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By Joshua UebergangJul 30, 20101 topic

5 Popular Topics for Conversation People Love to Talk About

Everyone has had that conversation, the one that drags on, stumbles all over itself, the discussion that seems like treading through molasses. Usually, tedious and boring conversations have less to do with the two people talking and more to do with the subject being discussed. A good, lively and interesting topic often does more than to keep a conversation rolling than an engaging, gregarious person discussing something dull and uninteresting. To help you, here are five popul

Primary topic: Dating

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By Joshua UebergangJul 30, 20101 topic

11 Interesting Topics to Talk About with Anyone

Any idiot can ramble on about in conversation and bore the bejesus out of their companions, and it is a legitimate fear for many that this embarrassing turn of events may happen to them at some point. We've all been there, stuck in conversation, trying to dig out of it by throwing everything we can think of out there. The best advice, however, is to simply find an interesting way to broach everyday questions. Here are 11 such questions. 1. Tell me about the most interesting

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Joshua UebergangMar 12, 20101 topic

5 Signs that Tell If Your Ex Still Cares About You

It may have been some time since the fight happened that split you apart from your ex-mate. However, any serious relationship which led to romance and intimacy has the ability to last beyond break ups. If you want to know if your ex still cares past the break up, then you can find out by reading a few tell-tale signs in your ex-partner. Here are the five signs that let you know even though there was a split, your ex still cares about or even loves you. 1. Notice the little

Primary topic: Dating

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By Joshua UebergangJul 30, 20101 topic

Top 5 Interesting Topics to Talk About for Conversation

Are your conversations boring with awkward silences? Conversation is more than blathering on about the mundane trivialities of life. For conversation to be fruitful and worth the time of both you and the other person, it needs to be captivating, to be interesting. There should be a "wow!" factor. Pedestrian conversations are boring, often tedious, and leave a poor impression with your conversation partner. But fear not, here are five sure fire topics to talk about to keep th

Primary topic: Friendship & Loneliness

Friendship & Loneliness

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By Joshua UebergangMar 23, 20071 topic

The Golden Rule to Get Over a Relationship Break Up

Did you know psychologists concur that having a relationship break up is like going through grief? Contrasting grieving and getting over a break up, you can probably see why. In both cases you lose someone you loved and you're unwilling to psychologically let them go. By using similar principles to grieving for someone, you can get over a relationship breakup.nnI want you to know bad relationships happen and how to detect them and for you to learn useful advice for managing y

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Joshua UebergangApr 2, 20091 topic

How to Easily Tell If a Girl Likes You - 5 Attraction Signals

Women get frustrated when they like a guy, give him the signals to approach, but he doesn't approach. Guys do this for two reasons. Firstly, they are afraid to approach. Secondly, they are unaware of attraction signals. In this article I will teach you the later so you can scan your environment for the women already interested in you without getting rejected and wasting your time with uninterested women. Once you discover the signals women give off when they are attracted to

Primary topic: Dating

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By Joshua UebergangAug 18, 20101 topic

7 Questions to Start a Conversation With a Guy or Girl

Starting a conversation with other people can seem a difficult, an almost impossible task. Especially if you do not know the other person very well, or find that they are either shy or less than enthusiastic about talking with you, trying to start a conversation with basic statements or closed-questions gets you nowhere fast. Instead, try any (or all) of these 7 questions to get your conversation started with anyone. #1 - What is your favorite food? This is a great way to st

Primary topic: Friendship & Loneliness

Friendship & Loneliness

7,683 views

By Joshua UebergangMar 12, 20101 topic

3 Christian Marriage Communication Skills

Communication is more than important for a happy marriage. What if I told you communication is the relationship? Without communication, you wouldn't have a marriage. It makes sense then to learn effective communication skills for a better marriage. The first piece of advice is to minimize judgmental statements. Judgments are a common communication barrier in interpersonal relationships. You're judgmental when you label another person as "stupid", "uncaring", or "selfish". L

Primary topic: Marriage Coaching

Marriage Coaching

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By Joshua UebergangJun 20, 20101 topic

