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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- PAIN IS INEVITABLE, SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2020 from Emma ViglucciBecause things are challenging it doesn’t mean we have to lose our s*t. This is the most important aspect of managing the current crisis. That is, to manage how we choose to process information and how we choose to look at the facts. How well are we able to separate the facts from the stories we ...
Views: 628 - Intimacy: Can Childhood Trauma Set Someone Up To Have A Fear Of Intimacy? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2020 from Oliver JR CooperNowadays, it is not uncommon for the term ‘fear of intimacy’ to be thrown around. In general, it is more likely that someone will use this term to describe another person than to describe themselves. One reason for this is that it is usually easier for someone to spot this in other than it is ...
Views: 677 - Dr. Romance on Guidelines for Relating with Love - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2020 from Tina TessinaIf you're lucky enough to be living with someone else while you're isolating to avoid this virus, you may be having some difficulty with being alone together for more time than you're used to. The following guidelines will help you get along better and perhaps even improve your ...
Views: 756(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm a single mother suffering in depression and stress - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm a single mother suffering in depression and stress. I met my ex husband online, we fall in love and got married. He was a Middle Eastern guy. We had a daughter, the marriage didn't last long and we got a divorce. I was aggressive, I used to break things, yell at ...
Views: 866(1 vote) - Top 6 Dating and Relationship Challenges You Can Overcome - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2020 from Alex ReddleHere's an analogy about relationships: they can be like cars. Most of the time, a successful partnership will progress at a steady rate, sometimes reaching exciting top speeds, at other times cruising gently. But along the way, there will be hazards, ranging from potholes nudging the vehicle off ...
Views: 805 - 5 INSIGHTS FOR YOUR PHYSICAL AND MENTAL HEALTH - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2020 from Emma ViglucciYep, it’s official. We, NYS, have received the “Major Disaster Declaration”. These are tough times. How are you making out as this crisis continues to ravage our area and the world? It is imperative that we are extremely proactive in helping not spread the virus and that we are extremely ...
Views: 746 - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm in my seventies and he's 25 years younger - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance I'm in my seventies, and he is 25 years younger.we met on a senior dating site almost two years ago, and have been living together for over a year. He and my daughter went to the same high school, and he says he was attracted to me then and always compared his other ...
Views: 991(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: Should I stay in this relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I had a really bad ending on my last relationship we were engaged. I moved into another relationship a month after he ended it. I was very lonely and my new relationship seemed perfect. Now I'm starting to get mixed emotions about my man. We have been together now 1 year. ...
Views: 779(1 vote) - Can someone love you and disrespect you at the same time? - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2020 from Dada BhagwanThis is generally the case! In every home, there is so much of love between people staying together; yet so frequently we get to see instances where one disrespects the other. For instance, a brother fights with his sister all day long and does not show any respect towards her. Yet, if a third ...
Views: 965 - What Should You Expect in the Month of March 2020? - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2020 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonThis month may feel like a nightmare for some of you in your love life as well as your personal life. Your failure to communicate is causing confusion and misunderstandings in your circle. You are juggling too many things exhausting all of your resources and it’s making you miserable. Some ...
Views: 904 - Dear Dr Romance: he said I was expecting too much from this relationship - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr.Romance: I can't get over this man, he is 61, I'm in my mid thirties, he is Europe and I'm in North America, we started corresponding and we stopped. I was suffering but time healed me after a year. This year we re started talking back, by Facebook, and when ...
Views: 716(1 vote) - Earn £60 per Hour Advising People on Romance - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomEarn £60 per hour advising people on romance by Beth Shepherd THE relationship adviser and psychic online. Hello and thank you for reading this article, I hope you find it rewarding and interesting. For many years I have been helping people with relationship and marriage problems, those who ...
Views: 898 - When it is Better to Walk Away by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 10, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhen it is better to walk away by Rosemary Price the psychic. Divorce,separation and a break up is always sad. Many of us will look at the marriage of a family member or friend where they are struggling with enormous problems such as violence, gambling, drinking, cheating and abuse and assume ...
Views: 934 - THE KEY IS TO MASTER BEING YOUR BEST SELF - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2020 from Emma ViglucciFocusing on the things that are good for us, make us feel good, and create a stronger connection to our Self are massively important in our Journey. Not only do we feel good (haha, who doesn’t want that?), but this is imperative for creating our successful relationship, and meaningful ...
Views: 690 - Dear Dr. Romance: I find her volatile and aggressive - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance I came across your name and contact details on a web it whilst trying to find info' to help my relationship. I wonder if you might be able to offer me any advice please ? My girlfriend always wants to take control and the way she speaks to me at times is though I'm ...
Views: 782(1 vote) - Which Matters Most? Money or Love? by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhich matters most? Money or love? by Rosemary Price psychic. In a lot of cases it is the young, attractive, sexy women who are given the chance to marry (or live with or date or simply be seen with) for money etc. In some cases an unattractive or elderly woman might get the same chance.Perhaps ...
