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- What Men Really Want - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2012 from Marni BattistaIt's easy to misinterpret what men really want. Whether it be what they want from a woman, or from a relationship, the movies, media and our girlfriends give us mixed message that leave Dignity Daters confused, frustrated and possibly even making tragic dating mistakes that leave them stuck in ...
Views: 1832(2 votes) - What Men Want in a Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2012 from Marni BattistaWhat DO men want in a relationship? It's an age-old question. If you've already read "Dating with Dignity's Guide to What Men Really Want: Three Myths and Three Truths to Stop Wondering Today!", you're headed in the right direction. The problem is, women think the obvious answer to this ...
Views: 2020(2 votes) - What's love got to do with it? - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2011 from Eric LittleHi! my name is Eric Little. I have a few things on my mind as it relates to love and relationships that I must release. Feel free to listen in and respond if you'd like. Where is the Love? You know, today I'm really bothered by all of the hate and bitterness in the world that surrounds us ...
Views: 1724(2 votes) - ***10 Simple Things to Do to Improve Your Search for Love - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerHave you heard this quote by Anthony Robbins: “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.” I love this quote. What does it have to do with dating and your search for love? It may have everything to do with it…especially if you’ve been looking for a meaningful ...
Views: 2466(13 votes) - ***Should You Trust Your Instincts? Beats Me. - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi Palmer“Intuition is truly a feminine quality, but women should not mistake rash conclusions for this gift.”~Minna Antrim The other day I was listening to my friend tell me about her 25 minute “date” with this guy “who had nothing going for him.” As she’s talking I’m thinking: WTF?! So I ask her ...
Views: 4466(9 votes) - 5 Ways to Feel More Beautiful and Attract Love - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2009 from Debi BerndtHave you ever felt ugly or unattractive? Sometimes people can feel that way if they put on a few pounds, if someone rejects them or after they acted out in anger. No matter what society determines as being attractive, I believe everyone is beautiful in their own way. They key is that you must ...
Views: 3109(5 votes) - Don't Sleep through your Sex Life - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerHave you ever found yourself in a sexual lull? Maybe you're in one right now. During my oh-so-many single years, I used to call my gaps in dating and intimacy "being on hiatus." And the hiatuses were often pretty long. (Sorry…TMI?) The truth is that extended periods of celibacy are somewhat ...
Views: 2175(5 votes) - How to Write the First Message to Her - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2010 from Andrew HunterAmong the list of hippest things at the moment is internet dating. You are able to find women online with just a couple of clicks. There once was a stigma round online dating, but seriously a man would have to be brainless not to try it out. Consider This. Certainly you'll find lots of ...
Views: 2806(8 votes) - Singles: Tips for Finding Mr. or Ms. Right - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2009 from Krystal KuehnOne of the most important decisions you will ever make is the decision of who you will spend the rest of your life with. Why is this so important? It is important because the direction of your life will be greatly influenced by that very choice. With time couples become alike in many ways. ...
Views: 3284(8 votes) - ***How To Know If A Woman Likes You - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.A woman likes you if she looks at you, if she talks to you and lets you talk, if she touches you or lets you touch her, and certainly if she kisses you or has sex with you. You see, there are DEGREES to “liking” and a DURATION to how long and how much you are “liked.” Through this all there ...
Views: 4427(3 votes) - ***How to Write a Killer Email and Get Dates Online - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWant to know the number one trick to meeting men online and getting dates? Learn how to write a killer email. When I was online, I remember how it felt. I’d send an endless number of emails that seemed to go into the pit of Internet rejection hell. The truth is, there is a lot of ...
Views: 2372(3 votes) - ***Want to Heard in the Club Scene? - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2011 from Nancy DanielsYes, your lack of volume is the issue. I can’t tell you how many people get in touch with me because of this problem. And, it doesn’t just affect those who are soft-spoken. The amount of volume needed in a loud bar or club (or even a wedding) is at least 50% more that what I refer to as ...
Views: 2306(3 votes) - 8 Great Questions to Ask on a First Date - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Melody GlatzSo, you're about to go on a First Date? With more Americans utilizing the internet to meet their match, what do you talk about on a first date? Haven't you already asked and answered all the questions on your profile and/or in email exchanges, chat sessions, texting, phone calls? Not even ...
