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The old persons used to say that masturbation is a harmful process that may effective on one’s normal growth and sometimes they may fall ill for various diseases. It also effects on the mental health of a growing boy of girl. This is not at all harmful in any way. The medical science has proved that there is no relation with the sex cells and body cells. So, if someone does masturbation, it will not effect on the body cells. So, in any way, masturbation does not impact upon

First of all, the term “great sex” is totally subjective. What I considered great sex or a fantastic love to me many years ago does not even come close in measuring up to subsequent sexual experiences. I didn’t know what I was missing as I had nothing better to compare it to at the time. Lucky for me it has become progressively better and I’ve learned so much about my own sexuality and relationships over the years. Also, I have learned a lot of terrific tips from working with many other couples in facilitating relationship counseling.

Men harbour a deep, dark secret every woman should know: they WANT to be seduced. They pray for it, and heave a great sigh of relief when an attractive woman spins her web of seduction on them. Although women have been honing their skills of seduction for centuries, there are still some who has yet to learn these skills. Whether you want to seduce your man, or just about any man, the secret to winning him is by hitting his “hidden switch”. Every man’s switch is uniqueâ€

A few weeks ago, while watching ‘Robin Hood’ starring Russell Crowe, I found myself cringing at the predictability of the plot. I am usually not so squeamish about my buttons being so obviously pushed. However, I walked away from the experience with a few observations about the preparation of heroes that I’d like to share with you.

The diagnosis of sex addiction is the same as every addiction: loss of control and continued behavior despite adverse consequences. Sexual addiction differs from other addictions, however. Our sexuality reflects unconscious conflicts, longings and wishes of which we are not aware.

Some sexually transmitted infections can be passed on orally, so it’s a good idea to put on a condom for oral sex. Flavoured condoms would be the same strength as well as gone through the same rigorous testing as the normal condoms so you shouldn’t worry about it at all. There is a chance of the condom breaking or tearing if the girl is actually biting or chewing on the condom as part of the oral sex. It is a good idea to change the condom before vaginal penetration.

"Gay and lesbian relationships are . . . counterfeit . . . psychologically immature . . . less committed . . . short-term . . . rarely last . . . unhealthy for children . . ." Most of us grew up hearing these falsehoods in our communities, churches, and families. In our struggle for equality, we sometimes find ourselves trying to convince family members, co-workers, clergy, and lawmakers that our relationships are just as healthy and resilient as those of our heterosexual f

Open relationships are otherwise known as polygamous or polyamorous relationships. It is defined as a situation wherein couples go into mutual agreement to date and engage in sexual activity with other people although they still continue being in a relationship with each other. In the past, those who blatantly disregarded the definition of monogamy were called swingers. Nowadays, however, a lot of rules in relationships have evolved, and the number of people in open relations

How to Give a Girl Pleasure She Will Never Forget: How to Give a Woman the Biggest Orgasm Ever Giving a girl total and complete satisfaction is something that you can do as soon as tonight. You can learn some tips that will help you along your path to giving a girl pleasure she will never forget. You can master the female orgasm and be able to give her some of the best pleasure that she has ever had in her whole life. If you want to make this happen, you have to read on. The

Our diet affects everything; our energy level, body composition, strength, endurance, stamina, mental cognition, body odor, mood, sex drive, sleeping habits and overall vitality. The health and wellbeing of every living creature on earth significantly depends on their diet and the quality of all they consume. When you eat junk and processed foods, your body produces more fat, lowers your energy and even reduces your brain power. If your diet is consistently of low quality; long-term health issues and chronic illnesses can occur, affecting every aspect of your life.

The philosophical basis for cognitive therapy goes back to the Stoic Philosophers who taught that it is not the exte al event that causes our distress, but rather our perception or interpretation of the event that is distressing. According to the Stoics, people are capable of considering alte ative perceptions or interpretations by changing the thoughts that underlie emotional distress or sexual dysfunction. This ancient philosophy can help you in your therapy for sex addiction.

