Self Improvement Site
On The Internet! Take the Self Improvement Tour
On The Internet! Take the Self Improvement Tour
Intimacy Articles
We are currently looking for an Official SelfGrowth.com Guide to "Intimacy". If you have expertise in Intimacy and your own website and/or product for this topic, please review this form for complete details. The Official Guide Position is part of our Premium Placement Package
- This is How I Learned to Love My Husband Well - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2019 from Sheryl PaulIt took me many years to learn how to love my husband well, and, of course, I’m still learning. Like many people, I didn’t grow up witnessing a healthy model of true partnership. My parents, like all parents, did the best they could and they gave me many gifts, but I’m sure even they would ...
Views: 307 - This is Why You Struggle with Relationship Anxiety - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2019 from Sheryl Paul“Probably the next important evolution of Western humankind is to find a proper container for religious life so that we do not unrealistically expect another mortal human being to carry this high value. In short: don’t ask a human to be God for you.” * Robert Johnson, Balancing Heaven and ...
Views: 328 - Relationships: Can A Relationship Allow Someone To Become More Integrated? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone first starts to spend time with another person, they may find that they only experience good feelings. If there are moments when they don’t, these moments may soon pass. The same could also apply when they are not in the other persons company, with this being a time when they ...
Views: 360(1 vote) - 5 Secrets to giving the best licky-licky oral service ever! - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2019 from Gaia MorrissetteWell boys, it’s your turn to discover and develop some magical oral skills that will excite and stimulate the woman (or women) in your life. These tips are also great for all the ladies who love the ladies! If you want to help her become a wet, screaming, moaning mess, here are 5 easy steps to ...
Views: 2446(1 vote) - 7 secrets to giving the ultimate B.J. - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2019 from Gaia MorrissetteAfter years of working with men I am happy to share my insights on what men want and desire when it comes to receiving mind blowing oral sex. Here are the 7 Secrets to giving the ultimate “hummer”: 1. Lube it up. Keep it wet and slippery. Most guys don’t find friction burn on their penis to ...
Views: 502 - Relationships: Can A Relationship Bring Up Emotions That Were Frozen? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is not in a relationship, they may find that they are generally settled. What this can mean is that they are rarely emotionally flat and are rarely overwhelmed by their emotions. Being this way is naturally going to make it easier for them to function at their best and to enjoy ...
Views: 431 - Relationships: Is It A Good Idea For A Man To Only Confide In His Partner? - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is single, he may find that there is no one is his life that he can share certain things with. This can relate to how he feels, the challenges that he is going through and the things that he has done that he is not too happy about, for instance. He can then have a big family and ...
Views: 656 - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm Desperate: What Else Can I Do? - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I suffer with sleeping alone in "our" bedroom while my wife of 14 years, sleeps in our two pre-teen sons' bedroom. I've tried to talk and reason with her about this important problem, only to fall on deaf ears. I'm desperate. What else can i do? How can i get ...
Views: 426(1 vote) - Relationships: Is It Important To Be Able To Hold Space For Others? - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has a friend who is going through a tough time, they could end up telling them what they need to do to get through it. This is then going to be a time when they will try to fix or rescue this person. Simply being there for this person is not going to be enough; they will need to ...
Views: 309 - What Makes You Fall In Love - by Submitted on Jul 03, 2019 from hina saxenaSentiment is an incorporated feeling and desire in human life. Human body and brain research is intended to draw in individuals from inverse sex. This canny plan is the way to human connections and sexuality which further functions as a fundamental component of human progression on earth through ...
Views: 246 - Relationship as a Spiritual Path - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2019 from Darlene LancerA relationship can be an exciting path to the unknown. It offers an ever-present opportunity to grow―a path to spiritual transformation and mutual discovery and ultimately the divine when partners open to one another. The concept of spirituality derives from "spiritus," meaning vitality or ...
Views: 407(2 votes) - Relationships: Can Someone's Need To Save Others Have A Negative Effect On Their Relationships? - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to hear that their friend is going through a tough time, they could give them a call or go to see them. No matter what they do, this could still be a time when they will listen to what they have to say and offer their support. Conversely, if they are in a relationship and ...
