My purpose is to be honest. To empower others by not holding back my intuition and knowledge from them. It may very well be the piece they need to the puzzle in their life. I could be that one bit of information that creates a spark in their mind and makes them pull down the wall that has been blocking their success. Most of my earlier years where spent being told how I conduct myself was out of line. Too brutal, too honest. Actually I think many people labeled me as brutally
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“It’s true that CONTRAST PROVIDES PERSPECTIVE.nn…In all respects, she was different. Not only was she a tidy homemaker, great cook, and a good money manager; she was playful AND passionate too.nnRapidly, we became lovers AND friends; having fun just being together.nnAnd I trust her with everything.”nn“Prosperity: The eternal flow of all that’s good in life…”nnBy Carl “J.C.” Pantejo, Copyright February 2008nn(Author &
Women support each other under stress. How can men handle it more effectively?
What’s your idea of love? Is it when you want the best for someone else? When you give up putting your own self first to focus on another’s feelings, desires, needs? When you give your whole self—heart, mind and soul—to another? Scientists have made great progress in understanding love through researching the brain. A few facts emerged: - Romantic love is universal in humans. - You can feel as ardently in love at 80 as 18. - If you’re in love you’re as driven as an addict.
Couples who dwell or live in the past seldom are the ones you notice moving forward with anticipation to the future. My belief it that you should only look back to see how far you've come and to learn from the experience. To break free from the past you must look at the future as a mystery. Let things happen intentionally. This is, plan some unexpected romance with your partner. Begin to actively explore the mystery of love and romance together.
Everyone is searching for a happier and stronger relationship; but with the jobs, kids, running the household and other mundane responsibilities – it can be really hard to maintain that spark that keeps the love alive! Here are 7 secrets for rekindling the spark & romance for a stronger relationship.
Dear Dr. Romance: I read your monthly "Happiness Tips" newsletter and thank you your advice. However, I noticed that you try to help resolve or forestall relationship problems. My problem is still meeting a man that I like. When I go out and see a guy I am attracted to, I do look towards that man and "let" him know Ilike him. That guy usually looks at me back , but just does not approach me.
Dr. Dr. Romance, I have strong feelings for my boss, he's 10 years older than me. I cannot explain why I have these feelings or why I think of him ....He's still my boss kinda, I'm working on a new mission and have a different boss now, its not the same. I miss my boss, I wander if he misses me too! What do you think? Dear Reader:
Dear Dr. Romance: I have been together with my wife for about 3 years now. We have worked on many issues in our marriage and resolved most of them, however there is still one issue that has not been resolved.
Dear Dr. Romance: Is he cheating on me? Or am I just being paranoid? Me and my bf have been together for 15 months now. A couple of weeks ago we broke up and then got back together after a week. When we broke up he kept texting me, asking “Are u happy?” and stuff.
Understanding the psychological impacts of relationships can be very difficult. After all, both you and your partner are unique people who each have your own different beliefs. When it comes to understanding your partner and really âgettingâ their psychology, you have to try to understand where they are coming from in their own life. Try to talk to your partner and learn their beliefs about love and the opposite gender before you jump to conclusions about them purposefull
Attract the partner of your dreams or spice up your current relationship with Feng Shui! Single or attached; are you looking for ways to spruce up your love life? Follow these easy steps to create a romantic, fulfilling space for you and the partner of your dreams! Remember when you first start dating that new special someone? You wanted everything to be just right. We all try our best to make these first encounters extra exceptional! What would you do if you had a date comin
My Husband Loves His Family More Than Me: My Husband Prefers His Family Over Me One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: that word is love. - Sophocles Over the years, we continue to grow and mature. The romance shared by the married couple may seem to change from what were familiar routines, into new and unfamiliar behaviors they do not yet understand. The relationship grows and seems to go through phases, leading the couple looking for reassurance that their ro
Hey you yes that suggests you reading this. I hope you aren't even now working with that stupid penis enlarger pump you purchased years ago. Did it work? I imagined not though you sat there pumping apart for hours every single day. Just how much funds did you squander on it? I never need to know. Do you think you're happy with all the size of the penis? Do you wish that there was a assured approach to enlarge your penis safely? Search no more - It can be now guaranteed and s
Itâs surprising to know that more and more women are now cheating against their men and in fact, this is now one of the most common grounds of divorces worldwide. Although a lot would agree that boys are born cheaters, some women actually cheat on their men, too. So find out the common signs that your girl may be cheating on you, before itâs too late. Mentions A Personâs Name More Often There are times when your girl would talk about a certain guy in her office, the guy
So many âmarriagesâ these days are not formalized by traditional weddings, or are only legalized years after a couple has been living together for some time, so the etiquette of giving anniversary gifts can be confusing. For instance, my gay cousin and her partner have lived together for almost ten years. They even have two adopted children. I donât recall anyoneâ¦on our side of the family at leastâ¦ever giving them anniversary gifts. Birthday gifts; yes. Baby shower
Partners assisting with breast self examination....well, you probably think I have lost the plot completely, suggesting your partners help you with your regular breast self exam. However..... I actually think it can be a great idea and encourage you to think about this option.nn Firstly - My Mothers Fear nMany women experience a deep fear in doing their breast self examination. This is a very normal and natural feeling, being a real fear for many of us, including my mother.nn
Dear Dr. Romance: How realistic is it for a woman over 40 to expect a date from an online dating site to lead to marriage? Dear Reader:
Dear Dr. Romance For many many years, i have been the income earner for our 4 kids and my wife while she was home raising the kids. Day in day out I was working sometimes three jobs. I got into a career that took 10-15 hrs per day for the first three years - the money was great and I thought everything was going awesome especially since everyone was enjoying spending my money on lavish things.
