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- How To Stop Being So Selfish in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisAre you selfish? Do you get upset when things don't go your way in your relationship? Do you expect your partner to hang on your every word and do whatever it takes to make you happy - even if it means forgoing his or her happiness? If you do, then you are selfish. You may not be that ...
Views: 12978 - Problems With Marriage - Unrealistic Expectations - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisHaving problems with marriage? Join the club! There are many other people out there feeling exactly like you do right now. Unfortunately, knowing that fact doesn't make it any easier to deal with as solving the problems can be easier said than done. It helps if you know what is causing the ...
Views: 2228 - Top 10 Tips To Help You Find a Boyfriend - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisDating not working out for you?? Feeling alone? Tired of being single? You are not alone!. The following advice will help you to get your next boyfriend, and not just any boyfriend, but the perfect man. 1. Always be The Real You No matter how enticing it may be to put on a fake face, it is ...
Views: 1027 - 5 Tips To Save Your Marriage and Stop Divorce After an Affair - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisWant to save your marriage and stop divorce? Is it easier said than done? Well, it may feel like that if your marriage has gone through an affair. An affair can shatter a marriage right to the very core in many ways, including destroying the trust. After the trust is gone divorce may be one of ...
Views: 5206 - More How To Save a Marriage Tips - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisTips on how to save a marriage are everywhere! That's a good thing though! So many marriages end up being unhappy or end in separation that it's ridiculous. Recently facebook published their 'relationship status' stats and it was revealed that marriage isn't the norm anymore. Being single is. In ...
Views: 822 - How to Save Your Marriage Tips For You - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisHow to save your marriage: there are articles galore out there telling you how to do it as a team. Unfortunately divorce seems to be appearing more and more regardless of all the how to save your marriage tips, books, and help that is offered online and offline. A reason for this may be ...
Views: 833 - Save Your Marriage Alone - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisIf you are having marriage problems and your spouse seems to have 'checked out' of your relationship or doesn't seem willing to try to save your marriage then you may be forced to save your marriage alone - or at least feel like you are doing all the work alone, and you may be right! There ...
Views: 1157(1 vote) - 3 Important Tips To Help Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisHas your spouse acted in a way, or done something, that has left you extremely upset and has resulted in a marriage in crisis? It can be hard to overcome issues that blindside you and hurt you to the very core. Many people just like you are wondering whether or not their marriage can be saved or ...
Views: 1742 - How to Work on Your Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2012 from Bellaisa FilippisMarriage takes work. It's not always going to be a happy and joyful place. Sometimes marriages start to feel like they are falling apart or starting to unravel. Once you get into this state you either start to want to work on your marriage and make it better or you decide to let it continue to ...
Views: 1040 - Will Marriage Counseling Really Work For Us? - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisAre you considering marriage counseling? Are you wondering whether or not it is going to work for you? Worrying that it may be a waste of time may be holding you back from getting the marriage counseling that you need to save your marriage from pain or divorce. The truth is, there is no ...
Views: 877 - 5 Tips to Help You Find Love After a Breakup - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisAfter a breakup it can be hard to even think about love for a while. In fact, love may be something that seems impossible when your heart is broken and aching. But one day you will want to find love again. When you are ready to find love again use the following tips to your advantage. They will ...
Views: 3666 - 6 Tips To Build Trust in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou can build trust in your relationship by following some simple, and proven, methods. For instance, when it comes to building trust in a relationship you need to focus on stable and consistent behaviors. If you are all over the place then it’s harder to build trust! 6 Tips To Build Trust in ...
Views: 1642 - How To Use Confidence to Win Back Your Ex - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisIf you have confidence that you can get back your ex then your whole attitude will follow suit. But you have the right kind of confidence in order to do that. You can't run around and send an image of fake confidence, it has to appear and feel real in order to really win your ex back; otherwise, ...
Views: 6368 - Rebound Dating: Good For You or Not? - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou either have done it yourself or seen someone who has done it. Rebounding a week after a relationship ends almost always results in disaster. The person chosen is usually the completely wrong person and ends up making the break up emotions more confusing than better. In fact, sometimes a bad ...
Views: 1239 - Relationship Advice For Men Who Want To Keep Their Girlfriends - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisWant to know the common mistakes that many men make to scare away their girlfriends, BEFORE YOU actually make the mistakes? It’s a good idea to know what could potentially ruin your relationship with your girlfriend so you don’t do those things to ruin the relationship. And certain mistakes are ...
Views: 952 - Is Your Relationship Chemistry Starting to Dwindle? Here's Some Relationship Advice You Can Use! - by Submitted on Nov 01, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisOnce the chemistry starts to dwindle in the relationship you may start to wonder whether there is a way to get it back. Is there a way to spark the fire again or are you doomed to be without chemistry for the rest of your relationship? Fortunately there is a way to develop that chemistry ...
