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- How Long Before My Husband Comes Home So We Can Try To Work Things Out And Save Our Marriage? - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from wives who are practically pacing a trail on their floors as they are waiting for their husbands to decide to come back home and work things out. Sometimes, their husband is gone for much longer than they thought or would have hoped. Many times, he won't give them a straight ...
Views: 178 - I Don't Know If I'm Ready To End My Marriage: Tips And Advice That Might Help - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from people who just aren't sure if they are truly ready to walk away from their spouse and their marriage. Sometimes, they themselves are the ones who initiated the separation, divorce, or thoughts of giving up. Other times, they are responding to (and are at the mercy of) a ...
Views: 148 - My Husband Hasn't Talked About The Divorce In Months. Does This Mean I'm In The Clear? - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneI speak with wives who know that their husband wants a divorce because he has either told them of his intentions directly or filed divorce papers. Sometimes though, the panic that they feel about this (especially when they don't want a divorce) gets a reprieve because the husband one day just ...
Views: 254 - How Do I Give My Husband What He Needs To Save Our Marriage? - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany wives who feel as if their marriage is in trouble suspect that they aren't giving their husband what he needs to feel completely happy in the marriage. Sometimes, these unsatisfied husbands will tell their wives exactly why they are so unhappy with complaints like: “I just don't feel like ...
Views: 259 - My Separated Husband Says He's Hurt Me Too Much To Come Home. What Now? - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives whose husband is telling them that he isn't ready to come home or commit to the marriage because he fears that he's done something that has hurt her or his marriage too much. I might hear: “my husband left home about six weeks ago. He admitted to having an affair ...
Views: 178 - We’re Trying To Save Our Marriage, But Things Feel Forced - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from people who are trying to save their marriages, but who aren't sure if things are going as well as they had hoped. Many people tell me that things feel very awkward or “forced” and they are worried that this means that they are just not going to make it. A wife might say, ...
Views: 116 - My Separated Husband Says If He Comes Home Now, It Will Only Be Out Of Guilt - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneI hear from wives who are trying everything in their power to get their husbands to come back home. And some of the husbands will give the wives every reason under the sun why he can't come home. Sometimes, these reasons sound a lot like excuses and the wife can begin to wonder if he will ever ...
Views: 311 - For How Long Should I Hold On To My Marriage If My Separated Husband Has Feelings For Someone Else? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who are well aware that their marriage is only hanging by a thread. Many feel as if they are barely hanging on. Sometimes, it's pretty clear that the husband's heart isn't fully in it, although perhaps he has made a commitment to you and your marriage. Sometimes, ...
Views: 179 - My Husband Will Not Even Talk About Saving Our Marriage. And He Won't Listen Either - by Submitted on Apr 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from wives who want to know how to broach the conversation about saving their marriage. And, they want to make sure that when they are having this discussion, their husband is agreeable to what they are saying. No one wants to feel as though they're speaking to a brick wall. Some ...
Views: 165 - My Husband Says He Wants To See Where Our Relationship Leads As Friends - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneOne thing that frustrates many wives who are newly separated or taking a husband initiated "break" from their marriage is the husband's lack of clarity about how things are going to work. The wife often wishes that he could be specific about how things are going to unfold in the days and weeks ...
Views: 161 - My Husband Says Our Marriage Is Not What He Wants Anymore And Insists He Won't Change His Mind. What Now? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneKnowing the couple I'm about to describe as I already do, I can pretty much picture the scene in my mind. And since I myself went through the same scene in what seems like another lifetime ago, I've felt what I know that the wife is feeling right now. I can literally not only see what probably ...
Views: 300 - Can My Marriage Be Saved When My Husband Wants A Separation? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from panicked wives whose husbands have just or recently told them that he wants a separation. For many wives, the "s word" is often akin to proclaiming that the marriage is most definitely over, at least in her eyes. Many people associate a separation with an eventual divorce and ...
Views: 142 - My Husband Says He's Leaving Me "To Think." What In The World Does He Need To Think About? - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives whose husband has left them "because he needs some time to think." That's pretty much the extent of what he tells the wife. Rarely does he go a little deeper and offer up an explanation as to just what "thinking" actually means. Understandably, the wives are not ...
