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- Persisting When Dating Get’s Tough - by Submitted on Aug 23, 2013 from John SciuttoPersistence is an important part of success in all areas of life. Even in your love life. Especially when dating. If you don't persist when dating you will not be able to create the relationship you want. Simply because if you expect your first attempt to be absolutely perfect then you are not ...
Views: 1011 - Meet Like-minded People - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2013 from Steve NandcaNowadays, it is already common for most singles to use casual dating sites in the worldwide web to find their special someone online. These single people join such sites in order to meet like-minded people so that they can choose one to whom they can develop a relationship and possibly make a ...
Views: 1293(1 vote) - Dr. Romance on Using Social Media to Find Dates - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2013 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: I find that more of my clients are reporting meeting someone new via Social Media sites like Twitter, LInkedIn and Facebook. They are discovering that they can find a good "match" by beginning in an arena where like-minded people already hang out. ...
Views: 1689(1 vote) - 11 Factors Why Some People Find Love While Others Don't - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from robert tingPeople wonder why some couples make it and others don’t. To begin with, why do some people find love and others don’t. Here are the many factors that can contribute to a successful love life that are often overlooked. Stability Men can find stability in a woman attractive because they don't ...
Views: 5183(1 vote) - 9 Personality Traits to Improve to Help You Find Love - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from robert tingBeing successful in life often means putting into practice habits that will make you successful. Similarly, in your love life there are things you can develop that will help you be successful. Here are 9 personality traits that you can improve that will help you find love. Healing When it ...
Views: 1229(1 vote) - Why Are You Still Single? - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2013 from Joanne RobinsonWhy Are You Still Single Jo"? I can still remember cringing at being asked that question by well meaning friends and family members and my response really depended on my hormones and how I felt about being single at the time. For the most part, those that know and love us, ask from good ...
Views: 1236 - Where Are All The Good Men? - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2013 from Virginia ClarkWhere are all the good men?! I asked myself this question over and over again when I was dating and trying desperately to find a man to marry. For years I was a magnet for men who weren’t good for me, men who were not the marrying kind. I couldn’t stop myself from dating them and getting ...
Views: 1266(1 vote) - How To Stop Waiting For His Call - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2013 from Virginia ClarkWe’ve all been there, a phone clutched tightly in hand waiting for him to text, email or call. So afraid you might miss him, you carry the phone from room to room, from place to place. You check your phone a hundred times while you refresh the mailbox again and again. You send an email to ...
Views: 3603(1 vote) - How to Love a Man - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2013 from Erica Johnson4 Steps to Loving a Man Were you taught how to love a man or did you just figure it out on your own? If you’re anything like me, you weren’t officially told how to love a man. You either modeled what you saw your mother do or you mimicked what you say on TV. The key to having a successful ...
Views: 1228 - Ten Things to Appreciate about Being Single - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2013 from Ivy AllenHuman beings always want what they don’t have instead of appreciating what they’ve got. We are always focused on our lack of something instead of our abundance of something. We always want what someone else has instead of enjoying what we have. We are always comparing our stuff to someone ...
Views: 1789 - Stop Being Shy Around Boys - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2013 from April DobbsIf you want to talk to boys but are really, really shy about doing it, here are some quick tips that you can try that will help you overcome your shyness and give you enough courage to approach a boy and have a conversation for the first time. 1. Get involved in social groups – Clubs and ...
Views: 875 - How to Finally Succeed with Intimacy: Make Sure You Change What Needs a Change Before You Begin a New Relationship - by Submitted on May 29, 2013 from Doron GilAs long as you don’t change whatever it is that you need to change regarding your attitudes about relationships and/or your behaviors with your partners, you will probably end up with similar problems with new partners. The reason being – you always bring yourself into the new relationship. This ...
Views: 1192(1 vote) - How To Make Online Dating Work For You - by Submitted on May 29, 2013 from Elyse anneOnline dating... it's a love hate relationship isn't it? I'm sure you've heard of all the horror stories about online dating... girls being cheated, men spamming your inboxes and men who just wants to have fun... and I don't blame you for freaking out after hearing so many horror stories. I ...