Views: 6108(6 votes) - Advantages of Online Dating - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeThe online community does offer some advantages. The most valuable lets people chat and get to know each other before meeting. This lets people ask some serious questions before any emotions or attraction sets in and clouds your judgement. It also lets you ‘block’ those people who are pursuing ...
Views: 9010(3 votes) - Five Good Rules for The First Post Divorce Date - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2011 from Suzanne WiebePreparing for the first date, post divorce, can be traumatic, unfortunately it doesn’t get any better after time. Even the most mature, well balanced people get their share of jitters at the thought of a first date. The key is to be prepared, to know the rules, and to prepare for a fun time. ...
Views: 2571(3 votes) - ***The Top 10 Things to do on a GREEN DATE - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2009 from Jill CrosbyHaving a green lifestyle in general is very important to most of us, so why not take it a step further and make sure that your dating lifestyle is also green. Here are 10 great, green dating ideas: • Green Volunteerism! Spend time learning and talking about causes or issues that are most ...
Views: 2514(7 votes) - ***The 6 Keys To Spiritual Dating - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2008 from Jill Crosby“Spiritual Dating” or “Conscious Dating” is an enlightened way of meeting and dating. There are no “rules” or expectations, and it’s about being true to oneself and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results! As we ...
Views: 2171(4 votes) - Could This Be Why You’re Single? - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2011 from Kara OhI was talking to a 37 year old man today – I’ll call him Jake – about his recent experiences with women. He related a conversation he had on the phone with a woman he hadn’t even met yet. She told him she had 63 things on her list that she was looking for in a man. She’d recently met one who ...
Views: 1619(4 votes) - Does Your Body Language Attract Other People or Push Them Away? - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2009 from Royane RealDid you know that even if you never say a word, your face and body are constantly sending out messages to other people about your state of mind, your happiness, and your level of confidence. And you have been reacting to the body language, voice tone, and facial expressions of those people ...
Views: 4792(8 votes) - Why Believing All the Good Men are Taken is Keeping You Single - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2010 from Shay Banks“I’m so fat,” my friend exclaimed. She’s a whole size 8, which is celebrity speak, that makes her about the size of Beyonce. In her defense, she is shorter and is packing more in her bum than Beyonce, but, she’s still thin nonetheless. I didn’t comment after she said this because I know all too ...
Views: 3294(16 votes) - How to Get (the Right) Man to Like You - by Submitted on May 30, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerI'm sure you know that in order to attract the right man you need to feel great about yourself. That's why Step One of my 6-Step Find Hope and then Find Him System is Who Am I: Falling in Love With Myself. You have to know why you rock and truly believe that you'll make some lucky man a superb ...
Views: 1648(5 votes) - ***Be a Woman Who Knows That She is Enough - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerYour fear of being rejected because you are imperfect is exactly what is getting you rejected. Yah…I know I’ve written about this a million times, but two recent experiences reminded me of how major this is. So here I am reminding you in case you still don’t get it. Me…Popular? My Junior ...
Views: 1490(6 votes) - Ending a Relationship Gracefully - 5 Key points In Ending A Relationship Gracefully - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2011 from Johnny WayneIt is sad to say that all things and happy times can reach to its final end. Thus, it is a challenge for you and for all of us in ending the relationship gracefully. Sometimes, the break up experience is a traumatic one for many, but you can change it if you want. So here are some key points for ...
Views: 4727(1 vote) - ***5 Must-Know Tips for Boomer Women Dating Online - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerDating sites report that their fastest growing segment are people over 50. My clients, women ranging from 35 – 65, are having great success with it. Face it: online dating is the new hot spot for people who wouldn’t dream of meeting someone in a bar. You know I’m a huge proponent of online ...
Views: 1420(1 vote) - ***Are Solitude And Loneliness Different? - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2008 from Dr. Jackie BlackHave you ever wanted some time alone? The notions of solitude, loneliness and being alone are often confusing or misunderstood, especially by committed partners. One way to look at this is to say that solitude is the joy of being alone while loneliness is the pain of being alone. Being ...
