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I was walking along the streets of New York the other day, when I noticed a business sign posted in a construction zone. It said, 'Spring Scaffolding'.
These two words immediately conjured up a couple of ideas.
The first word is obvious: we're entering the Spring season. As I walk ... Views: 1386
Now, a lot of ink has been spilt over how you should make certain that you actually develop a writing habit and that you don’t just end up one of those people who calls themselves a writer and imagines themselves to be, but never actually puts anything on paper. So that is not the part I’m going ... Views: 1361
We are great at setting goals and bad at making any change in ourselves that will ultimately lead us to our success. Behavioral patterns are hardcoded in our brains and are somewhat unbreakable. Changing our behavior for our betterment is on everyone’s agenda and yet sustained change is a ... Views: 858
8 Top Things That Destroy Motivation
Feeling like you just can’t rise and climb uphill to reach your goal, or even walk at a leisurely pace along a flat path to get there? You, the college student, are embarking on a new world and have the weight of your shoulders bearing down on you. What ... Views: 899
It is just a two-letter word, but not a dirty one. It
is the simplest thing to say, yet we hesitate to say
it. The inability to say NO can cause mental stress?we
do not want to do something, yet we cannot refuse, as
we always want to be good. The moment I learnt to say
NO I become ... Views: 923
All people have positive and negative habits even without thinking about it. When we do something on a regular basis, it becomes a habit that automates the process.
While it doesn't take much time to form daily habits, making the most out of your routines requires a lot of practice and ... Views: 1355
Having enormous goals for your life is exhilarating, exciting and sometimes, utterly terrifying. If you create daily habits to automate certain aspects of your life, however, you’ll create a sturdy foundation to require risks from.
As tempting as it is to undertake and alter quite one habit ... Views: 487
Practice makes perfect, they say.
This is particularly true when it comes to mastering the artistry and technical skill of a musical instrument. But not every practice regimen will help you transform into the next Chopin or Yo-Yo Ma. It takes a dash of regular routine, a serving of ... Views: 1148
I had a thought the other day, and it was based on focus. In the coaching world we talk about ‘what you focus on is what you get’. This is not a new philosophy, it’s been bouncing around for a while. And it’s quite simple really – if you focus on good things, you’ll see good things everywhere – ... Views: 1385
For playing online casino games, you always have a broad range of options. Will you like to play as many poker games as possible? To have this experience, be mindful that you would not be without choices. When you begin playing online poker at an online casino, you'll discover a wide variety of ... Views: 917
Most of life is done by rote.
For most of us, alarm clocks buzz the same time every morning. The average grocery store stocks over 38,000 items; yet the standard shopper goes to the same store every week, usually on the same day, and chooses from the same few dozen items every outing. We ... Views: 1161
It is important to prepare well for bed at night. Sleeping is a very important function that contributes to our overall health and wellbeing. Doctors and health professionals all over the planet agree that an adult human being requires roughly eight hours of sleep each and every day. It does not ... Views: 682
As you sit and read these words on the computer screen, you are instantly transported to a moment in time that is peaceful and joyous. You might already feel yourself taking a deeper breath than the one before, and you might feel yourself sitting just a bit straighter, adjusting your shoulders, ... Views: 1115
I have been compiling a quick list of practical tips to help you in the process of maintaining work-life balance as well as provide a tool to manage overwhelm.
You have probably heard of some of these before, but are you actually doing them? Probably not, right?
So, if this resonates for ... Views: 1999
Chances are that one of the final destinations on your cleaning schedule could potentially point to the guest bathroom. Typically this room is out of sight for the most part and when it’s out of sight it generally then refers to out of mind. Let’s shed some light on this particular room in your ... Views: 1106
“Wherever you go, go with all your heart,” so Confucius said some 2500 years ago, and his wisdom still holds true.
But how often do we heed it? How often do we go about our lives, our loves, our work, our friendships, our families, with all our heart?
This Valentine’s Day, what if you ... Views: 1182
People often remark that they have trouble with time management. They don’t have enough time in the day. They are always running behind. They rarely meet deadlines. If only they could manage their time better.