Views: 209 - Can My Marriage Be Saved When My Husband Wants A Separation? - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from panicked wives whose husbands have just or recently told them that he wants a separation. For many wives, the "s word" is often akin to proclaiming that the marriage is most definitely over, at least in her eyes. Many people associate a separation with an eventual divorce and ...
Views: 174 - Is It Just A Cop-Out When Your Husband Says He Loves You But Is Not "In Love" With You? - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from wives who have been fed the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" line that many husbands will give when they aren't sure if they want to be married anymore. This is a very common topic that comes up time and time again. Many of the wives have trouble understanding what ...
Views: 169 - I Wasn't A Good Wife In The Past, But I've Changed. How Can I Get My Husband Back? - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany of the wives who contact me about finding a way to save their marriages realize that they had some part in the marital collapse. I often hear comments like: "we grew apart," or "we didn't make an effort to stay connected." Another example is "things just changed between us and the spark ...
Views: 268 - Should I Try To Make My Husband Feel Guilty For Wanting A Divorce? How? - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from wives who are scrambling to come up with the best course of action after their husband tells them that he wants a divorce. Many of them are looking for a way to make their husbands either regret the decision to divorce or to see that it is the wrong decision in the first ...
Views: 150 - I Want To Make My Marriage Work, But I'm Not Sure If It's Possible Anymore. - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany wives who contact me are going through some serious turmoil within their marriage. Some are just beginning a separation and some have even been served with divorce papers. Others just know that their marriage is in serious trouble. Despite all of the drama going on their lives, many of ...
Views: 181 - Easy Tips To Prevent Your Husband From Divorcing You - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2020 from Leslie CaneMost of the people who contact me are willing to do just about anything to save their marriage and prevent a divorce. Sometimes, their spouse doesn't want a divorce either, but this isn't always the case. The situation that I most often see is that one spouse is considering a divorce, while the ...
Views: 196 - I Just Don't Feel That My Husband Loves Me - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2020 from Leslie CaneI recently heard from a wife who felt strongly that her husband no longer loved her. For the past couple of years, she had noticed a shift in her marriage. He no longer lit up when he looked at her. He no longer listened intently when she talked. He no longer spontaneously touched her or showed ...
Views: 189 - I Want My Husband Even More Now That He's Left Me. Is This Normal? - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2020 from Leslie CaneI recently heard from a wife who wasn't sure why she felt the way that she did. Her husband of five years had decided that he wasn't happy being married and he felt that he should explore life on his own to see if it would make him happier. He didn't give the wife much warning about this. He ...
Views: 179 - I'd Do Anything To Get My Husband To Stay. What Can I Do? - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who are desperate for some sort of plan to make their husbands stay with them. Often, the husband has suggested a break, separation, or divorce. This is usually the last thing that the wives who write to me want. A wife might say, in part: "I would do absolutely ...
Views: 166 - My Separated Husband Is Nice To Everyone Except Me. Why? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany separated wives notice a transformation in their separated husband. They can't deny that he's actually a more pleasant person than he was before the separation. This would almost seem like a positive transformation - if the wife herself could enjoy it. You see, often the wife can't help but ...
Views: 255 - How to Have Meaningful Conversations With Your Separated Spouse - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2020 from Leslie CaneWhen you are reluctantly separated and want to save your marriage, you often intuitively know that communication is vitally important. Saving your marriage means that you are going to eventually need to overcome what drove you apart in the first place and then re-create the intimacy that will ...
Views: 173 - How Do I Convince My Separated Husband To Communicate With Me? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany wives are very upset during their marital separation because their worst fear is literally coming true. Although their husband may have reassured them that they would stay in constant contact, once the separation begins, he can go silent. Many of the wives intuitively realize the inherent ...
Views: 244 - Father Wounds: Will A Woman Come Into Contact With Men That Remind Her Of Her Father? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman was to talk about what her father was like when she was growing up, she may say that he was very loving and supportive or she could say the complete opposite. Having said that, she may say something in between; saying something that is neither positive nor negative. However, as she ...
