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Imagine that you are already in your college days
and still you can’t find a date.
Or even asking someone for a date
is a misery for you.
In short, you find it hard
to approach women and lack confidence
in yourself
Seduction techniques in this new millennium are on the rise. ... Views: 2181
Results from Creative Conflict Resolutions’ Passive Aggressive Test shows that 80% men prefer to “clam up” and hide their true thoughts from their wives.
Is this you?
A very common way of describing “clamming up” is to say that it is self-protection, and as the husband, you see it as a ... Views: 3773
For years I “pounded the pavement” looking for opportunity. I tried just about everything; except one thing; being myself.
What I discovered was this; as long as I tried to be someone other than who I am, my success was always an arms distance away.
Are you trying to be someone you’re not? ... Views: 1537
The world is changing. I see it all around me.
More and more women are focusing on heart-centered living, embarking on a soul journey that takes them deeper within themselves, creating more meaning in their lives.
It’s beautiful to watch as they grow and blossom into more vibrant versions ... Views: 1316
MEN
1) Man protects and provides; woman pleases and pampers.
2) Some men are “yes” men, some men are “no” men, and some men are “I don’t know” men.
3) Be the man that is a breath of fresh air rather than the cloud that bring a dark day.
4) Be the man who calms the storms rather than the one ... Views: 940
A bit fore thought as to what will take place when you meet somebody actually unique is usually a beneficial idea too. Do you want to get married? How will you pay for her to come over towards the U.S., or will you go to her? Can you get the time off of function, what paperwork do you will need, ... Views: 4605
In the modern days, every individual working men has to take care of their looks and appearence since they have to meet lots of people in their daily life for their business pupose and individual needs. Every men can maintain their beauty by just investing few minutes each day in using right ... Views: 1274
How often do you have someone who sends you an email with, “I have a couple of quick questions.”
As you read their questions you quickly realize it will require a fair amount of time to respond to all of them.
Wanting to be polite, the temptation is for you to respond. It’s not that you ... Views: 1636
During this Chriѕtmаѕ season, we have two main things on our mind. The first one is decorating our house for Christmas and finding the best Christmas decorations and ornaments which will bring the holiday spirit into our home. The second important task is finding the best gifts for our loved ... Views: 2196
Many of the people who reach out to me are wives. They are wives who are reluctantly separated and who are miserable living without their husbands. Understandably, they often experiment with different strategies and behaviors to try to encourage a reconciliation. Sometimes, these experiments ... Views: 841
It doesn’t matter whether one is a man or woman, as they can both be walked over by the same or the opposite sex. And while this could relate to someone being physically walked over, in the majority of cases, it is not that extreme.
But that is not to say that the damage is therefore less ... Views: 7338
There are many strategies that couples might try when it feels like they're treading water with their marriage. Often, they will first sincerely try to work through their issues. Unfortunately, this can be a tricky and/or gradual process. So couples can become impatient or frustrated. That's why ... Views: 1099
Can Brain Techniques Give You The Winning Edge?
Do we agree that you and I are skeptics and need a lot of proof before we believe – anything?
Experience has taught us to believe in Cause-And-Effect, right? But does science (neuroscience,
really brain science) claim to have all the answers ... Views: 1957
The philosophical basis for cognitive therapy goes back to the Stoic Philosophers who taught that it is not the external event that causes our distress, but rather our perception or interpretation of the event that is distressing. According to the Stoics, people are capable of considering ... Views: 2918
The usual response to the suggestion to one of my clients that hypnotherapy might be useful in the treatment of sexual addiction is typical of the general public’s misguided understanding of hypnotherapy:
“I’m afraid of going into trance – I might lose control”; “You’ll find out things about ... Views: 3543
NLP is an approach to doing psychotherapy that was all the rage
in the 70’s and early 80’s. It is a model of the structure of your inner, subjective experience and how that experience influences behavior. It provides a framework for eliciting the way you experience reality with a focus on ... Views: 2628
It's common for me to hear from people who are dealing with an unhappy spouse or an unhappy marriage. Rebuilding contentment in your marriage is challenging enough, but the challenge can feel insurmountable when your spouse expresses doubt about your ability to be a happy couple going forward. ... Views: 480
Let’s face it.
