joyous and joyful celebration. This is why the best men in weddings offer some of the burden of creating the event a little ... Views: 3392
As a counselor, I often work with people who are unhappy in their relationship and thinking of leaving. They believe that they are unhappy because of their partner, but the real reason is that they are not taking responsibility for their own feelings within the relationship.
For example, when ... Views: 3391
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Tonight, we heard the sounds of love! Over the years we have seen love, felt love, heard about love, observed love, and been in love. But tonight, we heard the sounds of love!
We heard love tonight through the magnificent sounds of the St. Louis ... Views: 3388
How To Make Up With Your Wife: Making Amends To Your Spouse
Your wife wants to split up. Her announcement hit you like a ton of bricks. You obviously realized that the two of you were struggling with conflicts but you had no idea that she had reached a point where she wanted out of the ... Views: 3387
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***Love Someone Today - by Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz, The Official Guides to Marriage
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Dear Friends:
Tomorrow, we celebrate our 45th Wedding Anniversary!
We got married at the Lutheran Church of the Master on Santa Monica Boulevard in Santa Monica, California in 1966. It is amazing to realize that so many years have passed so ... Views: 3385