For a long time, money made me uncomfortable…
I felt I did not deserve it…
I felt it was greedy to want it…
I felt I should be willing to work for peanuts or even ‘better’, free…
And needless to say, I was not able to make money or keep money…
It seemed to flow away from me.
Yes, I looked ... Views: 767
Are you bought into yourself?
Do you really believe you have what it takes to get what you want out of your life and business?
Do you really think it is possible to live a life full of activities you adore, rather than just doing what HAS TO BE DONE to survive?
Do you really think that you ... Views: 765
You have strong, powerful desires…
Big dreams, ideas of how life could be…
And you try.
Yes you try to make it all happen.
Except you think that the current version of you is somehow going to transform into something else, someone else and get better results somehow and needless to say, IT ... Views: 765
OK, so honestly, I don’t even know that I should be talking about this yet because I have no pat answers to give…
Maybe, there will never be any pat answers…
But let’s talk about it anyway…
This is the thing…
When you are one of us, Deliberate Millionaires ... Views: 764
I catch myself doing this every now and then…
And it is usually noticed because my productivity goes down…
I am second guessing again…
Trying to get the words of that advert exactly right…
Trying to choose the perfect image to get the perfect ‘YES’ response…
I know that there is no way to ... Views: 763
There is a part of you that thinks that you suffer more than everyone else…
There is a part of you that buys into a sad story that says that your life is worse than everyone else’s…
There is a part of you that thinks that nothing ever comes easy to you…
There is a part of you that feels like ... Views: 760
You have a story…
It is one of rejection…
It is a story of not being loved by the very ones that were supposed to love you – your parents to begin with and then it spread to those you learnt to trust – They proved unworthy of that trust…
And now you walk around wounded but you do not even ... Views: 760
Most people, and I call them ‘norms’, think obsession is a bad thing but then you look at their life and their huge desire to spend as much downtime as possible in front of the TV, or drinking and getting drunk with friends, or at church all day everyday…
Trying to drown out the lack of ... Views: 759
Every day, you wake up and get to create a life and a business that you actually want to live…
Every day, you get to design your life any old how that you want it…
Every day, you are fortunate enough to have your wits about you and you can think and plan and take action and be whoever you ... Views: 758
Listen, it is all well and good, telling yourself that abundance is your birthright but there are days when it just does not feel like it.
There are days when you feel the nervous agitation in your chest as you consider how far you are from where you want to be…
No matter how ... Views: 757
YOU are leader and therefore you must communicate with your people…
Imagine Martin Luther with nothing to say…
Or Jesus without the 4 books written about all he had to say…
And I get it, leader…
You don’t yet think you are quite up to that standard of leadership…
But who made you ... Views: 756
Leader, it is time to step things up!
It is time to stop giving into the excuses…
It is time to be the POWERFUL creature you were created to be!
That leader who does not give excuses and actually gets off their butt and does the work that they are born to do…
The leader who recognises and ... Views: 755
Stop holding back thinking you are greedy or selfish or not allowed or any other reason you come up with…
You are created for freedom but YOU MUST CLAIM IT…
No one will give it to you until you have the confidence to decide that it is yours and you go after it against the odds of living in a ... Views: 755
You feel held back, stifled…
You look at that person over there, getting every single thing you want and you feel the green-eyed monster coming up to play…
You feel annoyed that you are just not there yet and it eats at you…
The jealousy that you can stifle temporarily until you see them ... Views: 755
Let me be honest with you – You already know everything you need to know to get rich…
Everything has been revealed to you but…
And this is the big but…
You do not believe it can be that simple…
And so you go looking for some convoluted pathway to wealth…
You listen to any person who ... Views: 754
There is a reason you are not doing the work you know to do to get a result and it is not because you do not know the latest and greatest techniques, tips, tricks, strategies…
And it is your reluctance to see that it is not as simple as learning these things, that holds you back.
Come on, ... Views: 754
Wealth creation always comes back to the simple things…
The simple things that you do on a regular basis…
‘Norms’ go looking for the complicated things, the strategy that they can place on top of the strategy they are NOT implementing now and they find nothing because you know what?!