6 Nonverbal Communication Skills in Business Meetings that Gain You Respect

When you're in a business meeting, it is often more than your simple words that everyone else is paying attention to. Your demeanor, your facial expressions, your posture are but three of many non-verbal cues that coworkers, clients and superiors will use to size you up. The elements of powerful body language are: POSTURE - Slump down into your chair? Lean too far back? Slouch over the conference table? All of these nonverbal communication cues reveal to others in the room t

Primary topic: Affirmations and Positive Affirmations

Affirmations and Positive Affirmations

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By Joshua UebergangApr 9, 20091 topic

Winners Never Quit and Quitters Never Win - The Greatest Myth About Success

There's a popular quote in the motivational world that goes like this: "Winners never quit and quitters never win." Upfront, this is one of the greatest myths about success. By the end of this article, I want you to replace it with this cliche: "Quit flogging a dead horse." If someone asks you, "Are you a quitter?" it feels like someone is asking you if you're "too chicken". It feels judgmental, almost like a test to measure your strength. This is the sad perception we have

Primary topic: Success Principles

Success Principles

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By Joshua UebergangJan 22, 20091 topic

4 Nonverbal Communication Skill Killers that Hurt Confidence - And How to Fix Them

Your nonverbal communication, which is more frequently but narrowly referred to as body language, is a universally overlooked area to improve your confidence in communication and general self-perception. The majority of people aim to build their confidence but rarely consider the power of communicating confidence nonverbally. If you'd like to improve your confidence around women then you have even more reason to read this article. Women love a confident man and are extremely

Primary topic: Body Language

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By Joshua UebergangJan 22, 20091 topic

The Most Common Mistake Made in Apologizing - The Non-Apology Apology

Learning the correct actions and methods to apologize is not enough. It greatly helps your understanding and success if you not only know what to do, but also what not to do. This article reveals to you the most common mistake we humans make when apologizing to people. The Most Common Mistake: A Non-Apology Apology Parents teach their children to say please and thank you very early on. They are then later taught to apologize by saying "I'm sorry". The children are unknowing

Primary topic: Conflict Resolution

Conflict Resolution

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By Joshua UebergangAug 18, 20101 topic

Top Compliments Women Love

It is no secret that women love to be lavished with compliments, when they are delivered well and in a confident way. A well-timed compliment can help move your relationship forward, or simply help you get in the door with a woman in the first place. Here some of the best, and easiest, compliments to give to women. YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL TODAY! Honestly, whether they admit it or not, women love to complimented on their physical appearance. A large portion of their self-esteem is

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Joshua UebergangMar 12, 20101 topic

5 Traits Men Find Attractive in Women

You want to appear attractive to men, but you're doing the wrong things if you don't already have a great man. If you don't get the men you desire, you need to learn what a man really wants in a woman. Men say they want a sexually attractive female, but this is only partly true. Should you put attention into making your hair nice, putting on make up, and showing a little skin, you'll evoke what I call a "caveman response" from him. He'll become sexually attracted to you and

Primary topic: Dating

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By Joshua UebergangJul 23, 20071 topic

How to Overcome Criticizing Communication and Feelings of Inferiority

I would be completely lying and doing everyone a disfavor if I said, "The inferiority complex is all in the mind, dude. Just stop thinking you're inferior because you're not." It isn't. If it were so simple then billions, yes billions, wouldn't experience it sometime in their life.nnI know of personal development teachers who teach such things. I did some brief browsing on the web to see what information was available on the inferiority complex, and most of the advice offered

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Joshua UebergangAug 18, 20101 topic

Good Verbal Communication Skills for the Home and Family

Communicating with friends and family in the home may seem an entirely different proposition from communicating with coworkers and clients in a business environment, but many of the same skills that help you impart information in the latter setting work brilliantly in the former as well. Here are some tips to sharpen your verbal communications skills in the home for your family. DIALOGUE, NOT MONOLOGUE Remember, especially with family, that you need to talk with, not talk to

Primary topic: Family

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By Joshua UebergangFeb 3, 20091 topic

7 of 12 Relationship-Deadly Barriers to Effective Communication

There are 12 barriers to effective communication that destroys any type of relationship. Be sure to overcome these roadblocks if you want happy relationships. 1. Criticizing. Criticism involves judgmental states that usually put down a person. "Don't do it that way", "You're wrong", "You're not very good at...", and "You need to lose weight" are a few simple criticisms. We think criticism changes people, though it only reveals our own problems. Kill this barrier before it ki

