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Don’t be surprised when I tell you that women fantasize just like men. They not be as open about it or they keep it to themselves in fear of embarrassment. In this two part article I will discuss some of the top fantasies of a woman. This article is not intended to go back to your mate with and say see I know you want to do this. You should never push your partner to reveal their fantasies because they are theirs and if they want to include you they will. Fantasy can be a g

If you don't already know this, one of the worst "vibes" that you can send off to a woman is to come across as being desperate. Desperate for attention, desperate for approval... all of these things are going to work against you. To seduce a woman, you have to give off the vibe that you really don't need any attention or approval. That's the kind of a vibe that you need to give off if you are going to be able to turn a woman and more than that... make her want YOU. Here are a

It used to be that dildos were kept hidden, and weren’t considered sensible sex toys. But look at how local sex shops and web sites sell them now, and they have a special place. Women customers love to buy them and use them by themselves or with partners. You could be the next person to buy a dildo, but if you are picking dildos, you need to have some knowledge. Here are some tips about the types of dildos.nn A Personal Toy nnSo you want your first dildo, one just for y

I Can't Satisfy My Girlfriend: How to Drive a Woman Absolutely Wild in Bed Do you know that you can easily drive a woman absolutely wild using simple words? Do you know that you can get the kind of results you desire out of a woman in bed and give her multiple orgasms one after the other? You see there are some secret techniques and ways using which you can easily pleasure a woman to the extreme and make her treat you like an absolute sex god. Read on to discover what these w

Attachment patterns have to do with how the infant is tended to by his/her primary caregiver, typically the mother. This means that when an infant is upset, or dysregulated, the "good enough" mother soothes the infant thereby regulating his/her nervous system. This kind of consistent tending to and soothing not only assists the brain in forming its regulatory capacities but also encodes or patterns the nervous system to respond appropriately under stress. If a baby is soothed while under duress, that baby will grow into an adult who can soothe himself while under stress.

For women, sex is much more than just a mechanical biological activity. We want an extraordinary holistic experience with an attentive, perceptive and expressive partner who is willing to delve into the depths of our soul, sharing absolute bliss in divine union. Is that too much to ask?

The Valentine’s Day gift you choose for your loved one and how you decide to spend the day says a lot about the quality of your relationship, so give something that has real meaning to you. Gifts from the heart don’t have to be expensive and will tend to have more significance when you put some thought into giving something a bit more innovative than the old standbys. Since the traditional gifts of flowers or chocolates don’t last forever, here are some more creative ways to express your love.

In previous pieces*, I have covered how sex is not a one-way experience (in ‘Don’t Lie Back and Think of England’), as well as how sex can be like an elephant in the bedroom when it comes to communicating any problems that might be occurring. This week, I would like to suggest ways in which we can get feedback from our partner after a sexual experience. And when I say sexual experience, I am not limiting it to just penetrative sex. Open-Ended Questions You can begin asking your partner what the sexual experience was like: “Sweetheart, how was it for you?” or “How was it just now?”r

How to delay premature ejaculation and have a stunning sensational orgasm? If you are reading this article, chances are you are having some problems with your ejaculatory power and wanted to know how to impress your women in bed.rn rnThe question on how to delay premature ejaculation is not a new question. In fact, with the increasingly stressful lifestyle, more and more men are having this problem. Following from there, a lot of information has been made available on the mar

Is sex a job or a joy to you? Sex means many things to different people, often depending on where they are emotionally, or even the time of their life. For some, it is a chore, a duty, an obligation, simply a way to keep the harmony in a relationship. For others, it may be a way to ensure food gets put on the table. Sex may even be viewed as a strategic decision to reduce the chances of the partner seeking sex elsewhere.r

Recently a girlfriend admitted that until she met me, she had always thought that vaginismus was a myth – a disease that was made up, or had been eradicated in the ’80s, and most definitely did not exist in modern day. In fact, vaginismus is a very real sexual conce that women experience, and more common than we might think.

My pussy speaks to me. It has a voice. At times in my life this voice has been almost inaudible while at other times it has been loud and robust. Years ago I worked very hard to silence this part of me that was connected on a soul level. The connection felt too much, too intense, and too open. Through my awakening to different sexuality practices I have reconnected with that primal area. However, despite any attempts to ever silence my pussy it continues to speak to me whether I am listening or not, and when I am not listening my pussy finds a way to make me pay attention!

