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Stop Digging!
Not doing what doesn't work is a fundamental secret of success. This focus on effectiveness is behind the simple aphorism: If you're in a hole, then the first thing to do is to stop digging.
This is the natural law that many politicians in many countries just ignore, they run ... Views: 1578
Do you have your own quirks, mannerisms, and eccentricities that you hide fro your therapy clients?
It is your own special traits and uniqueness that make you different from anyone else in your business. In the same way, these differences, however strange, unwanted, or insignificant they may ... Views: 1578
Here's my story:
When I began voting in the 1970s, I was a staunch Democrat. My view of life was idealistic rather than tragic ("tragic" as in the context of Greek tragedies), and my belief was that government could be a force for good. Over time, as I assessed the results of government ... Views: 1576
Dinner with a New Date
Without being too obvious, I'd successfully checked out my suspicions. My brand new strategy had worked and my inner smile was vast!
I was enjoying dinner with a new date and she seemed to be listening politely. But was she more interested in talking rather than ... Views: 1574
Power. What is it? How do we use it? Who is seeking it? Why do we have a love/hate relationship with it?
"Power is just the ability to effect change." Martin Luther King
"Powerlessness is the most dangerous state that we could ever ... Views: 1574
Several years ago I received an e-mail with the following quote from Henry Ford: “Never Complain, Never Explain.” Below the quote it recommended that we print the quote on a piece of paper and hang it on a wall where we would see it every day. We were only allowed to take it down when an entire ... Views: 1573
"When you achieve complete congruence between your values and your goals, like a hand in a glove, you feel strong, happy, healthy, and fully integrated as a person. You develop a kind of courage that makes you completely unafraid to make decisions and take action. Your whole life improves when ... Views: 1571
You have within you an awesome power that most of us have never been taught to use. Elite athletes use it. The super rich use it. And peak performers in all fields are now starting to use it. That power is called visualization. The daily practice of visualizing your dreams as already complete ... Views: 1571
Are You Asking The Right Questions?
By
Bill Cottringer
“Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.” ~Tony Robbins.
Success in life, in the three primary areas of work, play and relationships, requires getting successful outcomes to solving ... Views: 1570
The concept of “change” is incremental and limited. It’s an extrapolation of the present with some new stuff added and some current stuff extracted. By anchoring to “what was” as a starting point, it’s often insufficiently ambitious. “Transformation” on the other hand, begins with a vision of ... Views: 1570
We all know the benefits of journaling. How it helps us keep account of ourselves, helps motivate and inspire us. How it can help us with our health, career, relationships, even our spiritual walk. In fact, every self help guru and motivational speaker swears by and encourages everyone to ... Views: 1570
Ten Best Ways to Build a Quality Work Culture
By
Dr. Bill Cottringer
“To win in the marketplace, you must first win in the workplace.” ~Doug Conant, Campbell Soup.
There has been a revolutionary interest in looking for ways to improve the quality of work environments, which lead ... Views: 1569
We all have the ability to recognize – someone we already know, a difficult situation when we see one, an opportunity that’s staring us in the face or a problem that needs our attention. However, our psychological ability to recognise is just as much a curse as it is a blessing.
We take in raw ... Views: 1568
Great, you want to be a Master. But how do you achieve mastery? There's a big difference between authentic knowing and mastery, what is that difference, how do you bridge the gap? As with all the other steps, willingness to invest yet more effort is one secret of success in this last step to ... Views: 1567
Research has shown that there is a constant stream of self-talk going on in our minds all day. This constant of barrage of input into our minds, only seems to stop during certain parts of our sleeping cycle. This constant stream of talk is so habitual and part of who we are, that we seldom even ... Views: 1567
All attendees of "Project Management . . . by the Numbers" know that every project is a project within another project(!). In other words, every project we manage is a part of another bigger project.
So, what is the difference between a business process and a project management process?
... Views: 1566
Ever got stuck mulling a problem over and over and over? And then tarted thinking about it again only to get stuck all over again?