Primary topic: Communication Skills and Training

Communication Skills and Training

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By Joshua UebergangMar 12, 20101 topic

Difficult Conversations Checklist

Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen, and Roger Fisher, authored a nice book called "Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss what Matters Most". In it are important principles and checklists of difficult conversations to help you solve tough moments in the workplace with employees and other everyday situations. The Dark Secret of What's Really Going On You probably struggle to go over to your neighbors and tell them to quieten their barking dog, not because of the effor

Primary topic: Communication Skills and Training

Communication Skills and Training

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By Joshua UebergangJul 28, 20101 topic

How to Avoid Looking Nervous in Conversation and Say the Right Things

Some of the most embarrassing things to have happen in a conversation, even while making simple small talk, is to latch onto people you know or to stumble into a topic that you are not well-versed in, winging it as you sink faster into the quicksand of poor first impressions. We've all had these conversational faux pas, and while it may seem irrevocable, remember, there's always next time. Here are five simple tips to avoid looking stupid, nervous, or like a loner while tryin

Primary topic: Communication Skills and Training

Communication Skills and Training

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By Joshua UebergangJul 30, 20101 topic

6 Ways to Meet New People in a New City

It's hard, showing up alone in a new city, whether you're in town on business indefinitely or have relocated to a city permanently. It will be easy to succumb to the doubts, to stay in your shell, to let yourself feel overwhelmed by the circumstances, but the quickest and easiest way to meet new people is pretty simple. Follow these tips and you'll be the toast of the town in no time. GO WHERE THE PEOPLE ARE - Bars, clubs, the local gym or the park, people are everywhere. Yo

Primary topic: Success Principles

Success Principles

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By Joshua UebergangMay 7, 20131 topic

How to Decide When to End a Long Term Relationship

Being in a long term relationship can have so many wonderful aspects. People fall in love and remain together all the time. However, being in a long term relationship can also become stale and boring. There are times when stale and boring can be fixed, and there are times when other issues mean you need to know it’s time to move on. Here are 7 signs of when to end a long term relationship: 1) The relationship is abusive 2) Neither party makes the effort to change 3) There is

Primary topic: Domestic Violence and Abusive Relationships

Domestic Violence and Abusive Relationships

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By Joshua UebergangFeb 6, 20091 topic

What Women Want in Men - Do You Need to Look Good?

One of the strongest beliefs I need to destroy is that women must have a physically attractive man. Society overemphasizes physical appearance as it pries off of men's insecurities. Physical attractiveness in women is important for men, but guys get into relationship trouble by projecting their desires onto women. A guy's attractiveness towards women comes more from his personality than physical looks. I've heard countless stories of guys over 40 years old, bald, short, and

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Joshua UebergangMar 23, 20091 topic

4 Stress Management Tips for Effective Relationship Communication

Not enough time, boss pushing for work to be completed, children are loud, bills to pay, shopping to be done, housework to do, partner asking for your help... and to top it all off you're suppose to be nice to people by communicating effectively with them? Yikes! If you're like me, you find it hard to communicate in stressful moments. Stress management techniques don't always do the trick. In response to stress, you either become aggressive towards other people to release st

Primary topic: Communication Skills and Training

Communication Skills and Training

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By Joshua UebergangJul 30, 20101 topic

How to Meet New and Interesting People - 5 Conversation Starters

Meeting new people is a great way to expand your business network or social circle, reinforce your own self-esteem, and practice your conversation skills. Here are five great ways to start a conversation with new and interesting people. WAITING - If you and the person you wish to meet are waiting - at the bar for drinks, at the grocer's check stand, at a restaurant's host station - use this opportunity to comment on the waiting you both have to endure. This fosters a sense o

Primary topic: Dating

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By Joshua UebergangJun 22, 20101 topic

5 Steps to Better Workplace Communication Skills

An effective workplace is an open workplace, where employees feel encouraged to share their thoughts, ideas and conce s with each other and with management. But achieving this may seem daunting. While every company and every situation is different, here are five tips to ensure effective workplace communication: WORKPLACE TEAMBUILDING/TRAINING RETREATS - Coworkers and managers that know each other, that have bonded in some manner find the exchange of ideas much easier than in