I've been sitting in a room talking to addicts for 25 years. All kinds of addicts. I've participated in the enormous struggles of alcoholics to get sober, cocaine, heroine, methamphetamine, food, love, nicotine, sex...all kinds of addictions. My conclusion, culled from clinical experience, is that internet porn is THE primary addiction and is, by far, the hardest to kick. My intention in comparing my uncle's cocaine addiction that robbed him dry was to show you that the biochemical dysfunctions of a cocaine addict are exactly the same as those of a long-term porn addict.

Don’t be surprised when I tell you that women fantasize just like men. They not be as open about it or they keep it to themselves in fear of embarrassment. In this two part article I will discuss some of the top fantasies of a woman. This article is not intended to go back to your mate with and say see I know you want to do this. You should never push your partner to reveal their fantasies because they are theirs and if they want to include you they will. Fantasy can be a g

For thousands of years, traditional Chinese doctors have used acupuncture to treat various diseases. Now researchers believe it may be useful for men suffering from impotence.nnThis “new” treatment is being studied by Austrian scientists who said that it can help treat impotence caused by mental or psychological problems. Dr. Paul F. Engelhardt of the Hospital Leinz in Vienna, Austria, shared his findings with a group of urologists in Atlanta, Georgia. So far, it

Talk to Your Teenage Son About RelationshipsrnParents, teachers, and other adults often focus more on the sexual aspects of teen relationships out of a concern regarding sexually transmitted diseases (STD's) and teen pregnancy. There is, on the other hand, too little time spent on teaching young men about relationships and their role as a date or a boyfriend. This article touches on how to teach teen males about what goes into having a healthy and positive relationship that i

How To Get More Oral Sex - How to Get Your Wife / Girlfriend Interested in Giving You Oral Sex - Get Her To Give You Oral Sex Hey man, I'll tell you exactly how you can get your wife interested in giving you oral sex. Your wife isn't giving you oral for one of the following 8 reasons. 1. She believes that giving oral sex is only done by prostitutes that it's "degrading" and/or disgusting 2. She isn't interested in giving you oral because she doesn't see what's the "point" in

Haven’t we all felt the pit in our stomach, the disbelief it’s happening, feeling pissed off, calling up to get back together, and the sadness, when we go through the loss of a romantic relationship that we cared a lot about? Elizabeth Kubler-Ross wrote originally about these stages in terms of death, though they apply to intimate relationships as well. I’ll be adding information from my own reading and counseling experience in helping individuals through the process of relationship breakup.

We hear it all the time, how sex in marriage or long-term relationships fades or dies out altogether. One or both partners lose their sexual desire. Passion is a forgotten memory. Making love becomes an obligation or an afterthought. But does it have to be that way? Take this quiz and see ...

The most important thing to keep in mind in regard to great sex, is that it does not occur as a result of one particular tip, technique or position. It's a compilation of the chemistry you share with your lover, the quality and depth of your relationship and the development of craft. Now ...

Cunnilingus, the technical term for performing oral sex on a woman, is one of the most awesome ways to stimulate her clitoris. Because most women enjoy oral sex, the act of cunnilingus can make her orgasm faster. The following tips and techniques will help to make sure this happens. (1) Cleanliness first If you shave regularly, be sure to do it before you give her oral sex. Nothing kills the mood more than it feels like sand-paper on her sensitive parts when you go down on

Loss of Relationships

rn(This article has been excerpted from the book The Intimate Couple, by Jack Rosenberg and Beverly Kitaen-Morse. 1996. Out of print.) How would like to get through feeling hopeless about your intimate relationship? Can you remember times when you were so unhappy with your partner that you were not yourself, that you got off track with yourself? Intimacy can be fraught with these painful feelings when you lose it, especially when partners do not know how to work with them.

The Joy of Sex: A Gourmet Guide to Love Making by Alex Comfort This original The Joy of Sex, first published in 1972, has often been credited with inventing the modern sex manual and enjoyed unprecedented success world-wide gracing 8 million homes. Illustrated with line-drawings and watercolors of a couple, this book aims to be a personal one-couple notebook containing valid sexual behaviors, plus a certain amount about how and why they work.