If you have shyness working against you then making conversations can be really tough.
But did you know that many great conversations can start from canned material? Meaning its stuff you planned to talk about ahead of time.
The problem is knowing what material to talk ... Views: 2954
Maintaining your grill properly is very important if you want to enjoy the American tradition of grilling. Outdoor barbecue grills are simple gadgets and, if properly cared for, can bring you years of barbecue fun.
Organizing Barbecues
When you decide to barbecue, you must plan what foods ... Views: 326
The True Self is capable of objectively observing the Sex Addict Self because it's not obsessively preoccupied with getting it's neurotic needs met. Psychoanalysts call this the “observing ego” and it is considered a sign of maturity. Proponents of Eastern spirituality call the True Self “The ... Views: 2113
Erectile dysfunction is a common sex problem in men especially the middle age and elderly men. Defined as difficulty in holding sustained erections during love making, erectile dysfunction, although a worrisome condition can be easily treated and cured with the help of certain drugs, supplements ... Views: 1679
Inspired by having coffee at the beach with my beloved’s sister today I felt urged to share my thoughts on where I feel “we are at” in life, the Universe, the here and now, or whatever you choose to call it, in terms of our relationships. This mini blog is an instigator and prodder of inner and ... Views: 1085
If someone was to go into a certain environment, such as a university, they may come across a number of men who describe themselves as ‘feminists’. Yet, one won’t have to go somewhere like this is if they want to find men like this, as they can just use social media instead.
A Number of ... Views: 2047
If a man behaves in a negative or destructive manner, it is often put down to ‘toxic masculinity’. This is something that a feminist on TV can come out with, as well as someone who isn’t a feminist.
Now, it could be said that this is because feminists have a good understanding of what is ... Views: 2218
Dear MrDad: Everyone says that new mothers should breastfeed their babies but I've never really know why. And, I know this sounds nuts, but is there anything I can to do to stay involved while my wife is nursing? I feel so left out.
A: Before their babies are born, just about any expectant ... Views: 1963
Dear Dad:
Bendicion! I have heard that we all have guardian angels that bless our lives and watch over us. However, I feel fortunate that my angel has been with me in a physical reality, since my guardian angel has been you. I feel extremely grateful and blessed to have you in my life. You ... Views: 1190
Dear Dr. Romance
I came across your name and contact details on a web it whilst trying to find info' to help my relationship. I wonder if you might be able to offer me any advice please ?
My girlfriend always wants to take control and the way she speaks to me at times is though ... Views: 1664
Dear Dr. Romance:
I was wondering if in any of your books or articles you discuss about why men in their mid 40s-50s might be attracted to 20ish girls. I kind of know the obvious reasons, but being more curious about what that might mean maturity wise etc.
Dear Reader:
From your ... Views: 2491
Face-to-Face conversation with a Delhi-based astrologer – how?
A cakewalk? Obviously not. It is always tough to talk to a stranger, be it an Astrologer in Delhi. It is not like you blurt out your problems and they answer with a solution. A one-way, yes, but not exactly like this. There is ... Views: 1788
On March 8th, 2016, the whole planet celebrated the International Day of Women. However, one may ask about the reasons that could gear the members of the gentle gender to participate in that precious event.
Did they achieve their objectives of being treated as equals to their male ... Views: 1771
Today’s blog is about pain and the prescription for it, all rolled into one! First, let’s talk about the pain.
I hear all kinds of complaints about men from women. I hear frustration, genuine concern and fears that mostly centre around the fact that they don’t feel they’re getting what they ... Views: 1730
I recently received an email from a wife who had just begun a separation from her husband. This was a very difficult time for her and she wasn't sure how she should proceed or act in the days ahead. She missed her husband and wanted to retain regular contact with him. It was unbearable for ... Views: 611
Marriage is one of the most memorable parts of a person’s life because you will vow in front of God, family, and friends that you will spend the rest of your life with the person you love the most. However, before marriage, there is this one step that most men, or even women, dreaded… ... Views: 882
Men and women sometimes use the same words but with different meanings.