Primary topic: Affirmations and Positive Affirmations

Affirmations and Positive Affirmations

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By Joshua UebergangFeb 10, 20101 topic

How To Be A Mind-Reading Master

Our ability to infer another person's mental state is referred by psychologists as having a "theory of mind". The survival mechanism of mind-reading helps you adapt to diverse people and is powerful if you know how to use it. Researchers agree our theory of mind develops around two years of age. Toddlers can calculate people's desires, intents, and thoughts. If a toddler sees a crying baby, she infers the distressed baby's mental state. The toddler may tug her mother's sleev

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Joshua UebergangMar 1, 20101 topic

3 Conversation Starters Proven to Make You Friends

You're at a party and see someone you want to talk to. You stand there like a statue, trying to figure out how to start a conversation with this person or anyone for that matter. What do you say? What do you do? Minutes pass and so does your opportunity. The only thing that gets stronger is your social anxiety. By the end of the party you kick yourself for not having a conversation starter to make friends. The self-criticism fuels your frustration and makes your attempts to

Primary topic: Friendship & Loneliness

Friendship & Loneliness

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By Joshua UebergangFeb 20, 20101 topic

How to Improve Your Child's Listening Skills

A general theory is floating around that says children today are ruder, more ignorant, and generally less respectful of their elders than they were in pre-electronic device days. Are children's listening skills declining as a side effect of the 21st century? More importantly, does a child of yours languish in poor listening and what can you do to improve their listening skills? Read on to find out... 21st Century's Affect on Listening Evidence suggests that children's liste

Primary topic: Communication Skills and Training

Communication Skills and Training

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By Joshua UebergangAug 19, 20101 topic

Social Skills for Adults with Aspergers Syndrome and Mental Illnesses

It can be hard for people to socialize when the tools necessary to do so were never taught to them in their childhood or if they have aspergers, a disability, or some mental illness. Though it may seem initially difficult, and maybe even a bit daunting, there are a few simple ways for adults to build these essential social skills, no matter the situation. COMMUNICATION Being able to communicate your thoughts, wishes, needs and desires with others is crucial, among the most i

Primary topic: Therapy and Counseling

Therapy and Counseling

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By Joshua UebergangMar 1, 20101 topic

Develop Effective Communication Skills In 5 Easy Steps

If you follow the five laws of effective communication skills, you will be a master communicator with great social and relationship connections. Friends and influence will easily flow from you. 1. Kill righteousness. The need to be right is a serious communication mistake couples make in their communication. In an argument, you cannot be certain you are right because I nearly guarantee you the other person thinks the same. Stop believing your perception is accurate. Liberat

Primary topic: Communication Skills and Training

Communication Skills and Training

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By Joshua UebergangFeb 20, 20101 topic

How To Better Your Conversation Starters And Attract A Guy

It can be tough enough starting a conversation with someone you don't know, yet alone trying to start a conversation with someone you think is attractive! You are confused with what to say. You wonder if he likes you. You want to know how to make him like you. You are anxious! All this is only the first challenge! If you are woman wanting to start a conversation with an interesting guy, whether it is online through things like MSN, Facebook, and Myspace or face-to-face or te

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Joshua UebergangMay 1, 20131 topic

5 Secrets of Why Men Lie to Their Girlfriends

The social dynamics between men and women is just as complicated as the sexual dynamics between men and women. Lies are actually a common aspect of these dynamics with many reasons why this is so. Why do men lie? You'll hear women ask this a lot. The answer is not as big of a surprise as you might think. Men and women lie for a number of reasons, but the top five reasons men lie, in no particular order, are: 1. To avoid conflict 2. To spare someone's feelings 3. To keep fro

Primary topic: Dating

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By Joshua UebergangNov 30, 20161 topic

12 Conversation Starters with a Girl

The right conversation starters with a girl are a topic of hot debate and leave most of us confused. You don’t want to come off seeming too strong and yet striking the right balance between being subtle and not being notice at all is pretty hard as well. It's a good social skill. This article throws light on some conversation starters you can use. Back to Square One It is the most obvious and for this reason underrated, but the best way is to start with your name. Simplicit

Primary topic: Singles

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By Joshua UebergangFeb 11, 20101 topic