Views: 1785 - If You Are Single and Dating Looking for a Satisfying Intimate Relationship, You Should Learn the Healing Power of Self-Reflection - by Submitted on May 27, 2013 from Doron GilIf you are among those who dream about finding “the one and only”; “the perfect match”; “the knight on the white horse” - you probably have developed a host of fantasies and hopes about how this person will look like; will be like; will behave like, love and treat you. And you probably have ...
Views: 1218 - When Is It About YOU and When Is It About HIM: Don’t Let Your Fears & Neediness Hurt You - by Submitted on May 19, 2013 from Doron GilHe didn’t call or sent you an sms after the date and you take it personally. You think it’s because of you; that he didn’t like you; that he was not attracted to you; that he didn’t enjoy your company, that he might have detected your insecurity and shied away from it; that he might have noticed ...
Views: 1231 - How to Change from Being Single & Alone to Having a Satisfying Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on May 17, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction If you are without a relationship for a long time now, you might consider yourself “a loneliness expert”. Indeed, such an option is always available. But before you decide to adapt such an “expertise” you can choose another option: to look inwards, find out things about yourself ...
Views: 1370 - Treating Each New Date as a Beginner Can Help You Extend a Date Into a Meaningful Relationship - by Submitted on May 15, 2013 from Doron GilThere are those who are “proud” about dating tens if not hundreds of others. They think is shows how “great” they are; how “in demand” they are. Felling “hot” about themselves they turn dating into a game, competing with themselves (as well as with others) about how many dates they will go on; ...
Views: 1027 - Being Physically Attractive and Emotionally Attractive To Men - by Submitted on May 20, 2013 from lalayne jewfrewYou may or may not be aware of this, but while a lot of women want to be beautiful, so many couldn’t be bothered putting the effort, time and commitment to color coordinating and matching their clothes, put some make up on and smile for the day. It sounds crazy, but it's true. Most women only ...
Views: 1580(2 votes) - Best Cities for Single Women That Has Loads and Loads of Available Single Men - by Submitted on May 10, 2013 from Donald TilfordIf you’re a single woman looking to find that special man in your life, you may want to consider moving to one of the cities listed below if you are having a hard time finding Mr. Right. Today’s women are extra busy going to school, working full-time, and trying to find the right balance of ...
Views: 1227(1 vote) - The One Who Got Away - by Submitted on May 04, 2013 from Tina TessinaWhen I was a girl, growing up in the small township of Rockland, New York, there was a tiny post office, which was a small room with a separate entry in the house next door. Rockland’s official postmistress was Clara Weiss, who seemed very elderly even when I was a very small child. She was what ...
Views: 1531(1 vote) - How to Empower Yourself to Find a Suitable Partner with Whom to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on May 01, 2013 from Doron GilWhen you see a couple holding hands, does it make you feel unhappy? At times, whether you are single or in an unsatisfying relationship, you feel unhappy when you see others who seem happy in their relationships. You see couples holding hands, even walk embraced, and this makes you think you ...
Views: 1189(2 votes) - 5 Tips to Banish Love Life Hell From Your Life - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2013 from Scott & Stephen PetulloEveryone wants to be free of love life problems, but few seem to be able to maintain satisfaction in this area of life. Though following the advice below may not immediately reward you with the love life you dream about, instead we believe it's possible to create a good alternative in the ...
Views: 1178(1 vote) - Are You a Single Mother In Search for a Partner? Awareness is Vital to Your Success - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction Single mothers who wish to find a partner with whom to develop a serious and successful relationship need to be aware of their expectations and needs and share these with the prospective partner. If he will do likewise they increase the likelihood of becoming able to develop and ...
Views: 1391(1 vote) - How Many Dates Should You Go On Before Settling Down to Develop a Serious Relationship? - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2013 from Doron GilRecently I came across the following Tweet: “Just what the doctor ordered: date 100 men without getting serious with anyone”. This made me thinking: for what purpose would anyone try to date 100 men (or, for that matter, women) without getting serious with anyone? How much can one learn about ...
Views: 2001(1 vote) - Being Authentic on First Date: Can it Lead to Developing a Successful Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction Even if you perceive yourself to be an open, honest and authentic person, if you are not alert to your date and don’t keep any boundaries during first date, you might sabotage any possibility of extending the date into a relationship. Being an open person doesn’t mean you don’t ...