Views: 353 - Not having sex? Here are some easy fixes! - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2019 from Gaia MorrissetteAs a holistic sexual wellness specialist, I have many couples come see me because they are unhappy or unsatisfied in their sexual relationship with one another. I want to share a story about one couple I worked with. The overall problem was they were not having good or frequent sex. Here is ...
Views: 366 - Love and the Best Sex Ever - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2019 from Mary HorsmanGo to the grocery check out. What do you see? Sex is all over the covers of the magazines. It seems we’ve gotten pretty comfortable talking openly about it in our society. Obviously, it’s a common need and desire for people to experience this physical activity. In fact, on Maslow’s ...
Views: 290(1 vote) - Why Did My Girlfriend Flirt with my Friend? by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhy did my girlfriend flirt with my friend? by Beth Shepherd psychic. A case study. Names etc changed. She has really upset me. We have been going out together for a whole three weeks, I love her and want to be with her for the rest of my life, nobody else ever but her, she is my twin flame, ...
Views: 337 - Masturbation An Art Of Self Satisfaction - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Daniel GarrettLet’s get real, we all do it. Masturbation that is. Masturbating is what we do to help ourselves fall asleep before bed or even early in the morning to kick start our day. It can even be entertainment when there is nothing else to do. Whatever your reason it is natural and healthy to masturbate ...
Views: 465 - Top 3 Reasons Why some women don’t have orgasms ! How you can change that! - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Gaia MorrissetteMany of my female clients have asked me how to have an orgasm. Simply put, there is no easy answer. Each woman who is not orgasmic has a set of unique life experiences that interfere with her ability to enjoy orgasmic pleasure. Here are a few reasons women struggle with getting that climax… ...
Views: 374 - Second Chance by Beth Shepherd Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomSecond chance by Beth Shepherd psychic. How many get a real chance to put things right and turn back the clock? How many get a chance to become happy again? And in the case of those who are more cautious and have learned from their mistakes they really benefit and it lasts. Every so ...
Views: 308 - When Men Only Want You for Sex by Rosemary Price - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhen Men Only Want You for Sex by Rosemary Price psychic - it can be pleasing or it can be insulting, depending on the sort of woman you are and what you want to gain from men. I once had a client who was fairly attractive, she was pleasant,a friendly, easy to get on with and worked as a ...
Views: 361(1 vote) - Meeting The True Friend - by Submitted on May 28, 2019 from Brenda ShoshannaSummer arrives, a time for travel, enjoyment, being with friends and family. A time for romance and love. Of course we all want friends, companions, company, love. We need to feel close and connected. We can enjoy a friendship for many years, but then often, we drift apart or the friendship ...
Views: 3610(1 vote) - Love Relationships: Romantic Love and The Mirror - by Submitted on May 27, 2019 from Todd PuntolilloEveryone in your life is there to mirror you... and vice versa. When I tell a couple that they are perfect mirrors for each other, inevitably at least one of them has a fit. “I am not like him! How can you say that?” Often they can’t see this although it is literally true. This is quite ...
Views: 344 - How To Solve Husband And Wife Problem: How To Solve Marriage Problems For Good - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHow To Solve Husband And Wife Problem: How To Solve Marriage Problems For Good Married couples are bound to quarrel or argue no matter how good or close they are. So, it is important that every couple must know how to solve marriage problems when they encounter with one someday. When marriage ...
Views: 317 - Can a Narcissist Benefit from Psychotherapy? - by Submitted on May 29, 2019 from Darlene LancerMany people ask whether narcissists can change or benefit from therapy. Because narcissists see the cause of their problems as external due to their defenses of denial, distortion, and projection, their ability to look at themselves introspectively is limited. Thus, they don’t often come to ...
Views: 443(3 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: My girlfriend does not like phone sex. - by Submitted on May 20, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My girlfriend does not like phone sex. When ever bring the topic she is always mad at me. I don't know maybe it's the way her ex treated her. Please help Dear Reader: You can't have phone sex with your girl if she doesn't like it, and you can't force her to like it. Instead, ...
Views: 368(1 vote) - A Lifeline of Hope in the Swamp of Relationship Anxiety - by Submitted on May 17, 2019 from Sheryl PaulA coaching client recently wrote to me to share the following (shared with permission): Each time of the three times I spoke to you, you told me something that has been a huge lifeline for me: “If two people are willing to make it work, they can make it work.” You mentioned this to me three ...
