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We are very quickly moving into the final stretch of 2012. This is not the time to ease up and get into that typical end of year lazy feeling, where we all use those really handy excuses, like we have worked really hard this year or the holiday season is upon us, to justify why we go into cruise ... Views: 887
Do you remember your childhood dreams of career choices, the man/woman of your dreams, or the prized sports car? Did you replace them with new dreams as you got older as most people do? Have you attained your dreams? If not, why?
The saying, 'We are the creators of our own destiny' is right on ... Views: 1066
When is the last time you just sat down and wrote out a list of things you wanted to do? Dare to dream a little again. Where do you want to travel? Where would you stay? Make your dreams something grand. People talk about being passionate about their jobs or career, but not about activities ... Views: 2665
Dear Dr. Romance:
When one hits a setback in life what are some healthy ways to keep moving forward?
How can one build a healthy mental outlook when things go wrong?
Dear Reader:
The most important and uplifting thing you can do is look for what you can learn from the problem. ... Views: 1883
Dear Dr. Romance:
I came across your web site when I was desperately looking for motivation. I'm a salesman selling first class products but I couldn't get motivated and it's been a problem for months. It's been getting worse.
I read "Motivation and How to ... Views: 1793
Thank you, Dear Dr Romance:
I've stumbled across your website, and think I'm going to be eternally grateful for having done so. Your advice is a pleasure to read, with helpful action-plans for effecting change. I love your articles on relationships with parents/children, being one's own best ... Views: 2051
Dear Friend,
Don't quit now! There's light in them thar hills...
If what you're doing is not working, try doing it another way, but don't quit --don't stop! Why stop? You may just learn something of value -- about yourself for one and about how perserverence and steadfastedness is s big ... Views: 982
There is no guarantee that, if you consistently think positive thoughts, you will be equipped to achieve anything concrete in your life. The only certainty, which flows from consistent positive thoughts, attitude and actions, is that you are better equipped to carry any burden or manage any ... Views: 932
We all want financial stability, balanced relationships, upwardly mobile careers and peace at home. But instead of waiting for these things to come to us, we must “walk the walk and talk the talk” to actively pursue our goals.
We have truly hit a point in history where everything you think, ... Views: 995
We speak of decluttering our spaces--our homes, garages, offices--but how often do we think of decluttering ourselves? As in letting go of outdated emotions, the guilts, fears, regrets that no longer serve us in any way?
After all, isn’t that how you declutter your closet? You look over your ... Views: 170
Constructive procrastination, or what I call "I'll Just Do This One Thing First" syndrome, is something I excel at. Even as I type these words my brain is busy searching for something I "need" to do first.
According to the dictionary to procrastinate means to postpone or delay needlessly. We ... Views: 886
Motivation is a reason or set or reasons for engaging in a particular behavior, especially human behavior as studied in psychology and neuropsychology. The reasons may include basic needs (e.g., food, water, shelter) or an object, goal, state of being, or ideal that is desirable, which may or ... Views: 8626
Happy employees are motivated employees. They are the bedrock on which successful enterprises are built – a fact demonstrated by numerous independent surveys. Without doubt, happy workers boost the bottom line through increased productivity and higher retention rates – not to mention money saved ... Views: 1406
Motivation is the internal condition that activates behavior and gives it direction; and energizes and directs goal-oriented behavior. The term is generally used for human motivation but, theoretically, it can be used to describe the causes for animal behavior as well. This article refers to ... Views: 7009
When setting and achieving your goals persistence is one of the most crucial elements in attaining your goals.
The basis behind persistence is will power and desire. When these two elements are combined in a proper manner you will be amazed at what you will start to achieve.
With the power of ... Views: 2785
“It is no exaggeration to say that every human being is hypnotized to some extent, either by ideas he has uncritically accepted from others, or ideas he has repeated to himself or convinced himself are true. These negative ideas have exactly the same effect upon our behavior as the negative ... Views: 2945
Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. Keep your words positive because your words become your behaviors. Keep your behaviors positive because your behaviors become your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values ... Views: 807
In my article, “Life’s Lessons as a Square: Applying Chemical Engineering to Business (Part One)”, I talked about how my degree in chemical engineering relates to me as an entrepreneur. So, how do you design a process for success?