Infidelity can be devastating to a marriage. While couples can recover, it is far better to never have cheating in the first place. Here's how to "cheat-proof" your marriage, and head off problems before they begin. Dr. Romance on how to keep your marriage safe from infidelity
By Carl "J.C." Pantejo, Copyright 2007nn- “Prosperity: The eternal flow of all that’s good in life…” -nn(Author “My Friend Yu – The Prosperity Mentor,” Copyright August 2007. Pantejo - Y.N. Vurce Publishing.)nn*Below is the first of a series of actual events experienced by the author. The only deviations from the truth may be the names of people and places. These stories are also incorporated in “My Friend Yu – The Prosper
You just went through a breakup. Right now you are so heartbroken and all you want to do is to run away from the hurt. You just want to be left alone for awhile, hide in a rabbit hole and go into seclusion. Your whole felt like a deck of falling cards. You are so hurt that you are left in a limbo of desperately trying to let go. You are in a cross roads and you are in a dilemma.nnIf only you could recapture your ex partners mind, heart and soul one more time? How you wish you
How much does love matter? by Rosemary Price the psychic. I have met people who think only of love and are quite obsessed with it. To them it is a pure and spiritual thing which they search for and treasure when they find it. They appreciate it. But they often make too much of it because they do not seem to understand that we all feel unloved and unappreciated at times and it would be strange if we could feel fully loved and appreciated 24 7. If they have a hundred friends they want to double it and have two hundred, but forget that quality is as important if not more so than quantity.
Let us say you separated from your ex boyfriend and you are here because you need a solution to get them to want you again. Even if the breakup was a fault you made leading to them dumping you, there is still a way to get around things. Your ex may not remain for a long time without you once she cognizes that you are the coolest person for them. Below are the ideas you can make use of to make your ex want you back badly like crazy. Step 1rnYou need to handle things the gentle
Knowing how to make ex boyfriend want you back can sound as being complicated, but itâs very easy. Actually, lots of relationships may be saved, and if you want to win back your ex, then it is advisable to read this piece of writing simply because you risk losing him forever if you are unprepared. Key part of knowing how to make ex boyfriend want you back would be to stop getting in touch with him. At the time you recently break up is when pressure reaches its maximum and f
Hey Doc! I've noticed a trend in my dating life that is really starting to piss me off. It's rare for me to make plans with a girl and to not have her try to cancel on me or suddenly be "too busy" to keep our date. I'm so tired of games like that. Are they trying to see how much I want them or ...
Christians divorce just as much as non-Christians but often feel as if they have failed God and don't deserve a good future. That is not true. God understands that sin causes broken relationships. He hates divorce, but He loves you. Regardless of what happened in your marriage that led to the divorce, He cares deeply about you now and wants you to be healed and restored. Divorce requires a huge readjustment in your life. It takes time to re-orient and rebuild. In the process, you have to learn to take care of yourself. Consider these helpful tips:
Dear Dr. Romance: I hope you can help me. My boyfriend passed away two years back... We were pretty much engaged, living together and everything. I thought i was over the whole thing, but now I know I'm not. A month back, or so.. i was seeing a man, and today i found out he had passed away. He reminded me so much of my late, they shared the same name, just second name being different. In the grieving process, I'm feeling the loss of both. And my late especially.
Every relationship has its fair share of ups and downs. But coming across your partnerâs cheating is categorically one of the most trying experiences. Infidelity happens to have a domino effect that impacts everyone in the coupleâs lives. If the couple is married, the damage extends to family, extended family, children, as well as mutual friends. Therefore, married couples are more inclined to give their marriage another chance and try a different approach to sort out dif
What are the rules of a relationship and how do you learn them? Like me, you probably learned due to mistakes you've done in the past. Other times, you learn by observing other people's relationships. You learn more through the relationship of some of your closest friends or family members. Through all these, you'll find that there are a few bits of relationship advice worth remembering. Following are some of the things that I have learned during along the way. To improve a r
It’s that time of year again. You see folks clearing out their garages, basements and attics preparing for yard sales or trips to thrift stores to donate all of those unwanted items. Yes, it’s spring cleaning season. If you’ve ever engaged in this annual tradition of sorts, ...