It ... Views: 754
Faith…
You need it, you know…
You might be uncomfortable with the word because it reminds you of that crazy preacher man from your past, calling down fire and brimstone and now you associate the word with that…
But that is not what I mean…
No need for religion ... Views: 753
I see you…
Going through the motions but not actually doing anything that gets you any attention in the marketplace…
Giving into the crazy voice in your head…
Giving into the many, many, MANY demands on any leader’s life…
Doing less and less and getting absolutely nowhere…
WHEN WILL YOU ... Views: 752
So, I am just like you…
I want to know exactly how things will work…
I want to know that every single effort I put in, towards the quest for my big goals will result in all the riches and the impact that I know I am born for.
And so, instead of just going with my gut, I go look see what ... Views: 751
Leader, you are born to conquer…
To live an amazing life…
Doing fun stuff and getting paid to do it…
Changing lives, impacting people…
Having numerous vacations each year…
Enjoying life whilst helping other people on the planet to enjoy life too…
You know it!
You want it!
Every part of ... Views: 750
Yes, honey, it is true…
Everyone around you, well, if they are norms anyway, wants you to just fit into their little narrow box…
They want you to conform, to play nice, to be nice, to be whatever they want you to be, to keep them comfortable…
You may think it is because your loved ones love ... Views: 749
Yes, I know it is the done thing…
To look at life as it is presenting itself to you right now and then to decide what you do next as a result of the reality all around you…
BUT SERIOUSLY, WHAT IS THAT GETTING YOU?
More of the same reality that you do not much like…
More telling yourself that ... Views: 747
OK, so for the longest of times, I thought that I could be both an ordinary and an extraordinary…
For the longest of times, I thought I could stand out AND blend in…
For the longest of times, I thought that I could take advice from ‘norms’ and somehow, find myself living an extraordinary ... Views: 746
You want it and yet, you run from it…
You continually put stumbling blocks in your own way because you worry about the opinions of men, the opinions of people who are not even thinking about you, the opinion of a god who seems to want to keep you down…
You keep living to old ideas about ... Views: 745
I triggered someone…
I sent out an email about being a hypocrite when it comes to money…
And it made this person annoyed…
It probably made a lot of people annoyed…
But this person decided to write me back instead of slink off into the darkness…
This was the response…
“Unless you are ... Views: 743
That pent up energy in your loins can be a source of great inspiration, you know…
Yes it is yummy to take it through to full orgasm but while you feel that high feeling, tap into your creative energy as well..
Leader, we are not the same as everyone else, okay?
Accept that and live!
Accept ... Views: 742
“In South Africa, they dig for diamonds. Tons of earth are moved to find a little pebble not as large as a little fingernail. The miners are looking for the diamonds, not the dirt. They are willing to lift all the dirt in order to find the jewels. In daily life, people forget this principle and ... Views: 740
OK, I don’t want to suggest that starting something new is always easy -peasy-lemon-swueezy because well, we are all human and it can be tough to change the way you see the world and start doing something different, right?
I get it! I live it every day and it can feel tough to ... Views: 739
Lots of people want it all…
Lots of people dream about having it all…
Lots of people do not want to hustle to make it happen!
And so therefore lots of people do not GET IT ALL!
But you are not LOTS of people!
You are ‘YOU’!
And you know you are made to be a champion!
Nothing less than the ... Views: 737
Most people are waiting, waiting, waiting for something outside of themselves to change.
They think that when it changes then life will suddenly take on a more hopeful light and then they can get the transformation they have been waiting for forever…
They forget that they are the ones with all ... Views: 736
Nope, I don’t say this to warm the cockles of your heart and make you feel comforted and stuck in place…
I say this to help you remember that you have always been and you will always be a winner…
And because you are a winner, there is no room for the wimpiness that sometimes can be ... Views: 736
Forever, you have looked at your history…
Felt sorry for yourself…
Kept thinking that if you had had a different upbringing, a different set of parents, a different whatever…
Then somehow, you would be better…
You would have achieved more by now…
You would be richer, wealthier, happier, ... Views: 736
I see you, Leader…
And you are lying!