Views: 3432 - Will a Love Quiz Really Help You Understand More? - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou want to find out if you are really in love - and your find a quiz that is going to help you do that. But do the answers of the quiz really tell the accurate truth, or are you putting too much value towards those quizzes. Sometimes you can get an answer that you don’t like and worry about ...
Views: 698 - 3 Huge Signs That Your Girlfriend or Wife Is Unhappy in the Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou may think that your relationship is going perfect but if she thinks otherwise, and is unhappy in the relationship, then a surprise breakup may be on the horizon. A breakup can be caused from a build-up of unhappy feelings that she hasn't been able to communicate to you for whatever ...
Views: 7962 - Body Language That Says You Are Being Lied To - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisWant to know whether your spouse is telling you that truth, or whether or not your co-worker really did say good things about you to the boss? There are certain gestures that give away deception in a person and they are easy to spot once you know what you are looking for. Signs of deception ...
Views: 732 - What Age Should You Get Married? - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisI read an article that Justin Bieber has set an age limit of 25 for when he wants to get married and start a family. He's 17 right now. To me this brings back memories of my teenage friends dying to get married as soon as possible, and me perfectly happy being single and living my life with ...
Views: 1055 - Warning Signs That Your Man Has an Addiction - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisI turned the blind eye for years. I knew that something wasn't quite right with my boyfriend, but we lived together so how much could he be doing that I didn't know about? Even the events that seemed strange would be written off as just that - strange. I now think that I didn't want to see ...
Views: 737 - How to Impress Your Girlfriends Friends - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou spend enough time trying to impress your girlfriend so why would you want to spend the energy on impressing her friends as well? There are three reasons that you want to impress your girlfriend's friends. 1. Her friends will like you more. They may be jealous that she found such a good ...
Views: 4209 - What To Do When You Can Not Stand Being Single - by Submitted on Sep 05, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisMany of us have been there in our lives. We don’t want to be alone in our lives and when we are single we become desperate to find someone, anyone, to fill that void. The problem with this is that we end up filing that single void with people who are not compatible with us or who cause us ...
Views: 3143 - You Have Her Number – Getting the Confidence to Call Her - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou got through asking her for the number and now you pretty much don't know what to do with it. Should you call her today, tomorrow, or the next day? What time should you call her? What should you say? With all these question running through your head it can be hard to pick up the phone and ...
Views: 667 - 5 Reasons Why Some Relationships Need to End - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisNot all relationships are going to stay strong and last forever. This is not a bad thing though. It just means that you have taken a chance on someone and when the relationship ends you have learned something new about what you don’t want in a partner. Essentially, it makes looking for the ...
Views: 812(1 vote) - Relationship Advice – Why Relationship Forums Can Help You Out - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisThere are many different people out there willing to give you relationship advice. The problem is that most people have different opinions on what relationships should be like, how to fix relationship issues, and how much crap you should put up with in a relationship. Not only does their ...
Views: 774(1 vote) - How To End a Relationship and Move on To a Healthier Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisHow you end a relationship matters. In fact it matters so much that it can affect your next relationship in a positive or negative way. So when ending a relationship you need to take that into consideration! There are two common feelings that can occur from a bad end to a relationship. They ...
Views: 956(3 votes) - How To Find The Right Woman For You - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisFinding the right woman for you is most likely the reason you date! You are in search of someone who compliments you and makes you happy, and who would be a good fit as a companion for life for you. The problem is that sometimes you have to go through a lot of wrong women to find the right ...
Views: 1128(3 votes) - How Can I Get a Girlfriend Online? - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisIf you are looking for a girlfriend and having problems finding one offline then you may want to consider signing up with a dating site and trying your luck online. More and more people are turning to finding someone online and for good reason. It cuts out a lot of the time wasters in person ...
Views: 1064 - How To Flirt With Women Without Looking Creepy - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisThe point of flirting with women is to get them to notice you and, hopefully, flirt back! And women love to be flirted with by a guy they are interested in. But there is a really fine line between flirting with a woman and losing the woman forever. If you flirt too hard you can come across as ...
Views: 2265 - How to Get Women to Remember You After You Approach Them - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisWhen you meet a woman you like and you ask her for her number your intention is to get her to say yes to an eventual date. But it really should be more than that! Your intention should be for her to not be able to get your out of her mind, quickly tell all her friends about the great guy that ...
Views: 895 - How To Get Women To Notice You Without Even Talking To Them - by Submitted on May 23, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisIf there is a woman you like and you are not in her line of sight for dating then you may miss your opportunity with her. Another guy may catch her attention and she will be in his arms before you can even work up a game plan to get her to notice you. This is why it's good to have a game plan ...
Views: 1000 - How To Turn a Woman on With Body Language - by Submitted on May 20, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisBody language can say a lot of things to a woman you are interested in. It can tell them how much confidence you have in yourself, it can tell them how interested in them you really are, and it can also press a 'hot' button in their brain that turns them on and makes them want ...
