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Even though a woman wants to be in an intimate relationship, it doesn’t mean that this takes place. However, while there will be some women who realise that this is because they fear intimacy, there are going to be others who are unaware of why they are unable to experience it.
In the first ... Views: 2383
Five Sure-Fire Ways to Tell He Is Definitely Interested in YOU!
Whether you are making eyes at some hunky guy over your latte, or on a first date with a man you think might be a keeper, you need to know how to tell if a man is interested in you. Check in using our Five Point “Is He Into Me” ... Views: 2381
We all long to love and be loved, but sometimes it just doesn't happen for us. For many years I thought that love had passed me by, until I finally realized that I was the source of love for me. I learned that I needed to BE the love that I wanted to have in my life. I decided to cultivate the ... Views: 2368
As if dating and mating wasn’t hard enough, technology has added a variety of new challenges to the art of hooking up. Not only do you have to master the computer crud, you have to figure out how to actually connect with another human being amidst the volume and the anonymity.
Being a ... Views: 2364
Happy Memorial Day weekend! How about a little trivia to start your day?
In 1868, May 30 was designated as a holiday to honor the nation’s Civil War casualties. Now called Memorial Day, it was originally known as Decoration Day. Red poppies are commonly associated with Memorial Day and are ... Views: 2352
Have you heard this quote by Anthony Robbins: “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.” I love this quote.
What does it have to do with dating and your search for love? It may have everything to do with it…especially if you’ve been looking for a meaningful ... Views: 2346
Can Men Think for Themselves?
I am an independent person, I can look after myself.
Can I? Really!
Well I thought I could.
Six moths ago I split with my partner of sixteen years. Although the outcome was traumatic but inevitable, the aftermath has been amicable; my ex-partner is my new best ... Views: 2342
Having a green lifestyle in general is very important to most of us, so why not take it a step further and make sure that your dating lifestyle is also green.
Here are 10 great, green dating ideas:
• Green Volunteerism! Spend time learning and talking about causes or issues that are most ... Views: 2337
Do you want to be able to pick up women anywhere you go? Do you want to have them approaching you instead of you having to approach them? You can with the right attitude and knowledge about women.
First of you need to know that the physical aspect is not the only factor that women take into ... Views: 2329
Its possible there is a girl you are aiming to put the moves on and you just want to learn how to make an impression on a girl.
Typically, I do not suggest you try to impress women. It’s a bit useless and a thing that any girl worth dating will see through. What's a bigger factor is just ... Views: 2323
Letting go of a relationship can be a very difficult task especially if you are the heartbroken. You are probably hurt and confused? You probably have a million questions because the person who did this to you has really hurt you, and inside you thought that they were the one and it would last ... Views: 2323
STUDIES have shown that late marriage is a becoming common phenomenon in modern, developed countries. Singapore, Korea, Japan are three of the worst hit countries in Asia, and Malaysia is fast becoming the infamous 4th. The more developed a country, the higher the mean age for marriage. So ... Views: 2318
Decades ago people would meet in crowded bars and try to start conversations with complete strangers in the hope of quickly creating a relationship that would last a lifetime. As you can imagine, that didn't have a high rate of success. Then the internet evolved and people progressed from simple ... Views: 2315
First meeting should be about building a friendship before initiating sex. The friendship will be the foundation to keep the relationship cemented in place.
When working on a friendship there is no fear of being your self. Trust is built first out of friendship and grows more with every ... Views: 2311
The end result of a toxic relationship is devastating and may require some form of healing or counseling. It is the kind of relationship that can leave you emotionally drained, sap your energy, and leave you severely broken up spiritually as well as emotionally leaving you with a feeling of ... Views: 2311
Breaking up is hard to do. Sometimes! This article is about how to end a relationship in which you are romantically involved. .
There are a number of things to take into consideration when deciding on how to end a relationship. First, you need to be familiar with the type of person you are ... Views: 2310
Want to know the number one trick to meeting men online and getting dates? Learn how to write a killer email.
When I was online, I remember how it felt. I’d send an endless number of emails that seemed to go into the pit of Internet rejection hell.