So much has been written and said about the Alpha Male—that paragon of maleness every man secretly admires and every woman secretly fancies. The internet is awash with tips on how to transform oneself into an A-type male in a matter of weeks, even days, and promises that once the transformation is complete, the world will become one’s oyster. Books have been penned dedicated to the Alpha Male Syndrome, as if it is a disease one could catch. But despite all the attention,

Males around the world look for the ways to increase their performance on the beds desperately. Though it is equally important for both of the male and females to put equal effort on the bed to make the sex more enjoyable, men always want to do something extraordinary for the female partner. There have certain limitations on the male sex organs men are suffering from which leave them less effective on the bed and limit their time during the sex which makes their female partne

Does your partner complain that you are not a good lover? Do you want to improve your lovemaking technique? If you want to make your partner purr with pleasure, you must: 1. Learn what your partner enjoys. Just because you read about a great technique in an article or book doesn’t mean that ...

As a sensually empowered woman, you are the keeper of your own mojo. It is that sense of self-confidence, self-esteem and sex appeal stemming from the core of your being and spiraling outward, enchanting every person around you. Sometimes we are in the flow, feeling good and looking our best. Other times we may feel like hiding under a mask, lacking self-esteem and poise. So how do we sustain our mojo and live life in balance?

Some people, especially in the Western region, view sex as a source of recreation rather than a means of transformation. They tend to focus more on the end goal – the destination, rather than the journey. In Tantra, every intimate moment is an opportunity to experience optimum pleasure and connect with your partner more fully.

How To Stay Hard After Ejaculation: How Does A Man Stay Hard After Ejaculation How to stay hard after ejaculation? Some guys are lucky, especially young guys, and are able to maintain an erection after an ejaculation with no problem at all. The vast majority of guys, however, cannot do this. So if you have the problem of losing arousal after ejaculation then what can you do about it? In this article, I'll share with you three different ways to overcome this problem. Solution

Fifteen years ago, people didn’t even know there was such a thing as sex addiction, never mind how to get help for it. With Patrick Carnes’ groundbreaking book Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sex Addiction, people who suffer from self-destructive sexual acts had hope of knowing what ailed them. Since then, the disorder has received tremendous attention from the media and a whole new group of therapists trained to treat sex addiction.

His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage – Fifteenth Anniversary Edition (2001) by Willard F. Harley, Jr. Most of us are probably familiar with ‘The Five Languages of Love’ by Gary Chapman. These “Five Love Languages” have been useful in helping people speak and understand emotional love when it is expressed through one of five ways: words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, or physical touch.

Menopause is certainly not a time to pause from men. In fact, we need to look to our male counterparts for support through this difficult physical and emotional process. It’s important for them to at least try and understand what some women go through during this transitional time in their life. Most women experience the typical irregular menstrual periods and hot flashes, which is more of a personal inconvenience.

In many parts of the northern hemisphere, signs of spring are beginning to appear all around us. Trees are budding, birds are signing, flowers are blooming, and the animals (including humans) are… well… twitterpated.

Hooking up is a glorious time when desires are met and fantasies are fulfilled. Sounds great at first but it’s harder than you might think. All of us at some point of time deal with monotony even in sex. If you are someone who engages in casual sex a lot, you might have found yourself not being able to enjoy it like before. It’s a basic human tendency to get bored doing the same thing over and over again. How can we change things up and enjoy hook ups as much as we can? T

It’s in the coupling. Limbs entwined in limbs, the way you can feel skin rub on skin, these are the things that draw women to porn. Often viewed as taboo, women’s increasing interest in the sex industry has made them the new group to market. Research and otherwise seemingly useless percentages claim women as the victor of highest percentage purchasing porn. With women shedding the shackles of dated views on gender obligations, morals and taboos, they are taking on the role of creator and manipulator of the porn market.

February's message - in fact, the message for all of 2009 - is about finding your yumminess. Take the time to do the things that make you happy! What could you to do treat yourself better, to romance yourself, to woo yourself? (Isn't that a great word? Woo!) You deserve to be happy, to meet ...