Views: 5258(1 vote) - 8 Sure-Fire Ways to Get a Girl to Like You - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou can get a girl to like you by following some basic 'get a girl' rules. Following are 8 rules to live by when you are trying to get a girl to like you. 1. Don't Chase Her, Pursue Her When you pursue a girl you are trying to get her to notice you and like you, but when you chase a girl ...
Views: 4899 - 5 Signs That The Girl You Like Is a Drama Queen - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou think a drama queen would be easy to spot, but sometimes you end up dating a girl for a while only to realize that you have a huge drama queen on your hands once it's too late. Then you have to go through the process of dealing with her for as long as you can stand it, or breaking up with ...
Views: 5971(1 vote) - 5 Signs That The Girl You Like Has Too Much Baggage - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisAll women have a relationship history that defines who they are today. But that history is supposed to help improve them to be a better person, better lover, more self-aware, and a better partner in life. It is not supposed to be dragged into a relationship with you and made your problem for ...
Views: 15692(1 vote) - 5 Signs That She Will Be Too Much Like Your Mother - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisMost men don't want to date their mother, but surprisingly a lot of men get into a relationship only to find that their woman is trying to play the role of their mother in everyday life. Creepy? Yes. But many women take on this role automatically in life and find it very hard to change the way ...
Views: 786 - Compliment Men and Win Their Hearts - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisWhen you think about attracting men and winning their hearts you may not think of compliments and using them to your advantage, but I'm here to tell you that if you use compliments the right way you can puff up their manhood and win their affection. When we give compliments we tend to focus ...
Views: 1345(1 vote) - Give Your Partner a Compliment and Become More Intimate - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisInsults are easy to give. We give them all the time! We write books dedicated to insults that you can use for almost anyone out there, but good luck finding a book on compliments you can shout out to someone walking down the street. Giving a compliment means we have to admit that someone is ...
Views: 1814(1 vote) - How to Know If You Are in a Serious Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou meet, you date, and you have fun. You go out together and you look forward to seeing each other when you are apart. You start to spend more time with one another and less time doing things you used to do separately. Is this the point when your relationship begins to get serious? When do ...
Views: 1260(2 votes) - If You Think All Women Are Evil, Mean, or Picky Then Maybe the Problem Is You! - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisSo many men complain about how women are picky when it comes to dating men. You may think that women want the perfect looks, intelligence, personality, and attitude from a man. You may wonder why you always meet these women who are so picky and uninterested in you. You may wonder why you can’t ...
Views: 1029 - The Main Reasons Why Some Relationships Fail - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisWhy do some relationships fail while other relationships stay strong? Why do some people seem so happy in their relationship while other people are miserable and bicker all the time? The number one reason for it is expectations, or what they want or desire to happen in the ...
Views: 5428(1 vote) - Why Space in a Relationship Is Not a Bad Thing - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisSpace in a relationship is a delicate balance. If you have too much space then you start to grow apart and feel like the relationship is lacking a certain intimacy, but if you don't create any space in a relationship you can feel smothered and lose your identity inside of it. Space does not ...
Views: 1900(1 vote) - Various Stages of Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisEveryone has different versions of what stages of relationships should be. Some people commonly engage in relationships that include stalking and restraining orders, while others engage in relationships that involve intense passion and marriage the next day. These are considered unhealthy stages ...
Views: 890(2 votes) - How to Impress Women During The First Impression - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYour first impression on a woman matters. You have a few minutes to make the best impression you can to impress her and show her what you've got. If she sees a guy who is nervous, rude, negative, or any other trait that she doesn't find sexy then you may blow it for good with ...
Views: 1470 - One Big Part of Attraction That Many People Screw Up - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisOne part of attraction is sharing similarities in interests, beliefs, and values. A lot of time we can tell if we are similar in these things by the type of conversation we have or the activity that we are doing at the moment. For example, if your love interest is at your church then you have a ...
Views: 807 - Don’t Play Hard To Get With Guys - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisPlaying hard to get is something that is supposed to create a feeling of need and want in a guy towards you. You do this by acting aloof to his advances, or you forget about your date that you had planned, or you act as if you are not interested in him and that you are really hard to get. But ...
Views: 6142 - Why You Should Find Out What She Is Looking For In a Partner - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisWomen are all different in what they want in a man and in their relationship. The initial want is a guy who is going to treat her well and has good sense of humor and outlook on life. A man who is upbeat and has a zest for life is the most wanted man in terms of dating, but many people forget to ...
Views: 721 - Before You Ask Her Out Make Sure You Talk To Her First - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou see a female you like so you find some courage to go up to her and ask her out on a date. She says no and you feel rejected and as though she made her decision because you didn't ask her out the right way. But the truth is you may have actually said all the right things but just asked her ...
Views: 867 - Ideas For a First Date That Create Excitement - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisWhere to go for a first date is the number one question on many peoples minds. The first date should be fun and allow you to show your attractive qualities that will have him or her wanting more. It should also be something that sticks out in both your minds for a long time to come. But if you ...
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