Views: 655 - Dear Dr. Romance: Dating a Younger Woman - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance:I read your article on the Age Differences in Dating and found it to absolutely be brilliant. I'm wondering though since I'm dating a younger woman, what tips you have on dealing with that. Thanks. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. Dr. Romance ...
Views: 892(1 vote) - Earn £60 Per Hour as a Life Coach Online - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomEarn £60 per hour as a life coach online... People come to us for life coaching on all different subjects but most of them want help with their relationships. This is your chance to shine and shine brightly - though if you are the sort of person we are seeking and need you are probably ...
Views: 739 - Top 7 Salwar Kameez Styles to Help You Rock Every 2020 Event - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2020 from Kim SmithIndian parties have always been bright and colourful. Events like Indian weddings, reception, and gatherings are a perfect platform for women to showcase their beautiful salwar kameez outfits. Now, as the festive season is right around the corner, why not start looking for stylish and trendy ...
Views: 751 - Your Love Reading for March 2020 - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2020 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonIt seems the Divine Feminine is very feisty this month. You’re expressing the spirit of a rebel full of argumentative vibes which is making communication very difficult with your partner. You’re ruthless with your words and this can be hurtful to others. It seems you are using your intelligence ...
Views: 847 - How Substance Addiction Affects Personal Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2020 from Rasel KhanDrug and alcohol addictions have a long history of affecting personal relationships. It can unintentionally make an individual act out and engage in unusual behavior. It messes with a person’s emotions and thoughts, which can make it challenging to maintain successful relationships. Since an ...
Views: 707 - Dealing Directly in Our Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 28, 2020 from Jonathan LeboltThere are three “people” in a relationship: ourselves, our partner, and that invisible third “person:” the couple. When there’s a conflict, we need to be aware of the feelings and needs of (a) ourselves, (b) our partner, and (c) the relationship. In a healthy relationship, our partner will be ...
Views: 466 - Dear Dr. Romance: I am the one who becomes unbalanced - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I am married 19 years and my husband and I have two children. We have a good marriage in so many ways yet we continuously cycle to a low point every couple of months primarily due to my change in mood and feelings about the relationship. A bad case of ambivalence on my part. ...
Views: 734 - Reduce Your Divorce Trauma by Joining a Divorce Help Group - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2020 from Ella RichLegal separation is one tedious, stressful thing and comes with many legal formalities and procedures. There are many stages involves in this like dealing with the emotional trauma, fighting the legal case, taking decisions pertaining to kids that are best in their favor, planning about the ...
Views: 592 - ENHANCING LOVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP (PT3 OF 3) - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2020 from Emma ViglucciHow is the most romantic, loving, nurturing, pink/red week of the year going for you? Doesn’t it feel so lovely to step up the usual TLC and focus on treating your partner? What do you do when you want to step up showing your love? You don’t have to go the whole pink/red flavor, but do put on ...
Views: 661 - Are You Interested in Unicorn Dating? Read This - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2024 from yuan shuiThere are a few things to watch out for when building a relationship with a couple. Having a threesome relationship is not dangerous or guilty, but it can be tricky for some people. If you are a unicorn or someone interested in unicorn dating, you need to read these for important ...
Views: 899 - Hurtful Words - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2020 from Dada Bhagwan“Speech is the echo of inner intent.”- Param Pujya Dadashri Everyday conversation is essential to several aspects of life such as maintaining relationships (business and personal), building trust and credibility and creating a pleasurable experience for yourself and others. It comes as no ...
Views: 569 - Failed projects yielded important inventions - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2020 from Iqra ShabbirElectric pen wrote on skin The famous American inventor Thomas Alva Edison could never have imagined the turn of his invention when he patented his electric pen in 1876. The pen was intended as an aid for copying handwritten texts. The New Yorker Samuel O'Reilly, however, saw completely ...
Views: 1595 - Does Absence Make The Heart Grow Fonder? - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2020 from Rita MartellThe moment I considered the possibility of going on a four-month cruise around the world I knew my husband would not be going. If I went, I would be going without him. The timing was good for me but taking four months off work wouldn’t work for him and being confined to a cruise ship with ...
Views: 887 - A Prescription for Resolving Interpersonal Conflicts - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2020 from William CottringerA Prescription for Resolving Interpersonal Conflicts by Bill Cottringer “All conflict can be traced back to someone’s feelings getting hurt, don’t you think?” ~Liane Moriarty, Big Little Lies. We all get stuck in messy emotional interpersonal conflicts with others from ...
Views: 1154 - Your Love Reading for February 2020 - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2020 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonLove is not logical, but when you choose a partner, it is good to have things in common other than desire. This is a time to weigh the pros and cons of your partnership. If you share common interest, go for it. Don’t force it to work. If not, there are other fish in the sea. When someone tells ...
Views: 932 - How to Find and Reconnect with a Long-Lost Friend - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2020 from M Nasir AzizWe’ve all got friends that we’ve lost touch with over time - maybe not for any particular reason, but life got in the way for the two of you and you found it hard to keep the friendship going like you once could. There are many reasons why we might fall out of touch with friends - perhaps it’s a ...