Views: 374 - ARE YOU YOUR OWN WORST ENEMY? - by Submitted on May 16, 2019 from Emma ViglucciSomething that is amazingly striking is how vulnerable we are in all aspects of our humanness. And, how hard we can be on ourselves (and with others!) to top it off! In the stories I hear through the work, and also in plain old conversations with people, I hear the constant criticism, lack ...
Views: 338 - Relationships: Why Are Some People Attracted To People Who Are Emotionally Unstable? - by Submitted on May 08, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, being in a relationship with someone who is unreliable, unpredictable and who has the need to keep them on edge and in a place of uncertainty is not going to interest them. If they were in this position, it might only be a matter of time before they walk away. Being with ...
Views: 467 - 10 Surprising Questions To Ask Your Partner To Build Emotional Intimacy In Your Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2019 from Todd CreagerIn this post I’ve compiled a list of 10 surprising questions to ask your partner as a way to help you build emotional intimacy. One of the most important aspects of an intimate relationship that makes it thrive is when both partners really know each other and each partner gets the feeling ...
Views: 644 - What To Do When Your Husband Wants To Separate: Tips For Staying Calm When Your Husband Is Asking For A Separation Or Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyWhat To Do When Your Husband Wants To Separate: Tips For Staying Calm When Your Husband Is Asking For A Separation Or Divorce Have you been feeling down and sad for the past couple of months since you got the feeling that your marriage has lost its fire? Have you and your spouse decided to ...
Views: 254 - Is My Marriage Worth Fighting For: Is It Even Worth It To Try To Save A Bad Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyIs My Marriage Worth Fighting For: Is It Even Worth It To Try To Save A Bad Marriage If you are tired of all the sermonizing those marriage counselors indulge in, in the name of advice you have come to the right place. If you have a marriage to save, you need practical, realistic, and ...
Views: 247 - I Want To Separate From My Husband What Do I Do: I Feel Like My Husband And I Need To Separate But I'm Scared - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyI Want To Separate From My Husband What Do I Do: I Feel Like My Husband And I Need To Separate But I'm Scared There are numerous reasons for marriage separation, arising from the inability of the spouses to resolve certain marital problems and conflicts on their own. Most common reasons ...
Views: 309 - YOUR PARTNER NOT MEETING YOUR NEEDS? - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2019 from Emma ViglucciLife is gorgeously full and a consistent invitation to approach what’s important with intentionality, ease, presence, and mindfulness. For in how we carry ourselves impacts the experiences we create, and the Journey we live… It is up to us to make it a good one every day. How do you measure your ...
Views: 380 - Relationships: Why Do Some Intellectually Developed People End Up With People Who Are Emotionally Undeveloped? - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIn a relationship, it is not uncommon for one person to be logical and the other to be emotional. It can then seem as though one person provides what the other is lacking, thereby balancing each other out. By themselves they are out of balance, but together, they end up becoming the ultimate ...
Views: 418 - Sexuality: Can Someone’s Early Years Have An Effect On What Turns Them On As An Adult? - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperAs an adult, someone can believe that the things that arouse them are just the things that arouse them, and that all there is to it. However, what this wouldn’t take into account is the part that their early years may have played in why something in particular has this effect on them. If, ...
Views: 535 - The importance of using lubricant during sex and anal sex - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2019 from Daniel GarrettLubricant is an amazing thing. It makes sex more comfortable, more slippery and just feels awesome. I am sure you have all heard the term ‘wetter is better’, and if you have used lubricant for sex, then you know this is completely true! There are also a whole lot of benefits to using lubricant ...
Views: 561 - Relationships: Can Someone Be Emotionally Unavailable Even Though They’re In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperIt would be easy to believe that the people who are emotionally unavailable are single and the ones who aren’t are in a relationship. Or, if someone is emotionally available and single, it could just show that they are taking a break after going through a breakup, for instance. This is then ...
Views: 479 - REENERGIZE YOUR LIFE - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2019 from Emma ViglucciLife is full of little wonderful surprises if we allow ourselves to see them and let them in… When was the last time you were delighted by the unexpected? Are you being flexible with your approach to life, work, schedule, perspectives? Are you letting your energy flow freely? Do you allow your ...