Views: 2359 - 5 Tips To Help You Find A Serious Relationship Online - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2013 from Lynn LoopHave you been online dating for a long time and just can’t seem to keep a man interested for more than a few weeks at a time? If this is the case for you, do not worry; you are far from alone in having this problem. One of the most difficult parts of meeting men online is that men have access ...
Views: 2865(1 vote) - Why Do You Fall Time & Again for Prospective Partners whom You Should Have Never Dated? - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2013 from Doron GilYou might have heard the following from your friend: “Have I known it ahead of time, I wouldn’t even begun going out with him” . The question is: was it possible for her to know it ahead of time? And the answer is: it depends. It depends on signs and hints she might have noticed. On her ...
Views: 1397(1 vote) - Can You Help a Friend of Yours who Always “Falls” for the Wrong Man? - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2013 from Doron GilIt is very likely that you have a friend who always “falls” for the wrong guy. Everybody sees it, except her. You feel sorry for her; you wish you can help her. You even try to show her the “facts”, explain to her how she hurts herself; “predict” the miserable future she’ll have. After all, she ...
Views: 1247(1 vote) - Learning To Be Alone - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Virginia PintoBeing alone isn’t necessarily a weakness; it can be a sign of strength. A person who has learned to find and value himself or herself in solitude has also overcome many fears. They have understood that they do not need to rely on another person to be happy, even if they choose to share their ...
Views: 1588(1 vote) - I Don't Need a Man - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2013 from Joyce Dolberg RoweWhen a woman has been hurt deeply she sometimes develops a strong, tough, or negative attitude about relationships and trust in general. If she stays single for a long time, she may tend to believe that she can only rely on herself to the exclusion of all others. She can go so far overboard ...
Views: 1159(2 votes) - 9 Ways to Kill Awkward Dates - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2013 from Pete ZephyrEver been on a date that really sucked? That you wondered if you could successfully drown yourself in your soup before the waiters pulled you out? Maybe you couldn’t think of anything to say or maybe everything that came out of the other person’s mouth grinded on your soul a little bit and made ...
Views: 1333(2 votes) - Stop Deceiving Yourself about Intimacy: Facing Reality will Lead You to a Successful Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction There are those who, regardless of how many relationships they have attempted to develop, are failing time and again. Waking-up to face reality is not easy. But it is only when they become willing to look inwards; acknowledge that something must be wrong with the way they ...
Views: 1649 - Freeing Yourself from Harmful Behaviors within the Relationship Enables You to Succeed with Your Intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2013 from Doron GilAs much as you might want to have a successful, healthy and satisfying relationship, and as much you think you do “all you can” in order to have one, you might still, unconsciously, react and behave in ways which hurt your bond. This is normal and humane, and many share this problem. The ...
Views: 1400 - Doing Single - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2013 from Alicia EdmonsonI'm sure the title of this article alone has evoked all kinds of side-eyes and frowny faces. I'm sure you're thinking 'uh, how and why do I have to learn to be single? 'I AM single. I'm doing it now' Ahh you are indeed-but are you doing it well? Stay with me here. There is a difference to ...
Views: 1275 - Do You Know What Stands in Your Way from Having a Successful Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 13, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction If you wholeheartedly wish to have an intimate relationship and don’t yet have one, it is important that you understand the true reasons for not succeeding. Implementing five simple steps might help you figure out how to proceed to having the relationship you hope ...
Views: 1365 - Waking-up to Face Reality is the Road to Succeed at Developing a Long-lasting, Satisfying intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2013 from Doron GilThere are those who, regardless of how many relationships they have attempted to develop with different partners have nonetheless failed time and again. Yet, they keep trying, hoping that “next time things will be different”. As much as hope is a motivating force to keep trying, there isn’t ...
Views: 1233 - The Truth About Find Your Soul Mate Now Programs - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2013 from Scott & Stephen PetulloYou’ve probably come across love life promotions such as, “Hey, vulnerable, uninformed, desperately lonely person, find your soul mate in 30 days or less and delude yourself that you two are even moderately compatible because anyone is better than no one. It’s such a terrible thing to be single, ...