This might seem obvious, but, believe or not, people try to ... Views: 749
If you really want something, you will get it!
It’s true: desire is a powerful force that can’t easily be stopped.
Think about your goal, about what you want to achieve in life, and ask yourself the following questions:
Ø Do you really want to reach your goal?
Ø Do you ... Views: 1520
Did you ever try to do away with a harmful behavior, only to fail? There is a lengthy list of widespread problem behaviors that people often try to alter or get rid of using self-hypnosis or NLP. Possibly the most common are: Overeating and weight loss; stop smoking; quit chewing tobacco; stop ... Views: 903
A sky-diving instructor was asked, “How many successful jumps must a student make before he or she can become certified?”
He answered, “All of them!”
Sky diving, however, is the exception. Is your life built on a series of successes? Do you usually attempt something new and immediately ... Views: 1149
In life, all the rewards go to those who actually get things done. They go to those who have the discipline to do what they have set out to do. The rewards go to you.
Decide right now, what it is that you want, and what behaviors will give it to you.
Once you have decided what needs to be ... Views: 467
In life, all the rewards go to those who actually get things done. They go to those who have the discipline to do what they have set out to do. The rewards go to you.
Decide right now, what it is that you want, and what behaviors will give it to you.
Once you have decided what needs to be ... Views: 610
Developing Emotional Intelligence
by
Bill Cottringer
“Having both intellectual intelligence (IQ) and emotional intelligence (EQ) is necessary to be successful. What you lack in IQ points, you can make up for by having emotional intelligence.” ~The author.
I know the above quote is ... Views: 1023
Spirituality means that we know we are more than just the physical self. We have an energy or spirit attached to us. In some religious circles our spirit is referred to as the soul and is immortal and that the spirit was created by some divine maker or creator.
On the other hand, spirituality ... Views: 1907
Blog success can be achieved by just about anybody with the proper mindset and expectations! Becoming a good blogger starts with the realization that the results you seek do not happen very quickly. It is important to understand that when you start blogging getting traffic will be difficult ... Views: 719
Developing Your Style - by Chrys Page
May 8, 2011
It says this on my business card: "Discover the Voice Inside You."
Over the weekend, I gave it someone and she asked me what that phrase meant.
I thought about it for a sec and told her this.
“Well, when we’re learning how to sing, ... Views: 1715
It trended like crazy on Twitter. Alice is 15 & has terminal cancer. After e-mailing her, I got this e-mail back from her mum:
“Alice thanks you for your kind message. She is now well on her way to achieving many of the items on her bucket list, thanks to the generosity of people around the ... Views: 728
Hope that wasn’t a stress producing question. I learned some time ago that an all-or-nothing answer is probably not the most productive one! For 2012 I committed to fourteen both professional and work/life balance goals. Totally completing all fourteen of them, did not happen! I did complete ... Views: 1075
4 key areas that sales managers need to focus on
14 Sep 2006
Joe had a full day with 9 appointments. He comes back to the office with his head hung. The boss asks, “Did you sell something today?”
“Not one dang thing”, retorts Joe, “The competition is killing us!”
I just wonder how ... Views: 1528
Everybody gets stuck in the mud sometimes. We all have felt overwhelmed by life’s challenges, especially in these tumultuous times we live in. We see banks failing, 401k values dropping like a rock and corporate corruption just to name a few. It affects all of us in one way or another. Sometimes ... Views: 1163
Here’s a little secret. You can’t force clarity, creativity, or genius.
Yes, it’s maddening when you don’t know what you want--and no one else knows--because it’s your life.
Years ago, I felt very confused about a relationship issue. I journaled about it, cried about it, meditated about it, ... Views: 948
Here are a few of my thoughts on the mindset, focus, and discipline required for massive success, and how to go about accomplishing something that is important to you. That something can be a better body, better health, and a better mindset.