Views: 436 - Intimacy: Can Childhood Trauma Set Someone Up To Have A Fear Of Intimacy? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNowadays, it is not uncommon for the term ‘fear of intimacy’ to be thrown around. In general, it is more likely that someone will use this term to describe another person than to describe themselves. One reason for this is that it is usually easier for someone to spot this in other than it is ...
Views: 308 - 9 TACTICS FOR WEATHERING YOUR QUARANTINE - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2020 from Emma ViglucciIt is a crazy time in the world, and it behooves us to take care of ourselves well to properly weather this storm and come out as unscathed as possible after this is over. Let’s make smart decisions and set ourselves up to actually thrive. Yes? Let’s do this also! The coronavirus pandemic is ...
Views: 231 - Earn £60 an Hour as an Advice Columnist Online - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomEarn £60 per hour as an advice columnist online. Hello and thank you for reading this article, I hope you find it rewarding and interesting. For many years I have been helping people with relationship and marriage problems, those who need insight into how to make things better, those needing ...
Views: 245 - When is it Good to Divorce? by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhen is it good to divorce? by Rosemary Price psychic. Many of us will stand back and think while they look at the marriage of a family member or friend who is struggling with big problems such as cheating, violence, gambling, drinking and abuse and assume that the best way forward is for ...
Views: 228 - Earn £60 per Hour Advising People on Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomEarn £60 per hour advising people on relationships. This is your chance to shine - though if you are the sort of person we are seeking you are probably shining already. We need people who have a lot of common sense and experience of life. You may have hard a difficult childhood or gone ...
Views: 257(1 vote) - Are Phones in Bed Taking a toll on Sex Lives? - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2020 from Todd Creagerhttps://toddcreager.com/phones-in-bed-are-taking-a-toll-on-sex-lives/ The answer is yes phones in bed are taking a toll on sex lives. There was an interesting research study that had some eye-popping statistics. Here is a quick synopsis of some the statistics from that study : 1. ...
Views: 182 - Why Won't He Leave His Wife To Be With Me? by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhy won't he leave his wife to be with me by Rosemary Price psychic. A case study. Names and some details have been changed to protect identities. When I first started began working as a numerologist, clairvoyant and psychic tarot reader I found most who wanted me to read for them were ...
Views: 333(1 vote) - 5 CULPRITS OF LOW INTIMACY… - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2020 from Emma ViglucciOne of the major consequences of running our life on overdrive is the impact on our energy, not just its vibration but how much of it we have. Fortunately, I’ve been blessed (as have you, but might not fully know it yet!) with the ability to generate energy naturally. Even during the craziest ...
Views: 231 - Things you should remember before sending nudes - by Submitted on Feb 29, 2020 from Grant DonovanWhether you are a twenty-something or not there are few things you should not do, before sending nudes of yourself to someone! Sexting is exciting, but you might live to regret it. You can enjoy the art of it, sending witty responses to sexting has its own charm. Also, just like physical sex, ...
Views: 1065 - 5 TACTICS FOR INCREASING CONNECTION - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2020 from Emma ViglucciHow are you doing with your New Year Relationship Resolutions or Intentions? How are you doing with staying loving and nurturing post VDAY? Are you keeping up with your Connection Habits™? Remember that to create change we have to keep a focus on what we want to achieve, focus on the progress ...
Views: 248 - Take Your Relationship to a Higher Love - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2020 from Heather Kristian StrangYou’re living in the most powerful time in consciousness. A time when everything is being uprooted, exposed and upleveled (have you noticed - it’s cray-sauce out there?!). Now, it’s time to take our romantic relationships to a Higher Love frequency too. But have no fear — we’re going to ...
Views: 307 - Sexual Performance Anxiety: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatments - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2021 from Deepak YadavWant A Happy Sex Life? Buy Ambien for Sex Performance Anxiety Millions of men have a fear of performance in the bedroom. In fact, they experience severe signs of stress before sex in their daily lives. Long-term and severe stress problems cause performance anxiety in couples. In addition, ...
Views: 683 - ENHANCING LOVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP (PT2 OF 3) - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2020 from Emma ViglucciDon’t you just love Love Month? This is it, one-week left to Valentine’s Day. Are you a VDay lover? You don’t have to be! I get how commercialized and gross the holiday gets. Non-the-less, I love the concept and prettiness of it, so I indulge and invite others to do so as well. What do we have ...