Views: 2697(1 vote) - ***Do You Actually Know When You're Being Rejected? - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerRejection can be a very good thing. Until you find the man who brings you the love and joy you deserve, you should thank the men who reject you. These men are doing you a favor. I think they know – consciously or not – that they won’t be able to give you what you need; and they know it before ...
Views: 2319(1 vote) - ***Please Be Kind to Frogs - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThink about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss before I find my prince?” You know what I’m talking about. It’s cute, and although we don’t really laugh at it, it tends to ...
Views: 2182(10 votes) - 10 Things A Woman Does Not Want To Hear On A First Date - by Submitted on Jan 17, 2011 from Ed WalkerThe world of dating can be a challenging one, with first impressions being a make or break factor in the success of the entire evening. What to wear; where to meet; how many condoms to stuff into your wallet; there are so many decisions to make. But here at The Tooth, our resident lady has put ...
Views: 1342(1 vote) - 3 Secrets to becoming a Multi-Orgasmic and Serial-Orgasmic woman ! - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2019 from Gaia MorrissetteOkay ladies, are you ready to discover how to become multi-orgasmic? Any woman can learn to experience multiple orgasms and Serial Orgasms with training, practice, and of course, surrendering to pleasure and her own body. First of all, in order for a woman to become multi-orgasmic and serial ...
Views: 1122(1 vote) - 5 Guaranteed Ways To Turn a Man OFF! - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2011 from Kara OhThere are some really simple ways to get a man’s attention and cause him to want to get to know you. But I thought it would be fun, and maybe drive the point home in a more powerful way, to tell you how you can turn men off, guaranteed. Clearly, this is all tongue-in-cheek, but it’s still ...
Views: 2068(1 vote) - 5 Tips for the Frustrated Single - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2016 from Daydree HornerIt’s been a long time and you're ready. I understand. Here are your 5 tips towards having what you truly desire in a mate. 1) This is the first thing you should know: You can have what you want. Give yourself permission right now. 2) Secondly, don’t believe the hype. All men aren't bad ...
Views: 1427(2 votes) - 5 Ways To Stay Positive During The Dating Process - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2014 from Lorraine JacksonAfter briefly discussing the importance of maintaining a positive attitude about dating in a previous article; one reader commented that although it would probably be much easier for younger women to remain positive when attempting to attract a man, for someone her age, being positive was a lot ...
Views: 5733(2 votes) - 7 Dating Tips for Women from Men - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2012 from Marni BattistaWhile our male counterparts can confuse the heck out of us Dignity Daters, sometimes they can be the best when it comes to dishing out dating advice. Now that you have access to the Dating with Dignity’s Men’s Advice Column (Starting with these seven dating tips for women from men!), you’ll ...
Views: 2119(2 votes) - 7 Secrets Chart Your Course to Success in Love Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2011 from Ernest QuansahAchieving success in a love relationship is not as difficult as it might seem. Just like anything, the first step is knowing how to go about it in the right way. Men and women go into love relationships hoping they’ve made the right choice. Many think they’ve found “the one” and anticipate ...
Views: 1098(2 votes) - 9 Ways to Kill Awkward Dates - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2013 from Pete ZephyrEver been on a date that really sucked? That you wondered if you could successfully drown yourself in your soup before the waiters pulled you out? Maybe you couldn’t think of anything to say or maybe everything that came out of the other person’s mouth grinded on your soul a little bit and made ...
Views: 1274(2 votes) - A Realistic Approach To The Common Question: "How Do I Get A Girlfriend?" - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2009 from Jesse AllenI love this question: "How do I get a girlfriend?" Fundamentally, this question is inefficient and leads to a dead end. It's the same when someone "wants a family" or "wants lots of money". It is the perfect example of asking the wrong question while at the same time not knowing what you really ...
Views: 2176(2 votes) - A Simple But Overlooked Tip That Builds Attraction With Women Quickly - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2023 from Josh ManuelHere’s a simple and a quick way to build attraction with a woman or a girl, yet many guys overlook this when they are looking to get the woman or girl they like attracted to them. This simple but often overlooked tip is none other than mini-dating. Yes, while you can talk to a girl to ...
Views: 1184(2 votes) - A Trap to Avoid at All Costs: Find the Love of Your Life in 90 Days or Less - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Scott & Stephen PetulloYou never want to be caught in the trap of thinking you can conjure up your "soul mate" in 90 days or less by following a New Age snake oil protocol. Ready, set, go. You now have 90 days to find the love of your life. What a terrible approach to love. Just like square-dancing, you'll twirl ...