Views: 321 - Important Relationship Advice for Women - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2019 from Dada BhagwanA woman holds a prime position in every person’s life, for the care, the concern, the passion, the strength, sensitivity and support, and the love, energy and happiness that she brings in the relationship. She nurses children, protects the family, serves parents and supports her husband. A ...
Views: 410 - Dear Dr. Romance: Now That We Are Together, Things Have Changed. - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have been dating this girl for 3 months now but we were talking and going on occasional dates for a good 5 months before we finally made it offical. Now that we are together things have changed. She ignores me when we are around friends and family. When I ask her if she ...
Views: 579(1 vote) - DETOX YOUR LIFE AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2019 from Emma ViglucciIt was incredibly nice disconnecting from the usual during our Spring Break… Even when life is grand it’s nice to change things up. I found myself not interested on being on my phone or any other electronic device. It was a struggle checking-in on things and people. It felt like being pulled ...
Views: 388 - Relationships: Why Are Some Men Attracted To Unavailable Women? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperEven though a man may have the desire to be in an intimate relationship with a woman, he may continually end up with women who are not available. Through having been with a number of women who are like this, he may find that this area of his life causes him to experience a fair amount of ...
Views: 530 - Dating: Is It A Bad Idea To Have Sex On The First Date? - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperMany, many years ago, sex was something that people would typically have if they wanted children. Nowadays, it is something that lot of people have if they want to experience pleasure. In the past, then, it was generally seen as having one purpose and in the present, it is generally seen as ...
Views: 574 - Emotional Abandonment By Husband: How To Deal With Emotional Abandonment In Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesEmotional Abandonment By Husband: How To Deal With Emotional Abandonment In Marriage Respect is very important in every home. And for any marriage to succeed, the head (the husband) must be respected. Men love respect. They are not happy when people, especially women, disrespect ...
Views: 696 - COMBAT NARCISSISTS’ AND ABUSERS’ PRIMARY WEAPON: PROJECTION - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2019 from Darlene LancerProjection is a defense mechanism commonly used by abusers, including people with narcissistic or borderline personality disorder and addicts. Basically, they say, “It’s not me, it’s you!” When we project, we are defending ourselves against unconscious impulses or traits, either positive or ...
Views: 504(3 votes) - Relationships: Why Would Someone Try To Make Their Ex Look Bad? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2019 from Oliver JR CooperOnce a relationship has come to an end, it could result in two people going their own way. This will then be a clean break, meaning that both of them will be happy to move on with their life. What this could illustrate is that they gradually grew apart, with there being nothing to keep ...
Views: 406 - Putting Your Spouse First In A Blended Family: Blending Families With Children From Earlier Relationships - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Baker JackPutting Your Spouse First In A Blended Family: Blending Families With Children From Earlier Relationships Children from "broken" families can be a force to be reckoned with in a new marriage. To maintain a successful second marriage, some rules and boundaries need to be made by the new ...
Views: 659 - ARE YOU ACHIEVING YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOALS? - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2019 from Emma ViglucciMid-March – how about them apples? Times flies when you are having fun, or are too busy! LOL Hopefully it’s the former for you. How is it going? Having a good week? Having a good month (March can be rough on people)? Having a good quarter…? As we are quickly approaching the end of Q1, this is ...
Views: 358 - When You Your Husband Are Not On Same Page: Agreeing To Disagree In Relationships - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenWhen You Your Husband Are Not On Same Page: Agreeing To Disagree In Relationships The question of how to get your husband to communicate is a common dilemma faced in many marriages. Most men do not like use their words and would rather not talk or share their feelings. It is common place for ...
Views: 370 - Would You Like To Know Why Real Love Is So Scary - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2019 from Sheryl Paul“We are all made up of yearning and light, searching for a way out, afraid we will be shut in or cut off or repelled back into the ground from which we are reaching. This is enough to begin: To know, before all the names and histories drape who we are, that we want to be held and left alone, ...
Views: 496 - My Husband Said I Make Him Unhappy: Husband Is Miserable With Me - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Said I Make Him Unhappy: Husband Is Miserable With Me So, you want to learn how to keep your husband happy. It is equally important that both of you know how to make each other happy and not only on one side. Let's look at some things that we can do in order to keep your husband ...
Views: 1070