There are those of us who have become obsessed with synthetic pills that manufacturers say increase stamina in bed. Use of these synthetic pills has shown that they have often an opposite impact!. So, for those men who are wondering how to increase stamina in bed, it is good news that there are a number of natural tips that help men to increase stamina in bed without having to worry about the side effects that come with the synthetic aphrodisiacs. Surround yourself with red color

What kinds of ideas is porn putting into our heads? If the wrong things keep getting dumped in, your mental environment can get so polluted that your life is going to have problems. One of the most vital parts of mental environment is a healthy idea of who we are sexually. If these ideas are polluted, a critical part of who we are becomes twisted. To Find Freedom from Porn Addiction: Recognize the Lies

Make Women Orgasm You’re interested in ways to make women orgasm without artificial stimulation, ( using fingers also know as fingering !!) Vibrators and other sex toys? Using sex toys is an option. The key to make make women orgasm is for a woman and her partner to have the confidence to know that her body is perfect, the Courage to explore her individual responses on her own, the trust to share this information with a caring partner, and the humor to laugh as you learn to

Two years ago, when an argument about what side of the porch we should hang the windsock escalated into a 4-hour discussion about ‘it makes me angry when’, my husband and I stumbled onto a much deeper-rooted problem in our marriage. We discovered that neither one of us was satisfied with our sex life. He was unhappy with the frequency or infrequency rather and I was unhappy with the quality. I didn’t feel connected to him during sex there wasn’t any passion. We agreed

Newsflash: Conventional medicine is responsible for 255,000 deaths per year in the United States, and almost half of those are from adverse reactions to prescription drugs. Just because a pharmaceutical drug has been studied in a laboratory, regulated by the FDA and prescribed by a doctor, it does not necessarily mean that it is safe – especially mixing with other Rx drugs.

Want to know the shocking secret of passionate sex? It has nothing to do with technique! The shocking secret of passionate sex is to be able to talk about it with your partner. Amazed? You shouldn’t be. That’s one of the first things any good sex therapist would tell you if the ...

In a previous piece, I talked about the role of open- and closed-ended questions to get feedback from our partner after a sexual experience. You might begin asking for sexual feedback by using a few open-ended questions. If your partner is not forthcoming, or you wish to get clearer answers, you could consider incorporating some closed-ended questions. What else could you try? Scale of 1 to 10 This is where the scale could come in. This is how you might begin: “On a scale of one to ten, ten being the highest, what do you think of this (technique/position/etc.)? Give it a number.”r

I get a ton of questions about how to make anal sex feel good. First of all, it’s not for everyone. Second of all, it may take practice (for both giver and receiver) before it’s pleasurable. There are of skills and techniques you can develop but there are also ‘helper’ items that I like to use even now that I know what I’m doing:) These are a couple of different items I use whenever I’m going to have anal penetration. First, I use an organic anal relaxing spray like the one

How To Drive A Girl Absolutely Wild Just By Talking: How To Make Any Woman Want To Sleep With You You might have already exhausted your options when it comes to making your woman crazy enough to hop into bed with you - ways such as suggestive gifts, sensual music and naughty movies. On the other hand, dirty talk can also be a good help in reeling her in and turning her on. It is even helpful if you are engaged in a long time relationship and sex just seems to get boring and p

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Are YOU hiding your true sexual feelings, desires and interests? Are you afraid to let your partner know you as you truly are? Why is sexual self-expression and sexual disclosure often hiding in the closet? We live in a free society that seems to allow open discussions about even the most controversial topics. Most of us are bombarded with sexual images, from movies, TV shows, commercials, videos, billboard displays, you name it. We are sold the false image that sexual desir

I first learnt about the ‘Facebook Bra Color Campaign’ through the blog post by sex-positive activist Carlin Ross who works alongside the legendary Betty Dodson. The campaign, believed to be started by women in Detroit, Michigan, who are trying to raise awareness of Breast Cancer, asked women to post just their bra color and nothing else.