Views: 856 - Dr Romance: 3 Tips to Living with Someone instead of Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2020 from Tina TessinaDr Romance’s 3 tips for living with someone instead of marriage: It's way too easy, in the throes of a new romance, to decide to live together without considering the problems that might arise. Dr. Romance gives you some things to think about before making the leap, to guarantee ...
Views: 837(1 vote) - It’s Never Too Late To Find Your Mate - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2020 from Rita MartellI’m cruising around the world with 1300 people I don’t know. For the next four months, I’m living in a community of neighbors of all ages from multiple countries who have multiple reasons for making this journey. For some, it’s their first world cruise, and for others, it’s their 7th or 8th. ...
Views: 1014 - 3 STEPS TO YOUR NEW YEAR STRATEGY - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2020 from Emma ViglucciHow are you doing? Hope you are keeping the momentum from the New Year going… As I’m sure you already know, right about now people start floundering with their New Year Resolutions, Intentions and the like… Tomorrow is the 3rd Monday of the New Year and known as Blue Monday… The end-of-year ...
Views: 798 - Sustainability & Other Trends in Engagement Rings for 2020 - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2020 from Alex NickThe calendar has turned over to 2020 and this time it means a new decade. Just as styles and fashions are changing throughout multiple industries, there are a few new engagement ring trends on the horizon as well. Anyone who is planning a proposal at some point in the near future will want to ...
Views: 639(1 vote) - Divine Feminine Vibrations.. Reading for January 2020 - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2020 from Tanisha Snipes-DixonLetting the divine feminine nourish you now into new relationships, collaborations, community and friendships is very wise. There are many souls with whom you have spiritual contracts divinely placed in your destiny before you were born. There are certain people placed in your life to guide you ...
Views: 854 - Moving Beyond Stigma—How to Approach Your Spouse About Wanting to Try Cannabis - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2020 from Meghan BelnapIt’s good to be adventurous and try new things. It can help open your mind to new experiences. Who better to enjoy those new experiences with you than your spouse? Marijuana is becoming legal in more and more states across the country. It may be time to take the plunge and see it yourself. ...
Views: 727 - 7 Most Important Facts Before Getting Married!! - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2020 from Dhakad MatrimonyMarriage is a lifetime commitment. Marriage is between two individuals coming straight from different families. There is a great diversity in their upbringing, vision, culture, traditions, beliefs, habits, etc. whether it is a love marriage or an arranged marriage. In the age of digitization, ...
Views: 729 - I Hid in the Bookstore to Learn About Sex - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2020 from Sheryl PaulIn response to an email called “Emerging Womanhood” from my Sacred Sexuality course, a member shared the following on the forum. What touches me so deeply about her response is not only the exquisite vulnerability with which she tells her stories of becoming a young woman, but also the ways in ...
Views: 977 - Where to find a man for a relationship - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2020 from Alvina JenniferYou are a pretty, young and interesting woman. But in personal life, everything does not go well. And that is to say the least. You yourself do not remember when you had your last relationship. It seems to you that you are wasting your energy looking for a man and do not want to be alone at all. ...
Views: 1062(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: How do I convince my family I'm serious about him? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2020 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm 17 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We have grown up together and he is all I know. We are very mature when it comes to our relationship and our sex life. I want to spend the rest of my life with him but there's a problem. I have made many ...
Views: 710(1 vote) - Can love exist without attachment and expectations? - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2020 from Dada BhagwanYes, it can. Such love is called Pure Love. Let’s see how... In love, one always expects something, material or emotional, from the other person. At the least, we hope that our loved ones will love us in the same manner as we love them. And if they don’t, we get upset, tensed and/or ...
Views: 533 - Relationship Tips for Men and Women - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2020 from Alex HalesBest Relationship Tips for Men and Women I have seen many people claiming that relationships are complex to manage and that is true in most of the cases as well. People who are newly married or are in a first relationship have to suffer the most as they don’t have the ideas of ...
Views: 585 - Dear Dr. Romance: I threw temper tantrums, broke things, yelled and demanded a divorce - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm a middle eastern single mother in my late twenties. suffering from depression and stress. As a child, I always wanted extra care and attention from my parents. I was closer to my father than my mother. When I was molested by an uncle, I complained to my parents ...
Views: 852(1 vote) - How to Divorce a Spouse You Can - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2019 from John BrownSteps for a divorce with a partner that you cannot find There is no doubt that divorce is one of the worst things that you can face in your life. There are tons of things that it can bring, like depression and various problems with money and health. And all of that is quite hard to deal with. ...
Views: 797 - How to Prepare for a Divorce - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2019 from John BrownMost people that are thinking about a divorce worry about the outcome and the stress of the process. A divorce can be a frightening time in a person’s life. It is natural that many people don’t know what to do or how to go about the process of getting a divorce. People understand that a lawyer ...
Views: 743 - Dear Dr. Romance: He always calls, and we do the same thing over again. - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I've been with this man over thirty years back and forth. Something always seems to happen and we end up apart again. He ends up getting married and yet though living states apart he always ends up calling and we do the same thing all over again. This time we got closer ...
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