The truth is, there is a lot of ... Views: 2308
So, your 30th birthday has come and gone and you are trying to define for yourself what it means to be a single woman who doesn't have children. Sound familiar? If so, you are probably already aware of how society can, at times, make you believe that something is missing from your life if you do ... Views: 2305
The First Date Ideas & Rules
The golden rule is to meet somewhere: public, chilled out & relaxed. A coffee shop is a great venue for this during the day and a wine bar is a great place for the first date idea in the evening.
The first date should be kept casual.
If you want to fully ... Views: 2303
Men are ever-watchful to avoid getting involved with high maintenance women. You’ve heard of High Maintenance women but do you know what that means? Hopefully, after I explain this sad malady, you’ll cleanse any HM behavior you might have going.
First, a high maintenance woman needs things to ... Views: 2297
In a time when President Bill Clinton, former Senator John Edwards, and countless other public and private individuals stray from their relationships, I wonder how many Singles truly want a sustainable and committed long-term relationship.
Relationship Expert, Dr. Darshana Hawks, asserts that ... Views: 2282
30 minutes. That’s about how long you generally have to “get to know” a man before deciding to have a cup of coffee or date with him. You meet online, or at the local bank, and that’s about it.
But he seems imperfect. He’s clearly missing one of your must-haves. Should you gracefully decline? ... Views: 2277
I was talking to a woman recently and as usually happens, the topic of what I do came up. After explaining that I write books, do public speaking and led workshops and seminars about relationships, she told me she was looking for a man to be in a relationship with.
Everything she said she was ... Views: 2257
“It’s not you—It’s your technique.”
This is one of the first things I teach singles. It is core to my coaching program and essential to your success in the dating game. To grasp the significance of this principle and how it can increase your confidence, you need to understand the ... Views: 2248
Rejection can be a very good thing.
Until you find the man who brings you the love and joy you deserve, you should thank the men who reject you. These men are doing you a favor. I think they know – consciously or not – that they won’t be able to give you what you need; and they know it before ... Views: 2246
Dating like a grownup is the quickest path to finally enjoying mutually nurturing relationships with men who are full of respect, adoration and commitment.
If you're going to date like a grownup, developing empathy for men is crucial. Just like all your relationships, when you have the ... Views: 2243
When you first start dating someone, there are a few specific clues you could recognize as red flags. Nobody is perfect, but there are few characteristics and behaviors that should absolutely be deal breakers for you. Below you can find the Dating with Dignity List of Deal Breakers in ... Views: 2236
Yes, your lack of volume is the issue. I can’t tell you how many people get in touch with me because of this problem. And, it doesn’t just affect those who are soft-spoken.
The amount of volume needed in a loud bar or club (or even a wedding) is at least 50% more that what I refer to as ... Views: 2232
If you haven’t been successful in cultivating an intimate relationship in spite of your continuing attempts, and are tired of disappointments, failed relationships, unfulfilled promises and/or partners who mislead you, you may resort to believing that you haven’t met your soul-mate yet. He/she ... Views: 2231
Why do we hold on to the man who isn’t good for us, our feelings of insecurity and being less-than, or our pattern of picking jerks and liars? These are all self-sabotaging behaviors and beliefs, and intellectually we know it. Yet we cling on for dear life, feeling powerless over our unfortunate ... Views: 2227
Do you know that you are special, that you count big time, and that you deserve to think of yourself first when dating and developing a love relationship?
This is such a difficult concept for so many women.
Think of myself first? That’s so selfish! I’ve never done that before…ever! I don’t ... Views: 2227
If you're tired of the typical, boring dates in cafés and restaurants, and you thought about trying something new and adding a bit of spiciness into your dating life - then you are reading the right article.
We all love getting out the typical frames and trying something different, especially ... Views: 2227
Good job! You landed the date. Let's go over a few things that will help make the date a good one.
On a first date, you can find out what sort of woman you are dealing with. I do not recommend distracting dates like concerts or the theater. These make it hard to really have a conversation ... Views: 2223
Some men like to believe that they can get by in life without having to get married. The truth is that it is a real necessity for a man to get married at some point in his life. The reasons for why a man should understand this are too important for him to ignore.