My opinion is that, until people have committed ... Views: 676
Many of us begin the process of writing personal mission and vision statements only to find the “doing” more baffling than we had thought. Some of us opt for words that when pressed to define are just words that “sound good” or found on one of those sites that list common statements made up for ... Views: 2194
Many people begin the process of writing personal mission and vision statements only to find the “doing” more baffling than they had thought. Some opt for words that when pressed to define are just words that “sound good” or found on one of those sites that list common statements made up for ... Views: 1858
Do you think greatness is external, something that exists outside of you? When you think of greatness, what is the image you get? What do you equate with greatness?
Without a doubt, most people would immediately get an image of someone famous: a celebrity or an athlete.
John F. Kennedy — ... Views: 6834
If you want to live a life that celebrates your gifts and fits you like silk…you might first have to lurch into brick walls or down blind alleys. Poet Galway Kinnell says, “And the first step, shall be to lose the way.” When I share this at workshops, participants gaze at their shoes. They don’t ... Views: 992
Distance education is a field of education that aims to deliver education to students who can’t be physically present "on site".
General Description:
Nowadays several courses offered Online, MBA has been the most talked about whether it is worth doing through distance learning or not. ... Views: 1008
Forget setting New Year Resolutions – a one off activity at the start of each year that often feels forced and hurried, and leaves you feeling guilty and inadequate when they’re inevitably broken or discarded a short while later. Why not resolve (make a firm decision) at another time of year, or ... Views: 1201
Divide and Conquer
By
Bill Cottringer
“Divide and rule, the politician cries; Unite and lead, is watchword of the wise. ~Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, Gedichte.
In war, the divide and conquer rule has always gotten the expected results. Ironically though, this same principle can also ... Views: 641
Life came first before belief. We need to survive before we can reason why.
Belief is based on individual choice, and it can be reasoned that in life we can decide on how we wish to see our value and purpose. These values are based on choices and come from the mind, a place that has freedom ... Views: 1372
Thought is the magnetic force. It attracts the opportunity in the form of conditions, circumstances, luck, resources and people to realize what one wants in life. Whatever you are in your present life is because of your thoughts and what you will become in future depends on where your thoughts ... Views: 1443
No matter how strong one is, sometime or the other all of us feel that we have come to the dead-end nowhere to turn. We feel helpless and feel stuck; no one knows when life would deal such complicated cards. Life has to continue even during such tough times and we cannot simply run away from our ... Views: 725
I wish someone had told me this when I was in my 20s:
Do not grow old, just grow.
Whatever age you currently are, there is still time to just grow.
SEEING INTO THE FUTURE
As you get older you will not look the same. In fact, if you look at your parents and grandparents you will know in ... Views: 1534
Want to change how you feel right now? Ask yourself, "what can I do great today?" Think about it. What's the one great thing that you did today?
Perhaps it was some great insight that you got from meditating or a newsletter etc. Maybe you did something to help someone else. Did you contribute ... Views: 1109
It is mistakenly believed that your potential is limited by your current abilities, knowledge, skills or even your current circumstances, whereas, in reality, your limits only exist within your own self-imposed comfort zone and restrictive beliefs. You can completely remove any perceived limits ... Views: 1033
A man who suffers before it is necessary suffers more than is necessary. ~ Seneca
Deserving is an interesting concept. For some it is seen as a right and something positive. Others view it as something negative, experiencing guilt. When you think about deserving what are some of the thoughts ... Views: 1686
With so many things vying for our time and attention, it’s more important than ever to have strategies in place that allow you to get the most out of the time you put into your business.
Lots of people joke about how little time they have in their day and that their attention is spread in many ... Views: 1336
There are basically two kinds of motivation. The first is “away from”, as in “get me out of here!” The second is “towards”, as in “I want that!”
Each has its place, that is, each is useful in certain circumstances. “Towards” is what ... Views: 1006
"Life is an endless unfolding, and if we wish it to be, an endless process of self-discovery, an endless and unpredictable dialogue between our own potentialities and the life situations in which we find ourselves. By potentialities I mean not just intellectual gifts but the full range of one's ... Views: 1742