3 Steps To Improve Your Conversation Skills

Communication is the secret to any happy life and relationship. You'll be surprised at how easy it can be to improve your conversation skills when you know the following three steps. Ask Better Questions You probably already know to ask more open-ended than close-ended questions. My question to you is, are you actually doing it? People I speak with know to ask better questions yet they continue asking close-ended questions like, "Do you enjoy basketball?" instead of, "What

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Joshua UebergangApr 27, 20131 topic

Improve Social Conversation Skills With 6 Fast Tips

Social skills are an absolute must for survival in our world. If you do not have the ability to maintain a social conversation, then you will be left behind so many ways. You probably do not need me to tell how not having good conversation skills makes you feel bad and left out in social situations. If you are having a difficult time being social, here are some very simple and quick tips to improve your social conversation skills: 1. Ask open ended questions 2. Introduce yo

Primary topic: Friendship & Loneliness

Friendship & Loneliness

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By Joshua UebergangMar 22, 20101 topic

Setting SMART, Achievable and Realistic Goals

"The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don't define them, learn about them, or even seriously consider them as believable or achievable," said motivational speaker and productivity expert Denis Waitley. "Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them." Get Personal Managers cannot motivate employees on an ongoing basis, just like people or circumstances cannot keep you moti

Primary topic: Success Principles

Success Principles

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By Joshua UebergangMar 2, 20091 topic

Tips For Dealing With Difficult People - Avoid These 4 Deadly Mistakes

You are probably aware of the many difficult people in your life. From your stubborn boss, procrastinating coworker, angry child, intrusive step-parents, or hurtful spouse, these individuals can ruin your sanity. They make you miserable. If you have a difficult person in your life, you may think he or she is impossible to deal with, but the person is not an impenetrable rock. It's human! And humans follow laws of psychology and behavior you can benefit from. This article wi

Primary topic: Communication Skills and Training

Communication Skills and Training

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By Joshua UebergangMar 30, 20131 topic

How to Cure Social Anxiety Naturally

You suffer from social anxiety and so don't need me to tell you what it's like. It feels like the world laughs at you, you find it hard to chat with people, and you just want to stay at home. Having suffered from a social anxiety disorder myself for 6 years, I discovered there is only one way to cure social anxiety naturally. If I straight away told you the natural cure to social anxiety, you may not believe it. Why? The answer is counter-intuitive. You are about to discover

Primary topic: Anxiety

1,828 views

By Joshua UebergangAug 18, 20101 topic

Important Conversation Tips for Your Professional Life

There are different rules for different places, and most of the etiquette we employ to civilize our lives is predicated on the notion that our rules should be tailored for the situation. Just as you wouldn't dress in formal wear for a casual get together, neither should you use the kinds of conversation methods you normally use in everyday life when in the board room or with business clients. Professionalism usually requires a conscious effort to always put a proper foot for

Primary topic: Business Etiquette

Business Etiquette

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By Joshua UebergangMar 12, 20101 topic

The 5 Best Tips to Manage Anger Problems in Conflict

Most anger management techniques do not help. After teaching communication skills for almost ten years, here are insider secret ways most communication and relationship trainers don't even know to help you control anger. 1. What Anger is Really Saying Though this article is about controlling anger problems in conflict, understand that anger is not bad. When you treat an emotion like guilt, shame, or anger as "bad", you avoid it because it represents pain. The top five ways

Primary topic: Anger Management

Anger Management

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By Joshua UebergangAug 18, 20101 topic

11 Questions for Fun Conversations

Kicking off a conversation can be tough, especially in social situations where people are more interested in fun conversations. It's even tougher if you do not know your conversation partners well or are relatively shy by nature. Usually, the best way to kick off a conversation is with a good question, and in that spirit, here are 11 fun conversation starter questions. #1 - If you could have a day entirely to yourself, what would you do with it? This is a great question to g

Primary topic: Friendship & Loneliness

Friendship & Loneliness

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By Joshua UebergangAug 19, 20101 topic

How to Stop Your Shyness Now

Shyness is a problem that everyone deals with from time to time. Though it is different for everybody in different situations, shyness essentially stems from the same root in the human psyche, and manifests itself in similar ways, no matter who the person is or the situation they find themselves in. Shyness can be an awkward ordeal that inhibits socializing, fun, and interpersonal relationships, which feeds back on itself and deepens the shyness, and so on and so forth, crea