When you're in a relationship, you are feeling the world is perfect. It gives a a feeling of belongingness, satisfaction, and when that ends in marriage, it gives a lifelong companionship and pleasure. Marriage is an excellent commitment between two partners. Relationship experts, psychiatrists, help the couple who have trouble at their relationship. Save my marriage today organizations can help the couples who are in marriage crisis or trouble, and help them to live a long l
Dr. Neder, My fiancé decided it was best to end our two year relationship about a month and a half ago. In this time I have realized why she did it and that she meant more to me tha I ever knew. I made a lot of mistakes that I didn't see until now. I talked to her about a month ago and ...
Do you want to be in a committed relationship, yet end up feeling shut down and trapped instead?
Hi Dennis, From your experience, what causes a man to leave his wife for another woman? Such as Tom Cruise leaving Nicole Kidman for Penelope, and Brad Pitt leaving Jennifer Aniston for Angelina. What do you think was the primary reason? The "other" woman being more beautiful, sexier and more ...
How to get rid of a man by Beth Shepherd psychic. Many women who are single make it their aim to get a man. Unfortunately some of them become so obsessed with the idea that being single is awful that they rush into anything with any man. Many of the problems that women have when it comes to emotional problems and relationship issues stem from rushing into something with the wrong person and then staying with them even though everything tells them that it will not work.
Couples often seek therapy at a point in which their relationship is polarized by reactivity and power struggles are making connection extremely difficult. Trapped in impasses that they are unable to fix on their own, they seek counseling with the hope of finding a new direction.
You are now divorced, you have never done a budget before or, did it jointly with your spouse, and now you have to do it yourself. You will probably have less income and you may have to change your lifestyle. This can be scary. According to the latest divorce statistics from DivorceMag.com: • There were 71,269 divorces in Canada in 2005, or a rate of 220.7 per 100,000 population.r
Last week I had a sneaking suspicion that my journal had been read. This week I am faced with another option. Then – 2/22/2004
So why do men cheat on their wives? There are many answers to this question and a lot of times, it's not exactly what women would like to hear, such as men are biologically wired to seek out as many suitable partners as possible or because they're not getting as much action at home or it's due to the reason that his wife refuses to try new things, there could be many reasons along these lines. These arguments might be true in some circumstances but not all the time. What we'r
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Are you looking for unique and creative ways to express love for your partner? Perhaps the passion just needs a little revived. Many couples today are experiencing this problem, especially if theyâve been together for a long time. Understandably, some finish Friday night at the supermarket, or on the couch with a pizza in hand and watching a movie. Iâm not saying that the nights alone is not romantic. But, letâs be honest. We all need a little more time. Otherwise, we c
rnEven though your relationship started out with joy and excitement, it could end up with pain and heartbreak! Are you wondering where all the love and caring has gone? Before your relationship goes haywire learn how to save a relationship by following some simple rules and laws that are outlined below. Communication. The most important way to save a relationship is communication. You must talk with your partner, because communication is the thing that builds, improves or des
Having highlighted the problem of women undermining themselves and their girls in my first blog, I wanted to use the second to express the spirit in which I hope we can try to address it. How can we start to limit the pressure we put on ourselves around body image, aging and sexuality?rn Hereâs a common scenario I hear from both male and female clients who are dating or married, in individual or couples treatment, that illustrates what weâre up against: rn rnBoth the man
Should I Give My Husband An Ultimatum: I Gave My Husband An Ultimatum - Marriage Ultimatum Divorce An ultimatum is such a tempting way to deal with a spouse's undesirable behavior. The problem is they rarely work the way the giver intended. It may seem like a good idea at first... in fact, all your friends and family may encourage you to take the final stand because it seems to give you back some sense of control. It feels like you are demanding the respect you deserve. The p
Anyone who has ever experienced a split up at some point in their lives knows how complicated this time can be. But, there are things you can do to resolve the problem, and there are things you can do that will cause more damage than good. Your choice in this issue will tell if things will be easier or if things will more difficult for you. And â if you are in search of tips for how to get your ex back, in that case there are quite some things you can accomplish to help win
Annually recurring anxiety: you may have it and not know it. Anxiety disorders can be times of extended difficulty for those who suffer from them. Tension, worry, inability to concentrate, mono-focus on a particular thought or person, avoidance of a particular situation or person, irritable outbursts, and feelings of detachment from others are all common symptoms. So are physical symptoms, such as rising blood pressure, rapid heartbeat, sweating, dizziness, loss of or appetite, nightmares, and sleep disturbance.
Doc: My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We have lived together for 2 years and we get along fine. We have our times but not many of them. I do everything for him: cook, clean, and everything else a wife would do. I love him very much but I want to start a family. I don't mean ...
In a Sea of Messages, This One’s Mixed Hello Doctor, I need your advice on a little dilemma of mine. There is this guy that I've known for quite some time now. It started off with just getting together for drinks and then a couple times for dinner, but it's been over a year and I don't know ...
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