Views: 1299 - Intuition or Inner Knowing - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2013 from Tina TessinaWhen I met Richard, my husband, October 10, 1981, he was sitting outside, and the sun was glinting off his red hair, and my whole body and soul said {wow!” Twenty-three years later, we’re still happy. It turned out to be a lasting love at first sight. How did I know? I didn’t. It’s a lovely ...
Views: 1625(5 votes) - Are You Single & Dating Yet Failing to Develop a Successful Intimate Relationship? Learn What Stands in Your Way - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2013 from Doron GilMany singles are trying various ways to find a partner with whom to develop a satisfying intimate relationship: enroll on dating sites, seek the help of a “dating coach”, attend workshops on the subject, read books on relationships and seek relationship advice in different journals and internet ...
Views: 1669 - We Broke Up - What Do I Do Now? - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2013 from Charles ScholarYou're sitting there numb. You're probably still reeling from the experience. The only thought going through your mind is this: we broke up; where do I go from here? Breakups are never fun. Even in mutual situations where the relationship has just fizzled on all sides breakups are ...
Views: 1222 - Why Man Is The Person In Charge In A Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2013 from Carl JeremyMan is a predator. Man is the person in charge in a relationship From times of antiquity man have been the leader in the relationship. Man would go out and hunt for food while his partner would stay in the shelter of the cave and look after the children. The man is the predator - the ...
Views: 7763 - 4 Reasons To Be Happy That You Are Single - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2013 from Patrick O'NeillWith Valentine’s Day behind us, many will be relieved to see the crimson tide of Valentine’s day goodies and décor once again recede until next February. But although the grocery department stores may have already moved on from the V-Day hype, there’s a possibility that you haven’t. For a few ...
Views: 1654 - Dr. Romance Happiness Tip: Alone on Valentine's Day? - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2013 from Tina TessinaDr Romance’s Happiness Tips Alone on Valentine’s Day? There's no need to mope around. Having a plan that makes you happy is the best way to fend off the blues. Gather your best friends around you and make some special plans to have a wonderful day. Send valentines or ...
Views: 1573(3 votes) - "My Wife's Separate Vacation Spells the Beginning of the End of Our Relationship" - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2013 from Sam VakninSeparate vacations may, indeed, signify the beginning of the end of your relationship - or serve as a boost to its quality and durability. It all depends on several factors: 1. Topical vs. recreational vacations If your wife is addicted to chess and you can't stand the game, she has the ...
Views: 6962(1 vote) - The New Matriarchy and the Redundant Male - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2013 from Sam VakninFrom the dawn of history to the late 1950s, the collective had been the organizing principle of human affairs. The pursuit of happiness was channelled via collectives and even dissidents and rebels formed collectives to express their grievances. But, this old system brought humanity to the verge ...
Views: 2057 - How to Attract a Man - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2013 from Uadiale AmberAttracting a man is no more difficult than finding food in a refrigerator, if you know what to do. Using five simple techniques, you too can become a man-magnet and find a man for your life. Don’t worry – all they take is a bit of confidence and know how… but this confidence and know-how stems ...
Views: 1121 - What Is Your Online Dating IQ? - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2013 from Bobbi PalmerI know I sound like a broken record about the benefits of dating online, especially if you are single and over 40. I’m going to continue to nag you about this because I want what you want: for you to find the man of your dreams, and to never let each other go. Getting online is the best way to ...
Views: 1787 - Seven Good Reasons Why Women Love Bad Boys - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2013 from Jenny TranIf you are trying to make yourself more appealing to women then you need to think about how being a little rough and tough might be worth it. There are several reasons why women love bad boys as much as they do. First, women love bad boys because they are men who are confident about what they ...
Views: 1605 - Is Online Dating the Best Method for Shy Singles? - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2013 from Jenny TranOnline dating might prove to be an effective way for shy singles to find people of interest. This is especially important considering how it might be a challenge for some shy people to actually get in touch with other singles in any public environment. It is a part of dating that makes it a ...
Views: 2068 - Singles Rejoice: 11 Valentine’s Day Spiritual Tips - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2013 from Scott & Stephen PetulloValentine’s day can be a wonderful day for happy couples. But what about everyone else? We don’t mean to be a downer for those of you who are romance fans, but it can be one of the most depressing days of the year for a large percentage of the population that is single or unhappily involved. ...
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