Views: 1071(2 votes) - Advice and Dating Tips on How to Talk to Women - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2010 from Don Diebel#1 - Work out a personal "opening line" and try it with endless variations. Some men need the support, the crutch, of a definite "line" in approaching and winning a woman. If you do, give a good deal of thought to this while you're working, reading, traveling. Formulate a number of possibly ...
Views: 1387(1 vote) - Answering the $1 Million Question: Is He In To You? - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerAnswering the $1 Million Question: Is He In To You? At least half of all the emails I get from wonderful women who are over 40 and looking for love are about the same question you’ve probably been asking since you were a teenager: “Is he in to me?” Often the answer is: If you have to ask, ...
Views: 2035(2 votes) - Approaching Someone That You Have A Crush On - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2011 from Adam BenedettoWhen we like someone, we may be afraid to approach them. We may have developed a crush and feelings toward them, but because of our fear of rejection, we haven’t spoken to them about the possibility of getting together. When we really like someone, approaching them feels even hard because they ...
Views: 3799(3 votes) - Are You Aware that You Might Be Sabotaging Your Relationships? - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2011 from Doron GilWe all want to think we know ourselves well enough. That we know who we are, what kind of a relationship we want to have and how to behave with our partner. In all likelihood you are no exception. Yet there might be some things about yourself that you DON’T know. Unfortunately, these ...
Views: 1287(4 votes) - Are You Dating Like a Grownup? - by Submitted on May 17, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerI’m often asked what I mean by Dating Like a Grownup. It’s obviously a great question that I probably should answer every so often. (I am, after all, the CEO of Date Like a Grownup!) I’m going to give you my definition, and then I’m going to tell you about a great book I’ve read that does a ...
Views: 1659(3 votes) - Are you into Romance? - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceAre you into romance?How romantic are you? It tends to be considered to be old fashioned now to be interested in charm, dating, getting to know someone and to use courtesy and court a lover. Holding hands, sending flowers, sending love letters and many other things can be a sign of living this ...
Views: 1509(2 votes) - Are You Part of a Dating Disaster? - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2011 from Kimberly MitchellAt one time or another, all of us have found ourselves infatuated, in lust, and even in love during our days of dating. We meet someone who either looks, acts, or just is incredible in our eyes. That's why first impressions are so important…or are they? Most times, when you're trying to meet ...
Views: 1323(2 votes) - Are You Ready to Teach and Tame Her? (FemiTypes - The Epilogue) - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerOver the past few months I’ve profiled six types of women – I call them FemiTypes – who have less than healthy relationships with men. I’ve written about The Princess, The 18 Year Old, The Scaredy Cat, The Wow-Me Woman, The Bitter Woman and The Sexpot. Why have I written about women when you ...
Views: 1929(1 vote) - Are You Still 18 When It Comes to Dating and Relationships? - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerDating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men who are full of respect, adoration and commitment. If you're going to date like a grownup, developing empathy for men is crucial. Just like all your relationships, when you have the ...
Views: 2408(5 votes) - Are You Up For A One Night Stand? - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraOkay, let’s put it out in the open. There is this stigma; men are the only one capable of having a one night stand. But the truth is, women are capable of one night stands, too. Women can be a more vicious predator in casual sex if they wanted to. Generally, women who are capable of one night ...
Views: 1705(1 vote) - Ask Lisa Daily! Why Did My Girlfriend Dump Me? - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2009 from Lisa DailyDear Lisa, I am a man, and I would like to know why my girlfriend dumped me! Women also do the dumping! Why do you NOT have a WHY WOMEN DUMP MEN column on your site? Is it only a figment of the mind that men are also human? –Representing Dear Representing, Yes, men are human. Most ...
Views: 2615(4 votes) - Attraction Secrets With Women - How to Make a Woman Hang on Your Every Word - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2009 from Chris TylerThere are many attraction secrets with women that a man HAS to know if he wants to be able to succeed with women. Most men DON'T experience a whole lot of success with women, especially not the kind of beautiful women that they REALLY want to be able to date. One such attraction secret with ...
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