Many of us are engaged in various activities in the pursuit of physical fitness. We go to health clubs to tone up and strengthen our muscles so that we can look and feel better about ourselves. While the focus of this type of exercise conce s itself with strengthening the exte al muscles, for many practitioners of the sexual arts the focus expands to include the internal muscles used in sex. You see, weak sexual muscles not only compromise a man’s ability to provide complete sexual satisfaction, but they reduce the capacity for sexual pleasure and genital health for both men and women.

Women may not be the only ones who experience a “life change” in their bodies and emotions as they become older. Some doctors claim that many of their male patients report similar symptoms that women endure in perimenopause and menopause. Some men experience decreased energy and muscle tone, disinterest in sex, impotence, depression, and fatigue. They also report weight gain, hair loss, memory loss, irritability, hot flashes, night sweats and trouble sleeping.

What is TANTRA ? n "If you add the suffix "tra" (which expresses the instrumental) to the linguistic root "ta " (pull out, spread out), one indeed gets the word "Tantra" - literally the instrument to expand your consciousness in order to provide the basis for reaching spiritual enlightenment, ...

If you are turned on by eyes, you may have a form of partialism, or in other words, a fetish for one particular part of the body. Many people have heard about people with a foot fetish, but not that much is known about other weird attractions to bits and pieces of the body, not including the genitals. There are specific names for each of these partialisms, for example, a fetish for the eyes is called Oculophilia. Imagine how a person with Oculophilia feels to walk down the

It all seems so cliché… Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukah, Happy New Year… blah, blah, blah. For the majority of Americans, the holidays have become more about consumerism and expectations of material reward rather than realizing the true spirit of what the holidays may represent in our heart and soul. Many of us seem to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of shopping, seeking out all the latest and greatest gadgets that the retail market has to offer.

I’d like to share an amazing resource with you from one of my favorite authors, Dr. Christiane Northrup, an internationally known expert on women’s health and wellness. Dr. Northrup explains the “7 Secret Keys That Open the Door to Wonderful Sexuality and Sensuality around Menopause”. Here is her advice, excerpted from the book, The Secret Pleasures of Menopause. Become an Ardent Explorer of Your Own Pleasurer

So how do you feel about the “C” word? – no, not THAT one. I’m talking about commitment. It is one thing to choose to date someone exclusively, as you both may agree to be monogamous and fully committed to one another – until you get bored with it and move on to someone else. But to level up and commit to marriage? Now that is a BIG step!

The Erotic Mind: Unlock the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment by Jack Morin In this intriguing, insightful mix of analysis, anecdote and advice, San Francisco psychotherapist Morin developed an ‘erotic equation’ by drawing on the discussions of 351 respondents, straight and gay. This equation is: Attraction plus obstacles leads to excitement.

So many couples don’t discuss important aspects of marriage until AFTER they’re married. Will you have children? Will both of you work, or just one of you? Where will you live? Who will be in charge of which chores? How much personal time will you give each other? How do you both see finances in marriage? Talk about the ten B’s, and build a healthy marriage that lasts many, many years. Avoid the misunderstanding and misconception caused by putting off the B’s! I will provide you both a safe place, a plan, and guidance to talk about the following aspects of marriage intimacy.

To find a good regular doctor is not an easy task now days. However, finding a good Sexologist doctor may be even more challenging than finding a regular doctor. These tips below should definately help you the process of finding a good qualified Sexologist doctor to help with your current medical condition and then a good treatment you can have with him. 1) The Sexologist doctor should have you fill out a health survey. This should be about the same as when you go to a MD doc

Great Sex skills can help you brilliantly in getting the things better and you can properly enjoy your sex-life to its highest. You can also seek out numerous sex talks while you have a high sex drive that shows you how to have supersex . This makes you and your partner come next failing to remember all the pressure and depression that happened in your life. Another way to please your woman in bed is to really perform cunnilingus on her. This is one of the top arousal strateg

“Brainlock”, a four-step self-help guide for treating OCD is a book written by Jeffrey Schwartz, M.D., a physician who spent most of his career treating and doing research on Obsessive/Compulsive (OCD) behaviors. His has developed a four-part program self-help program that can be used for any unwanted compulsive urges, desires and behaviors.

NLP is an approach to doing psychotherapy that was all the rager