Saying one short little word – no - can be the most important time management skill ... Views: 2936
If anyone tries to sell you the secret to success, walk away because they are trying to rip you off. There is no magical solution and no mystery to it. In fact, there is no secret!
Scientists have repeatedly studied people who do well in life, solving problems effectively and almost ... Views: 1260
People have different goals every year. And many of us have goal of making money or managing money. But to manage money you need some baseline information about it. It is important to understand your expenses, they help in gathering information that where your money goes. Now a days with ... Views: 1091
Social media networks like Connect Social have grown by leaps and bounds, and have become incredibly popular in a short amount of time. Connect Social is a social network that was designed by Tariku Bogale, a famous celebrity who wanted to create a system that is not only professional, but also ... Views: 763
It was lovely to see Virat Kohli taking things to the finish in the recent matches against Pakistan and Sri Lanka.
Do you start brilliantly on a project and then give up before the job has been done? This is a very common ailment. The beginning of any new project or venture is full of ... Views: 1192
As a writer of two books in the self-improvement genre, I’ve heard numerous questions from my audiences about how one can improve themselves. But no one had ever asked something so peculiar. I’ll transcribe the submitted question verbatim.
“There is so much talk about motivation everywhere. ... Views: 967
AN ATTITUDE OF PRAISE AND GRATITUDE
When our son was 20, he returned home to live for a period of time. This arrangement was not what any of us would seemingly have chosen. While our son was working on establishing his independence, my husband and I were having difficulty shedding our role as ... Views: 2877
“Fear makes us stupid!”
-James Mapes
The dictionary defines ‘idiot’ as a stupid person. While the word is not socially acceptable, it serves a purpose here.
Fear and uncertainty are not your friends.
When we are fearful, we catastrophize. Without knowing it, we make a lot of ‘doom & ... Views: 993
An Older Guy Balances His Physical, Intellectual and Social Life
Writers don’t retire, they just die. I am one of that tribe. At 77 I find myself living alone in Central Georgia while facing the tasks of earning money, keeping up my house, fighting off the ills of an aging body, maintaining ... Views: 1009
Are Excuses Preventing Growth?
Salespeople, entrepreneurs, and management all make excuses preventing growth. And when they experience a downturn in sales, they act puzzled. Asking for help is one of the best remedies for when we encounter difficulty. Seeking help is also one of the better ... Views: 796
Does it feel like you’re living your life, day-to-day, with many of your needs unmet? Do you think this may have something to do with your overeating? If so, you’re not alone. Many overeaters, frustrated by years of unmet needs, find themselves regularly “using” food for emotional comfort, ... Views: 1623
Have you ever tried to get a bone away from a dog that is intent on hanging onto it? They sink their teeth into the bone and hold on. They can play with it for hours before walking away or burying it somewhere.
That’s how I feel sometimes when I’m holding onto something that I won’t release. I ... Views: 1476
What would happen if you said Yes to everything you were asked to do?
You might end up in one of these situations:
•Damitri had a to-do list of over 70 items, and he felt like he was always disappointing someone.
•Amie spent almost a third of her workweek dealing with email, and worried ... Views: 1878
This past weekend, while we were away for the 4th of July holiday, I had a profound realization of how addicted I've become to my iPhone. While I love many aspects of how technology enhances our lives and allows us to connect with one another in some very cool ways, I'm also aware of the ... Views: 1683
Honesty is one of man kind’s most cherished virtues. But what is honesty?
Honesty is the process of recognizing, accepting and expressing our authentic, true self.
And this process starts with you. Nothing is more important than being honest with your self. All too often, we fall into the ... Views: 2830
Are you always looking for validation? Family, friends and colleagues are always in better control of your life’s direction, you are in fact fond of sampling ideas and opinions. Maybe you belong to that group of people who started with confusion and have ended up with greater confusion by the ... Views: 2038
Many people today are not living there true self. Many people believe certain things about themselves, but it rarely shows up in their actions. Between beliefs and actions are a person's values. What do you value? If you truly value it, then it will show up in your actions. You may say you value ... Views: 1356
Reading and meditating on scripture can lead you to depths of understanding and insights that are often life-changing.