Lying over and over and over again about what you claim to want…
About what you claim your life is supposed to be about…
About how busy you are…
Actually, no… You are not lying about being busy!
Of course you are so busy…
Busy attending to ... Views: 735
For a long time, I was a quitter…
I quit selling door to door after about 2 days in the field…
I quit business idea upon business idea whenever it got tough…
I generally quit anything that meant nothing to me and tried to find an easier way…
I was the intelligent one in my family, I ... Views: 734
It feel weak to admit this, doesn’t it? It feels like you are looking for excuses not to have fulfilled the dreams and visions you have for your life. You don’t want to be one of those that cry about their mummy not loving them or their daddy ignoring them and yet, it is true.
I ... Views: 734
Facebook ads can seem like an easy way to get things working in your business or they can seem like the most difficult thing you have ever done. Probably a mixture of both.
Here are a few ideas for you to consider as you grow using ads…
1. Complacency Kills
It seems so easy to just click ... Views: 732
Everyday, inside of you is an itchiness, a desire for something more than what you are experiencing right now and yet, everyday, you silence the voice inside of you.
You tell yourself to wake up and be like every other norm around you…
You dampen down your BIG Ideas and try to blend ... Views: 732
Leader, leader, LEADER!
I see you doing this thing again where you forget that you are leader…
Where you forget that there is no push button strategy that will completely show you in your glory…
Where you forget to put your energy and power into delivering the truth of you…
Because you got ... Views: 731
So, as I write this, I am sitting in my hotel room about to take myself off to do some shopping for my princesses and hubby, who I am missing incredibly badly…
Just a little over 48 hours and I will see them again, if all goes to plan and no crazy IStanbul uprising breaks out again…
Anyway, ... Views: 726
You may have been informed that the money is in the list and yes that is true but it is only a part of the story. The truth is that the money can be found in building relationship with the people on your list.
Trying to get lots of unqualified people onto your list in the hopes that they ... Views: 726
Here’s a lesson for you…
It will be different for everyone reading it…
OK, listen in…
About a month ago, I spoke to a lady over Skype…
With big ideas about what she wanted to do…
What she felt compelled and called to do but uncertain about how to market her thing…
She said she ... Views: 724
Most people are talkers, thinkers, hopers, wishers and fucking pretenders!
And I have wasted too much time with them…
They don’t get great results…
Because they don’t take enough action!
They think my demands are too high…
They think I am some kind of superhuman person…
Some kind of super ... Views: 722
You are a spiritual being…
You know that but you are not always sure how to tap into the power that comes from being intimately connected with Source…
In fact, if you are honest, you have not always connected with Source, with Spirit…
You have found the heavens silent…
You have been knock, ... Views: 722
We all have rules…
Rules about what we have to do in order to be fulfilled and make money…
Who we have to be…
How exactly we have to make it happen…
So many hidden rules, so many obvious ones…
And all those rules just get in the way of what is TRYING ... Views: 721
I see you holding back on what you put out in the world…
I see you second guessing and wondering whether people will like what you have to offer, what you have to say…
I see you, being less than the person you are created to be…
And it is painful to watch.
You ... Views: 721
You set uncommon goals for yourself.
And beneath your external mask is a deep desire to achieve it all and also, to get rich. Be honest about it!
You are done with all the worrying about where the money is going to come from for you to fulfil your destiny and make all the difference you ... Views: 720
Oh… you did not sleep last night… the child was up with some illness or the other…
Oh, I am so sorry…
You worked 20 hours in the job you hate and now you have no time for your biz…
Oh I am so sorry…
You feel down and unable to get your head in the game…
Oh I am so sorry…
You feel ... Views: 720
So, you made an offer…
You put your life’s work out there…
With baited breath, you waited for the response from your people…
And there was nothing…
A few likes…
Even a solid heart!
But overall, no one actually puts their money down…
And you wonder what on earth you have done ... Views: 720