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

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By Joshua UebergangAug 19, 20101 topic

4 Ways to Overcome Social Shyness

It's tough when you find yourself in a conversation and, for whatever reason, you become paralyzed and unable to speak. Not through some mental hiccup or brain freeze, but because you are afraid - deeply, pathologically afraid - of how your conversation partner will perceive you. Ironically, this sort of involuntary shyness is a self-fulling prophesy, as the horrible perception you wish to avoid is the very thing you end up creating about yourself in the mind of the other per

Primary topic: Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

Self-Esteem and Self Confidence

1,646 views

By Joshua UebergangApr 24, 20071 topic

6 Dangerous Reasons People Do Not Set Goals and Never Succeed

Goal setting is the framework for personal achievement. It is the backbone of becoming a person you desire to be. Setting and achieving personal goals will guarantee you success. Most people who do set goals have little to no understanding of goal setting and as a result fail to achieve them and never succeed. You would think that if goal setting was the ultimate skill and secret to success that everyone would develop their own personal goals and learn to achieve them. Unfort

Primary topic: Goal Setting

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By Joshua UebergangAug 18, 20101 topic

How to Improve Your Conversation Skills and Make Friends

If you are a shy or nervous person by nature, than simple conversations can often be arduous, excruciating affairs, with all of your fears and anxieties plaguing your thoughts and actions. But never fear, there is a simple remedy for you to defeat these fears and anxieties - building for yourself a basic foundation of good conversation skills. Once you improve your conversation skills, you will gain confidence and watch the shyness and nervousness melt away. RELAX The easies

Primary topic: Communication Skills and Training

Communication Skills and Training

1,467 views

By Joshua UebergangJan 22, 20091 topic

Reframing: Approach any Guy for Conversation with This Technique

Being able to converse with anyone is a great communication skill to possess. Too often starting a conversation is like going to war for many, and not just for girls talking to guys. People want to experience the joy of winning by having a great conversation but what lies ahead of the person is a massive uphill fight as they battle with fear, anxiety, uncertainty, and lack of belief leading them to avoid the "war" altogether by not even starting the conversation. I'm going t

Primary topic: Dating

1,439 views

By Joshua UebergangApr 26, 20071 topic

21st Century and Your Children's Listening Skills

Many studies (such as listed in USA Today, MSNBC, and University of Oregon) conclude children are suffering from a lowered attention span due to activities such as television and computer games. Peter Jensen at the National Institute of Mental Health concluded, "Extensive exposure to television and video games may promote development of brain systems that scan and shift attention at the expense of those that focus attention."nnIf you have children, you would often feel like y

Primary topic: Parenting

1,435 views

By Joshua UebergangFeb 10, 20091 topic

Why Communication is the Relationship

You have heard communication is important for relationships, romance, and love. Well, I take this a step further. Communication is the relationship. Communication connects people. You can do neither when communication is nonexistent. How do you maintain or build a strong relationship when you fail to communicate? You cannot. Just as a bridge connects two adjacent objects together, so does our verbal and nonverbal messages connect two people because a relationship literally m

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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By Joshua UebergangMar 22, 20101 topic

4 Dangerous Mistakes in Setting Achievable Goals

Once you have identified any common reasons you fail to set goals, you need to identify common problems in setting goals. There are four common problems people make in goal-setting. These mistakes are dangerous enough to prevent you from accomplishing what you set out to achieve: #1 Too vague. A vague goal is general and contains uncertainties. Set a specific goal. The more specific a goal is made, the more likely you will achieve it. What exactly do you want to achieve? May

Primary topic: Success Principles

Success Principles

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By Joshua UebergangFeb 22, 20091 topic

Relationship Advice for Men to Better Relationships with Women

Men, you can no longer can club a woman across the head and drag her to your cave. If you want a relationship with a woman, there's some advice you need to follow. When you follow this help, you'll have women walking into your cave at their will. As hard as it to believe sometimes being a man, women are humans. They make up half of the world's population. And what is it that all humans want in relationships? We all want to feel great. Women especially love being around men w

Primary topic: Relationship Advice

Relationship Advice

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