A while back, I jotted down some thoughts about a person I called “The Other Parent”. Since then, I’ve been collecting information and have concluded that there is a dearth of material on this subject. But I have expanded upon my initial ideas and hopefully this will be lead to more research data in the future. These were my initial thoughts:

This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Sexuality . Sexuality is a concern with or interest in sexual activity, health, and intimacy. Sheri Winston is the Official Guide to Sexuality .nn Human Sexuality in a World of Diversity (7th Edition) (MyPsychKit Series) , by Spencer A. Rathus (Author), Jeffrey S. Nevid (Author), Lois Fichner-Rathus (Author), is a valuable resource for people interested in Sexuality and it is available through Amazon.com and Barnes

I didn’t know I had a vulva until I went to sex school. Don’t get me wrong. Of course, I do have a vulva (pronounced as ‘vuhl-vah’) and a vagina (pronounced ‘vha-gine-a’). I just didn’t know what they were called. I couldn’t even pronounce the word penis (pronounced as ‘pee-nis’) for that matter and called it incorrectly as ‘pen-is’. For the longest time, I was calling the whole area ‘no nok’ because that was what my mother said it was. For the purposes of this article, I asked my parents how to spell it and realised that what I always assumed was a Teochew word is in fact Malay!

Sometimes there are hardships in intimate relationships. These hardships often show up as:rn-Lack of desire in your sex life.rn-Wishing your partner would do just the right thing to satisfy you.rn-Feeling sad when the sex isn’t what you expected.rn-Believing that your sex drive ‘stops’ after 40.rn-The same old “boring sex”.

Taking a biologic perspective, sexual intercourse or coitus is fundamentally the placing of the man’s phallus in to the woman’s vaginal for the objective of proliferation. It is looked at as the all-natural objective of all intercourse involving a male and a female. Society we reside in nowadays has evolved and this perspective no longer holds sway as coition lately in addition to other elements of a man and woman’s sexual acts takes into account not just vaginal interc

nnnnThe Daily Mantra would like to applaud pop star George Michael for his appearance on Eli Stone , (which stars Johnny Lee Miller as a lawyer with a higher calling in the title role). In the past, the publicity shy singer/songwriter has even refused to promote his own records, so when he stepped into the limelight for a cameo appearance on last week's installment of the hit ABC spiritually-charged legal drama, we knew it was for reasons beyond mere music and ticket sales, f

Aren’t sexual intimacy problems everywhere? People who have come in for emotional intimacy issues can be communicating clearly to their partner: “Get lost!” “It’s all YOUR fault!” It’s so very normal to get caught up in these communication pitfalls. It’s a negative loop of hope, desire, rejection, and hope again. I can show you how to get out of this negative loop without being out of your relationship. To begin with, ask yourself if it really is your partner’s responsibility to make you happy.

Perhaps you have ever before wondered which the function of testosterone in enhancing libido and enhancing erections in adult men can't be its only part? You will discover quite a few other roles and organic effects of testosterone aside from its identified presence in bodily fluids. It has become blamed for extra hair loss (medical name-Androgenetic alopecia) despite the fact that the molecular steps of hair loss in men and women are usually not entirely understood. This hor

Reaching the top most peak of orgasm for women is like finding your way through the streets of China. It has lots of twist and turns and U- turns; you can get lost and end up being laughed at or gotten angry at. But if you can discover the way to females orgasm, you will be greatly rewarded. There are so many ways to reach that elusive orgasm. It will not be as elusive if you both parties pay attention to each other. It usually takes both parties’ efforts and proper communi

Not long ago within our culture, there was a myth that women were not very sexual. If they were, they did not enjoy it, much. It was also not long ago that sex toys were hidden and shameful. It is safe to say that toys and aids have gone main stream. Women are inherently sexual beings and it is the time of our sexual re-awakening. Couples know that sexual intimacy is a major player in being happy together.

Often people think intimacy is learning about their partners and teaching their partners what they want their partners to know about them. In actuality, the word "intimacy" says it all – IN TO ME SEE. Seeing intimacy as this simple phrase can be the key to unlocking the door to true openness and communication in a relationship. In order for one to see into oneself, one must acquire the knowledge of who he or she really are so that one can live authentically with a partner and with the rest of the world -- but most importantly with oneself.

My Wife Says I Don't Satisfy Her Sexually: How To Satisfy Your Spouse Sexually Every man out there wants to be the king in the bedroom and he wants to be the best lover that any woman has ever have. With your current woman, you want to make sure that you are giving her pleasure so good, she forgets about every man in her past. You want make sure that you are the best and you are dedicated to doing just that. You want to make your woman have a screaming orgasm. You want her to

You’ve done your research, read some books, perhaps even viewed instructional videos on the topic. Everyone is talking about sensual massage, the depth of the connection it enables and of course, the mind shattering orgasms it helps produce. You’re ready to embark on some more practical ...