Yup - been there, done that!
It's not that there is no solution, but you need to change the way you are thinking, how you are focusing. And the quality of ... Views: 1565
Every professional relationship has a purpose, and often we don't really know what the purpose is. We may think different relationships have different purposes. The purpose of a relationship with a potential customer may seem to be to sell a product or service. The purpose of a manager-staff ... Views: 1565
Many experts will provide various ways for people to think, act and speak positively about themselves as a form of auto-suggestion. If you walk the walk and talk the talk you become what you put out. Express positivity and you will feel good about yourself and a constant upward ... Views: 1565
Life has many variables to consider and most of them require our regular attention. A cell phone is an amazing tool to manage the constant flow of life. But is it worth our continuous attention? According to a recent study, 54% of kids think their parents spend too much time on their devices and ... Views: 1565
It is a dream of many to get in to the civil service. One needs to prepare well for the exams. Once a person passes these exams, success is sure shot. Civil service exams are given by individuals who want to become civil servants, i.e. work for the government. It is very important to pass the ... Views: 1565
Are they really a Master? Have they been through all the five steps to mastery themselves? Or are they just pretending?
Do They Have the Wisdom of Experience?
An author who has no experience lacks credibility, his articles have no authenticity. Yet his pretense of expertise is not ... Views: 1565
Power of positive thinking
Can your thoughts affect your surroundings and events? Can your words affect your life?
A child who receives poor grade in Science usually his parents, teachers, or someone told him that he is not good at the subject. Do you think these negative statements by ... Views: 1565
Have you ever noticed that there is a logo printed on every business card and website? A logo is a clear mark which helps customers in associating it with a particular logo. The business or company logo becomes a part of their corporate culture. It is very interesting if you can become a part of ... Views: 1565
Mediocrity does not equal success! Mediocrity is all around us and it doesn’t need to be. It’s very likely that you may genuinely begin to enjoy your life using a few of my success guidelines. I know so many other people around me who want more, but are not getting what they want and I really ... Views: 1565
Do you understand the information you've been given, or are you just informed about it? There's a crucial difference between being informed about something - just knowing about it - and understanding it.
Do you Just Have the Information?
When you've just received some information from ... Views: 1564
You might be surprised to learn the general profile of a millionaire woman.
In the book “Millionaire Women Next Door,” Thomas J. Stanley, Ph.D., the New York Times best selling author of The Millionaire Next Door, found that many people cast millionaire women in a stereotypical ... Views: 1564
Keep your eyes on the Goal
“Never look down, keep your eyes on the goal”. That was the advice of her father when she first took the piton in her hands at the age of 7. She was a rock climber who never looks down for over 20 years until she had to turn her eyes down as a reflex one day.
She was ... Views: 1563
My mother once said that “The older you get, the faster time will fly.”How true that is! Perhaps this is why people try to cram as much into their day as possible. However, when you become too busy and forget to set aside adequate time for yourself, it will take its toll on you physically, ... Views: 1562
Among the 13 Universal Laws can we say that one is more important than the others? Can anyone one of the invariant principles exist without the other? Certainly, there are groups and teacher of imperfect understanding that proclaim one is more important that the other. They claim one is ... Views: 1562
Melody was particularly attractive, and it was a challenge not to stare. I was very interested since I was dating no-one. After chatting for a while, I asked her if she would like to have dinner with me that night. She smiled, "I'd love to have dinner with you tonight, but..." Although she ... Views: 1562
The concept of management is actually fairly complex. The terms manager and leader are often used interchangeably but they are also often confused and misinterpreted. Management implies control in its traditional sense. It has always had a dictatorial connotation and implied a boss employee ... Views: 1561
As an adult, are you responsible for the circumstances of your life? Or someone else?