Gospel writers Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John did not get a 5th side kick named Anita. But I have found Anita Kirkman’s (founder and CEO of Vision in Purpose (VIP) Coaching ... Views: 1328
Having good manners is defined as behaving in a way that does not make other people uncomfortable in your presence. Since it is crucial that a workplace have a pleasant and supportive environment, everyone in it is expected to contribute to creating a workplace environment that promotes good ... Views: 1499
I currently am interviewing seven candidates for a marriage and family therapy associate in my practice when I chanced upon Andrew Miller’s article on the 3 Attributes to Look For In Top Talent.
According to Miller, the top talent has the right blend of 1) attitude, 2) mindset, and 3) ... Views: 1393
Everyone performs habitual actions, such as looking both ways before crossing the road, but when our habitual behavior loses rationality and upsets our day to day existence and ability to function, it can be called compulsive. What is compulsive behavior? Compulsive actions afford relief from ... Views: 2965
We can be selfish people can’t we? We can get so focused and consumed with “me” that we do not pay any attention to the people around us. I think of a husband who is so wrapped up in his job or business. He works 60 plus hours trying to climb to the top or works hard to make his business ... Views: 1043
Goal setting, force of habit and comfort zone stretching can be perfectly summed up and combined by metaphorically learning to cross the road again.
Imagine you’re a toddler again. You thought you could do anything. There was no fear, but no education either. Before long though, your parents ... Views: 1053
On average, dealing with distractions and interruptions at work can consume more than two hours out of your whole workday. It’s no different at home.
The boundaries between work and life are blurred and technology and our fast-paced lives interfere with our productivity and sense of ... Views: 1580
I have before about emotional hygiene and doing the necessary maintenance on feelings as well as your physical body and household. Health reminders tell us to wash our hands frequently to prevent transmittal of diseases. Did you know you can “wash” your mood, too, and give yourself an attitude ... Views: 1882
I remember the time when I was going to my Calgary Dodge dealers for some tune-up, and I happened to yell and honk loudly at the car in front of me when the driver took almost four seconds to go when the streetlight signal turned green.
When I arrived at the the dealership, I was surprised ... Views: 826
You don’t always get it right. I don’t always get it right. We make mistakes and fail at times. It is a natural, albeit annoying part of life.
And it feels poorly. Who am I kidding. . . .it is horrible! Depending upon the situation, it is either disappointing or gut-wrenchingly ... Views: 2114
When you have a goal or desire that is important to you, do you ever go into mental overdrive before you see the results? I know I have. I watch my clients do it, too.
You can go into overdrive in several ways:
*Think about every scenario possible that could go wrong
*Think about ... Views: 1487
Even though most of us want to change our life in the most effective way, some of our old habits (mostly bad) prevent us from moving from our ongoing journey. Knowingly or unknowingly we still have some habits which are a hindrance to our success. Each and every one make some mistakes and ... Views: 505
Definition of clutter: Anything you own, possess, or do that does not ENHANCE your life on a regular basis.
Most of us have a little clutter here or there, and well yes, some of us have more than a little. The most obvious toll lack of organization takes is the added stress on one’s life. ... Views: 1808
I believe that being successful means having a balance of success stories across the many areas of your life. You can't truly be considered successful in your business life if your home life is in shambles. ~ Zig Ziglar
What is called "the norm" for today's lifestyle is very different ... Views: 753
After the warm glow of Christmas, January and February can appear to be cold, somber and miserable months.
The gloomy days of winter are mirrored in many people’s lives as they feel slightly depressed, and low on energy and motivation.
Here are six ways to banish the “winter blues” by ... Views: 1759
THE BENEFITS OF BEING GRATEFUL
1. Grateful souls are closer to God.
Get closer to God when you are grateful. The soul that is always grateful lives in closer touch with God than those who never look to God in thankful acknowledgement. The mental attitude of gratitude draws the mind into ... Views: 2378
Have you ever arrived for an appointment at the correct time only to be told the person you are seeing is running late? I'm sure that has happened to you on many occasions. In the story I'm about to relay to you, this incident happened to one of my clients recently.
Gary and his wife arrived ... Views: 1388