Men need women because it ... Views: 2222
For many people, Valentine's Day, is the day when you feel sad, depressed, neglected or alone if you are single. However, with so many failed relationships, nasty break-ups, or unhappy unions, some singles are seeing this time as a time to embrace their solitude. Ann Landers once said, "It is ... Views: 2215
Do you find yourself ending up as the "good friend" of women, although you are being super nice and polite? "Nice guys finish last" is not just a cliché, it's a real principle in human psychology.
In this article I would to review studies in psychology that explain why many women are ... Views: 2206
The point of flirting with women is to get them to notice you and, hopefully, flirt back! And women love to be flirted with by a guy they are interested in. But there is a really fine line between flirting with a woman and losing the woman forever.
If you flirt too hard you can come across as ... Views: 2205
If you are a human being (I assume that if you’re reading this you probably are) you will most likely have to engage in small talk on a regular basis with fellow humans that you come across. You feel obliged to speak to them, even though you can think of a long list of things you’d rather do, ... Views: 2195
What will be my Valentine? Yes, you read that right!
We usually ask, Who will be my Valentine? - which can bring up a myriad of uncomfortable answers.
For those who are in a romantic relationship, we tend to think romance is a ‘shoe in’. Wait a minute – is it? Take a look at your ... Views: 2187
In case you haven't heard of this new phrase, a "Cougar" is named used to refer to an older woman who dates men much younger than her. Cougars come in all types and the reasons for their particular fetish with the boys are varied. Some are content with having fun and others seek more in the ... Views: 2182
It's almost universal - guys want to know how to meet beautiful women. There are special places you can go to meet them, and there are special ways to treat them. I'll share my knowledge of these "secrets" with you.
You Can Meet Beautiful Women Here . . .
It's no secret - wherever you ... Views: 2181
Introduction
Even if you perceive yourself to be an open, honest and authentic person, if you are not alert to your date and don’t keep any boundaries during first date, you might sabotage any possibility of extending the date into a relationship. Being an open person doesn’t mean you don’t ... Views: 2165
A lot of men out there want to know how to talk to women in a cool and confident way that will build attraction. It is actually pretty easy if you stop doing all the normal, things men do that just turn women off.
These are my personal secrets on how to talk to women:
Quit using pick up ... Views: 2154
Not dating?
Haven’t been in a relationship for a long time?
Don’t know why?
It’s sounds too simple, but it’s true—you probably do not look men in the eyes and smile—a real smile! Not just that dry, half turned-up smile you greet fellow co-workers with as you glance up from your work ... Views: 2152
Hello ladies - today we're talking about what to expect in love and dating. Expectations can be a useful meter to test a particular guy against what you feel you deserve. The obvious problem though is setting these expectations too high and demanding more from a potential relationship than is ... Views: 2148
We meet a lot of people who are disenchanted with internet dating. Internet Dating statistics show that 40% of on-line candidates are married, cheating on their spouses, misrepresenting important facts about themselves or just game players. Even prisoners can have access to the ... Views: 2148
Looking for a life partner but keep picking players, paupers, or just plain zeros?
Finding a partner is like finding a good job: you only need one, but making a bad choice wastes your time and sticks you in an unpleasant situation. To avoid that, you need to make a grown-up decision about ... Views: 2141
“There are no good men left.”
Sound familiar? If you’re feeling freaked about being single, you don’t need to give up on your search for Mr. Right. You may just need to debunk your attachment to the scarcity myth. How? By participating in a fun 3 week experiment. All you need is an open mind, ... Views: 2115
Think about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss before I find my prince?”
You know what I’m talking about. It’s cute, and although we don’t really laugh at it, it tends to ... Views: 2103
Many of you are probably have related to the line “its all his/her fault, that *****!!” at some point. In fact about 96% of us live most of our lives without being open to the possibility that we could be the root cause of our own experiences. After all, it isn’t in human nature to want to be ... Views: 2102