It's comforting to believe that someone else is responsible, but is it true? Other people and situations have had some influence, large or small, but you are responsible. Why? Because you did whatever you ... Views: 1561
People often look at challenging times as obstacles in their path to accomplishing goals. I have found that difficult situations can actually be the catalyst for much greater things, if you let them. I wrote my first book, "Think GREAT: 5 Steps to a Greater Life" to tell the story of my wife’s ... Views: 1561
If the cynical stance is not the best approach to life, then does being gullible give better results?
Being gullible is the complete opposite of cynicism. Here you're very positive about what might happen in the future. You may not know much if anything about it, but you subscribe to the view ... Views: 1560
Although Goldilocks may not be the model of 'Success' that would first come to mind, she had one clear insight that we could all benefit from. She was a strong proponent of the value of recognising when things were 'just right'. For those of us striving to achieve a given level of success in our ... Views: 1559
IS THERE ONE ENGLISH LANGUAGE?
It is often said that the UK and US are two countries divided by the same language. This comment is usually attributed to playwright George Bernard Shaw. The reason why there are differences is because both are living languages, absorbing words and inventing new ... Views: 1558
In the nonprofit field, the development of a new program generally begins with receiving some type of grant award. Of course, nonprofits can develop programs without being awarded a grant, but the money needed to create and implement any type of program will need to come from a philanthropist or ... Views: 1558
My mission is “to help business leaders discover and achieve their potential.” One of the things that I discover is that many business leaders – more than half – limit their success because of inadequate attention to reflection and self-examination.
My clients would say that I’m not prone to ... Views: 1557
Your entourage is a profound definition of who you are and can be defined in two general ways. The first is based on your geographical environment in which your physical surroundings, your manner of living, and your general adaptation are considered. The second is based on the social group with ... Views: 1557
The real answer is nobody really knows. All these terms are used interchangeably for different types of events. This makes it very difficult for when you get invited to speak at one of these events because you really don’t know what you are getting in to, and more importantly, what you may ... Views: 1556
The global recession, directly or indirectly, will impact leadership – yours, your market, your competition, your region and, yes, your nation. Why?...
Because leadership is ubiquitous. It is all around us. It is of primary importance. Yet, it is seemingly underserved, undervalued and under ... Views: 1555
There are only a few days left in April… just a few days left of Stress Awareness Month and, no doubt, pretty much just as many people are suffering from stress at the end of the month than there were at the beginning… the WHO says stress is an epidemic and that it will be the single biggest ... Views: 1554
On a recent Mastermind call, the discussion was about self-management and putting on a game face in difficult situations.
There’s a problem with the game face when it’s used to neutralize our emotions. As a result, we can begin to be complacent by tolerating behavior that we would not accept ... Views: 1554
The biggest hindrance that most of us face in not achieving our goals and objectives is that we don’t act aggressively enough to accomplish them. I used to think that if God is on my side every accomplishment would be easy. There is nothing further from the truth and I have learned better now. I ... Views: 1553
The beginning of the year always feels so full of promise and excitement, a time when unlimited possibilities open up and all the dreams you’ve ever had seem achievable. You can feel the energy of this new beginning pulsing through your body and you set all kinds of intentions for how you’ll ... Views: 1553
Is the word success synonymous with the word wealth? To answer this question, who do you bring to mind when you think about success? Do you envision somebody like Donald Trump or do you see somebody like Mother Theresa instead?
I'm sure we'd all agree that, with the wealth and high profile ... Views: 1552
For anybody looking to become successful in any endeavor of their lives there are certain ingredients absolutely needed or success will elude them. This is a fact and it is plain and simple! In every case the 'road to success' must first be planned out, otherwise your progress will be severely ... Views: 1552
Over a period of five years I have interviewed several successful people to uncover the secrets to their success. One of the many questions that I ask is “in your opinion, what is the formula for success?” Another question is “What are some lessons that you have learned so far?” I culled 10 ... Views: 1551
This is the first of two newsletters that address perfectionism. In this issue, we will explore what perfectionism is and why it is destructive. In the next one, we will take a look at some strategies for both controlling the need to be perfect and living a more relaxed, satisfying life.
What ... Views: 1550