Views: 258 - Enter Into Full Partnership With Love - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2020 from Guy FinleyLove often appears at our door as a beggar in disguise. There are countless ancient myths that tell how the gods would show up at the door of someone’s home, appearing to be in dire straits. On the surface of things, they seem to be seeking food and shelter; but, in truth, they’ve come to ask if ...
Views: 358 - It’s Never Too Late To Find Your Mate - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2020 from Rita MartellI’m cruising around the world with 1300 people I don’t know. For the next four months, I’m living in a community of neighbors of all ages from multiple countries who have multiple reasons for making this journey. For some, it’s their first world cruise, and for others, it’s their 7th or 8th. ...
Views: 437 - Sexual Desire Discrepancy Between Partners: What do You Do? - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2020 from Todd Creagerhttps://toddcreager.com/sexual-desire-discrepancy/ What do you do when there is a sexual desire discrepancy between partners? Couples have different desires about many things. They like different kinds of foods; they like different kinds of movies; they like different kinds of music. ...
Views: 335 - TIRED OF FEELING OVERWHELMED AND STAGNANT? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2020 from Emma ViglucciI wrote in the last issue about feeling like we are embarking in a New Era. Feels more and more like that every day. I’m so excited thinking on the fact that we are starting a whole new decade. We are at the beginning of a new huge chunk of time. It makes me dizzy to think about what this means. ...
Views: 265 - Get to know what is amyl nitrite and is it safe? - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2020 from Mike MedsenPoppers are a fluid medication that can give a moment high when breathed in. Different names for it are amyl nitrate, butyl nitrite, and fluid gold. The impacts of poppers show up rapidly and incorporate tipsiness, warm sensations, an expanded pulse, and migraines. Poppers have an across the ...
Views: 474 - This is One of the Scariest Things Humans Do - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2020 from Sheryl PaulWhenever I meet someone new and we talk about how my 15-year old son is a pilot, they look at me sideways and say something like, “You’re a brave mom to let him fly.” As I’ve written about in other posts, allowing him to fly does, indeed, drag me into a regular practice of facing my fears and ...
Views: 366 - I Hid in the Bookstore to Learn About Sex - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2020 from Sheryl PaulIn response to an email called “Emerging Womanhood” from my Sacred Sexuality course, a member shared the following on the forum. What touches me so deeply about her response is not only the exquisite vulnerability with which she tells her stories of becoming a young woman, but also the ways in ...
Views: 359 - Going Beyond Cbd And Thc: Exploring 7 Lesser Known Cannabinoids - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2019 from Christopher thomasChаnсеѕ аrе you’ve heard оf CBD аnd THC. But whаt аbоut CBC, CBN, оr CBG? Ovеr 100 dіѕtіnсt саnnаbіnоіdѕ—thе naturally-occurring chemical compounds in thе саnnаbіѕ sativa plant—have bееn іdеntіfіеd аnd іѕоlаtеd by ѕсіеntіѕtѕ. While thеу don’t аll bоаѕt thе ѕаmе media ...
Views: 376 - This is the Most Common Statement I Hear About Sex - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2019 from Sheryl PaulI hear a lot about sex in my work with clients. I hear about their fantasies, their shame, and their shame about their fantasies. I hear about their arousal confusion, their sex anxiety, and their struggle with desire. I hear about the common arc of sexuality in long-term relationships: the high ...
Views: 509 - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm a single mother, and I feel I'm past my prime. - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm a 23 year old single mother and believe me when I say my life has been crazy and very rough. I have no relationship with the father of my child. He's pretty much abandoned our four year old son after his 1st birthday. He doesn't help out, and blames everything ...
Views: 486(1 vote) - Spring Cleaning: For Your Head, Not Just Your Home - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2019 from Behnam BakhshandehSpring Cleaning: For Your Head, Not Just Your Home By: Behnam Bakhshandeh February 10, 2003 (Revised November 2019) Spring is here! That means cleaning our homes – but what about our heads? We clean, organize and beautify our homes; yet we clutter our heads – our most intimate ...
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