Women have a tendency to over-generalize statements, using words like ALWAYS and NEVER. Women sometimes say to men, “You ALWAYS do this,” or “You NEVER do that.” The use of these words is not meant to be taken literally, ... Views: 2831
The problem with shyness is it feels like you’ll never overcome it.
It takes a grip over you as soon you have to meet people or introduce yourself to someone.
And it grips you until the very end of the interaction.
To many of us with shyness it feels like an enormous wall that blocks us ... Views: 1738
Are you concerned about the security of your online account? Do you want to protect your children online? Have you ever wondered if smartphone technology, especially batteries, will be more efficient in the future or not? Have you ever thought about protecting your collectibles with the advent ... Views: 301
Dr. Romance on men and biological clocks:
To watch video, click here
Yes, a man can feel the need to grow up and have a family, especially when he finds a woman who inspires those feelings in him. The problem is, how can you be sure the match is a good one?
You’d think the positive ... Views: 1916
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When your partner refuses to help solve the problem, you have no choice but to focus on your own need until you get cooperation.
As long as you offer every opportunity to cooperate and you extend an invitation to your partner to join you whenever he ... Views: 2052
Earn £60 per hour advising people on relationships - by Beth Shepherd psychic reader.
Hello and thank you for reading this article, I hope you find it rewarding and interesting. For many years I have been helping people with relationship and marriage problems, those who need insight into how ... Views: 664
When most guys become aware of the realities of human courtship - on the street we call it "game" - we become highly attuned to the reality that women test men.
"Women test men." I can still remember how it felt to hear those words the first time somebody explained the concept of testing to ... Views: 1685
On a physical level, men and women are clearly very different; with men having features that relate to the masculine and women having features that relate to the feminine. And while this much is obvious and easily recognisable, what they are like within is not as easy to describe.
But as a ... Views: 5952
If you were to rate yourself on how happy and fulfilling your life is right now on a scale of 1-10, with “1” being not at all and “10” being fantastic, where would you rate yourself?
It’s an interesting question, because, if you’re like most people, you use generalized terms to describe your ... Views: 1877
Every intimate relationship goes through cycles—whether new or old—and one thing is certain: There always will be change involved in the process. It all comes down to how we handle change and the kind of energy that we want to create in a relationship with our partner. It is easy to get caught ... Views: 1356
A curious episode happened in the small city-state of Singapore in the fall of 1967. More than 400 panic-stricken men rushed to the hospitals there, fearing losing their penises.
According to Dr. Scott Mendelson, author of the book The Great Singapore Penis Panic:
“Each feared that if his ... Views: 2935
I recently discussed the modern preoccupation with penis size, and how exaggerated stereotypes cause millions of men to feel embarrassed, ashamed and overly anxious about their sexual performance.
In this article, we will look at the influence of modern media on this stereotype and how men ... Views: 2164
One of the attractions you will see in 2022 is the presence of the latest version of Batman Pkv Games, played by Robert Pattinson. Where many DC fans are skeptical about the presence of this version of Batman . Named The Batman , which is also not a bit interesting after this version of Batman , ... Views: 632
If a man was asked what his father was like when he was growing up, he could end up coming out with a number of different things. One thing that he could say is that he was a solid guy; another thing that he could say was that he was a waste of space.
Then again, he could say that he didn’t ... Views: 837
I sometimes hear from people who have come to understand that it's often best to comply with their spouse's request for "space." Often, the last thing that they want is a separation or a break. But often after some time, it has become obvious that nothing else is going to satisfy their spouse. ... Views: 617
Yes you can do this - if you have spare time and can do with more money, a lot more money coming in. The beauty of it is that you are working online from wherever suits you, so you can work from home if you prefer. This saves you travelling and travelling expenses, plus the expense of having an ... Views: 942
In the many types of photography you may have to do as a photographer, baby shots may be the most difficult. Even if you are not a professional photographer but you are trying to get a great looking portrait of your own child, getting them to cooperate is a major undertaking.
The first rule ... Views: 2118