In this article you are going to discover how to give your woman an ANAL ORGASM. And please believe me when I say that -- if you are the kind of man who wants to give his woman INCREDIBLE SEXUAL PLEASURE, anal orgasms are something you will enjoy giving her very much. In fact, when you give her her first anal orgasm, you can reasonably expect her to SCREAM her head off and then demand that you give her full-on ANAL INTERCOURSE. Nice. Before we get into the technique, let me g

Even before the internet has become a household name, pornography has already existed. In the past, just the mere mention of the word can cause mayhem in a community, especially when done by a young boy. Religious teachings and stringent rules about manners and conduct rendered pornography a taboo, and talking about it openly was simply unheard-of. However, the rules change as time goes by. Although it is still not publicly discussed in schools because of the stigma and most

For the patient, psychotherapy is the treatment of emotional or behavioral problems designed to encourage communication of conflicts and insight into their problems; the goal being relief of symptoms and changes in behavior leading to improved functioning. Our expression, experience, and meaning of sexuality and intimacy are dynamic and fluctuate throughout the lifespan, changing over time as we age. At different ages the experience of sexual satisfaction changes. People that are 50 are not looking for the same things in their relationships of intimacy as they did when they were 25.

When I began working in this field many years ago, I was told that if I hadn’t already picked a specialization, it would pick me. And that is exactly what happened.

A woman’s body can be just as unpredictable as the weather. When it comes to preparing for sexual activity, sometimes women can become naturally lubricated fairly easy – other times it can be quite difficult. It is important to engage in plenty of foreplay to encourage emotional connection and physical arousal. However, there may be times when a woman remains uncomfortably dry despite the best efforts of her partner to stimulate the receptive area. It can be embarrassing, inconvenient, and even painful if you don’t have a ‘back-up’ personal lubricant handy.

How to stop ejaculating too soon? This question is common among men who suffer from premature ejaculation. Let me reveal this to you. You are not alone. 40% of men suffer from this problem. But this condition is curable. Don't focus on the question of "how to stop ejaculating too soon?" Focus on the solution not the problem. Let me disclose the key to end this problem. You should "arouse" your female partner first before you reach climax. So, to prevent premature ejaculation,

I am a sexologist. Since I am the only one with this unique combination of qualification and training in Singapore, there exists a lot of confusion about what exactly a sexologist does within our little city/state. Not only that, I have my share of detractors who think I am a ‘joke’, only about hype, or out to create trouble or controversy for the purpose of my own aggrandizement, etc. I have never professed to be something I am not. Since I am 100% serious about the work I do and intend to be around for some time, here are a few common misconceptions I would like to address here:

When a relationship is going great, it can be one of the best experiences, however, when relationships are strained, things can be very stressful. If it has been your habit to ignore relationship problems, then you've probably watched more than one relationship deteriorate. If something is broken, if you don't fix it, things will never get better. However, when you give your relationship a little tender loving care, it is entirely possible to resolve the situation and restore

Menopause is a natural phase of every woman's aging process that is usually marked by a specific set of symptoms. The progression usually runs for several years or more starting with gradual changes in her menstrual cycle and concluding with complete cessation of menstruation. For some women, ...

Human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) is a virus that causes one of the deadliest diseases known to man - Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome (AIDS), which takes the lives of millions of people all over the world. One of the most common ways that this virus is transmitted from one person to another is through sex or sexual activity. This is the reason why its of paramount importance that you take certain precautions while using sex toys and indulging in sexual practices. Human im

If you’ve ever danced the night away, then you know how truly liberating, invigorating and therapeutic it can be to just let it loose on the dance floor. Music has a way of touching the soul in an extraordinary and profound way. Whether fueled by a DJ or a live band, dancing is quite similar to sex. By allowing yourself to fully delve into the veritable vibration of what you perceive, you’re able to become fully present to the physical sensations that you might not otherwise be keen to.

Single and married people alike have discovered the benefits of wearing pheromones. Wearing pheromones is like giving Mother Nature a boost in helping send off signals to attract romantic interest. Unfortunately many formulated pheromone products on the market lack potency. Theoretically they should be achieving more attention, romance and intimacy from the opposite sex. However many of those products are missing the “it” factor. Many are of inferior quality and may lack

Being a women in todays society has it's advantages and disadvantages. Women can be a lot more open about their sexuality then years ago, which is a good thing, so disscusing sexual issues such as STDs is more common and showsus just how bad it has gotten.